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Logobenz:
Tightness nko?

Teespice:
Go back to your post and read it slowly, then come back and edit your comment.

Prognose:
How did she attack the man? Read what she wrote again.

pocohantas:
Definitely not by him, he is a very rational male. I am just impressed at how the thread is moving peacefully, you don't see ladies occupying the whole thread to insult guys. Turn the table, someone like Tosyne2much and his cohorts will land to insult ladies.

Prestonn:
Swishing to drink section gonna be the best idea

Phoenix999:
Speak with facts and your brain pls

Phoenix999:
It is unfortunate you fall for all the lies propagated by the radical left and their media cohorts.

I am neither in any of the categories you mentioned above yet I am fully against the impeachment because it lacks transparency, is divisionary, purely partisan and very hypocritical.

With regards to Trump-hating blacks... that is a completely false narrative sold by the radical leftists and the false media. Check the stats, there are more employed blacks under Trump than there has ever been in the entire history of America. more jobs for Hispanics and the economy keeps on soaring, even better than Obama.

Trump hates no one but merely wants the best for his Country and places America first!!!

muyinet:
Remember...if your ever allowed yourself to be persuaded by any Doctor to remove it surgically, you are a goner.

Never say you were not warned

sassysure:
The mistake she made was that she should have started early to ascertain her right and respect.

When u u want to please and belong, this is how it usually end.
Also the husband isn't that smart. He should be seen in public eyes as neutral. Don't entertain shit.
Council and admonish them separately.
By the way, why can't they leave them alone.
Very jealous people.

Anifaza:
Thanks for your input. I truly appreciate. It all started in my ist year of marriage when I had my baby and still in school. My mum came to look after baby and few months later, I took in again of which I left baby with mum while I continued schooling.
They accused my hubby of allowing my mother to be the only one taking care of baby and not them. That in their tradition, mothers of wife have no say and influence in family affairs. This was a major issue and still is. While in my culture, nothing of such as we see nothing wrong here. They disrespect my mother till date because of this. I have caught one twice giving my mother bad eye.
2ndly, a distant relative came with high risk pregnancy with fibroid and I asked she comes to seek medical help and go back, when she came, it was war in my house that it is forbidden in their culture for a pregnant woman to come to another man's house which she's not pregnant for. She later left but loads of issues after this.
My in-laws come anytime even with their children .Every other week and weekend is in my house.
My husband will not take us out unless they are around.
Hubby's lil sis but older than me lived with me for 5 years and that's where the whole wahala persisted with her giving information. I began to see their collaboration through her and frustrated me to the very letter.
We had a fight and hubby asked her to leave. They all ganged up not to talk to me or hubby again which hubby is feeling alienated.
Hubby said his position is threatened in his family and I am the cause. I took care of his older sister who had complication in her surgery for 6 months in my house, non of them came to visit her in my house nor call me. Rather , She got well and told others that I didn't give her food that was why when one called her and she said she was in a restaurant to eat. Hubby and I had issue on this.
I am so fed up . I work and I contribute significantly in the family.
They see me as the one who eats their brother's money alone.
Hubby takes great financial care of them. I am just tired.

Vyolet:
They are coming back, interesting times ahead on family session, still expecting others.

Anifaza:
Please pardon me for using a new moniker as I am quite known here.

Friends and family, I really need your sincere and matured input on this matter.

  I have been married for over 10 years with 4 kids. My hubby is a great guy save for this area that we will never agree.
 
 
    I have sisters-in-law who have vowed never to give me peace despite all my efforts to give peace a chance.  Most of them are all older than him and sort of influences his decision that affects my marriage greatly.

    From the beginning, it has been if I am in their good books, my marriage will work and I will be happy, then if not, reverse will be the case.

  My husband has refused to see all their manipulations and always tell me that he grew up with them and so he is indebted to them. I have never tried to cause a separation between them but they usually see me as an intruder to their unity.

   For these 10 years plus, it has always been the issue,  I have begged, used gifts,  apologised ,sought for forgiveness from them  for sins I have not committed just for peace to reign yet, the next problem will be bigger than the previous.

    Some are married while some are not. The worst that affect me most is the married ones with children.

   Now, they all don't talk to me and this is affecting my marriage. Hubby gives me cold shoulders, no sex asking me to mend the relationship with his sisters  of which I am fed up with the whole thing and I don't want to beg again.
   My mind is made up that everyone should stay on their own. Hubby is the only male, seems to be the only one doing well  and parents are no more
  Please what do I do?

Mods front page please for more inputs.

sassysure:
He is still lucky.
If na me be her parent, I will write to the consulate of that country u are in that u abducted my daughter, married her against her wish and family. We will deny knowing you.

U think the parents can't destroy your hustle?
Mumu.

U are a Yoruba boy and yet u can't prostrate to your father in law. What an over inflated ego.

That mumu girl should remember that when the going gets tough, it's still her parents at the end of the day.
If your spouse disrespect your parents this way, is it u that he will respect as time goes on. Let him get what he is looking for and he will tell you that u are nothing( can deal with you as he likes knowing fully well u don't have the support of your family)
Whom will u cry to when it start?
Cos it must happen. U are a means to an end. He never loved you. Hormones that was high will come down.
I pity you.
Nigerian babes don't ever listen.

Femsyn:
While this seems like a "problem", I'm concerned at the rate at which marital problems are shared here, especially very trivial issues.

I don't get... Do you lots expect an eldorado kinda marriage. Issues will keep popping up, and it's your duty to trash them out, else, maybe you ain't ready for marriage yet.

The issue here is too trivial. Deal with it.

Prestonn:
The chicken was too strong, I don't like strong chicken

Hope I'm invited, make I con finish the food.... Be advise, them nor dey put me in charge of meat section
during party

sassysure:
U bought CHEONGJU, the clear wine. Not really as popular as the milky one TAKJU. This one is the one they use in dramas and family reunion. SOJU is the kaikai type of it.
Check out the name if u want to try it again.

But that your first post is very funny. Was wondering how your face will look like

sassysure:
The ones I see in Korean dramas is like our pamì.
This one u are badmouthing like this, it must be really bad
Ndo

Can be sweet and sour or even bitter. Just like palm wine

ogbonti:
E pain am ....

And you making sweeping generalizations that nursing comes with 3 work days and all benefits is wrong too by your own admission here.

DO ALL NURSES WORK FOR 3 DAYS? sabi sabi answer me?

You are accusing me I am generalizing when you are doing exactly what you accused me of

ogbonti:
Yes I dated a nurse was used by me in this thread to make u understand I have a baseline knowledge of what’s going on in the nursing field. Even if I were a certified Registered Nurse, what difference does it make? You being a nurse does not mean you know everything going on with nursing in all states, all cities and all fields in the USA. So you can’t even meet the standard of knowledge you are attempting to set here just to cast a shadow of doubt about my assertionS

In this age of huge information overload and overflow, do you actually need to work in a field to know what’s going on there? Nope! All you need is having a curious mind to do your research and it gets easier when you have live witnesses to corroborate your findings so you can make an informed conclusion. So you go sleep inside gutter!

Prestonn:
Village kitchen

Oven baked basmati jollof rice

Didn't eat the chicken tho. Very strong

abbey621:
Watch less CNN and pay attention to economic and financial numbers. Trump's revenge is going to be an easy reelection

abbey621:
Lol....You don't know what's going on over here