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Well you have to have a close friend or relative to do that for you. Even if I had any friends in the UK, I won’t just give you their number. I don’t even know you and neither do they. Wish you luck

sharpwriter:
Thanks for reply. I need someone to help me get valid UK number. I want to use it for verification on amazon. I want any call info or message sent to me any time I need it.

sharpwriter:
Hi Sis...do you have friends in the UK?

not really. Why?

Something that’s hard for you to get may be easy for someone else. There are no guarantees in life

datascience:
Good evening friends
By me:

Just imagine . If you marry my sister. I’ll be happy when I see this picture because I know she ate for me and her

It will be like I was the one who ate it

chasers:
Same here..and including your post.

yours too

African food definitely tastes better than American food. That’s for sure.

That’s why I love Thai and other ethnic food because they are closer to our african food in taste.

However, foreign food does grow on you and many thing that I wouldn’t eat at first I actually enjoy now. So give it some time.

MizMyColi:
Is it just me, or are there other people too who know that obodo oyibo people food is only best for presentation but not all that when it comes to internal sweetness and taste coordination?

Who no go nuh know.

You'll see all their food from afar and be salivating, and telling yourself...oh how I wish!

Finally, when the food reach your front, you'll realize it would have been better if you just continued feeding your eyes.

Even Lasagna that everyone has been talking and talking about
Let me not go into more details, please.

Our Naija way of cooking might not be so lit presentation wise. But, even at that, give me home ANYTIME, any day!

chasers:
Special Dinner For The Family ===Nairaland Food Section..Love You Guys

Me too. I really love this section and I genuinely like most of the posters here. That’s the only thing keeping me on this forum

Abortion needs to legal so that people stop going to hack jobs.

Imagine the holier than thou pastor is also engaging in abortions. People should stop seeing it as some evil thing and all these deaths by unqualified practitioners will reduce.

Oops I’m so sorry. I don’t know why I assumed you’re a lady.

Okay now we have to really marry you.

I have a twin.

datascience:
Erhnnnn. No harms sha, but am a guy actually.

No be only women dey like cooking. Lol

Mariangeles:
I will tell...

I’m sure my husband won’t mind.
She is very welcome to marry me

datascience:
Lets be friends first. Lol

nah. Straight to marriage

breadplanets:
Awww maybe she came to Nigeria for new yam festival

she’s not Nigerian though but I won’t be surprised if she goes there often

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You guys won’t believe it. I drove almost a 100 miles (round trip) to my african store here for yams and the lady had the audacity to not be around. I wanted to cry . I was told she traveled to Africa and won’t be back until a month from now.

Anyway here’s our Sunday’s lunch. enjoy with me

Sautéed shrimps, fried lamb, fried plantain, moi moi and jollof rice. This moi moi took forever to cook but it was worth it.

Elder001:
can I ask you a question?

go ahead

datascience:
Rice
Fish sauce
Fried Plantain Cubes.

Lunch done��

Will you marry me?

datascience:
Breakfast for your woman while she sleeps to wake up with egg sauce and potatoes/yam

Yam

balorx:
if women dress conservative, the rate of rape will reduce drastically

of course it’s the women’s fault

The rapists are innocent victims lured to commit the act by the dressing if women.
Imbeciile

This forum is a breeding ground for many types of criminals, they come here, read paint by their fellow nut jobs and become emboldened to act further

Daeylar:
The rape comments are being deleted. But I wish seun would allow us see who likes such comments, let me know those to avoid on nairaland.

Before that comment was deleted it had 32 likes. I wonder who those people were.


I seen comments attacking and insulting women here get up to 900 likes. Rapist comments. Misogynistic comments, comments supporting abuse. Such kind of comments.

Now I know that up to 900 posters here liked such a comment, (the one in particular I'm talking about) but I don't know who actually liked it.
I just know that a lot of people are crazy, I don't actually know who is crazy.
How is knowing but not actually knowing, really beneficial to women on this website?

Keep your advice to yourself and your fellow men

Rape is the one crime that should never be excused. Yet it is the one all of you fight tooth and nail to excuse.

People might steal to feed themselves and their families or kill in self defense but no one excuses these crimes.

Rape serves absolutely no purpose to the rapist except to exert power and trauma on the victim. yet it is always excused by you men sometimes masked in faux concern. what’s wrong with you people?

franchasng:
In as much as I condemn the useless rapist and all rapists, ladies should learn to dress well when u observe your environment harbors a lot of useless men, they call it caution!

