Family › Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by cococandy(f): 1:48pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
Let’s agree to disagree Ybaby: Donkey! 
No real man collects money from his woman.
I wonder which woman is financially supporting Dangote/ Otedola etc .... it is low par men that collect money from women
Overwork?? The bible says man should toil!!! No real man is happy without his toil! No real man is happy without a job, No real man is happy without his sweat. Even lazy low par men like to pretend as if they are looking for work.
Man is happiest when he is working - when he gets home from work, run a warm bath, scrub his back, massage his lower brain and let him release his stress inside you, give him vitamins, pray for him, make sure the kids are well looked after and house is clean, delicious food and lots of peace.
Giving a man money emasculates him! Wanting him to succeed is very different from emasculating him, the above makes a man feel strong and masculine but giving him money makes him lazy and unmotivated.
He is not your son! He is your leader, your oga, your man..... but eh no concern me...
I have just one request - any time she buys him a car - she should advertise it on Instablog like Emoney does when he buys his wife a car.
Beta men and Builder women - Feminine men and Masculine women - 6 and 7
New International Version Genesis 3:17 To Adam he said, "Because you listened to your wife and ate fruit from the tree about which I commanded you, 'You must not eat from it,' "Cursed is the ground because of you; through painful toil you will eat food from it all the days of your life. |
Family › Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by cococandy(f): 12:12pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
How about if you support each other financially? You know like two people who want each other to succeed and not to over work themselves. What category does that place the woman? Queen or donkey? Asking for a friend! Ybaby: I was not disrespectful. There are 2 types of women queens and donkeys.
She will always find a way to let the world know she pays her household Bill's.
I will always find a way to let know world my man pays the Bills
We are two different kind of women and as long as it is her choice then good for her. |
Family › Re: Is It Good To Expose A Child To Money At An Early Stage? by cococandy(f): 10:40am On Jun 25, 2020 |
You can’t deny your child a lifestyle they are born into. It’s not feasible.
If you live a luxurious lifestyle, where will the kid go while you’re enjoying your life just so you don’t expose them to money? If you have nice cars, will park them in the garage and take public transportation whenever you kid needs to go somewhere just so they don’t get exposed to money? Won’t your kid have a room in your nice house?
If you travel to different countries on vacation, will you leave your child at home so they don’t enjoy the that luxury with you?
It is what it is.
You can teach the value of good and ernest work. Teach kindness and tolerance. Encourage them not to take anything for granted. They will turn out alright |
Family › Re: My Bitter Experience by cococandy(f): 10:32am On Jun 25, 2020 |
You sort of dodged a bullet when she left you but not totally since you have a child between you now and welfare keeps dragging you to come pay.
I hope you’ve learned to protect yourself against unwanted pregnancy. If that child wasn’t between both of you, it would be easier for you to leave her and walk away. Now she will always be in your life in some way.
Next time you don’t want a woman to get pregnant especially a woman you can’t trust like this one, use your protection and protect yourself. So you won’t have to pay later.
Do what you can for your child to the best of your ability now and I hope you don’t start another romantic tryst with the baby mom. It won’t be worth it.
And by that I mean break up with her. For good. And y’all be on your merry ways. |
Crime › Re: Photos From The Lekki Couple Murder And Suicide Scenes (disturbing Photos) by cococandy(f): 5:38pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
nairaman66: I can guess your age. You are between 18-21. You perception of things will change with time. I am speaking from experience! Cheers lmao |
Crime › Re: Photos From The Lekki Couple Murder And Suicide Scenes (disturbing Photos) by cococandy(f): 3:50pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
nairaman66: You should as well understood my premise for my comments before you jump into conclusion like a LovePeddler on a dikk (No insult intended). The society can accommodate a man when he cheats unlike a woman doing the same thing!
