₦airaland Forum

zicoraads:
But is the news real?

Apart from Naija Twitter or Facebook, has any foreign media outfit carried the news?

I heard $400 million from another source so all in all it may be bogus. But you see, as a Steve Harvey hater that I am, I don’t care. I hope he wears red pant,
black bra and cooks her favorite meal to beg her.
along with his church leaders and family elders and all the rest of the orisirisi nonsense + ingredient that usually follow such advice

Marjorie was a side chic and Steve was cheating his ex with her. Netizens claim Steve is being served the meal he served his ex-wife

He got exactly what he deserved. He did his first wife so so dirty and moved on with side chic. I’m sure fools like you would have been hailing him at that time. Telling us men are polygamous in nature. All “polygamous in nature” men deserve worse than this. They deserve to have all their kids be fathered by strangers. Since they have sworn that they will never uphold the loyalty they promised their wives, they will continue gnashing teeth. Iseee. Please don’t mention me for nonsense again.
She did absolutely nothing that he didn’t deserve.

I no dey do eye service

jaksmillioniar:
Cococandy bukatyne genea ahnie is dis rite?

stevups:
It differs from culture to culture

Gimme a range . I’m checking something

Because she’s not a person right?

thebar:
Not true

If a man dies, the family have Rright to give the lady to a younger guy in the family

They believe if the lady take her children o another man's house in the name of marriage, the children won't get the proper care they deserve. So they'll give the lady to another guy in the family..
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stevups:
The period of mourning should elapse before you climb her, if not, gbadogbado ma gbowo lowoe

how long is the period of mourning

Death did them part. Nothing else matters

fineboynl:
I’m in a serious situation. i have been dating this young widow for a while now without any issues.

But From the day I slept with her i have been noticing some things i don’t want to talk about.

Many things have been going through my mind concerning her.

From the igbo/Yoruba and all other cultures in Nigeria. What should a widow do before she start sleeping with another man? Should she returned the bride price?

Because I’m considering cutting ties with her and go for deliverance.

I’m happy to see the men speak out in support of a dad trying to protect his child from another possibly inappropriate man. The message would be received differently if it were to come from women.
It shows that y’all actually know the truth. You just choose who to listen to

Draslo:
Better safe than sorry

teemy:
The mother should realize that most r*pe acts are usually by people trusted. The world is not as safe as she wants to believe.
Dad is right here 100%

By the way, what's with the mum filming it for social media?

Sermwell:
Just imagine this mumu!!!

He is not dictating to the babymama!!

He is protecting his daughter!! Werey!!

buygala:
So he can't have a say about the safety of their daughter because he didn't marry her mother?

The baby daddy's rant was overboard, considering the circumstances

ican2020:
The woman should shut up

itsme01:




He doesn't want such... Simple as ABC

As long as he pays child support and has joint parental rights and control, if he doesn't want any man touch his daughter he has the authority


What if the father is a Muslim, won't they respect his believe and faith


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Worriedwife:
Her husband's brother would not ask this question if he wanted to buy a car for his brother. You are doing too much or you just want nlders to argue.

exactly. They don’t realize how dehumanizing these little things are to women

Looks amazing Omg

Akposy:
Marinade (for the meat) Recipe

Thyme (fresh)
Rosemary (fresh)
Oregano (fresh)
Dill (fresh)
Cilantro (fresh)
Basil (fresh)
Garlic chives (fresh)
Fenugreek
Black pepper corn
Cameroon pepper
Fresh pepper
Onions
Garlic
Ginger
Curry powder
Seasoning cubes
Salt
Butter (not margarine ❌)
Lemon juice

Blend all together and pour over washed meat. Allow to sit for at least 3 hours (mine stayed 16hrs)
Steam on low heat for about 5 minutes. Add little water and cook till tender.

Mix Suya spice with blended sesame oil
Use a pastry brush or clean hands to rub on the meat.
Fry, roast or air fry.

