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Celebrities › Re: Leo Mezie Down With Kidney Failure (photos) by cococandy(f): 4:09pm On Jul 15, 2016
Oohhhhh. I like this guy. Pls don't let him die. cry
Crime › Re: 3 Friends Slept With A Teenager In Lagos And Filmed It (Photo) by cococandy(f): 3:46pm On Jul 15, 2016
I wonder too.
rman:
Pshycos!

I don't know why men like this piss me off...just a little IQ point above animals.

You walked into your friends room by mistake while he was making love, assuming that's true, and what comes to your mind is to persuade the girl to let you join.


what kind of people are these?
Crime › Re: 3 Friends Slept With A Teenager In Lagos And Filmed It (Photo) by cococandy(f): 3:45pm On Jul 15, 2016
But the landlord heard the girl screaming.

Who told you it was not rape?

Even if she consented to one guy, she could likely out of fear of being hurt agree to sleep with his friends since they were three and it was only her.
Reason sometimes before you post.

9jacrip:
It doesn't seem like rape. The geh na just community property wey go don dey collect normally; too bad they got caught.

Most of the guys here talking glib are either pretenders or plain immature i6iots.

This type of thing happens in school or amongst really close buddies. All it takes is for one of them to have a h0e; it happens.

And the girls on here acting like most of them have not been fncking or snucking pipes at from 15.

Anybody can be anything on the internet sha.
Crime › Re: 3 Friends Slept With A Teenager In Lagos And Filmed It (Photo) by cococandy(f): 3:42pm On Jul 15, 2016
Pigs
Politics › Re: Why Buratai, Danbazau Were Not Indicted In Arms Scandal Report – Nigerian Govt by cococandy(f): 3:38pm On Jul 15, 2016
We all know the truth
Christianity Etc › Re: I Predicted France Terror Attack – T.B. Joshua by cococandy(f): 3:34pm On Jul 15, 2016
Mtchew
Foreign Affairs › Re: Truck Attack In Nice, France On Bastille Day Kills Many by cococandy(f): 5:56am On Jul 15, 2016
Oh my goodness cry cry
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 11:33pm On Jul 14, 2016
banmee:
Where i'm from 8 to 1 is child abuse. cool So, how mush?
not when they both become adults.

Erm. Clears throat. $...,...,....
Priceless.
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 10:17pm On Jul 14, 2016
banmee:
Ochuko is 12, Akpors is 8 and Ejiro just arrived. I'm glad you are taking this seriously. At least we live in close proximity to each other. You still live in Burundi? grin
8? That's not bad.

Lol. Burundi. You're funny.
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 9:19pm On Jul 14, 2016
banmee:
Akpors ke? Bros don de too old ooo. Ejiro is better suited. At least now we fit brag say he will date an older woman. grin
how old are they?
Politics › Re: Bola Tinubu Is No God – Melaye by cococandy(f): 9:07pm On Jul 14, 2016
Who said he was?
Family › Re: It Is.wrong To Leave Children In The Care Of Underage Housemaids by cococandy(f): 4:44pm On Jul 14, 2016
bukatyne:
You really think an average woman builds a career because she wants to compete with men?

Sadly, it's not all about you men.
Do you see what I was talking about in that your thread. We can pretend all we like. And kick agains the truth because we don't like who's saying it.

But the truth is Majority of women don't want the top positions because acidosis and his likes (I.e millions of other men and even women) kick against the idea of a woman having a career just because.
Family › Re: It Is.wrong To Leave Children In The Care Of Underage Housemaids by cococandy(f): 4:41pm On Jul 14, 2016
Oh please stop already. You're sounding more and more ridiculous.

Women should only work when it makes economic sense? So if she wants a career, she shouldn't have one because the husband makes enough money? How about her sense of fulfillment?
Yes, what's wrong with wanting to just keep busy?

Where's her dream and aspirations in all of these?

Oh wait. I forgot she's not meant to have one.

That's how you and your likes promote lack of ambition in women and then turn around to claim women are naturally unambitious.

Just shut up pls.
Acidosis:
I acknowledge your points 100%, however, my admonition to women is that they should work only when it makes economic sense (to contribute to the family), not to pose as a 'career mother' as frequently bn preached on this forum.

I've seen and heard complaints severally from women who simply want to work (and be a career woman) even if they have to work for free and drive to work daily in Hubby's car/fuel). I've seen women who just want to sell wigs and weavon (like a friend somewhere) for the sake of staying busy, even if they have to take a flight of N10,000 to deliver 2 weavon to a client.

