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Romance › Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by cococandy(f): 4:31pm On Jul 03, 2020
SyberKate:
But men have been marrying women without jobs since time immemorial
The women haven’t technically been without jobs. They do all the other jobs that are “too menial for men”. The jobs that sustain the family. Jobs that the men without jobs outside of the home will feel disrespected if they asked to do them.
Romance › Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by cococandy(f): 4:29pm On Jul 03, 2020
Hathor5:
That's why I asked what the man will be doing when she is earning the living? grin
When they ask for women to bring the bread, many of them hardly think about the other side of it.
Will they wash the dishes on which this said bread will be served or will it be too “emasculating” for them?.

lipsrsealed
Celebrities › Re: Hushpuppi Wanted In 47 Countries As He Lists Crime Partners - Kemi Olunloyo by cococandy(f): 3:15pm On Jul 03, 2020
She can claim she had no idea she received any stolen money.

MANNABBQGRlLL:
The truth is that I do not want him to go down alone

Hushpuppi please sing the song very loud. Many of your haters who formed fake friends are laughing at you now while enjoying their own loot. Please sing loud. Let all of them go down too

If you can sing to bring down those useless lagos big girls always traveing to Dubai to enjoy ill gotten wealth, please sing it loud. Catch those useless girls too, especially that f00l called @meehlesaah on instagram. She pumped her yansh with fraud money. She goes to Palazzo Versace many times a year. She forms real estate/car dealer whereas she does not sell anything. She uses her pumped fake yansh to attract criminals and partake in fraud proceeds
Romance › Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by cococandy(f):
I strongly believe that the reason why there is so much emphasis on a man's financial status as a criterion for marital suitability is because of the financial dependence mindset of many ladies on their men
You were onto something until you started misyarning as usual.
Maybe the emphasis on his financial status is because providing is one of the few responsibilities that men actually have in marriage . Which by the way they also happen to share with women. But no complaints here from me about sharing this responsibility.

Now if you’re talking about them totally forgoing this responsibility rather than sharing it as they mostly have been doing, what would they be contributing in the marriage to make up for it?
Will they get pregnant , birth the babies, nurse the babies, perform all the emotional labor the woman does, make sure they over see the runnings of the home in total like their wives do when the men are sole breadwinners?

What’s does a man who doesn’t share in the the financial responsibility of his home bring to the home to ensure that his wife isn’t carrying 100% of the family load on her shoulders?
Celebrities › Re: Jada Pinkett Denies August Alsina Affair by cococandy(f): 7:45pm On Jul 02, 2020
GodwalksEarth:
The Coronavirus is pedophilia Baal worship a detractor public scare scripted by the Simpson cartoon as well as other forms of medium
wetin be this na embarassed embarassed
Celebrities › Re: Jada Pinkett Denies August Alsina Affair by cococandy(f): 7:17pm On Jul 02, 2020
StreetFight:
And these are the idiots whose forefathers brought Christianity to us. They are now giving their wives permission to fucck other men and giving other men permission to fucck their wives. And their forefathers said the African gods are evil while their white gods are good.

Even Sango did not go and ask other men permission to sleep with their wives neither did Obatala did that.
Wetin concern gods for here?
Celebrities › Re: Jada Pinkett Denies August Alsina Affair by cococandy(f): 7:16pm On Jul 02, 2020
Angelfrost:
Certainly!!!... Even the most randy philandering man will climb the walls and get a double coronary if his wife stumbles or creeps once.

The average unfaithful African man is as possessive as he is murderously jealous!!! grin
makydebbie:
Their uncles are there getting the whole village pregnant and they think they're not in open relationships for men.
Isn’t it amazing
Celebrities › Re: Jada Pinkett Denies August Alsina Affair by cococandy(f): 6:28pm On Jul 02, 2020
LONGPREEK:
they are trying to destroy africans with this shit, the same way they copied baby mama is the same way naija will cope open marriage
Nigerians don’t have open marriage?

Oh you mean the one that’s only open for men. Gotcha grin
Politics › Re: House Purchased By Ajimobi In USA In 2016 Uncovered - Sahara Reporters by cococandy(f): 6:25pm On Jul 02, 2020
Unnerve:
Lol, a home priced at $1.3m is definitely an expensive crib even by Hollywood standards. Certainly not affordable by an everyday American.

The price tag may be what made the bloggers give it the title of mansion, but still doesn't remove from the fact that it's celebrity standard.
I know that.