Salad Recipe
Carrot
Cabbage
Ketchup
Mayonnaise
Honey
Lemon juice
Suya pepper
Shredded chicken breast (pan seared)

Shred your carrot and cabbage
Add in the chicken breast
Mix together the mayonnaise, ketchup, lemon juice, honey and Suya pepper to make a sauce
Add the sauce to the veggies.

For the fruits, I bought the orange and source the mulberries from my container garden.

For the fried rice,
Don’t tell me you don’t know how to make this! Use google 😃. I’m too tired to type.

descarado:
I use settled smooth peanut. When its settled, oil float on top.Drain out all the oil.
Just very thick paste remaining.

Yep.
I’ll probably blend it and see how much oil will float afterwards.

GboyegaD:
Peanut butter I milled from the Winco store. They have the peanuts in the dispenser and a meal at the end of the dispenser which grinds the peanuts for you.

Nice. I have a Winco near me. I like how they can process your stuff like coffee and grains for you.

Well I have fried peanut I was thinking of using for peanut soup. But I’ve not used fried seed peanut for soup. Only the butter and the fresh ground peanuts. Was wondering how this one might turn out.

Like extra oily maybe 🤔

amorprincesa:
I want to try salmon for the first time. The fish looks like what will not be tasty. Please can someone give me a recipe that can make it delicious.
I tried one Irish potato recipe I watched on YouTube. It turned out very awful. Wouldn't want to try with the salmon. Thank you

C

I saw a gochujang salmon recipe on tiktok that I liked so I made it and it was good. Here’s a similar recipe but for mine, I added everything on a bagel seasoning on it. Both the gochujang and bagel seasoning are from Trader Joe’s but you can find them at other grocery stores as well.

https://familystylefood.com/broiled-salmon-gochujang-glaze/

GboyegaD:
Dinner:

Wheat amala with peanut soup.

Did you use peanut butter or peanut powder?

amorprincesa:
I want to try salmon for the first time. The fish looks like what will not be tasty. Please can someone give me a recipe that can make it delicious.
I tried one Irish potato recipe I watched on YouTube. It turned out very awful. Wouldn't want to try with the salmon. Thank you

Cchouse

I actually like it with just salt and lemon pepper seasoning. I feel like it tastes good when simply cooked

Ndi “divorce only favors women and the west is out to ruin men after marriage” where una dey?

Acidosis:
I hope you know that if Africa or Nigeria ever gets a compensation, shishi will not touch the hands of the ordinary people?

Do you know how Ned made his money? Ever read his land grabbing stories here?

That one doesn’t know

I remember that time. Gosh tears of pain. This thing is too painful

lastkingsman:
My brother, leave these people that always blame Nigerians. Do you know what it takes to leave your comfort zone, friends and family and Japa to another country?

Who be dey reason Japa and staying permanent in UK before?

Before Oct 14th 2014, one dollar was trading at 165$ (BM). APC came with the threat that if they didn't win, they would run an parallel govt and other useless threats that charged the atmosphere. Investors and businesses started buying dollars to hedge because of this and this drove the price from 165$ to 200$ (BM).

Evil APC on seeing this development started singing 1$ = 1NGN gibberish and some people actually believe this jingo.

They won the election and fast forward yesterday, I bought dollar for 920$. That's from 165$ to 920$ (82% depreciation of your currency in 8yrs).

How do we survive this?

🙉

Theunbothered:
What was the contribution of your stupid question to the thread when everyone knows the answer?

The car you used to drive past the embassy how much was it 3 years ago compared to now?

The fuel you bought how much did it cost in December?

The reason people queue up to leave is because Nigeria has too many daft people like you wasting oxygen by asking silly questions that a toddler can understand.

Well someone up there said they can only do the job they got the visa for and those jobs are nonexistent. So I guess …

Toks2008:
Exactly my point.

I'm so sorry to say this but most Nigerians have this annoying entitlement mentality.

If you know what 5years work permit visa can do for you, "paying 10k" to get it is like a child's play compared to what you will benefit. Even if you start from cleaning for £10 an hour, you will still make enough by month end and you can build from there but these dumb Nigerians come to the UK hoping to get white collar jobs.

