Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 2:50pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
sholay2011: Is that Shin Ramyun noodles? It’s Samyang. They are probably made by the same Asian noodle company. It’s sooo spicy beware. In case you were planning on getting it.
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Food › Re: Food Section Derailer’s Paradise: All Food Lovers Are Welcome by cococandy(op): 2:45pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
doitforyou: No lol I’m very lazy, I’m the last to decorate last to take down. My 2019 Christmas tree came down in March! However, I plan to do it before this weekend.
Is your tree real or artificial? I have been using the same artificial tree for years now. I’m last to take down too. I just like Christmas too much  Mine’s artificial. I plan to use it for years and years. We’ve had it for like 4 or 5 years now. Do share some decorating tips when you have the time. We are not done yet. |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 2:01pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
Noodle soup Plead: Which kind watery noodles be this na  |
Family › Re: It's Dangerous To Be Full Housewives, NGO Tells Women by cococandy(f): 2:00pm On Dec 11, 2019*. Modified: 6:56pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
Does what the woman want for herself matter in any of this? Also no one is created for stress. Man or woman mutaalim: Naturally, women are not created for stress all what they need of soft environment
People will say what a man can do women will do better
Forget that, is it possible to see a woman climbing street light pole for light disconnection!? Lastly most great/intellectual people, please find out about their upbringing is mostly by their women /mother.
Everyone has a specific role to carry out In some countries women are not allowed to work, Their major work is at home and get paid salaries /wages.
Such environment will be peaceful
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 1:58pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
sassysure: Is broccoli sweet? I look at it and pass  Nope. I had to learn to eat it for its benefits |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 6:49am On Dec 11, 2019 |
rentAcock: Thanks bro, the truth hurts and I know the poster above posted noodle pics to protest but at least shrimps, eggs and broccoli were added for some nutritional value. Come this new year, I will post pics of nutritious alternatives to all the carbs and empty caloric foods I see here. I would love to see that. And maybe learn a few things too. I’m speaking sincerely. Sometimes one gets bored of eating the same things over and over hence your healthy alternatives would be most welcome. You don’t have to put others contributions down in order to make a positive contribution. I love this thread. It’s special to me. So no negative vibes please. Come with the food pictures. If you can even start posting this holiday season that would be great. That way, we can have new ideas of healthy sides to add to our party staples. Let’s just not make it like a “I’m healthy and you guys are not” kind of thing. |
Food › Re: Food Section Derailer’s Paradise: All Food Lovers Are Welcome by cococandy(op): 6:41am On Dec 11, 2019 |
doitforyou: Cococandy, is your tree up? Yes dear . it is  And some other decor. We put them up before thanksgiving because we went out of state for thanksgiving and I love my tree to be up on the morning after thanksgiving. How about you? |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 12:06am On Dec 11, 2019 |
Spicy noodles . Come join 
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Family › Re: This Is An Ugly Truth Of Life by cococandy(f): 12:01am On Dec 11, 2019 |
Okay smartolala: I got your opinion, eating on the floor was her choice,after my mom refused to let her eat in her room,to avoid being isolated from everyone. |
Family › Re: This Is An Ugly Truth Of Life by cococandy(f): 10:31pm On Dec 10, 2019 |
I feel like this post is just advocating treating maids like trash. Sit on the floor to eat while others eat on the table? That’s not normal in any world but you know your world best.
Anyone who’s nasty will sooner than later show you their true colors no matter how well you treat them. Just be professional in your dealings with employees. No unnecessary boundaries being crossed and you will most likely be fine. If not, terminate the work relationship ASAP.
But don’t use subhuman treatment as a tool to keep employees in check. |
Family › Re: It's Dangerous To Be Full Housewives, NGO Tells Women by cococandy(f): 10:26pm On Dec 10, 2019 |
So if a man is not “gainfully” employed. And the woman makes more money than he does, can we ask him to stay home and take care of the home since his work is not bringing in enough money to justify him leaving the house everyday? Note that I haven’t said none of you made sense with your post. It’s just obvious that we treat career fulfillment (whether monetarily gainful or not) as an option for women but a necessity for men. Think about it. mutaalim: If both parties are busy working, who will take care of the home? Regards bukatyne: For the OP to make sense, the woman must be gainfully employed.
If all she makes is just enough to survive, what will she save? What will be the benefit of working? Acidosis: Same thing I tell those who care to listen. I've personally advised some women to quit some senseless jobs and go sit at home.