How many women can kill their husband because he cheated? how many? You don’t want to know. Who’s society? It’s you . Just say you prefer when a man cheats. Let everyone speak for themselves |
Crime › Re: Photos From The Lekki Couple Murder And Suicide Scenes (disturbing Photos) by cococandy(f): 2:40pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
A woman can also do worse to a cheating man. Then the society would be unbalanced for him as well. Many of you are just closet what-I-don’t-knows FOH nairaman66: I am sure the man would have confronted the woman before his actions.. I am also sure the lady would have accepted the allegations as well before the man’s action!
It’s true the man went too far, but not everyone has a strong threshold for such pains! Ladies, if you know you want to get married, don’t cheat! The society isn’t balanced for both male and female cheats. A sad reality |
Crime › Re: Photos From The Lekki Couple Murder And Suicide Scenes (disturbing Photos) by cococandy(f): 2:38pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
They are just going along with a version that makes it okay for her to die in their opinion. CHoccolaTE: Please those people blaming the woman for everything should use their heads
It was never confirmed that that was the reason it happened, dont speak Ill of the dead. The husband might have been on drugs or even mentally unstable.
Secondly even if she cheated, cheating does not justify a wicked act like this, the man could have left her or divorced her instead of turning his children to orphans.
This his action was very evil |
Crime › Re: Photos From The Lekki Couple Murder And Suicide Scenes (disturbing Photos) by cococandy(f): 2:35pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
Oh stop justifying nonsense please. Someone that’s not even his wife drehdinho: Those of you suggesting the man should have walked away. It's easier said than done. You these same people would mock and stigmatize the man on social media if the secret happen to come out to the public after the man had walked away.
This is not a matter of walking away. We shouldn't give ladies option to cheat with the hope the man afterall could walk away.
Say No to infidelity once you're married. Wives, I beg you in God's name, create a wide schism between you and all your exs and besties.
Don't give the devil a room in your family.
Stop chatting with random men and focus on training your child(ren) and maintaining either or both your business or career.
That pain was too much for that man. That's why he did what he did. It could happen to any man. |
Crime › Re: Photos From The Lekki Couple Murder And Suicide Scenes (disturbing Photos) by cococandy(f): 2:33pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
He took the cowards way out. In all his machoism, he should have been brave enough to face the law and see where it leads him. Disgusting mofo |
Family › Re: Should I Walk Away? by cococandy(f): 2:23pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
mimimile93: Not just negative news. They say blacks are ugly. Thanks bro But you think blacks are ugly too. why upset when someone agrees with you? Because their object of ridicule is not black girls but you a black guy? Didn’t know racists look at all blacks with the same lenses? |
Family › Re: Should I Walk Away? by cococandy(f): 2:21pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
Oh now you understand what it feels like to experience undeserved hate? Na the people wey dey advice you I blame. Team foreign girls. Good luck! |
Family › Re: Can You Go And Fill Gas If It's Only You And Your Wife At Home Guys? by cococandy(f): 1:51am On Jun 24, 2020 |
OP sorry for the loss of your wife. I hope you’re doing great now. Hugs |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 9:09pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
loveymom: Meatpie straight from the oven
Let me hype myself small 
"This Meatpie is so Delicious, e dey enter medula"   |
Crime › Re: Man Stabs His Wife To Death In Lagos, Then Commits Suicide In Their Home by cococandy(f): 3:37pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
Again. Didn’t need or want to know that  kokaneprodigy: Hate me?, someone I ghosted cos I saw some traits I know I can’t live with. Na me know the kind messages she started sending while threatening before I blocked her off.
A month into relationship she crashed at my crib for the weekend for the first time. Spent two nights. Phone won’t stop ringing, some she could pick others she couldn’t pick. day two phone was on silent all through facing down. I made sure I didn’t touch her not to complicate things cos I knew I was ghosting her afterwards no questions asked.
I don’t have time for rubbish. |
Crime › Re: Man Stabs His Wife To Death In Lagos, Then Commits Suicide In Their Home by cococandy(f): 2:17pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
Maybe she hates you for other reasons we don’t know. Y’alls cup of tea hunae We didn’t need to know that  kokaneprodigy: You can conduct yours let’s see, you talked about me feeling better Have always been better. There are ladies wanting to date me and even get married and I’m highly selective cos I’m principled and very realistic. A lady I hooked up with from Nairaland here hates me till date cos I refused to take things forward after we met, note I didn’t have sex with her cos I’m not that cheap.
