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DenreleDave:
I think doing wedding is a bad idea. How can you spend your life savings on a woman when then end result is children and responsibilities. As in, I have seen many ladies that have been bleeped and bleeped several times, several body counts. So one man will come and spend his life saving on such woman.

How can a man spend all the money he has saved on a lady who is a virgin or not a virgin sef when he will still have to cater for responsibilities after wedding?

As in, my guys for there carry lady come sleep anyhow and later later, another man go carry this lady, wan kill himself untop her, they run helter skelter on top her. What do we guys tend to benefit in marriage, is it not just sex and probably kids (kids is both advantage for men n women) but again you get to carry responsibilities upandan.

I'm beginning wedding or even marriage is a scam sef, it's way of bringing a man into slavery.

Maybe baby mama is the way out, I'm beginning to reason with some guys Here on nairaland oooo.. Baby mama things

Guys wake up, I think this marriage and wedding only favors women, we men are at big disadvantage aswear


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Prestonn:
Someone is scared

Prestonn:
I like it rare.. just give a try, you might prefer it.

I don't eat the ones that stay too long on fire

sassysure:
The name meatpie don cut my heart

I hate making that.
And today is meatpie day.

Prestonn:
Their shape are always lovely

No body wan eat chicken again oh, still in the refrigerator. You can have this

Prestonn:
Basil and Origano i can perceive the aroma from my end

loveymom:
And ship to me too

fairfora:
For your information, I'm more informed on this case than you think. I heard of it in less than 24 hours after it happened. You're just getting to know about it obviously . It's stale news already. No excuse for murder and yes, but in case you have a maid, even if its 10k you agreed , his/her own life could depend on that. Pay as promised to avoid impending dangers to you and your family. Its same crime-related story we hear everyday. I've heard of a maid who put her mistress' baby inside a freezer and ran away. She later sent a message that, the woman was owing her salary but refused to pay. Another incident happened at Daniel estate in yaba where the maid broke into the house and made away with expensive jewelry and sold it for millions of naira. When caught she said her madam was wicked because she refused to pay her 3 months arrears which the woman agreed to, the woman said it was because she was rude to her and she wanted to use that as a means of punishing her....how rude could she have been? Her salary was 30k.

Again, about 2 months ago inside one Isheri estate in Lagos, one stupid woman locked a maid up in an abandoned house and left for church. This maid had not eaten for over 24 hours and was crying for help in the house. Thanks to the neighbour who came feeding the maid and broke the door open. Channels tv was Ivited to cover the scene because the house was also close to their station. The idiot of a woman never knew the phone was on speaker when she was contacted. She said and so? Channels have always been covering such news as its not new to her. The woman is in soup as we speak. Had the maid had the opportunity or access a knife or gun, the needful would have been said and somebody like you could have been done and someone like you could have been blaming the maid....give to to people what belongs to them as promised and you could save yourself and family of any danger. Same applies to business contracts or agreements. It's that simple. Some people are ruthless, they don't value their own lives let alone the life of others. We can always avoid needless trouble

Charly68:
Bitter and painful as it stands,why are the rich so wicked ? They always owe those they ought to be helping..they would repair their cars but won't pay on time,send people on odd jobs but won't settle them on time..many of them owe their drivers gardeners etc .It is very bad

fairfora:
Sad. My candid advice...all those artisans working for us must be treated with respect because they too are human beings. We should endeavour to pay them promptly as agreed because their whole life might depend on their wages . The devil could easily use them, should we renege on our promises to them. Most of them do not value life.

seborrhic:
No excuse for d murder but why owe him a patry N160k?
The tendency for some people of means to owe their labourers their due wages is condemnable.
Everyone should learn from this,much as it's no justification for d murder.

loveymom:
Love it more

Make meatpie na

Mindfulness:
I am here to let them know.

Mindfulness:
Tell your husband that the people who will be harmed the most in the process will be the children.

Mindfulness:
In the store where I buy them, they are in the fridge. Then you put them in the oven for 12-15 minutes and et voila!

loveymom:
Porridge plantain with Gizzard

Mindfulness:
Baguette with herb butter from the oven.

sassysure:
Nri ndì bekee

sassysure:
Let me vent small

This thread has suffered for my hand

So, I was called yesterday by my bòbò school to bring changing clothes.
I have to go home and pack new set of school uniform.

Don't ask me what happened.

I still dey vex

I preached and preached that yesterday and he was nodding his head like a good boy.
So today was mufti day.
As soon as I landed, the teacher said, sorry o.

I'm sure school was scared of calling me again.
So he was given a trouser from wherever to wear.
We got home and I opened his school bag to see this.

After all my preaching?
What is wrong with these children?

sassysure:
Yes but not tasted. Will love to but i have never been to an asian shop.
Commented on your seaweed salad or something back then.
U can check that out.
I have forgotten about it until I saw your post.

Mariangeles:
Come eat with me .

sassysure:
How does seaweed taste?

Seaweed soup for birthdays with eel and octupus. These people can eat anything. I have given up on east Asians.

When u think u have seen it all
It's even a delicacy.

See popular celebrities eating this thing like there is no tomorrow

Imagine walking into a restaurant to demand for hot and spicy chicken feet

truthsayer009:
Yes, the 2nd time.

Yet some guys can’t find wives -- A man in a good financial state will always find a woman willing to marry him, Ugly or not.

Acidosis:
Beautiful and nice stuff Coco

Welcomme:
Unless the man is a broke ass (as highly broke ass). Even if he is broke ass self, he go still see person wey just dey desperate to marry. (you know Nigerians with the 'I must marry mentality of some girls that make them desperate). So even shatta Bundle self, if he is ready to marry today, millions of girls are queuing to marry him.

truthsayer009:
You mean Adams Oshiomole?

TheArchangel:
This guy was single handedly raised by his mother while his father was wallowing in wealth. Now he is demonising his mother for the neglect he suffered from his father. I don't get it.

Most Nigerian women will most certainly prefer to cry in Benz than to wallow in poverty but your mother choose the safe option for her sanity and kid's sake. If you want to make peace with your father, kindly go ahead but do not belittle the sufferings of your mother to appease your conscience.


Imagine after the marital abandonment, I risked being demonised by the kids I suffered for

I hate abortion but this thread is making me to lean towards pro-choice.
Ladies beware . If you have had the babies already, start keeping tabs, school fees receipts, messages sent to him for assistances, your child's memorable moments on videos, the time he was contacted for his helps and the excuses he gave. Whether justifiable or not, put it down somewhere.
Keep a ledger of the financial helps you received from him.
Let your evidence fight for you before they use your sufferings to demonize you .

Logobenz:
yeah yeah for real.
So good....