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AjalaDtraveller:
My vegetable soup. The ponmo, dry fish and stock fish are hiding inside but the snail and goat meat did show up.
Side note : I hope a got a pass for healthy eating dear balanced diet crew?

doitforyou:
This is really beautiful, your house looks like a Hallmark Christmas movie set!

doitforyou:
Coco, this is beautiful. I love how the ribbon is draped on the tree, mine always look like the ribbon is suffocating the tree.

The Elf

Readonee35L:
Damn.
This is Inhumane.

To think the person who did this is walking around freely amongst other people and acting sane.

You never know who's sitting next to you in that bus or restaurant.
Could be a freak or psycho .

We need to be very careful.
Make God protect us.

dollytino4real:
must everything be made open on socialmedia? that is discipline

Logobenz:

No longer buying food and so far I've seen how expensive it is.
You neglect that 2k but when it's compiled you get to see that it is so much money.
Some women can be a blessing....
And oh I'm so lucky to have her.

Mindfulness:
The process that leads to such conclusions and confusion is something else.

Arsenate:
You literally used the phrase "low substance pussy" to describe women of certain class the other day.

How do you really live with your two-faced self?

CsRockefeller:
I'm sorry if my comments were inslultive to the female folks, I was just pouring out my observation.

It doesn't make it a fact/theory. Just my observations.

I appreciate and love the female gender so much.

CsRockefeller:
I really don't blame them. With my interaction with the opposite sex since birth I've found out that they are too fickle, easily manipulated and too emotional.

Any gender that exhibits such is a receipe for disaster. Only few have the ability to scrutinize and rationalize things.

It makes me worry for my sisters and daughters if I would have one.

I know what I see everyday, it's a pity, many more will fall into this suituation.

phillippians:
I have no pity for most single mothers. They caused their ordeal. Why won't you be rejected when you will ignore responsible guys and be after looks and swag, how handsome he is, if he has pink lips or not, then go about spreading their legs apart for a an irresponsible fine boy who continue to enrich their pussies with his baby making fluids, women are too carried away with looks, ever ready to get down with "Ramsey Noah" looking kinda of kinds even though he has nothing in his bank account. Why won't he dissapointe you and run away, is it a fine boy who can barely Carter for his own needs what will add a baby mama and her child to his expenses? Fish-brain women, they think everything is all about LOVE LOVE LOVE until reality teach them money is more important!

Sanchez01:
@iamme1234, it is possible wifey is enduring 'hardship' in the other room and it might or have made her see sex as a task. I think you should communicate often with her. Although I don't know how open you both are to exploring but it wouldn't be a bad idea if you start looking for other ways to make her get more involved.

True, it is possible that you are packed down there but the issue here bothers around 'using' it. Most packed dudes can't really use their thing at its finest hour as they think all it takes is to pound like a pestle would a mortar.

In place of discomfort, I'm sure she has other areas of interests, places she'd love to be touched while you also source materials on using the rod and thy staff properly. There are tons of materials online. Wish I could share the ones I have though.

Also, do not destroy your home because of sex. You admitted having a peaceful and beautiful home and it should remain that way, biko. Any other relationship outside of marriage is a disaster. Your duty is to your wife and hers to you. If you feel she is falling short in certain areas, it wouldn't be bad if you compromise and help her alleviate the pain by exploring other possibilities.

If intimacy has been missing before now, now would be the best time to reinvent and bring it back.

Mindfulness:
I didn't want to post on this thread because something tells me OP is trolling but reading the comments about sex on this and other threads today made me realize that sex education is very much needed in this country. It was just a matter of time till someone would blame the wife for not enduring painful penetration to stop her husband from cheating.

OP, unless you don't have a penis that is the size of a horse's penis, you don't do it right. You have to get your woman aroused and wet before you penetrate her. She needs pre-intimacy and she needs to be entirely relaxed. Women need time to get in the mood. There is nothing like a too tight vagina. It is a muscle and it can adapt to the size of your penis. After all, we push babies from there. Maybe your wife needs a lubricant for the sex to be less painful because she does not produce enough vaginal lubrication on her own. Try it out. There are very nice lubricants you can possibly get online with different fragrances and flavors. You can use them during pre-intimacy. It will make the experience more sensual.

If this doesn't work out, go and see a gynecologist. There are medical conditions that can lead to the effects you have described. Why you haven't thought of that before you decided to stray is beyond me. And while you are at it get both tested for STDs since you are a cheater sleeping with someone who has appetite for sex. Who know who else your lover is sleeping with/slept with. You never know.