The line between gainful employment and slavery/financial f00lishness is very thin. |
Crime › Re: Lady Set On Fire By Her Yahoo Boyfriend Over Infidelity, Dies (Video) by cococandy(f): 8:32pm On Dec 10, 2019 |
Does that comparison make sense to you? Obiaksnews: If you are saying no one should blame her for the choices she made, does that also cover people who go into kidnapping, armed robbery and ritual killings because of poverty ? What ever choices we make in life, we should be ready to face the consequences even though some of those choices were made under duress, that's life. |
Crime › Re: Lady Set On Fire By Her Yahoo Boyfriend Over Infidelity, Dies (Video) by cococandy(f): 8:26pm On Dec 10, 2019 |
You’re actually more concerned about the cheating than the murder. Says a lot. livinbygrace: The guy”s action is totally unacceptable and insane .He should be punished ,but truth be told most of these generation ladies are nothing but mere prostittues.Any guy putting his mind on any girl these days is just wasting is time and destiny.Girls of this generation have no morales and all they are after is money and to them having only one man is a taboo.To them relationship is transactional,money for hand back for ground ,so why wasting your time on one Olosho ,claiming to be stupid girlfriend . |
Crime › Re: Lady Set On Fire By Her Yahoo Boyfriend Over Infidelity, Dies (Video) by cococandy(f): 8:24pm On Dec 10, 2019 |
I hope he never sees the light of day again. |
Celebrities › Re: Terry G Begs Mimi Omoregbe, His Baby Mama For Another Chance by cococandy(f): 8:20pm On Dec 10, 2019 |
For him to ask like this, he must have really and truly hurt her. Hopefully she can forgive him. He seems really sorry.  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 8:00pm On Dec 10, 2019 |
I Always hear good things about that Jos. One day maybe... Akposy: Yes o. Good fruits and veggies |
Celebrities › Re: Timi Dakolo Featured In The Times Newspaper For 'Merry Christmas Darling' Album by cococandy(f): 7:59pm On Dec 10, 2019 |
What’s the insult? rentAcock: You are entitled to your opinions, no need for the insults. |
Celebrities › Re: Timi Dakolo Featured In The Times Newspaper For 'Merry Christmas Darling' Album by cococandy(f): 7:49pm On Dec 10, 2019 |
You people think that because this is a faceless forum, it’s okay to post demented and soulless comments. It’s not your fault anyway. If only the owner of the forum has a way of filtering out insensitive posts before they even have a chance of making it to the thread obembet: The guy like love used pussyike tomorrow no dey.... Na joke o light099: Congratulations to Timi and his krested wife. rentAcock: Riding off the coattails of his wife's rape allegation case. He wants to take advantage of his popularity now before it wanes. Good for him. babamadiba: He finally use this rape case blow! Nice one man. jom28gy: Had your wife, repented |
Crime › Re: Zimbabwean Prostitute Brings Juju Python To Court (Photo) by cococandy(f): 7:28pm On Dec 10, 2019 |
 I didn’t need to read the sorry. The topic alone is  |
Health › Re: Nurse, 51, Has Both Legs And Her Left Arm Amputated After A Chesty Cough Turned by cococandy(f): 2:07am On Dec 10, 2019 |
 We call code sepsis in my hospital. Take it as seriously as a code blue, code stemi or a code stroke. People joke with sepsis. One of the leading causes of inpatient death. |
Family › Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by cococandy(f): 12:32am On Dec 10, 2019 |
You alone talking to him is not enough. You need serious counseling. Your emotional needs are valid. Don’t be ashamed about needing that. But what Mr online guy is providing is just a mirage. You don’t love him. That’s a fact. If you eventually meet him, you might end up disappointed. Do you even think that if he knows your full story, he will like you the same? You and your husband sure do need help to get back on track. You can’t do it by yourselves. we can give you all the advice that sounds good on paper here but will those really help you? E.g 1) Pray. 2) Be okay with the situation at least he’s providing. 3) Talk to him (again) 4) Focus on yourself (only God knows what that means) All these advice point to the same thing. Be happy in your misery and leave things be. For something like a marriage to work, the two people in it need to be equally invested in making it work. So either your husband suddenly has an epiphany and realizes that he needs to make more effort or you initiate a move that will strongly show him he needs to make more effort. Sometimes words do not penetrate. Cut Mr online guy loose. At least you’re sure you’re doing something wrong. You can’t even accuse your husband of doing the same. So now is the time to make it work. Olannajewel: and its driving me crazy.. I just want to hear "i love you" from him. I just want us to laugh as before. I have searched myself and I have asked him, I haven't offended him... we have been too serious for a long time. Very serious, its always about the kids, what about us... my heart is aching, I actually indulged my telegram friend through the chat because i found out my husband went for a massage without telling me (guess it was more than a massage) what's there not to tell me, clears watsapp chat, and was emotionally involved with a lady, he's reason being that he was depressed..I feel I have lost my sweetheart, he used to tell me everything, we used to be so cool,spontaneous and lively! |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 12:02am On Dec 10, 2019 |
