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These comments are the reasons why y’all raising kids that belong to other men

I have no sympathy for ANY man who ends dedicating his life to his kids only to find out they were never his. There’s no action without consequences. And that is one of the consequences of generational excuses made for male infidelity. Best of luck when it’s your turn

MRSoftapples:
So do you know why the husband cheated?

What if the wife was denying him sex?

what if the fault was from the wife?

Lots of women that goes out of their marriages are actually the reason why the marriage crash at the first place..
You tell about a disrespectful marriage, yet the attitude from the wife towards the husband is a very high level of disrespect..

Every mistake in marriage must not end in divorce.

Don't allow your feminist mentality prevent you from enjoying your marriage..

You all should take lessons from the marriages of Beyonce and that of will smith and his wife...

Do you think both will smith and jayz have not cheated on their wives?

But Forgiveness and understanding trumps above all..

To err is human but to forgive is divine..

Icon79:
Omo, forget what the radical feminists are telling you, I have never seen a divorced woman (or a single woman over 30) who's happy and fulfilled in her life. Trust me, on that one. Don't get me wrong, I am NOT trying to promote cheating in any way, shape or form. Any man or woman who cheats on his/her partner is evil and deserves what s/he gets.

However, I am just trying to keep it real here. Women, the solution to every problem should be NOT a divorce. Divorce doesn't solve nothing; and most importantly, it isn't possible for any woman to live a happy and fulfilled life without a husband. That's one of the judgements pronounced on Eve by God:

“Your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you” (Genesis 3:16).


O pari

adecz

"Infidelity" na oyibo word.

In Africa, the word applies to
women, not men.

That is why a man can marry as
many women as he desires.

Show me anywhere in the world,
talk less of Africa, where woman can
marry more than one hussy at a time.

Glorifying infidelity.
All of you would be shouting at the top of your voices if the woman was caught with her lover.

Goddyj:
S�x sweet sha. But the man for do only one round commot body, the wife for no come meet am on top the P�ssy

adecz:


Its okay to beat the side chick.

But how una wan remain for same
house, after u beat your oga?

If I be your oga,
I go kuku pack go the sidechick house
leave u with your wahala.

How person go dey chop egusi
everyday??

What’s sad about her being out of a disrespectful marriage?
Some of you think women can’t live without a useless man. She’s very much better off without him. Let the side chicken become the main hen. That’s no issue. She will then start dealing with other chickens too.

Your comment is very disgusting

MRSoftapples:
The sad reality of life is that the woman will be out of the marriage for her actions but the side chick will still be forking the man and even turning to a main chick..

violence is not the option, i wish ladies can learn..

The only thing that you can do to stop your husband from cheating is when you confront him quietly in a peaceful manner at home, serve him food, pet him and drop the bomb..
he won't be himself for days and will keep apologising to you..

Your marriage was built of false facts. You have a right to nullify it. They are not nice people.

I just feel bad for your poor son

Thank you. you said it all.

vululadilolo:
He raped you to coerce you into marrying him? He violated your body to achieve his "goal" of "keeping" you for himself? Very sick, manipulative and pervert way of thinking!

I would not advise you to marry someone who doesn't respect your boundaries and can commit such a vile act (rape). I would however advise you to seek therapy/counselling/help for what he did to you. Did you report him to the authorities?

If he is raping you now, how do you think he is going to behave when you are going to be married to him? Marital rape exists in case you don't know.
His behaviour ( the rape) shows that he seems to be ready to do anything ( even the worst) to achieve what he wants and doesn't value his partner's opinions/beliefs or feelings. Do you really want to be married to someone like that?

There are ton of people who were not virgins when they got married and are happy in their marriage. Being a virgin (or not) does not guarantee a "good" marriage. Your husband should be interested in you as a person and not just your hymen. You should also bring more than "just" your body in your marriage.

You need to reshape your mind: Your "pride" should be in who you are as woman and not what you can "offer" in bed( Virginity). Your "value" as a person did not/should diminish because of the rape( or even if you had sex voluntarily). That's why I said seek therapy or talk about it to someone you trust.

