Romance › Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by cococandy(f): 10:59pm On Sep 05, 2018 |
Oh please. Shut up Because you masked your pain does not mean the other men who talk about theirs are weak. eosigwe: but all this niggaz saying they can't get over it.. like WTF... how? you were molested at the age of 4,5,6,7 or even 8 and right now you are 28, 29, 30+ and you saying you can't get over it, you hate women, your John Tommy does not erect, you have lost confidence, yen yen yen. That is total bullshit. Total crap. You guys are weak. You have erectile dysfunction. Quit excessive masturbation. Those situations you experienced as a child are not the cause of your sexual problems right now. I was seriously molested by our househelp for 4 years. Between 4 and 8 years. If I hear say I never get over am. So much weakness in the world mehn. Everyone's seeking sympathy. A lady's tale I can understand but guys, mehn... |
Romance › Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by cococandy(f): 10:57pm On Sep 05, 2018 |
Deadlock: Bad relatives are worse than sworn enemies. that’s true. Most offenders are close to the victims |
Romance › Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by cococandy(f): 10:55pm On Sep 05, 2018 |
That’s super sad.
Sexual harassment and or molestation is a big deal and it affects those who are the victims probably for the rest of their lives |
Crime › Re: I Joined Aiye Cult To Meet Davido, I Was Told Davido Is Member– Arrested Cultist by cococandy(f): 9:02pm On Sep 05, 2018 |
Dull brain |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 7:37pm On Sep 05, 2018 |
Explorers: Maybe junior is coming........ Not at all  |
Family › Re: Husbands Should Also Submit To Their Wives. by cococandy(f): 1:52pm On Sep 05, 2018 |
Hanseel1: You guys are on the same page.
I've always said it that for a marriage to work submission should be reciprocal.
If submission is one sided it'll always lead to subservience -and that's slavery. we know we are on the same page |
Family › Re: Husbands Should Also Submit To Their Wives. by cococandy(f): 6:25am On Sep 05, 2018 |
Well it’s even unbiblical to act that way no matter what anyone says. because the Bible does task men to honor their wives. You can’t say you honor someone when you lord over them. People obviously take the bits that fit into their twisted personal agenda and make themselves the spokesmen for God. If you didn’t know better, You would think God exists for the glory of the male gender. But you know better. CHoccolaTE: Nigerian men are something else, you see that they realize the total submission thing is nothing but tyranny and wickedness but they don't mind forcing women to accept it. How can you claim to love a person and you cannot even let the persons decision hold sway over yours at any point in time in the relationship? Even when it concerns something that is very dear to her heart?
Total submission from wives is no longer marriage for heavens sake. It pure and unadulterated slavery, lmao  |
Family › Re: Husbands Should Also Submit To Their Wives. by cococandy(f): 1:32am On Sep 05, 2018 |
You can’t be married without love and submission from both parties. It’s impossible.
Some people get high blood pressure when men are mentioned in the same statement with submission but they don’t react the same way when women love their husbands.
Why? It shows insincerity. If y’all are so stuck on the Bible, you would get hyperventilatory when you hear of women loving their husbands since the Bible didn’t command them to do so, the same way you get when you hear of men submitting to their wives.
Wisdom shows that both go hand in hand. A man can’t love his wife without submitting to her. And a woman can’t submit to a man she doesn’t love. Both genders need to do both. |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 10:38pm On Sep 04, 2018 |
Mynd44: If you yab me, its your personal problem that looks really good. I don’t why I’m always craving other people’s food  |
Crime › Re: Yahoo Boys Make Jest Of A White Man After Scamming Him "You Go Cry Die" by cococandy(f): 8:10pm On Sep 04, 2018 |
DonatusAdorns: Him go cry die you will pay for your wickedness. One day soon |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 8:01pm On Sep 04, 2018 |
But I had Hawaiin rice and stewed chicken.
The soup and fufu was for the Mr.
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 8:00pm On Sep 04, 2018 |
Some soups taste better than they look. This is one of them.
Loaded Afang served with pounded yam
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Family › Re: Thank God always by cococandy(f): 4:33am On Sep 04, 2018 |
Hopefully someday, he doesn’t hit the child so hard that he gives him a permanent injury. His heart might be in the right place by wanting to discipline his child but as most african parents, he’s going about it the wrong way.
Most of us were abused by our parents in the name of discipline. Excessive beatings and punishments does not help the child in any way except giving them low self esteem and/or turning them into people who hit others out of anger.