I’m just being real here, trust me I’m not a woman hater either. The truth is just what it is. |
Crime › Re: Man Stabs His Wife To Death In Lagos, Then Commits Suicide In Their Home by cococandy(f): 2:15pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
kokaneprodigy: Me complain about woman? God forbid! Na women dey complain all over internet alongside a few simp. Real men don’t involve emotions in dating, u go in with logic and rationality. This doesn’t translate to maltreating your woman, I will never support that. But there can never be two captains in the cockpit. A lady will be taken care of and pampered if she behaves like a lady, will be treated like a man if she behaves such, treated like shiît if she behaves like a LovePeddler. Period. okay  |
Crime › Re: Man Stabs His Wife To Death In Lagos, Then Commits Suicide In Their Home by cococandy(f): 2:09pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
kokaneprodigy: it’s the reality and you know it. The stats are out there to prove it. Since the rise of feminist propaganda how has the marriage institution fared? How’s the divorce rate? How’s the baby mama and baby daddy rate? How open are guys to getting married?
The data will tell you what you need to know if u want to be honest with urself. The data and stats from your behind. Amusing It’s actually good if the marriage institution suffers from so called feminist propaganda. Means only the oppression of women was holding many marriages together. If you’re not ready to treat your wife how you want her to treat you, don’t marry. Meanwhile you guys are the one on NL crying 24/7. Leave marriage alone you won’t. Stay single you won’t. Stop complaining you won’t. I’m tired for you  |
Crime › Re: Man Stabs His Wife To Death In Lagos, Then Commits Suicide In Their Home by cococandy(f): 1:58pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
kokaneprodigy: The population of those who genuinely do not want it are less than 10% of the female population and I respect them trust me.
Most who claim they do not want it have mostly tried and gave up don’t be deceived. according to the research conducted by you  |
Crime › Re: Man Stabs His Wife To Death In Lagos, Then Commits Suicide In Their Home by cococandy(f): 1:55pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
kokaneprodigy: If the prize is not marriage why are y’all complaining about men not wanting to settle down, why do majority of y’all make men your prayer point once u are approaching 30. Why do u ask where the relationship is going, why are most single moms always bitter to an extent they can’t even hide it from social media.
Keep living in denial na Shiloh las las, you’ll just end up like funmisticqueen2 All this is stuff you’re telling yourself to make you feel better. |
Crime › Re: Man Stabs His Wife To Death In Lagos, Then Commits Suicide In Their Home by cococandy(f): 1:37pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
kokaneprodigy: all so called feminists na baby mama dey end am las las. Linda Ikeji upon all her sermons on social media one man out there turned her to single mom, Linda Ikeji nko the situation has even made her unstable. Compare those two with Omotola and Mercy Johnson and spot the difference. Keep basking in ur ignorance till u approach trashy news paper level you’ll know what’s up.
May U not end up like funmisticqueen2. The prize is marriage I guess?  What of those who don’t want it? |
Crime › Re: Man Stabs His Wife To Death In Lagos, Then Commits Suicide In Their Home by cococandy(f): 12:05pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
kokaneprodigy: Which sex is suffering more from the failed experiment called gender equality and feminism. A single father will still get to select babe marry if he wants. I can’t say same for a single mother having options.
Keep basking in ignorance na una full Shiloh keep trying to convince yourself  |
Crime › Re: 8-Month Pregnant Nigerian Woman Trafficked To Lebanon And Locked Up, Cries Out by cococandy(f): 11:27am On Jun 23, 2020 |
 ForeThinker: U carry Belle siddon one place u no hear ..
Narrating her ordeal, Saka said she left Nigeria after her husband died in November 2018 and things became difficult financially.
The story doesn't really add up ..
Who impregnated her the husband that died since 2018 or ashawo work due to the financial difficulty she stated .