Many undocumented people in America and UK go into arranged marriages spending about £20k yet fail to secure residence permit and all is in the bid to be able to live and work legally.

This lady who granted this interview is stupid, dumb Nd brainless.

How i wish the home office could do their job and revoke her visa cos she is foolish not to understand that buying that visa is even a crime.

Some Nigerians are just so freaking stupid.

coleon:
You are not getting it do you.
If you get into the UK via the sponsorship route which is the case here, you cannot do any other job apart from the non existent job that sponsored you into the UK.
So you can see their dilemma now.

I see.

This.

If you’re coming from a place where you’ve graduated 5-10 years waiting for a job and none is coming. You found yourself in a different country where unemployment isn’t as terrible and you have a legal permit to work. Not the “undocumented working under the table” situation, why not grit through it and see if there are jobs you can do? Is it that no one will employ them even though their visa is valid?

Well I can say I know how the uk works but having a work visa sounds like a good opportunity compared to being unemployed where they are coming from

Toks2008:
If only they know that coming to the UK with work permit for 5 years in itself is golden, they will care less if a particular job is waiting for them..

Nigerians always defrauding each other.

When Hispanic and Asian people help others to immigrate to this country, they always do it with certainty of jobs at hand

thesicilian:
A man can feed his family for years and no one will hear about it. He's often proud to bear the responsibility. But the moment a woman starts bearing the responsibility, all hell must break loose, sooner or later

All hell breaks loose if the woman is not providing and not taking care of the home front as well.

You’ve chosen to not be truthful to yourself

Jeferious:
That's their problem. Truth be told, I'm a misogynist too, but not this insecure type. If I'm better than a woman, I have to prove it with "hard evidence", not unnecessary explanations , nor with unnecessary envy.

If as a man, money is the only tangible thing you can offer, then a richer woman should intimidate you

Well your self awareness is top notch.👌🏾

I personally prefer to know what I’m dealing with than those who “don’t hate women” but day in day out everything they say indicates otherwise

And people’s future husbands as well

When Chimamanda said it they almost came for her head. But she was right. They want women to be successful but not too successful. Always threading a thin line below which you’re a liability and beyond which your success starts to piss people off because now you can’t be “controlled”. It’s exhausting

Jeferious:
I'm with you on this one. See how people are subtly encouraging women not to make progress in life. For what That is the very height of insecurity.

This is part of the reason why I must marry a rich lady, Inshallah. Someone who can take care of herself with her OWN resources. If you're a mad woman, I would love to see the madness on time. I don't want to be with a pretender "humbled" by poverty.

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What a disgrace

fyzaila:
Is it necessary when you meet a divorced man or woman and you want to start a relationship, to start asking what happened? Like starting to dig and dig into the past of the person who is divorced.

In my opinion i don't think it's necessary, just focus on the person and see if you guys can work things out.

My fellow members, what's your opinion?

You certainly should ask

Kajaard:
Sarcasm at its finest. Coco you never disappoint

I don’t know what they want from women

Women if you are in a position to improve yourself, don’t do it so that you don’t mistakenly surpass your man. That would be too woke and unnatural. It goes against nature.

If you’re already married and an opportunity comes your way that will make you more money but unfortunately it means your income will now be higher than your husbands income, reject the opportunity. Or get divorced. either way it will ensure you are not in a marriage where your income can exceed your man’s.

Carefully curate your life so that you can have money but never more than him. If you’re getting paid for something and it turns out it’s going to be a bigger check than what’s he’s getting on his end, refund some of the money. God forbid you earn more than him.

If you have a business and get a chance to expand your operations, don’t take the chance. How are we going to explain it? That you defied the natural order of things and sought to grow yourself and your career?

Y’all are so mind numbingly xtupid with these threads and responses. May God protect women from marrying their enemies. Enemies of progress

People just feel so comfortable ignoring their mental health problems talm bout some “gOd Told Me”