Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 5:39pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
Akposy: I guess the second pics is veggie panacit. The lemon is the bitter agent? It wasn’t actually bitter. I don’t know how she made it but it was lovely |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 5:39pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 5:06pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
Masking: Does that say 16 ugly sweater cookies  I don't c d icecream Yes ugly sweater cookies for the kids to design and eat. The ice cream was in the freezer |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 4:26pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
Hehe  Amen sister peacefulhome: Who did I offend to have sent cococandy to torment me like this?
Merry Xmas sister. May we all live to see many more. |
Family › Re: Dear Men, Please Don't Date Or Marry A Broke Woman. by cococandy(f): 2:42pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
Anywhere belle face  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 2:39pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
FloraEC: Merry Christmas I just want the brownies and ice cream especially the ice cream. cutiereborn: Jollof rice and ice cream please.....  Two sweet ‘tooths’. Cutie that jollof rice finished at the party. No left overs  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 2:37pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
Thanks love loveymom: Merry Christmas to you and yours.
That was much food, the Jollof looks enticing. |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 2:37pm On Dec 21, 2019*. Modified: 5:07pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
Prestonn: You can Mami.... and also that bottle of jack Daniel  You too?  We need a cocktail thread. I’m not saying I’m an alcoholic or anything like that but  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 2:04pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
Look who’s talking.  Can I exchange some of those cookies with maybe the Mac ‘n’ cheese and chicken? Prestonn: Just kill me |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 2:02pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
deuzgreat: Where's freecocoa? Only God knows why you’re asking me but I hope she’s doing amazing wherever she is. |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 2:01pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 1:37pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
Teespice: Merry Christmas.
I can't wait for the Limo.  |
Romance › Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by cococandy(f): 1:36pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
JONNYSPUTE: ..But she made sense talking to some certain kind of ladies. sorry you won’t understand where my irritation with the post is coming from. Merry Christmas |
Romance › Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by cococandy(f): 1:31pm On Dec 21, 2019*. Modified: 4:27pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
JONNYSPUTE: .. Let's digest the message and discard the messenger. nothing to digest here |
Romance › Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by cococandy(f): 1:30pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
The problem I have with that OP is that it undervalues the contributions of the stay home partner. Having warm food and clean clothes ready for your partner every day is not easy. If he thinks she’s just maid, let him employ someone and pay them to do that every day. Many men actually do expect to have a woman who does all as stated in the OP for them yet manages to be out in the career world doing as much as he does too. It’s unrealistic. The earlier they choose which it’s going to be the better for everyone. There’s no end to threads pulling women in every different direction as to what it means to be a good woman. One day housewives are awesome because they prioritize the needs of the man over their personal aspirations. The next day they are sloths and leeches depending on men for their livelihoods. Anything to diss on women. And for me, it’s not so much the articles themselves that are irritating (I understand people will have preferences) but it’s just more irritating when the same set of dimwits are the ones all the over the place on each thread as long as the purpose for that day is to see how well they can insult women. Just watch them. Mindfulness: In scenarios such as the OP created, the person who develops himself or herself doesn't start off with the intention of using someone to dump them later. They often start with someone who is at their level but since it is only one person developing himself/herself, they outgrow the stagnating partner and replace them later on with someone more suitable. They didn't plan it from the beginning. They developed and changed so OP's message to ladies to have something going on for themselves instead of waiting for a man to make a difference in their lives is a good message since we have too many ladies thinking that marriage is the ultimate and only goal in their lives not realizing that there is more to life than marriage and that a good relationship consists of two people willing to grow independently and together. If a lady wants a high quality man, she must be high quality too. It's not enough to look pretty and often men do not even go for the prettiest ladies but women who add value to their lives, more value than a maid could add. |
Romance › Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by cococandy(f): 1:12pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by cococandy(f): 1:09pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
Too disingenuous to link the author on the OP? Even though it’s trash lavylilly: Agreed |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 12:52pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
Sadly there was no fufu. I didn’t want to do too much all by myself this time. Which is why I had my ladies bring stuff and I only made a few things.
Nevertheless, everyone was satisfied.
Merry Christmas everyone |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 12:48pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
The guys brought the drinks and I made a sangria out of the red wines
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 12:46pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
Baked chicken My best friend brought Mac and cheese and veggie pancit ( hers tastes better than mine  ) And another friend brought seafood Alfredo with salmon
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 12:42pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
Christmas party done and dusted.
Jollof and fried plantains Green bean and ground turkey casserole Cheesecake ( store bought) and home made Brownies served with ice cream for the kids
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 12:32pm On Dec 21, 2019*. Modified: 1:38pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
Looks delish: job well done yes you can bake rice Akposy: Yam and garden egg sauce...
The yam was bitter (some parts). After begging the woman to sell yam 200 for me, she refused o. She nearly kill me with bad eyes o. The yam no even sweet sef.... SMH The sauce was bae...used smoked fish and fresh pepper
@Prestonn and Cococandy. Do they bake rice? I'm confused o
@BrilliantF. Abeg make I pass my plate?
@Loveymom. Yummy. What's it called
@Nneuka. Seems it's Okro soup week |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 12:31pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
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Art, Graphics & Video › Re: Stephens Arrt Draws Anthony Joshua: A Nairalander's Photorealistic Drawing by cococandy(f): 11:42am On Dec 21, 2019 |
Excellent job OP |
Family › Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by cococandy(f): 11:35am On Dec 21, 2019 |
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 11:00pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
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Family › Re: Zimbabwean Mother-in-law Demands Sex From Son-in-law by cococandy(f): 10:57pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Demands  |
Family › Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by cococandy(f): 9:45pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Teespice: onye nkem. Same to you hun .
How far your box? I wasn't joking. What box?  |
Family › Re: Does The Vagina Revert Back To Normal? by cococandy(f): 7:08pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Logobenz: says who?  Says who? Probably should be said by every woman who’s life is on the line during child birth and the man who claims to care about her. |
Crime › Re: Boss Rapes His 21-year-old Virgin Sales Girl (graphic Photos) by cococandy(f): 6:22pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
mimimile93: If you won't open legs for him, don't collect his gifts. If you have spent on her and she doesn't let you fvk, rape her. This nonsense frm gals must stop What a sad thing |
Crime › Re: Boss Rapes His 21-year-old Virgin Sales Girl (graphic Photos) by cococandy(f): 6:21pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Rape is terrible. In any form.
Virgin, non-virgin, boy, girl, woman, man. |
Family › Re: Can A Man Force His Wife To Go On Low Cut? by cococandy(f): 6:16pm On Dec 20, 2019*. Modified: 8:06pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Dan2000: Its not because of budget. I was just wondering why a woman can't go for a low cut since her man likes it. If she wants you to start braiding your hair to please her would you? It doesn’t matter if she liked it before, if she doesn’t like it now then you should be fine with it. it’s her body. She has autonomy over her body. Her style. Her outfits. Whatever makes her feel good about herself. Personal autonomy over body is something everyone is entitled to. Tastes change over time. All you can be is supportive or suggest what you prefer but never force . It’s up to her to decide whether or not to go along with your preferred style. Creating problems where there are none |