Leesah: This was pre dinner.. Indomie, Fried Awara dipped in Egg, plantain and fried Egg Pre?  Then what was dinner |
Crime › Re: Gildas Tohouo's Wife Stabbed To Death In Her Ikoyi Lagos Home by cococandy(f): 10:31pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
Dumb tribal bigot Patrioticman007: Na dem, dem want to pose with Benz this Christmas for village. This pigs will always give Nigeria a very bad name, for the victims family & country will forever hate Nigeria. When will Nigeria allow these pigs to go. |
Crime › Re: Gildas Tohouo's Wife Stabbed To Death In Her Ikoyi Lagos Home by cococandy(f): 10:28pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
People are evil honestly. It’s difficult to understand what goes on in the mind of folks like these when they set out with a sole purpose of causing hurt and pain to others. |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 9:31pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
Leesah: Homemade meatpie for the birthday girl... oh girl. Yummy looking |
Family › Re: Re-preciousgirl: She Came Here With her issue And You Guys Start Insulting by cococandy(f): 12:24pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
Yea I stopped reading that thread too on the first page. Some things are not worth the energy Breaststroke: When I first signed up on NL, I told myself I will jump and pass stupid people with their stupidity.
I will only comment on threads where I feel I have a sensible contribution to make and I will not engage with stupid/nasty people.
Ask me how all of that has worked out It can be hard to remain disengaged and to ignore bullies who come after you or go after others, without justification.
I am okay with divergent views/opinions when people are civil and well mannered about it, what is not okay is the insults and name calling for no good reason.
I saw that thread being discussed here, I gave up on the very first page when someone called her a whoore and got 227 likes for that comment.
What manner of people have we become that such an insult will generate 227 likes? It was 227 when I last viewed that thread, the number must have gone up since then.
I just told myself you will get rid of this negativity called Nairaland as 2019 ends and you go into 2020. I have contributed to some of the toxicity here, but that was only in response/retaliation to bullies wanting to bring others down.
Evil persists when good people say or do nothing. Some moderators don't even help the situation by allowing certain comments & threads to remain. |
Family › Re: Whats The Way Forward? by cococandy(f): 11:46am On Dec 09, 2019 |
Unless she has a lot to lose from walking away. She should walk away.
They are just going to use her to solve their family issues. |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 11:36am On Dec 09, 2019 |
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 11:12am On Dec 09, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: Should I Marry A Girl That Pierced Her Nose And Has Multiple Earrings? by cococandy(f): 8:44am On Dec 09, 2019 |
Leave her. So that she can marry someone that values her sense of personal autonomy and agrees with the things she agrees with. You will find someone for you. motionarena: Can You Marry A Girl that Pierce Her Nose And Has Multiple Earrings?
Hi guys
You know it has now been a norm for most women and girls to have multiple piercings in their nose and ears.
I really don't know what they see in it.
Well i have dis girlfriend we have been dating for a while and i plan to marry her. She works with a software company and she is very intelligent.
She returned from a trip and i noticed she had 3 sets of earrings in one ear and also had a tiny piercing on her nose.
I was devastated and asked her why she did it and said it means nothing that she just felt like.
Now am thinking of ending the relationship as i regard girls that do such as loose and runz girls.
Am i overreacting or taking the right move |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 8:42am On Dec 09, 2019 |
Dinner: Fried Rice Steamed broccoli Fried plantains And grilled chicken.
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Crime › Re: 2 Men 'Killing People With Charms' In Anambra Caught & Handcuffed (Photos) by cococandy(f): 2:35am On Dec 09, 2019 |
Xisnin: Shut up! You don't use "Africa" as an excuse when you complain about police and Sars. You don't use "Africa" as an excuse when you complain about bad governance. You don't use "Africa" as an excuse when you are oppressed at work. You don't use "Africa" as an excuse when you are extorted on the road.
The only time you remember Africa is when you want to oppress others or support oppression.
SMH for you.  That right there. |