Maybe you can tell him this see if it changes his mind. |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 3:04am On Sep 04, 2018 |
annc: Oh thanks, sweet sis inlaw . Please make the delivery fast. I'm already salivating.  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 3:03am On Sep 04, 2018 |
Bollinger: $300? Be honest. You stole them . My hookup would have taken an arm and a leg for that and then some. But the days of syphoning me is over. Guess where i'm moving to next year. I was surprised too. And I’m used to her stuff being more expensive than this but she was like “that’s what moms do”. Implying that she’s being like a mom to me. So Who am I to question the Lord’s doing? I just said thank you and left  When I had my baby this woman packed so much free stuff and sent to me. She’s super nice. |
Crime › Re: Rapist Gang Raped After Being Caught Raping A Lady. by cococandy(f): 12:54am On Sep 04, 2018 |
Lordofthewest: Most disgusting thing I've seen this year..definitely south africa that's the rape capital of africa, India is number 1 in the world.God if homosexuality is legalized in this country our children won't be save anymore. are your children safe now? |
Crime › Re: Rapist Gang Raped After Being Caught Raping A Lady. by cococandy(f): 12:52am On Sep 04, 2018 |
jared007: U see why i am against homos to be left alone to mind their business? If the Nigerian law favours them, they would start raping men. Even little junior wont be safe again as a kid. so straight people don’t rape other people? Or you just hate the idea of men being raped. Why don’t you advocate for heterosexuals to be oppressed as well since men also rape women. You Don’t have any sense. You and the 53 idiots that liked your post. |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 7:04pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
chasers: Happy For You..Gas Bill Loading...  not a single problem  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 5:31pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 5:30pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
My African store lady came back from Africa two days ago. I call her “aunty african store”  She’s so kind to me. Not pictured are the Shaki, goat meat and oxtail I also got from her. And everything together was less than $300. I’m one very happy lady now. Where are those people tormenting me with yam. I’m about to pepper you 
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Crime › Re: 30-Year-Old Man Arrested For Defiling 13-Year-Old Girl In Ogun (Photo) by cococandy(f): 6:28am On Sep 03, 2018 |
dasparrow: Nigerian bred men and rape are like 5 and 6 They will keep focusing on tribe instead of the real issue |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 3:15am On Sep 03, 2018 |
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 10:55pm On Sep 02, 2018 |
britiko: Happy sunday smoky jollof Rice. Hosting a new Niaja couple in da hood. Will fry plantain when they arrive... Serve urself and enjoy!!! That’s what I’m talking about |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 10:54pm On Sep 02, 2018 |
What? I’ve loved sci fi since I was a kid. I stopped one time because of how ridiculous some of them were getting but I still have innate love for it. Did you see “the office” yet? That’s where I fell in love with this jack Ryan actor now. He was “Jim” in that show. so funny Please search for ozark and watch it. You will love it. Starring Jason Bateman Bollinger: You be winch? I am watching Jack Ryan time now. It's not bad at all. I'm just glad they didn't try to make him into a Jack Bauer. Which one is Ozark? Haven't seen it yet. A chick who watches Sci fi. Who would have thunk? |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 9:08pm On Sep 02, 2018 |
jagugu88li: ..aaaahhh, me your deputy  na your place we go celebrate for all these holidays coming up. It’s signed and settled |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 9:07pm On Sep 02, 2018 |
Bollinger: Lol. There's nothing wrong with Netflixing all day. Have you watched Altered Carbon? Best sci fi on netflix i swear. If you have Amazon Prime check out The Expanse as well. It's the game of thrones of Sci fi. That's if you are into sci fi that is. I’ve seen altered carbon. Very nice I have amazon prime. I’ll check the expanse. Thanks. I just started Tom Clancy’s Jack Ryan on amazon prime. And I have Ozark season 2 lined up on Netflix already. Couch potato life loading  |
Family › Re: Update On Wife’s Loose Vagina ! by cococandy(f): 8:28pm On Sep 02, 2018 |
What's the business of feminism in this discussion now? What’s wrong with you people that can’t make a comment without mentioning it?  Please go away with your nonsense unrelated reach for silly argument when the facts are plain.  Between both of them who’s ungrateful? He’s the one who’s acting like she did him wrong by having his child. FOH. temi4fash: Common Madam Cococandy,
I dont think this guy deserves you wishing him lossing his marriage.
he already outlined some of this issues in his previous thread.
This your sense of entitlement na wa, What is wrong to been grateful to your partner.
All this una feminist paro get as he be....
Op, I wish you luck as you find a way around this situation. |
Family › Re: Money Found Hidden Under A Mattress By A Guest In My Home. What Does This Mean? by cococandy(f): 8:25pm On Sep 02, 2018 |
Mtchew
Send me the money. I’ll hold it for you people |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 7:48pm On Sep 02, 2018 |
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 7:48pm On Sep 02, 2018 |
Bollinger: Oh my I've missed you. How you been? I definitely am grilling. Having my buddies over. Off roading in the morning, beer and barbecue in the evening. How your hubby and baby agbani? I misssed you too  My babies are fine. Sounds like you have a fun plan for Labor Day. I don’t even have any plans. Just visiting his family today. I’ll probably just Netflix tomorrow |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 7:23pm On Sep 02, 2018 |
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 7:19pm On Sep 02, 2018 |
Yummy bollinger  Are you grilling for labor day? I think I’ll come over .  Bollinger: How to grill;
1. Season well with salt, pepper/suya mix.
2. Fire up your grill and let the coal turn from black to ashy white.
3. Pour the coal into the grill in such a way that it fills half of it.
4. Let the grill heat up for 10 minutes.
5. Start placing your meat or chicken on the flame part of the grill. The objective is to sear/char your meat.
6. Once it is charred/seared, remove from grill.
7. Lift the wire mesh and place chunks of firewood on hot coal. The objective is to smoke your meat.
8. Place a flame resistant pan filled with water on the cool side of the grill. The objective is to ensure your meat stays succulent and not turn into kilishi.
9. Place the grill mesh back on the grill and place your meat on the cool side of it. Objective is to create oven conditions.
10. Keep adding firewood chunks as needed until your meat is well smoked and grilled. |