I’m just saying the attached pictures and the title don’t go hand in hand.
Politics › Re: House Purchased By Ajimobi In USA In 2016 Uncovered - Sahara Reporters by cococandy(f): 10:31am On Jul 02, 2020
I see no mansion. But doesn’t mean he didn’t loot
Crime › Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by cococandy(f): 1:24pm On Jul 01, 2020
It should also depend on the other facts of the case. A drunk man going after a random woman to rape her will not be absolved because he’s drunk. And vice versa.

But if it’s case of two lovers or two friends that are linked romantically prior to the encounter , they both got drunk and had sex, then I wouldn’t be quick to call it rape.

And.... it must meet the criteria that both were drunk. not that one person drunk and the other was sober. And not in the case where one of them said no during the encounter while the person persisted (under the influence or not).

sassysure:
That is the law in developed countries.
Read the link I posted.

Two k pop celebrities were sent to jail last yr cos of this. They admitted to being drunk yet they shared the video.


The problem is not being both drunk. If the woman told you she did it while drunk, the guy should use all in his arsenal to bury the case. Although in most cases, what the lawyers are after is the level of toxity which is very hard to get. But our bros hand is too sharp to type and post. He cleared that doubt and complexity by admitting both were indeed drunk.

Assuming the lady took him to court, he could argue she gave her consent before they became drunk and this is a good case or that they were not really drunk.
Crime › Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by cococandy(f): 11:16am On Jul 01, 2020
BluntTheApostle:
How can I get the true picture from one person's testimony?

There are two people who have primary interest in this case (the woman and the doctor). You can't believe either of their stories just like that.

Even a judge cannot just take sides just from reading Twitter or Facebook posts of two people who both have equal interests in a case. That is why we have lawyers to present the case as best as they can before a judge who will then make the final decision.

My own argument all this while is that people should only speak through their lawyers. Let your lawyer do the speaking for you because if you do so yourself, you may create holes in your defense.

That getting drunk part of the doctor's post can be exploited by a good lawyer
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The bit in bold
Crime › Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by cococandy(f): 11:14am On Jul 01, 2020
But I agree that if the man is drunk too like the woman, then he has the same case against her that she has on him.

Shikena. Although I don’t know how they will prosecute it over there.
sassysure:
The guy is the one who actually dug his own grave by admitting they had sex while drunk. She obviously said it's without her consent.

In laws of most country, a drunk man is no defence in court at all.

Normally if u read that link I provided, what constitutes problem when a lady say she did it without consent is how to determine the level of intoxity. Our bros made it very easy by saying both were drunk.

He should go and beg. He should have consulted a lawyer before hastily releasing that implicating evidence.
Crime › Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by cococandy(f): 10:59am On Jul 01, 2020
tobechi20:
if a girl has made up her mind to have sex with u, she gets drunk on purpose
undecided
Family › Re: How My Mom Ruined My Life by cococandy(f): 4:22am On Jul 01, 2020
Agba2020:
Maybe "ruined my life" was a bit of an exagerration, that was mostly so people would check out the thread. It definitely ruined my relationship with not only her, but my Dad as well, because since she said what she said i just couldn't stand the sight of my own Dad anymore. There was a time not long after the accusation when he was talking to me and Dad tried touching me on my arm and i just freaked out, i almost jumped away. It might sound funny, but it really wasn't funny to him, he was just shocked and confused as hell, but i couldn't tell him coz i thought it would only destroy the family, so i just shouldered the burden. It didn't affect my sexuality, but it held me back academically and in life. I was isolated because i had no one to talk to.
That’s terrible. I can’t even imagine how you feel. And you’re right. You could bring it up and she’ll deny it. Then It’s one big messy “he said she said” that might end up making you feel even worse.

Does she have any history of mental illness?
It’s so weird
Family › Re: How Can I Get My Baby Back? Pls Help Me Guys by cococandy(f): 3:59am On Jul 01, 2020
OP the child is not an item for you to collect.
It’s a person. With a life outside of yours

Look for a way to share parenting with the mom. It doesn’t have to be all or nothing. Aka either you or his/her mom.

If you both really love the kid, you can make it. Don’t let the feelings you still have for the mom complicate your current marriage.
Education › Re: Ekiti State Student Dies In Boyfriend's Hostel In Osun Poly (Graphic Pix, Video) by cococandy(f): 5:22am On Jun 30, 2020
Candrevah:
My heartbeat at your display picture. You are beautiful and blessed dearie. I've got maximum respect you......
mmm okay cheesy

Thanks smiley
Family › Re: Pictures Of My Things My Brother Destroyed Out Of Anger. by cococandy(f): 11:18pm On Jun 29, 2020
Takotsubo:
Very sad isn't it..
Hope you're doing alright. kiss
Sad. But she had a hopeful prognosis (at least for the foreseeable future).

