₦airaland Forum

shogsman:
There are too many senseless and foolish people on this platform that is why I am staying away,I posted a photo of a missing 14year old girl and this nairaland bastards were asking me why she looks like 18 and why she is wearing jean

it’s the nonsense we have allowed to flourish amongst us. Truly disgusting

Heard the killer was a nairalander. Whether true or not, Many are like him on this forum. They try to muddy the image of the dead to justify the tragedy and take attention away from the perpetrators.
And their female “pick me please” enablers will join them to cast dirt on the dead or assaulted.

boladez:
Were you part of the arrangement and why do you judge all by your standards.

...even in death , you have no regard or sympathy or feeling for the pain and loss of the families.....and you will claim to be fasting today or claim to be in church or call on any God you want to .......you have no milk of humanity in you and you cannot hide it.

This is the problem of our country, NO Kindness...everyone is for him or herself. Even if she were a professional prostitute, did she deserve to be killed?

BRATISLAVA:
Isn't it interesting that the murderer is allegedly from nairaland?

On this forum murderers, rapists and other misogynists express themselves freely and recruit members to their cause. The result is clear to see.

The place is already synonymous with hate speech for women from males in the red pill, mgtow and other covers for open hate for women. Reasonable people are leaving it for the bitter and scorned men who are allowed to run riot.

Over 27 pages in which rape and sexual molester apologists hide behind different monikers to express their depravities and support.

Misogyny breeds crime and murder.

What will you do about this menace?

Nothing. The traffic brings money.
The perps are the ones with the 50 accounts per person. First on all threads on the front page promoting woman hate. First to comment and give 400 likes to any post denigrating women.

If they leave the forum, half the traffic will be gone

Dalil8:
Nawa person no fit rest again cuz of this matter. The other guy wey dey kill sef nobody too reason am.

Ppl dey die everyday nor be new thing. Her own no worse pass others own.

no kidding

Only someone like you would be airheaded enough to think that other people owe them details of their personal lives.

hammerDK:
COCO STOP MAKING BASELESS CLAIMS.

U HAVE REFUSED TO SHARE WITH ME, THE SWEET DETAIL OF THE AGE U STARTED HAVING SEX.

I AM SURE, IN NIGERIA IT STARTS EARLY.

I HAVE NOT DEFENDED BABA IJESHA HERE BUT HOWEVER, BEEN OBJECTIVE WITH THE FACTS.

AND KNOW I HAVE OUTGROWN DAT, SO STOP YOUR BLACKMAIL AND ANSWER THE QUESTION.

Deep Fried Tofu, steamed vegetables and air fried chicken wings

Grandmeister:
He might be a Muslim…if this happened in the north we would not bat an eyelid will we? And yet Nigeria is a supposedly secular country. What a joke of a country.

Big comical joke honestly

Tonitelli:
Why do u even bother....?

I don’t even know

hammerDK:
SO IF I FOLLOW SOME OF U PEOPLE LOGIC, WEN I WAS IN MY EARLY TEEN AND TALKING TO SOME GIRLS IN THEIR EARLY TEENS TO COME AND CURE MY KONJI, U MEAN WE CANNOT CONSENT.


SO WHO RAPE WHO?

If anyone who was an adult at that time had sex with you, then, You’re a victim of rape.There’s nothing to glorify in that.

Go and collect your healing and stop being a pedophilic nuisance all over the internet.

Japan where there is a fetish for raping school children? Japan where this fetish is actually commercialized and pervert men are the consumers of child porn?
All Your examples are disgusting. I’m convinced you would rape a child too if you weren’t worried about the legal consequences
Tufiakwa

hammerDK:
OK, FRANCE IS NOT GOOD.
WAT ABOUT JAPAN?

IS NIGERIA MORE CIVILISED AND ADVANCE THAN JAPAN?

DO U KNOW THE AGE OF CONSENT IN JAPAN?

13 YEARS OLD.


COCO, BIKO TELL ME WAT AGE U STARTED HAVING SEX. BIKO NU!

It’s disheartening

BRATISLAVA:
Even in the face of blinding evidence.

They've sold their brains and conscience on the altar of stupidity and gender bias.

You will discover that most of them don't have children and are just embittered against anything female. If you see the state of them you will not be surprised they support and see logic in such things.

When they have daughters, let them come back and type what they did.

22 pages of them wailing and finding ways to twist it into something else.

BRATISLAVA:
So many of them. It's disgusting.

They are so desperate to have him released, both males and females. They keep claiming there's no evidence.

They demanded evidence, because they wanted their co-rapist to escape without any evidence against him so they could perpetuate their usual lies that women are out to destroy their non-existent careers.

When they got the evidence, they said it's a set up. Have you seen a more stupid set of people?
This is the same defense they gave the sex for grades lecturers, that it was a set up. How else did they want evidence?

How stupid are Nigerian men? This is how they take their mindsets abroad and end up in jail. How else are pedophiles caught? By not setting up camera for evidence? Their reasoning is demented. They should take this video to countries in which people have brains.

The number of rapists and sexual molesters on this forum is worrisome.

Some of the crimes reported on this forum must be committed by nairaland males. The rape culture here had prevented them from thinking like humans.

hammerDK:
I STARTED FUCUKING MUCH YOUNGER, I HAVE NEVER GONE ONE YEAR WITHOUT SEX OR SOME KIND OF SEX IN MY LIFE. FCUCKING IN NIGERIA STARTS EARLY IF WE ARE HONEST.