And now I want to see everyone from the thread "She married an old-fashioned man" to come and tell OP off. How dare he demand sex from his wife? And the rest from the thread "What do women have to offer" you are invited too. The drinks are on me. Cheers!

doitforyou:
You should know when someone types “worst president in US history in Obama” a President that took America out of a recession? You know you’re not dealing with a rational person. Her post has right wing website written all over it. It’s copy and paste from right wing websites, it’s only them that argue in superlatives.

doitforyou:
Ha! decorating tips lol. The tree comes already decorated with lights, I just stretch it out, no ornaments, that’s it! I was looking forward to your pics.

JERRY1925:
Sometimes when a man genuinely love you.. He wants you just to himself. Your body becomes his pride.. Because in most cases that's the only thing a man values in a woman .. It's priceless knowing you have a girl or a wife no other man can touch.
It's priceless knowing u have a girl u can leave for weeks and she's intact.
But for women it's different, u don't really value our body that much.. U value our possessions, our future.. Our strength and if we fall short, u change course.

Well, to my answer.. If u truly love your man.. Stay away from your friend...stay so far away.
Give your man some month..prove to him you've stayed far. Prove to him it won't happen again..you can do this, by giving yourself time to heal and also giving him some space to miss u. He will come around. But give him time to think. And don't give him room for second thought.

Built2last:
Those who are expressing outrage at the festival of nepotism President Buhari has just demonstrated Sowore, also with the replacement of the Southern head of FIRS and and that of AMCON with Northerners are either lying to themselves or they are lying to us. Either way, their outrage is devoid of sincerity.

Buhari is one of the most consistent men on earth. Consistent in evil. And he has always been an open book. Everything he's doing today are things he's always been doing publicly both in words and in deeds long before becoming President. His records have always been there for even the blind to see.

All through his three previous attempts at the presidency, Buhari never hid the fact that he harbors deep seated disdain for people who are not from his own region and religion. He demonstrated this by restricting his presidential campaign mostly to the North. Even when he picked southern running mates, he still didn't go round the South to campaign but he campaigned in all parts of the North.

Before the 2015 Poll, the ex soldier was repeatedly making known his position on every burning issues. For example, on security, he made it clear that Boko Haram terrorists represent his North and as such, any attack on them was an attack on the North. This was enough to let every honest Nigerian know how he would treat any security problem caused by people who share his region and religion.

On corruption, he told us all that the Nigerian most corrupt leader, Sani Abacha under whom he (Buhari) served and whose loot is still being returned to the country even as I type, was not corrupt. This statement was enough guide for anyone genuinely interested in knowing how the former military dictator would treat acts of corruption perpetrated by his close friends and allies especially those from his part of the country who pray toward mecca.

On desperation for power and zero regard for human life, Buhari showed us all we needed to see when he contested the 2011 Poll on the platform of a little known now defunct Congress For Progressive Change (CPC) and predictably lost but refused to accept the result and incited his supporters into butchering innocent Nigerians. Even when the then President Jonathan govt pleaded with him to just make a statement condemning the post election killing with the hope that his supporters will 'decode' such a statement as a 'cease fire' instruction, Buhari vehemently refused. In the end, over 800 souls perished. All because he lost a Presidential election he stood no chance of winning in the first place. How can anyone with a functioning brain expect such a man to care about the lives of Nigerians?

Even on religious extremism, intolerance and bigotry, Buhari left no one guessing as he went on making ill-adviced divisive statements.

Most worthy of note is the fact that every single horrible thing Buhari is doing today, he did them 3 decades ago when he ruled with a loaded gun and a suspended Constitution. Please ask question and do some research.

So those filling my ear with faux outrage over the continuation of the Northernization agenda, wetin be una own, biko? What were you expecting?

Quite frankly, Buhari is a mistake no sane person ought to have made.

sassysure:
That's Korea. Grandmother of ramyun. Others dey learn where they are
These people are notorious for eating spicy stuffs
Samyang is the name of the company.
U no dey fear o. U want to kii yourself
That's one of their hottest.

sassysure:
Butter
I no do
Make I still dey look and pass

Coco, there are many alternative
That means na only me go chop am be that na.
All these oyibo veggies sef, they get k leg.
Na so I cook with coriander, it just spoiled my food.