Don't feel guilty for what happened or not being a "virgin" (easier said than done). Stay strong and good luck in whatever you decide to do!

Simple breakfast. Oatmeal, hard boiled egg and blueberries . I tire to cook these days.

I need a chef. Can you guys contribute money and hire one for me? Bless your kind hearts

chasers:
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that’s so cute

Daeylar:
No dragging him, no calling him an olosho.
Thread is quiet as hell.
Not surprising at all.

tell me about it

MartinCorridon:
[b] Black, craw-craw laced yansh

Self hate. What’s wrong with black ass?

Are they supposed to have white ass?

If we are being traditional, It’s his duty to pound the yam. Why is he shifting it to the lady?

Anyway this story is fake as hell. Just trying to get reactions we all know that. No normal person will request that his wife leave work to come and pound yam for him.

Ooh

datascience:
About last evening:



Native (Oil rice)

Cut kpomo in small cubes
Add dried fish.

Makesure you heat the oil very well but dont bleach it.

Add your onions but dont burn it.

Add some iru(small), add other condiments to flavour.
(Incomplete, ask me question of your choice)

Add either scent leave or ugwu.

Best serve hot in the cold weather.


NOTE
parboil the rice first.....




THE WHOLE ENVIRONMENT ATTRACTED NEIGHBOURS

Elder001:
It's only a tragedy when a lady is the victim,right ?


Just move on.. have a nice time.

No it’s not.

But it’s underhanded when you remember to only bring it up when a woman gets assaulted.

If you see me on a thread where a man was assaulted trying to say “what about women?” Then you can tell me the same thing I’m saying to you now.

Until then, change your ways.

The fact that you don’t realize or refuse to acknowledge that it is men who are the main culprits when it comes to trivializing male sexual assault says a lot. And you trying to use their actions minimize the significance of female sexual assault also shows that you don’t really take it as seriously as you claim to. So why are you offended? Do you really expect me to agree with you that because men are also sexually assaulted, this girl’s case is insignificant? I don’t know what you expect from me:

You’re the one who came here trying to play down this horrible tragedy.

Elder001:
Here comes the false accusation again . I find this very insultive .

In which thread did you see me supporting male assault and rape? when I've been using any such opportunity to decry the hypocrisy of authorities and the society at large in handling such cases.

Today isn't the first day you're seeing my posts on nairaland and I find it very funny that you'll say men including me laugh off male assault.


When that guy was abused yesterday I was one of the men who hurriedly went to his twitter page to appeal to him that he should make sure he takes up the case.

The fact that some bastards wish to get raped by females or jubilate over male assault and rape doesn't mean you should generalize.

Some ladies like saying a man beating them is very romantic that won't make to make hasty generalization that abusive men are romantic to all ladies.

So because you guys shame and insult the small percentage of other men who have been sexually abused, we should not try to solve the problem of rampant female sexual assault? Right? I hear you. You’re making a lot of sense.

You do realize that men (including you) refuse to take abuse of other men seriously so that you can use it as an excuse to dismiss female sexual assault. You deride and make fun of guys who complain about sexual assault. But when a woman does complain, you then bring it up to try and diminish the severity of her situation. It’s a very evil thing to do. I consider it even worse than those who explicitly state that they support female sexual assault. At least we know where they stand. This backhanded method is worse.

If you have never campaigned against male sexual assault but only remember to bring it up when a woman is assaulted, you’re complicit. All of you are.

Elder001:
You always get disappointed at my posts. It didn't start today.

One thing about me is I hate being sentimental.

If people can't take male sexual assault and rape seriously then they should stop crying shït when the reverse is the case.

Gender equality -Fraud of the century

josielewa:
you are a retarded bastard...such will happen to your mum and sister

Yea
They should pay for his behavior as well.

Elder001:
A male get raped and women instead of condemning the action they'll be commenting with laughing smiley, calling the man a sissy and asking stupid questions like did his dick rise? but when a female get raped they'll take it seriously.

You guys are the ones who do that to other men. It’s not women. You’re being insincere if you say otherwise.

