₦airaland Forum

sassysure:

Brother mi, all work and no play in the kitchen makes cooking very boring na

apatheticme:
Nairalanders and double standards, spits#

She doesn't love her husband because she wants to leave, but if it was the other way round y'all be screaming different names at her already and telling the husband to send her packing!

And she will still be the one running from pillar to post to solve a problem the man plunged the home into, along with all her chores and roles at home

Women are really going through a lot

God punish all the hypocritical mysogynistic sanctimonious fools on this forum

Mtchewwwwww

Prestonn:
Village kitchen

Hot bubbling Banger soup...

Cucina dell'Africa

I ate mine with rice.... it was so delicious

Background music was... Peacock's Guitar Band - Eddie Quansa..

larryking540:
The question I keep asking is who will marry those baby Mama's?

Thegamingorca:
Wow...so pink and pretty

bukatyne:
Thanks a lot dear, just realized I had not done that.

eyinjuege:
Here we go..
Some hot asaro- yam porridge abi na Pottage? I dont know the difference abeg
I like mine with chunks of yam and thick. Some vegetable by the side- frozen ugu. Everyone had seconds

olabrinks:
Everything doesn’t have to be a gender war. The truth is that most women prefer financial security over sex especially as you age. At 45 you will not care about how long your husband lasts in bed, it’s more about the security he is providing for the family. But at 45, most men are still looking for one breast to squeeze. It is just the nature of man and woman. There’s no need to compete or argue about everything. Of course women love sex, but naturally we don’t place as much importance on it like men do, at least for the majority.

TonyeBarcanista:
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Anger, bitterness, frustration all in one post.


Submissive Wives
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-3082398/Three-submissive-wives-lift-lid-unique-marriages-reveal-believe-female-submission-key-happy-life.html

Feminist Wives
https://slate.com/news-and-politics/2006/03/why-feminist-wives-are-unhappy.html

https://thefederalist.com/2018/12/11/the-feminist-life-script-has-made-many-women-miserable-dont-let-it-sucker-you/


Yimu

midnighter:
Youre talking about "soft targets" rather than objective facts. We may not like it, we may not be comfortable with it, we may not accept it, yet its still permitted by tradition so its possible on first principles.

The one youre talking about is saying no, kicking against it, threatening divorce, calling family meeting and other things that you do to make your displeasure known. All of that may work, somewhere down the line.

But in the first place the point is that if youre not sleeping with the guy and you dont have a good reason (health, tiredness, temporary reaction for a perceived grievance) then if he comes up with another wife (not girlfriend o) as a solution, whats your argument against it?

TonyeBarcanista:
Not trying to patronise you but a wife with mentality like yours would not be hurt by a wise husband. Only a foolish man will have a wife that plays her role and would still think of getting a second wife.

My Dad's former boss is a Muslim wealthy man, and one time senior government official. This man, though a Muslim, refused to take second wife. He told his staff and subordinates that his reason is simply that all he desires in a woman js found in his wife. Even after his wife kicked the bucket, he has refused to remarry.

Sometimes when we advice woman to submit themselves to their husbands, many angry and bitter feminists misinterpret our position to enslavement. It is a fact that submissive women are happier wives, while "feministic" married women have terrible relationship, broken marriages and contentious home.

One sure fact is that the submissive wives are most times are the REAL power in the home. Even mothers at home act soft towards obedient child than a child that challenges their authority. God Almighty respond to people that recognises His Supreme Authority more than those that questions him.

midnighter:
Its just a fact of life that men are permitted to take multiple wives but not vice versa.

If withholding of sex for an extended period without any solution is the sole reason for the man doing this then the wife only has herself to blame.

TonyeBarcanista:
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The rants of a bitter feminist is not unexpected!

The dowry and other marriage rites are not just mere exchange of money and items, they have significance (in case you don't know ask the elders in your village-that is if you are even in touch with your root).

A wise woman would do what is appropriate so as not to give her husband reasons to seek alternative to her (another WIFE) especially when his tradition or faith permits him to.

You can hit your head on the wall and rant all you like but IT CHANGES NOTHING

TonyeBarcanista:
A man is permitted to marry as much as he desires. A woman that desire such privilege should first ensure she pays the dowry of the man she is "marrying".


A woman that withholds sex is already failing her conjugal duty except when it has to do with health and stress...

Though I consent that sometimes it could be employed as temporal measure to force the man address her grievances, but beyond that it is pure act of irresponsibility.

A woman that claims to value her home and still proceed to deny her man sex may learn the hard way!

If you don't agree with this, STAY UNMARRIED!

DonFreshmoney:
But I don't understand why a girl should be walking down a street alone at night... where are her parents? I blame them for not taking good care of her..

Bedwyr:
The problem was that she took a shortcut in the night....had she been walking in an area with people, she would have been much safer.

Also, there are times when we have to go out in the night....

Prestonn:
Village kitchen


Panettone..... you can also call it sweet bread or cake, containing dried fruit.

Ishilove:
'My friend' on Nairaland is usually 'me' in actuality

Ishilove:
Oh okay. I thought someone here said it's a sign of infertility on the woman's part but it seems I misread it.

Thanks!

highbee02:
It's quite an age. Honestly, the wife has not been able to conceive and the husband was even crying while narrating the story.

Ishilove:
Is sperm flowing out normal?

highbee02:
Recently, a friend complained bitterly. Sperms usually flow out of the vaginal after sexual intercourse, now he's regretting marrying the lady. Though, I advised him to take her to a Federal Medical Centre where the cost will be relatively cheap since the husband is a federal civil servant.