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kunleweb:
I dey my own jeje you quoted me

Before you continue with the emotional tirade, I've never been discreet about my identity to you and our enmity. I also didn't dismiss your opinion and accorded you with respect and great civility in our interactions. I only asked you one thing to point out one instance alone where I derided women, or bashed ladies or treated y'all with disrespect. If you can atleast be as rational and intelligent as you claim, we will have a more meaningful conversation. Don't you agree?

kunleweb:
Hahaha you see why I keep saying you're seeing things that aren't there. Apart from the fact that I've consistently taunted cococandy as shiny skull over the years, I've never attacked her persona just like that and consider her to be a classy, strong, intelligent, independent, strong-willed woman, but doesn't mean I should bow to whining. No, I don't need validations trust me. I don't give a fvck.

ccffwx:
Cococandy, I just love you. You are an inspiration to women with self respect. Kudos!

uninspired07:
If these assertions are what you hold on to to justify your view that I am rude, then I wholeheartedly adopt & hold on to them.

Nobody will bully me to change my ideology. It took me many years to arrive at these conclusions & no emotional blackmail will make me abandon my beliefs.

Have a profitable rest of the day.

uninspired07:
OMG. I changed it to attention not politeness.

I apologize though if you’re hurt.

I have nothing to gain from being rude to women because it won’t change anything.

healthserve:
Too bad, menopause deems fit as the only/adequate panacea to wake them up, but in the meantime, men need to watch-out for the bitterness they'll be exuding from their self-inflicted conditions

healthserve:
Haha. Crack my ribs. The modern women has gotten mad from too much knowledge and cant separate reality from illusion

uninspired07:
I can’t believe that women on this thread will derail this thread and falsely allege that it’s a woman-bashing thread. There’s no evidence of such happening on this thread. Anyway, I thank all the women that have contributed to this thread. You have added further to gender related jurisprudence on NL.

healthserve:
As usual psychological instability. So you understand my own comment/beliefs/values more than me. Exactly what this thread points to. That actions and deeds are not always interpreted by women as they are,, but will always interpret things, albeit from a faulty internal mirror/psyche/logic/perspective.


Nice try trying to seek in gender-based differences.


If you must know, I'm from a fam of six ladies and have about 5 females around me under my mentorship. If it must please you to know, I've constantly being around, tutored, in career and in my business hire 70%ladies to men, cause of my belief in women empowerment, my default compass swings to choosing women and tutor them with the skills to do the job than hiring men with the already attained skills whenever I'm considering hiring. I've always been a pro-healthy men and women romantic relations.


So please permit me to have my views without subjecting me to some skewed illogical misinterpretations madam

uninspired07:
No. You’re wrong about this. I have come to accept that no amount of online bashing will change women. What we are seeing is who they are.

I just did this thread to sample other opinions about my approach to things. And believe you me, I appreciate all the contributions of the women on this thread.

No amount of online bashing will change women so what’s the point?

healthserve:
Too bad, menopause deems fit as the only/adequate panacea to wake them up, but in the meantime, men need to watch-out for the bitterness they'll be exuding from their self-inflicted conditions

bukatyne:
The smart ones ensures that never happens. What hold would they have over the woman?

uninspired07:
A man’s convictions & strength of character in Nigeria?

I rather stick to believe that a man’a value is tied to his economic value.

fykes:
If u have lived long enough u will notice that no matter how a person is, someone of d opposite sex must like and want them. Begging is a sign of weakness, women hate weakness in men.
Politeness is a virtue, virtues can't be wrong. Finally, a man's worth is not "intricately" connected to his economic value. That's a lie and an inadequate human view that breeds all d vices and monstrous attitudes we see in men today.
A man's value is in d depth of his convictions and the strength of his character.
A girl may not see this line of thought, a woman will definitely do and it's more than age- the difference between a girl and a woman.

healthserve:
Same here. Relationship flings both ways. Don't beg anyone even in marriage . I've also begged in the past and what I've noticed is excessive good manners areal ways abused by the recipients. Hold off excessive politeness is one of the key to maintaining a black woman thesedays. Good treatment is always and always and always considered weakness

uninspired07:
Rare coming from a female. Thanks.

uninspired07:
Exactly. I don’t even have any politeness to give to any woman, except my mother ( I know this will attract insults, but it’s just the fact). Thanks for your contribution.

uninspired07:
Thanks. But having to beg is a big issue with me. I can’t just bring myself to begging and chasing. I am getting too old for that.

Plead:
Wow. You’re good

Plead:
Who drew that stuff on your profile?

Akposy:
Not really. It is scarce and expensive here

breadplanets:
mirror gini.... Its just a simple naked cake jare

desire222:
Wow ! This is so amazing. Thank you dear.

desire222:
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sassysure:
This looks rich.

breadplanets:
All done

Akposy:
I'm still confused though (the temperature stuff) but I'll understand with time

I'll make Beefdodo

desire222:
This is yummycious. Please I am patiently waiting for the goat meat stew. Your cooking is one in a million. In fact you are the reason I always check the food section of nairaland.