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Airloard:
Have been following this thread for some time.This is my first post.

Breakfast

sassysure:
Dear, the joy I get in cooking is when I see the food disappearing into the mouths of happy faces. Nothing beats that moment

monex:
there is nothing in her post to suggest she sacrificed marriage or that she is currently single.

She claims she sacrificed her 20s. Those bribing up the "Marriage vs Career" balancing question have made assumptions about her that are not in her post.

izzou:
I know

That was the assumption that was going to flood here. And that was why I typed that

izzou:
That's one fact about life almost everyone doesn't understand

People have their choices and priorities in life.

She wanted a career, not marriage. And she's happy about it. Everyone has their own definition and version of happiness

So no need to remind her about menopause. She wasn't interested from the beginning

sassysure:
Hope òga is ok now?
I missed this.
This morning as everybody was preparing to go out, ur bros asked if last night rice remain
Shuuu
When I said no, he said, hope we will eat it again tonight
I said no, he started sulking like a child

I'm gonna buy lots of that concentrate

Prestonn:
She said we gonna return to the market today, because I didn't use the ingredients she prefer ...

Akposy:
Kindly make yours and help us with the pics.

Mindfulness:
But it's only in retrospective people would call him that. When did he live and write? In the 1920s? One of his assumptions was that the many women who suffered from hysteria during his time did so because of suppressed sexual desires which they were expected to suppress back in the day, even partly in marriage, so I think that he was quite progressive and his diagnosis rather liberating.

yeyeosoronga:
So, we have assumed the initial OP has a cheating husband and we are we trying to say his cheating is due to psychological reasons?
Wetin Musa no go see for gate
While Sigmund 'Fraud' is well known controversially in his field of psychology and perhaps even seen as the father by some, majority of his assertations have been proven to be 'catastrophically' wrong. His works are not seen as credible enough to be used as a reliable source in the academic environment. His theories, methods, and conclusions have all been put into doubt. He was a known misogynist btw.
To have even considered a theory by Mr 'Fraud' shows you are really old school in your thoughts.
There's more advancement in the knowledge of the human brain and its psychology, and there is very little empirical evidence to back up majority of Freud's claims.

But I guess we can still discuss his works, for the sake of discussions and not as facts

Madam OP, you are old school.

LewsTherin:
This is not likely to work. Deep seated psychosis (what's the plural? Psycosi? Psycosises?)

Deep seated psycosis(?) like this are usually very irrational. It takes a trained mind to help resolve them. Especially (as is very likely) when the person doesn't believe there is anything wrong. Do you expect the average Nigerian to agree he is mad? That is exactly how they look at it. They wouldn't think it is a psycosis, or a mental blockage, or some fancy American diagnosis. It's gonna be "are you saying I am a mental patient?"

Therapy with a shrink would have been the best. In the absence of that, speaking with an experienced pastor would be the best option. Most pastors in Nigeria double as shrinks these days anyway. Little wonder they are all getting crazy!

ThisisIkemefuna:
This life sef! See food abeg.. chai

Prestonn:
Village kitchen
Na to sleep outside sure pass for me today

I got home today, saw Spinach and some meat in the refrigerator... for my mind, I say na soup and rice win am. Then I begin cook.

As I cook finish, I call the people may dey house to join me. All of us arrange for table begin dey eat...... Still eating then my phone ring.. Mama calling.. She said "prestonn please take out the meat and Spinach out of the refrigerator, that her friend is coming for it"

I call the house help and ask her who get the meat and Spinach?

She say " Small oga, na your mother friend put them inside the refrigerator.. I nor even know how my fork take fall from my hand.

Me I just go package the remaining soup and place it in a bowl and live the house..... people may dey house was like "prestonn you nor eat again.... for my mind I say food kill you there. May the owner of the house come see whona first.

Na tomorrow I go call the house help go one corner and ask her who she dey call small oga

sassysure:
So I used this to prepare ofe akwù

The concentrate has òsùkwù taste just like the picture depicted but agric one. The smell is like Ghanaian palm oil. It's like puree and very thick.
But when it start boiling, the taste reduces. U need to garnish with stuffs that has strong smell so u won't notice the taste. I used dry catfish, okpei, green spicy pepper( it has a very distinct sharp smell) and bullion cube. Also dry scent leaves and basil leaves.


Will give it 90%. Will have giving it 100 but because it does not smell like our palm fruit.
I'm highly impressed.
My oga don't know what ofe akwù is but he ate more than he would have eaten with our normal stew. As for the rest, the rice pot is empty
So u guys can try it.

Fyngal1 u can check it out.
No pictures. All man was hungry

Akposy:
WildChild00
Banga rice don ready o..warri food

The Banga rice was very spicy but the rice was not completely soft...it was burning, so I had to serve like that.

Prestonn:
Village kitchen

I believe your night was beautiful just as you are, may the brightness of this morning dawn on you to make your day blessed. Good morning sweetheart and here is your breakfast . @ Mariangeles

Te quiero amor mío

Plead:



Go back to your chasers days bro ....They’ll learn to live with it or continue complaining like fodders . As you can see cococandy has been giving us hot meals with high end presentation with non of them complaining

Prestonn:
Village kitchen

Tilapia fish and plantain.

Cooked outside and also eat outside

@cutiereborn have your fish

Philistine:
IPOB are the true criminals.....Useless terrorists!

loveymom:
Are you sure, you will not do give away soon?

I bet you have stuffs sitting in the pantry collecting dust that you no longer use.

The designs all look stunning

Freehuman:
Where is the groom?

I pity them. They are not evening newspapers because they rejected suitors but because bad luck accepted them.

What a painful and suicidal life they must be living.

itsme01:
"Hanty" am not part of the people that gang raped you so dont take out your black woman bitternes on me, learn to have manners regardless, atleast it wasnt your brains that got raped

If what i find credible or anyones input wasnt required then she would be in court and not on social media

AnanseK:
Let me start with a disclaimer. I respect women and some of my closest relatives are women. I sympathize with women who are violated and will always want to see rapists severely punished.

But I want us to remember that when God said “ Go forth and multiply “, He didn’t leave it as a rhetoric only. He backed it by action . He assigned this important role to the man and equipped him with millions and millions of seed ( sperms). God did not stop there, he engraved this compulsion in the genomes of men so much so that the drive of some men to implement this decree by copulating is uncontainable, it is madness as in this case.

Since such uncontrollable maniacal drive to fulfil this decree exists in some men , we should please be circumspect and be practical in prevention. I promise to educate all my girl children of the existence of this madness.

I still support severe punishment for Rapists. But prevention is better than cure.

TissuePaper:
The truth is that it is only habitual for women to play the victim...it will surprise u to know that nothing of such actually happened, this might be her own way of getting back at the guy for maybe dumping her or refusing to grant a request made by her.

We have seen it all, them busola dakolo's, and Stephanie otobo's ..if u really had a case u should be in court and not on twitter.

itsme01:



never trust a man named OBO


Now this is a rape story i find credible... there was violence, act of intimidation and witnesses

Her description matches the day we walked in on our rapist friend and had to rescue the girl, the dude was like a monster with scar and scratches on both rapist and the victim and everywhere scarttered , sweat mixed with mucor... it took like three of us to free this girl from the guy, cos as we later heard it was a Cult test or fraternity trail



not some of this bullshit stories we hear , that the victim doesnt make noise or attract any witness or even ask the rapist to put on condom


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