Spiritual konji?
Where she get money fund her trip ( don't tell me it's totally free b4 she left )
The story get K legs |
Family › Re: Why Blame Women For Everything?? by cococandy(f): 11:15am On Jun 23, 2020 |
Exactly. That’s why men make money and decide to sleep with everything that has breathe and wears a skirt around them  SmartPolician: Everyone should take these words down
A guy goes to work every day with the mindset that when he eventually makes it big that he will make his woman the happiest female on planet Earth
On the other hand, when a woman starts making kobo, she will begin feeling like she doesn't need a man anymore. You will hear terms like Boss lady, core feminist, etc.
Forget it, those people can never think like us
Never! |
Crime › Re: Man Stabs His Wife To Death In Lagos, Then Commits Suicide In Their Home by cococandy(f): 11:08am On Jun 23, 2020 |
Good to know cheating is not the sole prerogative of men. Matrimonous: My dear, all my uncles including my Dad suffered failed marriages from cheating wives. The only one whose marriage didn't fail actually died before his time. Another one that skipped my mind married two wives but It seems he had a relatively peaceful marriage nevertheless. I've had two failed engagements myself because what one called fiancee couldn't keep her legs together. So how could it be I'm only trying to convince myself on the matter? I've seen things dear. You don't know my story. |
Crime › Re: Man Stabs His Wife To Death In Lagos, Then Commits Suicide In Their Home by cococandy(f): 1:39am On Jun 23, 2020 |
Ishilove: Men, if you are hurt CRY like a baby. Let it all out and be FREE. It's good for mental health. I agree |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 1:38am On Jun 23, 2020 |
 Prestonn: Village kitchen
Jollof rice Fried rice Cabbage Turkey
Party is over... Time to find something else to cook.
Make I quick run enter inside market. |
Crime › Re: Man Stabs His Wife To Death In Lagos, Then Commits Suicide In Their Home by cococandy(f): 11:47pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
Matrimonous: That's what makes the difference between ladies and men. The more reason women should exercise far more caution on matters regarding sexual recklessness. The outcome for them is usually worse. Imagine the man that lady may've cheated with is today enjoying his family with his wife. Should his wife find out she might even blame the dead woman for sleeping with her husband. Blaming women for the emotional instability of men. |
Crime › Re: Man Stabs His Wife To Death In Lagos, Then Commits Suicide In Their Home by cococandy(f): 11:46pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
You’re only trying to convince yourself Matrimonous: So quite true. They have taken the mantle of cheating from men. You did very well in breaking away from that girl. When they cheat they are dangerous because they do so with emotional attachment unlike the men. A cheating man could still love and pamper his wife like a Queen but not so the women. A wife could arrange with her sugarboy to kill her husband. No cheating woman I know had ever gone against her illicit sexual partner in honour of her husband because she renders her heart in the affair. Men on the other hand can harm or threaten girlfriends because they are often not emotionally attached to such girls. Check out this thread. https://www.nairaland.com/5944116/man-wife-assault-ex-girlfriend-ogun |
Crime › Re: Man Stabs His Wife To Death In Lagos, Then Commits Suicide In Their Home by cococandy(f): 11:45pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
Many guys are emotional wrecks. |
Crime › Re: Man And His Wife Assault His Ex-Girlfriend In Ogun, Strip Her Unclad, Take Pics by cococandy(f): 11:41pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
whytediamond: He wants to prove his loyalty to wife after being caught. Exactly. Dumbass people |
Family › Re: My Fiancee Is Unenthusiastic About Anything by cococandy(f): 11:35pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
gamblering: No, she is not battling depression. But yes, she believes men should go out and get things. She is preparing to be a housewife, though she knows that doesn't go down well with me. So why are you engaged to someone who doesn’t believe in the same things you do and what do you want us to do about it? Worse still, you knew all this and went ahead to get engaged to her. Let me guess, she meets the physical criteria that got you attracted, probably wowed you with her ‘homely and wifely’ skills but the thought of providing for the specifications you want is daunting to you. |