I’m alright. Thanks smiley
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 5:44pm On Jun 29, 2020
loveymom:
Big Sister parole grin cheesy
grin
Family › Re: Pictures Of My Things My Brother Destroyed Out Of Anger. by cococandy(f): 5:44pm On Jun 29, 2020
I had a Takotsubo case about 5 days ago and I thought of you smiley

Takotsubo:
Hi Sususy,

Sorry for what you're going through but can you clarify a few things?

. He suspects you're talking about him to.other people.Is it just you? Does he think neighbors/other people are talking about him too? Why does he think so?

. Is he reading too much meaning into ordinary things and making connections that don't seem to make sense to you?

.Does he think people are out to get him and do him harm?

Who else does he think is spying on him and how has he come to this conclusion?

Does he think people are hearing the thoughts in his head or trying to extract information from his head?

Have you seen him talking to himself or to people who you cannot see?

How about pointing out things that you can't see?

Does he seem scared and afraid ?

Does his speech make sense to you or does he seem to be rambling on about stuff,talking too many things at the same time?

How is his hygiene? Has he stopped caring for himself or his surroundings?

You can get this information from him and try to be understanding and not confrontational just to have an idea about what he's experiencing

Most importantly,when did you notice any changes or has he always been this way?

You may have to consider that your brother sounds like he is unwell not possessed and is starting to be more paranoid? Your answers may guide us all a bit better to help see what the best solution is from here?
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 5:30pm On Jun 29, 2020
loveymom:
I will gladly send her over. kiss
Mine will be excited I’m sure
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 5:20pm On Jun 29, 2020
loveymom:
My daughter will be happy to live in your house, she loves chocolate chip cookies a lot.
Send the sweetie for weekend stay wink
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 1:21pm On Jun 29, 2020
Soft bake chocolate chip cookies kiss

Family › Re: Marrying Within The Family by cococandy(f): 1:19pm On Jun 29, 2020
Cons: Genetic disorders
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 12:42pm On Jun 29, 2020
GboyegaD:
I bake them in two trays and then mix them. I make one harder and darker than the other. I prefer them to the fried ones in recent times. Besides, the fried one is hard for me to make. It foams too much and I don't know if it is the butter, egg, or milk that causes that.
It’s mostly the egg that causes it
Family › Re: Should I Divorce My Wife? by cococandy(f): 12:17pm On Jun 29, 2020
I guess she’s stubborn and disrespectful because she refused to listen to your con artists AKA pastors and prophets and go for “deliverance”.

She needs deliverance alright. From you.

On a more serious note, please go for check up. We don’t know what’s bit your peniis like you described, but it might be something treatable
Politics › Re: Ned Nwoko With His Family, Wives And Children (Photo) by cococandy(f): 12:11pm On Jun 29, 2020
Is that one in a black dress with braids his child or wife?
Either way she’s beautiful
Family › Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by cococandy(f): 12:07pm On Jun 29, 2020
pocohantas:
Lol. To think the sidechick might be one of their gfs. When they find out, they won’t pat her on the back for helping a fellow brother out o.

They will come online to open thread and disturb us. Confused creatures... grin grin
cheesy

The tears are sweet
Family › Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by cococandy(f): 10:50am On Jun 29, 2020
pocohantas:
Men, professional victim players and experts at shifting blames.

Very soon I will go to a salon and come back with a thread on how some woman started ashewo lifestyle. Story for the gods...
And instead of them praising the wife like they are all doing on this thread to the husband, they’ll start tearing their pants and shedding sweet tears. Sweet sweet tears kiss
Family › Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by cococandy(f): 10:47am On Jun 29, 2020
Hathor5:
They will become professional script writers when they want to find an excuse to cheat.
why I have no pity for them when they come online to complain about women. cool
Family › Re: Can You Go And Fill Gas If It's Only You And Your Wife At Home Guys? by cococandy(f): 12:53am On Jun 29, 2020
FortifiedCity:
I have noticed you have a good heart. Keep at it
smiley
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 12:16am On Jun 29, 2020
ibkayee:
Strawberry ice cream *shudders*
You’re not alone. I don’t like strawberry ice cream too

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