In as much as i condemn rape I don't buy it when one gender is taken more seriously than the other


Women abuse is always overhyped by blacks, nobody care
about men abuse. What happened to the female corper who
grabbed the balls of a male corper recently? She hasn't been
dismissed or disciplined.
No action taken yet but if it was the guy that grabbed her
vaginä or raped her without her consent we all know what
would've happened to him by now.
Nobody pay attention to a man's complaint of abuse no
matter
how true it is but let a woman tell a rooster and bull abuse
story, heaven will fall.
Later some idiots will be talking about gender equality...Over the past 2weeks I've come to realize that gender equality is a scam.
Mtcheeew

Really? Quite disappointing.

Okay move along

Oh wow

Such High display of ignorance with authority. If you’re not the owner of the body, you can’t tell them how to feel about it.

Comments like yours are probably the reason why she took her own life. Insensitive, nonchalant and careless remarks about something that must’ve been very traumatic her. Making it look like it doesn’t matter since it happens to women every day.

You need to do better. Educate yourself
Ignorance is not an acceptable excuse for making such comments

wink2015:
TAKING YOUR OWN LIFE WAS THE MOST CRAZIEST THING TO DO.

Some few minutes of forceful sex no matter the psychological trauma you have been through was not enough to take your own life or commit suicide.

Many women and girls are raped on a monthly bases and they never take their life.

You are a cheap coward!

So you want us to ignore this case and start talking about male victims of rape?

Why here? Why now?
If your intent isn’t to brush this under the carpet ?

Elder001:
Women abuse is always overhyped by blacks, nobody care
about men abuse. What happened to the female corper who
grabbed the balls of a male corper recently? She hasn't been dismissed or disciplined.
No action taken yet but if it was the guy that grabbed her vaginä or raped her without her consent we all know what would've happened to him by now.
Nobody pay attention to a man's complaint of abuse no matter
how true it is but let a woman tell a rooster and bull abuse
story, heaven will fall.
Later some idiots will be talking about gender equality...
Mtcheeew

harrisonford001:
YOUR DAUGHTER WILL EXPERIENCE THIS ONE DAY! GOD WILLING

Even when blaming the male culprits . We can’t help but try to punish women at the same time

Aonkuuse:
may rape visit all your sisters including your mother in Jesus name

Why do the women around him have to pay for his foolishness? He’s not above being raped. So let him be the one who gets raped.

HypocriticalMod:
This one is completely pained. Hahahahahaha..
The lord said "Go out there and multiply "
As long as the man is the head and the breadwinner of the family, he is entitled to whatsoever he desires. Especially children!

how’s that working out for you? Dummy

afroniger:
I am neither. But I consider myself a practical and pragmatic man.

Practical? Lmao

Try sexist , entitled or selfish. Those are better descriptions.

Stop using words you don’t know the meaning of

Mgbadike80:
I have been thinking along the same line recently, any woman that wouldn't give me 3 or 4 kids should expect another wife. one or two kids is not enough, more than four is too much for my current financial situation.

Women don’t owe you children. Entitled m***foka

afroniger:
Well, I feel that in life we must be realistic and keep our cards on the table. If a man lies to his wife about the state of his fertility, the woman should be free to move on if she wants kids and can't cope with such a man's disability, without being made to feel guilty. We all have a right to our happiness in life without the burden of social stigma. That is my position.

why can’t she keep the first husband and add another one to him?

durubennie:
na d tin wey dey happen wen girls no gree give free kpekus and money no dey for olosho...

Oh wow. Here’s one blaming women for the act of a deranged man.

Emmafe:
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Here’s one

This useless concocted story shows some of his characteristics. Probably why his marriage did not last. Agbaya

sweetilicious:
Am telling you. People can speculate and place false accusations

they don't like her but they can’t stay off her page . Joblessness

That’s what happens when men are breadwinners.

Sensationalism. Where was that stated in her post?

Some idiot is still going to come here and talk about how they should have dressed better and bla bla bla

NoToPile:
Bros abeg how did you make that 'sunny side up love shape' my baby likes the picture

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