₦airaland Forum

queenfav:
Breakfast...Stir fry noddles with veggies

Eife:
See salad wey go Oxford

chatinent:
How can I do omelette on top jollof rice, please?

Akposy:
Yum. Are the crab cakes made with crab

NoToPile:
I find it discomforting when people talk about calling of wedding after bride price has been paid, is bride pricr payment not marriage rite. You are married already uncle.

That said, she never pretended or portrayed another thing to you. You and your family know how they are , you knew for 8 years now after paying bride price you are speaking grammer fear God nau, you think some other suitors wouldn't have come around those 8 years?

You didn't make a decision all this time, its after you have married her traditionally you and your people are realizing she doesn't have a degree and that they are poor.

Being poor is not a crime please.

Anyway you are married already, find a way yo manage your in-laws and your people. God be with you.

armyofone:
Very typical of Nigerians in Nigeria - and on Friday and Sunday, they go recite the koran and read the bible.

Octopusssy:
Beans and...?

Petyprincess:
Hehe, I eat jollof every week now because I have turned it to a business in school

Petyprincess:
Picture quality and neatness is blinding
I miss seeing your jollof abeg.

babythug:
Beans and avocado!! I’ve never thought of seen that combo . I’d give it a try

Fidelismaria:
Una dey try ooo, how this thing go belleful person? This one na appetizer.

chatinent:
Vegetable soup with shrimps, crabs, beef, kpomo, and cord.

I'm a manchelor cook!

Soup till Friday. No time to cook soup again.

Trojan8:
Well that's the focus of the entire post.

Trojan8:
Reverse this situation where the wife's family move into the house and see NL resident analysts wanking on the thread. One clown is even saying that the wife is at fault like he would have allowed his wife family take over a house they co-built.

All my experiences on Nairaland have shown me that the average Nigerian GUY is an hypocrite that generally hates women. Sometimes I see what women do and I understand where they are coming from. There's no love out there for most women here, it's crazy.

Op, your parents didn't exactly do well but there's nothing you can do at this point. The most urgent matter right now is how to get your wife to your side because that woman is angry at this point.

Just beg her to give you time, you should be looking at paying her before initiating any building project.

The house that your parents are currently occupying is gone. Know this and know peace.

NoToPile:
As in ehn, the mata just taya me, not everyone can even build a house in 6months - 1 year. Its little by little for most Nigerians.

Acidosis:
If I were in her shoes right now, I will NEVER agree to a joint contribute with you again.

Acidosis:
One said he should look for N8m and build another house (even if it means starving his own kids I guess )?

Crossroad1:
I believe whatever his parent is helping him build is not a bungalow..
Around 5-10m,u can erect a good bungalow

Crossroad1:
Try to arrange their own house for them and let them live in yours till you help them build theirs..
Even if na 3bedroom bungalow.

mastermaestro:
Don't evict them. I am sure you are the breadwinner of the family. You should have considered building a house first for your parents before building yours. Start another one which may be cheaper into which the will move upon completion. Dude, this is the only realistic solution.

Crossroad1:
Try to arrange their own house for them and let them live in yours till you help them build theirs..
Even if na 3bedroom bungalow.

Emmanuel909090:
Do you plan relocating to nigeria soon?
If no, let them live there, its a blessing, you can provide shelter for your family, what is the need leaving it vacant and renting elsewhere when you might not visit nigeria in the next 3 years?

And it can even be burgled without presence.
Let old man and his wife enjoy peace and free from landlord wahala.

It sounds stupid ejecting your parents from your property.

This was exactly my dads story, his parents took over his first property.

Peace.

AroOkigbo:
Is there any reason you and oga can't rent a place for them. .

TheeDetective:
I repeat; let's see what her husband has to say.