AND AGE IS JUST A NUMBER.
I CANNOT TAKE BECOS OF NUMBER PASS UP A BIG YANSH THAT IS SPEAKING TO ME.



BUT 14 YEARS IS A BABY, LET HER GROW.

Watch as you will be next.

Imagine using France as a yardstick. So if France does something stupid we should too because we are not more sophisticated? France that is racist and full of pedophiles

But you guys find ways to call “the west” all kinds of evil when it suits you. Now you want to emulate them?

When I started having sex is none of your business and has nothing to do with this thread.

hammerDK:
I DONT KNOW WAT AGE U STARTED HAVING SEX BUT THAT AGE OF CONSENT THING, STARTS FROM 13 AND GOES TO 18 GENERALLY SPEAKING.


FACT REMAINS THAT MOST INTRODUCTION TO SEX IS ALSO WITHIN THAT AGE RANGE.


DO U KNOW THE AGE OF CONSENT IN FRANCE?


15 YEARS OLD.


IS NIGERIA MORE SOPHISTICATED AND ADVANCE THAN FRANCE?

ceeceeuwa:
With the kind of comments I am seeing here, it goes to show that our female kids are not safe with the males around them. It is pathetic!

you just found out? Bless your heart

This place is littered with rapists

Sounds like you lack critical thinking skills.
I wonder why she’s still with you.
Someone like you will waste the family savings on “investments” and take predatory loans that will endanger your family’s life. But your pride won’t let you listen to common sense

Nzuzu

myami:
some of us did not forget our roots

if you practice Christianity, if you will or you did wear a suit and tie on your wedding day, you forgot your roots already.

myami:
The white man stormed our lands, took charge and replaced our beloveth culture with theirs. Africa was once an independent continent until the colonialists arrived and conned us with their systems and traditions. As if that was not enough, your forefathers were acquired as slaves.

yet you wonder why I’m “westernized”. As if every single one of us isn’t

Poor women trying to earn food for their families

What a heavy tragedy

pocohantas:
Lmao. True though! Whenever I see them, I am loke, una get mind.

I dey jealous them

I don’t usually wear tight clothes either because I really value comfort over style. I prefer to look dull if it means I’ll be comfortable over being pretty, uncomfortable and unable to breathe. If I wear something tight, it must have stretch so that I can move comfortably.

However, if you ask me, a woman who can pull off tight clothing is a very confident woman. It takes confidence to show yourself like that when you know any flaws you have will be exaggerated by the tight clothes.

Maxi clothes can hide flaws and make you look more put together than your body would give you permission if you wore tight clothing.

Like in the three pics below. Socially, we would give the first woman permission to wear that tight dress. We would even admire her but frown at the second woman for wearing such a tight dress. It would take a lot of confidence for the second lady to step out in that tight dress knowing that it’s not flattering according to our standards. If the second woman were to wear the dress in the third picture, she can hide her flaws and borrow confidence from the maxi style. So yes it takes confidence to wear tight styles.

descarado:
Nigeria is very religious.
If you want respect from people that matters, rock long flowing gowns especially during official time.
It will automatically elevate your level and respect.

Add a good perf and you will have the title of "ma" everywhere. Make use of that title and the sky won't be your limit. Knew this trick as undergrad and I never had any problem anywhere.Leave the tight fitting stuff for small girls and babes that have no self confidence.

Talking from experience.

myami:
You talk like a westernized african american. Where are you from?

Yes. I’m a westernized African who wore a white wedding dress like other African brides according to British western traditions.

You guys love to pick and choose what’s African and what’s western as it suits you, when the entirety of your “African tradition” is all western, don’t you?

It’s beautiful

Splitmind:
How many guys are actually telling you they want virgins? Is it virgin church men who sleep on the alter or regular men?

Most men who aren't virgins and secure in their own bodies hate virgin wives because they hate teaching women how to have sex.

Men don't want virgins, they just want women who won't bring another man's child home.

Hmm. Okay

chatinent:
I can't understand any reason for sb hitting my child. I am respected if reported to. I understand hitting my child as the peak of disregard.

I may do the undone to the beater.

I won’t say I don’t understand it because a lot of us were raised to see it as nothing. Including me. Teachers at school would hit you as punishment, aunties and uncles in the extended family would spank you. We consider it good training. Which it isn’t.

What I don’t understand is the unwillingness to unlearn bad things. Because you’re raised that way doesn’t mean you can’t unlearn unwholesome things you learned while growing up.

That’s the current problem we are having. Unwillingness to unlearn.

emmyN:
You mean if a child is being naughty around where I am, I'm supposed to stand up to go look for it's parents just to report?

Yes actually

Please don’t hit other people’s children. I would say don’t hit yours too but that’s your business.
Certainly do not touch other people’s children. If it’s my child, you would be a in a world of pain. Don’t do it

Smh. It’s the women who make their life decisions for men that I pity. Look at these bunch of confused mofos. Do you want virgins or not?

Want virgins but hate to dare without sex. The average dude out there is hella confused. Ladies do what you want for yourself and not for any man

Africans are so brainwashed that they consider some parts of their culture demonic.
Then they cling onto the ones that help them perpetuate misogyny.

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CAUSES OF CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE
Parental negligence, carelessness, nonchalant attitude.
It is as bad as No one can be trusted.
We have a child presently carrying a baby that belongs to her father.

OTHER CAUSES:
Absentee parents.
Parents who do not observe.
When the kids are not informed.....
What you watch with your kids.
Indecent dressing by our children.

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Causes of child sexual assault = The assaulter