₦airaland Forum

Be your brother’s child’s keeper. It’s a bro code something. They are helping each other raise each other’s kids. Communal parenting. It takes a village to raise a child.

Why does the bold sound funny.

True I like men for the confidence they have in demanding what they want even when they do not deserve it. Gold diggers, leeches, broke ass etc are slangs developed for women to broke shame us. Whereas asking a man to be financially independent before settling down makes the woman a bad person for requiring that.

Women are always striving to be “perfect” and it’s never enough because of the endless and confusing list of what makes a good woman. Must not be a gold digger, must not be dependent, must also always be available when the man requires it or she’s to blame for the maid taking over her home. It’s tiring.

Personally I believe in sharing finances because it’s rare to see a man that’s a 100% provider. But only if that sharing of finances translates to sharing other aspects of what’s required in running the home. I require it.
Otherwise the woman is contributing way more than the man.

pocohantas:
Lol. Financially independent should be the word. Not rich!

I pity all these women playing good girls (online). Men keep raising the bar higher. They don’t want broke girls, they don’t want non-working women and they applaud themselves for it. They even demonized and trivialized the input of a housewife.

Yet when a woman wants a working man, they bark at you and you cower in fear. You think these niggas give two fcks about you?

Systematically you dance to their tunes till they hold all the aces. Continue being resident good girls o. Na NL praises go end am.

Good girls are going to shop in Igando market under sun and rain, chooking leg inside potor potor. Baby girls dey pick groceries from Ebeano. Well done ehn.

ibkayee:
Lool send your application in to be considered

Hope the food won’t be finished by the time my application is done being processed

But seriously though. It looks excellent. Well done

pocohantas:
Na Tonto Dike work be that.

Yo to eat that food, I’ll be Tonto for a day

Be very kind but treat people how they treat you. Don’t be a doormat for anyone.

ibkayee:
Father's Day nom nom

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Can I apply as a substitute father?

Dande55:
This is very cool. Never marry a man with less than 20m cash/investment

You people don’t want Nigerian boys to marry

Belafonte:
I’m intrigued when I read comments like this. So, if I have 20m in cash & investments, what value is the woman bringing to the table?

Do note, that I don’t think I’ll be ready for marriage if I don’t have 50m in cash & investments, but whoever I’m marrying has to be worth that 50m

The answer to your first question lies in your second paragraph. Whatever makes her worth 50m to you is the value she’s bringing to the table.

Remember, this proverbial table is the base where everything including but not limited to money is placed.

So nobody should marry again?
What percentage of Nigerians are rich and how much of this percentage are young men ready to get married?

Maybe you mean to say “don’t get married to someone who is not able to care for himself and sustain a family”. seeing as he will probably be looking for a woman to do all the ‘wifely’ things for him.
But being rich is not a requirement for that.

GboyegaD:
Dinner:
Jollof Rice, Mixed Veggies, Plantain, and Chicken.

all this goodness

I suspect you cheated on her at least emotionally.
The place where you state she attacked the ladies you were getting close to through text and calls means she saw something there.

fights with any female that comes close to me through calls or chats

Does that justify her actions? No.
Regardless of the type husband you are, if you’re a good father who poses no harm to your kids, you have rights to your kids. her taking them away because you guys fought is sort of equivalent to kidnapping. People just take laws into their own hands.

Attempt peaceful reconciliation but also keep tabs and documentation of these things she’s doing in case she wants to fight dirty. She has no right to take the children and walk away without proper legal steps.

Hathor5:
Fruit Bowl Part II

I’m moving in with you

Carchoice:
im still wondering what is really going on. Do people ask for help this way? Not once, not twice. I even promised to fix him up and I was damn serious about it. He didn't even exercise patience to see where it leads. And he was living and breathing before he linked with me his now ordained savior. The last call he made to me was he won't leave me that I should help him with phone

Short term satisfaction mentality
I bet if you try to set him up with a business or
something that’s meant to last for a while, he won’t be able to sustain it.

Candoit:
Let's just say he has found his help in times of need.

Until you teach him how to fish, he'd keep coming for more fish.

It’s not OPs responsibility to teach him how to fish

SweetCunt97:
She should leave d old man and focus on d new relationship. But why abort the pregnancy? D old man is simply a time waster.

He's probably chilling with his ex wife

If she’s really an ex wife

Will someone tell her that older man is not serious?
Introduction is not marriage.
Moreover he doesn’t want to start a family with her since he already has one.

I would have broken up with him ages ago. Don’t let time wasters dwell in your life.

DominusPrime:
Just checked. You are a married woman...let me come and be going...lol...

I don’t see how that affects the topic of discussion

But okay

DominusPrime:
If given the chance I def will

okay

Fountainofyouth:
In fact, they will be asking for the man's side of the story, very anyhow people,.

We all know this

Mariangeles:
Coco, I swear you head is there!

DominusPrime:
Then you, my dear, do not know how I reason.

Surprise me

DominusPrime:
God bless you richly for this but God bless your wife even more. I do not know up to 10 women that a man will marry and bring abroad and then she will become way more successful than her husband and yet still remain as humble as your wife. I say God bless her again and again. You are a very lucky man. Treasure her for the rest of your life.

Liposure:
That woman is a gem. Her type are hard 2 come by. Go and sin no more

Not that rare.Many such women abound. Many many.
You’re only believing this because it’s coming from a man’s perspective. Because that’s the only person you would believe.

If the woman in this story had come forward to complain about the man and the man while still in his unrepentant state countered her accusations, y’alls default position would be to doubt her.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Feel free to lick your screen.

I hope you stay and post more often

This looks delicious

I’m happy for you

Hathor5:
Reward for so many things well done this week. We all should reward ourselves for all the great work we do every day. Don't we always try to do our best?

I feel great today and I hope you all do too. Have a blessed weekend y'all.

We are impressed too

BlueRayDick:
Breakie is served : Rice + Beef & veggie stir fry + egg


I will not even lie, I'm impressed with myself on this one...Ọlọhun!...

Yampotatocarrot:
You are only trying to be wise by half. Your comments on the other thread showed that you believed he is guilty.

While we all stand against rape, what "evidence" will be used to nail him now? Or do you subscribe to the fact his reputation should be damaged even when there is no evidence to back the allegation?

If you can’t show a comment where I said he’s guilty, then please shut up.

Because I didn’t support his braggadocio means I think he’s guilty
Ask yourself why your default stance is to call accusers liars . Might tell you a thing or two about yourself

His actions after being accused will cause people to look at him suspiciously.
He didn’t help his case

zimunachimdi:
Eyàa. It is ok. Eji m gi ugwo ube

I will collect

zimunachimdi:
Ndi obodo oyibo adiro enwe ube?

Unfortunately no

OP you’re a lady and you’re 22 doesn’t mean can’t live by yourself.
Don’t let what anyone tells you limit you.

But like some posts have stated earlier, find something to keep you busy and give you money.

Sexyjigga:
Kudos on the great work

Thanks

TheSourcerer:
I didn't know you could do that lol

oh I can

Wasky101:
1)homemade asun and white rice
2)crab jollof rice with bbq chicken(so yummy d crab gave a whole different vibe to the jollof)

Crab jollof sounds divine.
Well done