₦airaland Forum

chaarly:
Cococandy!!!!!!!

Omg. I wanto live in your house for 1month

ChybuzzDD:
You've not seen anything yet.
There's poverty in the country.
Before I ran away from there, a patient once priced me 15,000 for inguinal Herniorrhaphy and insisted on paying nothing more. And he told me about other doctors doing it at that amount.
The easiest way to be a pauper is to practice in Nigeria as a healthcare professional.
Majority are poor and, unfortunately, constitute the bulk of the patients.

ChybuzzDD:
Most low-cost private hospitals do that to save cost, as patients pay poorly.
Anaesthetists charge about 30,000 to 40,000 when they're invited.
A patient that pays a total of 30,000 for Appendectomy or Herniorrhaphy will, of course, have the doctor as both the surgeon and the Anaesthetist, as the money is not even enough to pay off the Anaesthetist.
And that could end in tears.
The same open Appendectomy or open Herniorrhaphy in the US is about $25,000( over 9million naira).
Truth is healthcare is expensive all over the world, and shouldn't be "managed".
When you're willing to "manage", you've agreed to have the standard compromised.
And both you and the doctor should share the blame.

ChybuzzDD:
I have noticed Nigerians are usually afraid of surgeries and see it as 50:50 thing.
That's not how it should be.
The most common cause of death in the theatre is anaesthetic complications and transfusion reactions.
There's nothing to be afraid of if these areas are properly handled.
Discuss the mode of anaesthesia with your doctor.
Let the anaesthesia be handled by doctors trained in that area, ie an Anaesthetist.
They'll charge you a little bit more for that, but the patient will be safer, especially if its spinal anaesthesia in this case.
Let the doctor not be both the Surgeon and the Anaesthetist in the theatre, as do often do in most private hospitals.
The extra bill won't kill anyone.

NerdyRudeGyal:
Coconut milk oatmeal-raisin cookies I made,
Roasted dandelion tea w/ cinnamon sticks.

I like my tea natural / I don't like putting sugar or milk in it.

Liposure:
this food is made in heaven

Preciouschinwe:
it looks delicious, the jollof inclusive

Halcyon123:
Morning all, today is my birthday. I have candles and knife for cutting cake but who will bake the cake

Preciouschinwe:
this is how I like my suya. Not the one they make here full of yaji.

AgbenuAnna:
Pass around
I don chop 1 chocolate sha
The cake round bake
I go pos am tomorrow

Mariangeles:
Nice. Well done.

Amorprincesa24:
Did you bake it alongside m&m? It didn't melt?

chivera018:
People can lie o, how can a civil engineer suddenly turn to a doctor.
Op, lie small small biko.
You just posted a fake story so misogynists would have a field day insulting women.

Takotsubo:
Chorismate

What hubby and I do is send same amount to both sides of the family. You send 50k to yours and she sends 50k to hers with scope to help out if any side is more needy at some point.

It's easier this way for the sake of fairness and to prevent any budding feelings of resentment.
Your parents will never be more important to her than her parents. No side of the family is more deserving.

This method only works if you both contribute to a joint account and then plan together on ALL expenses.If you're doing your thing with money and she's doing her thing,then it's no one's concern how much you send or how much she sends.

You cannot be sharing a joint account with equal contribution and then tell her to send less to her folks because she has brothers.It doesn't sound right .

So best to discuss it now very plainly,how much you bring in,how much she brings in, joint account or not, your estimated joint expenses ,savings plan, THEN how much parents will receive.

Good luck.

GboyegaD:
Lunch:
Jollof Rice, White Beans, Dodo, Mixed Veggies, Coleslaw, and Chicken. To be stepped down with Sweet Iced Tea.

pocohantas:
Exactly! One minute they claim they are no more getting married because women are oloshos. Yet they still have chest pain when they see single women. How do they do this?

Prestonn:
Village kitchen

Invited some of my friends home today for lunch and dinner...

So I decide to do a quick one for my Mami...

@Mami Cutiereborn.. Once again Happy Birthday

More photo later..

OJURONGBE1:
You don't know nothing!
The poster is right .
My elder sister is in the same shoes.
36+ and yet to settle all in the name of chasing career.
She's an associate partner at McKinsey with an ivy league postgraduate degree from Columbia uni.
Well read, well travelled ,vast and a very brilliant woman.
She's lonely as Bleep .
I know what I'm saying because each time i visit her in Abuja, we could be up till 1am talking.
There were times she would ask me to extend my stay because she would be all alone by herself immediately i travel back.
Forget all these nonsense as besties there's a limit to what they can do.
When you marry right ,there's this joy that comes within knowing there's someone back home who's always on the look out for you .

TheKingIsHere:
It is.

The guy is living in hell with that family.

Jada and his children are his worst nightmares.

Will just acts as if everything is ok, but the guy will lose it one day. I feel for him

TheKingIsHere:
Then why is Will crying when his wife had an affair in an open marriage? Think!!

Munzy14:
Ladies Take Op seriously at your own peril.

The moment a man provides all that himself, Just know u av little or no say in the house.


And your opinion is barely taken, with time he will tell you to quit your work and stay at home.


As he is winning bread, please win akara (beans cake). So your respect for each other will be intact.

Deep secret , men respect and cherish their working class wife. If you look beyond the normal ego, you will see you are cherished as a lady.

Ericnrm:
Isn't this the same guy who opened a thread about how he killed his ex? D

kulobyno:
Forget the camera smile and packaging. There's inner pain that an aging single lady suffers. The pain grows as she gets older. Forget the "marriage is not everything" and liberated woman bulshit. They all deny it publicly. When you are close to one you will understand her pain.

OkhaiAsein:
She don old o

rexibity:
I hope her ovaries are not dried sha?

Parrot69:
Make she commot the make up make we know how far...

oluwasegun007:
We are tired of asking that question...

But make she go buy sperm na.

Atleast experience motherhood.

Bellotelli:
If she has at least a child then it OK, but u can't imagine myself without a wife or a child

RuddyFusion:
Aunty Go and marryooo

truthsayer009:
Nice story, but last last sha, you would advise her to leave since the situation isn't getting better right? let's face reality.

What is worrisome to me is the man who never even worried about his child (the toddler), I mean this is his child, even if the mom died at child birth, will he throw the child away? So the man was just an irresponsible man, he should be held responsible. He doesn't represents all Men, so let's clear the air on that.