₦airaland Forum

JeffreyJamez:
This is obviously for girls that wants to marry Village men ....Guys like us want to hear "I am in the office" or "I am rounding up that project I told you about"....not "I am cooking"....who your cooking epp?! ..I tell you say I no sabi cook?

zela:
Hmmm
What`s the crime they committed again?....
Skull is now drugs and loots abi?...
They wanna charge them to court cos they were caught commiting murder abi?...
They were interrogated.. and they said something.. What were the Police expecting to Hear?....
People@de top are looting and all that`s done is to grant them bail... So they bring out part of the money they stole and Pay...
NPF.. Predating helpless and poor people since 1914AD

Onegai:
Well done! As per the Jade plant, it's a succulent so it doesn't require much humidity. So put it in an open terrarium and don't water too much.

I should do a post on succulents o. We have Jade plant in Nigeria even.

stonecoldcafe:
Its absolutely lovely. You are lucky u hv d ease in assembling some of these stuff. Perhaps I don't know where to get simple stuff in lag but sometimes its so much drama for little stuff. Say like identical flower pots at a fair price. I didn't even know where to get them in d first place. I finally had to reach out to a family member who got me simple rubber pots from poundland. I got that little hanging basket too. I'll share some pics really soon.

CFCman:
That's a textbook definition of burglary..

CFCman:
He would say giving his wife MouthAction means he is submissive to his wife

If he gave his fellow man a BJ, I wouldn't give a hoot about it.
But he crossed the line by sucking a teenage boy. That's totally unacceptable.

Muafrika2:
Some cultural practices! The Luo of Kenya have a similar culture.HIV & Aids is finishing entire communities like that.

He probably got it from one of the clients he was "cleansing" after a spouse died of HIV.

irondome:
How is it unfair? He broke into a store and stole properties worth 11,000. All he got was a fine of 15,000 or 3 months jail term option. The dude is so lucky

shrtermjbseeker:
Thanks to cococandy and you. wheeeeeew! I'm not sick.

Onegai:
Awww.

You know what you really need? A Mommy-and-me group. Somewhere where a few mums and their kids get together and just hang out and let their kids play and also get them off their hands for a bit.

It's overwhelming having children. Emotionally and physically. Just this morning, Baby E walked into our balconey-garden, grabbed a sponge I use to clean dirt and started eating it happily. See me panicking about germs and toxicity and googling "baby ate garden soil", whilst shrieking. Then I told myself "I ate carpet grass (because my stvpid brothers threw me facedown in it) and I turned out okay". And calmed down.

It's good that you're worried you're not going to be a good mum. That shows you are, because you understand the enormity of the situation, rather than being glib about it.

Do you have someone who can watch your son for a bit? So you can at least sit down for one hour and have nothing to do with him. It helps. Feel free to dump him in your husband as well. Nothing bonds more than you and he doing a wailing competition about who hasn't slept because of the child. Seriously, Himself swiftly counters with "I didn't sleep well either" everytime I moan about lack of sleep. No matter if I swear I heard him snore that night

Don't fret when mealtimes are a nightmare and bedtimes are war zones. You're learning valuable skills like Patience, Cunning and Intelligent Reasoning and Bargaining. All of which are excellent to use on adults

Children don't need money to be happy, they need your love and support. They don't need to go to fancy creches but will love spending time reading their storybook with you. And yes they will learn. There are so many resources online to help you give your child the best. So what if they don't learn how to swim at Ikoyi club, there's a pool at Alaka and it is still the same swimming they will learn there. You dig?

If you like, put up a flyer in your church and say you want to form a mummy and me group with 5 mums and you guys will meet up somewhere outside (Lagos is bereft of public spaces but there are some parks around. Where are you located?). So you guys can talk together and not feel so crazy and exhausted and no-one needs to cook and clean up after (that's why it's in public).

And you truly feel afterwards that you still don't want kids, get off NAIRALAND and tell your husband gently. You two will work it out. Okay?

You're going to be just fine!

UIA04:
Lovely family you have there

zimunachimdi:
are you saying people are born gay?