I observed my area, noticed how most guys kept hailing me unnecessarily and some staring enviously, I had to sell off my 2nd car and be using one average normal car before somebody comes knocking on my door at night for what doesn't belong to him.

We call it caution.

Always observe your environment and act accordingly to avoid ending up in a tight situation in life.

RIP poor lady, its sad

There’s no way it was her fault

tiwiex:
The scenario was not clear. A lot of gang rape and rape goes on in SA by strangers. You sound like you think her rapist was a friend. Rape is traumatic. I had a female friend raped in Abuja by someone she barely knew. It was her fault in some ways but she has never behaved normally since then. 4 years and counting. That someone she knew sort of in a one on one. What if this was a gang rape? Or was the scenario spelt out?

She might have triggered the rape?

What’s wrong with you monkeys? Fvcking retard

PurplePatch:
I guess this happened in SA. My points are:

1. Rape leaves victims With emotional and psychological trauma.

2. With a high HIV rate in that country, she might have run a test and tested positive.

3. She might have triggered this sad circle of events with her DRESSING. The pics up there suggests so. When you dangle a "banana" before a "monkey" and refuse to give it to eat, it devices a method to quench it's hunger(Curiosity).

4. Every rapist is psychologically imbalanced. How does it feel like eating your food forcefully?

5. Conclusively, Suicide should never be an option.
#SayNoToSuicide

Dami12345:


Lol, no one is.

If rape is so serious with the comments I see on nairaland like cut off the guys preek and kill all rapist.

I wonder how exactly is rape serious.
Is it not the same sex that girls always have?
Is it not the same cheating on their husbands with gatemen and someone sha that they regularly do?

So why should anyone die for it? undecided
Don't make sense. There are more serious matters.

You’re such an asshole. God

I don’t even care if I’m banned for two years for this comment (as I probably will be by your fellow rapist MODs).
I hope you get raped brutally. It won’t matter because it’s not that serious. Ekwensu

9japrof:
Yeah, during courtship and marriage, avoid stuffs that could hurt your partner if he/she knows, but what about those that happened prior to he/she knowing you, that's the angle am commenting on, what do you say

If it happened before, then it’s past. It may not be necessary to bring them up unless they have the potential to impact the marriage (not emotionally) but financially, health or physically.

That shouldn’t prevent openness henceforth in the marriage except those things aren’t really in the past.

9japrof:
I stand for 100 percent transperancy but it depends on who's at the other end. Some can't just handle the truth.


So make sure your woman can handle the truth and is also reciprocating same else it's a recipe for disaster

If the “truth” is going to be hurtful, then it’s best to avoid it rather than hide it or expect them accept it because you were transparent with it.

Yea if one party does something and the other doesn’t reciprocate it’s makes a HUGE difference.

bukatyne:
@bold: 100% on point.

I am surprised when I tell peeps that I need to discuss any expense with my husband or involve him in everything no matter how mundane and they look at me like I am strange or 'in bondage' or not 'free'.

I believe the reciprocity makes the difference.

@OP: First step is to marry someone like you. Sadly, some women will take you for granted if you are open towards them.

Mariangeles:
...can one replicate the recipes with ingredients found in naija??
If yes, please share...

I’m not sure about that. I usually eat it in the restaurant.

Mariangeles:
I'd love to taste Thai food someday...

You will love it. Their fried rice is superb. It doesn’t look like the most delicious thing but when you eat it you go

conductor123:
Cococandy, I found your 2013 throwback pictures before your husband carry you go obodo oyibo. You've always been a beauty.

Thanks but Is this one breakfast or lunch?

Talk about derailing

tobida:
E get how the story day.

They thought it was safe to make merry but death still locate them .

Sad IRONY make for comedy.

Really? I don’t think so. Those are some people’s loved ones

dkronicle:

wow very funny

I would encourage that because we do it and it works for us. We didn’t start out that way but now that we do, there’s obviously a difference.


Whatever you share, make sure it’s reciprocated otherwise then it’s controlling and never romantic.
If you have access to her emails, make sure she has access to your emails. If you have the passwords to all her social media, she has to have the passwords to all of yours as well. I hope you guys enjoy your marriage