My previous post was directed to these category of women who (even though their husbands can take care of the expenses), still want to work because someone somewhere condemned sit-at-home moms, not necessarily because they have the passion for the job or business.

That's what makes the difference between a married man and a married woman. ALL MEN work to make money and cater for their families. Meanwhile, SOME women work to stay busy, stay fit, maintain their shape, avoid overweight, stay independent, pose as a career woman, escape motherhood duties, and to preach against sit-at-home moms.
Family › Re: It Is.wrong To Leave Children In The Care Of Underage Housemaids by cococandy(f): 4:28pm On Jul 14, 2016
Fanirandele:
it is wrong to employ an underage housemaid. if you want to be a foster parent be one but employing a child as a maid is wrong. Nothing wrong with career women and only weak men are threatened . Just employ an adult
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Culture › Re: Ooni Ogunwusi Signs MOU With SpringPort Technological Group by cococandy(f): 4:20pm On Jul 14, 2016
This is commendable:

Buhari with all his wakadube didn't even achieve this.
Politics › Re: Dino Melaye: “I Would Rather Be With Stella Oduah, A More Robust Woman" - SR by cococandy(f): 1:13pm On Jul 14, 2016
SMH
Business › Re: I Have N500,000 Cash, What Profitable Business Can I Start? by cococandy(f): 1:01pm On Jul 14, 2016
You know you're an ediot but you're going to claim you're joking.

Anyhow still an ediot.

PUSIDRILA:
My Guy, Rent a three bedroom flat near Ring Road.

Put one babe in each room.

Use the Siting Room for Beer Parlour.


Each babe charges 2k per round.

If Each babe lays ten men per night that means you make 20k per babe and 60k per nite for the three babes.

........So now we have 60k per nite multiplied by 26 days in a month equals to 1.3 million naira per month.


Bros your own don better O grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Politics › Re: Melaye To Remi Tinubu: "I Will Beat You, Impregnate You" - Premium Times by cococandy(f): 6:52am On Jul 14, 2016
oyb:
To those jokers defending #dinotherapistsenator, because remi tinubu 'insulted' him, it shows how little you know of how to be a politician. A politician is expected to be mentally quick. A smart man would have used the comment as an opening. Dino is however little more than a lucky thug like so many senators.

Winston Churchill was the master of such rejoinders which became a part of history. A woman at a party once said to him loudly, mr Churchill you are drunk! To which he replied and you madam are ugly. But tomorrow morning I will be sober.

The late Felas mother was also a master of the riposte. A white district officer once shouted at her to 'shut up your women!' in a large meeting. The women fell silent in shock. And then Felas mum responded ' you may have been born, but you were not bred. Can you speak to your mother like that?'

This is an excerpt from wole soyinkas ake. That retort became a local legend at that time.

That's what politicians do. What is really disturbing is that this thug deceived a lot of us for a time, when he was forming progressive. Animal.

He is the face of a lot of Nigerian men, who feel women should be seen and not heard and are only useful in the bedroom. I can imagine how louts like this will feel when Hillary becomes president.

By now it should be clear we have a very big problem in Nigeria . This is what our national orientation agency should be focusing on. Nigerians think that violence is there solution to disputes .it is the same rubbish wiz kid pulled with Linda Ikeji. That was another shameful and digesting saga. There is Not much difference between that incident and this. The only difference was that while wiz thug did not threaten to rape Linda, he was running his mouth slandering her about her sex life, and saying bizarre things about her sexual hygiene. It was and is completely indefensible.


Lai mohd get to work on reorientation Nigerian culture . Some of are raising our children to understand that violence against women, and violence in general is wrong in any and every circumstance. You need to do the same for the nation?on a side note, if we teach our daughters martial arts, these threats will disappear.no one will threaten someone who can beat him up. Imagine if remi tinubu had black belt and proceeded to put #dinotherapistsenator in a hold by the pressure points until he begged.

#dinotherapistsenator
Preach.
Politics › Re: Melaye To Remi Tinubu: "I Will Beat You, Impregnate You" - Premium Times by cococandy(f): 6:43am On Jul 14, 2016
numericalguy:
Just because some eediot serially raped you don't mean you should take out your personal frustrations on every male you come across. Learn to deal with your personal troubles and stop spreading your unhapines on a public forum.
Typical
Politics › Re: Melaye To Remi Tinubu: "I Will Beat You, Impregnate You" - Premium Times by cococandy(f):
There's nothing you can say that will make his utterance any less unpalatable.
It's disgusting. If he felt insulted he could have returned the insult. Not threaten rape.

Stop trying. It makes you look like a rapist too. But then again who knows?

numericalguy:
Dundee, didn't you see that the woman was the one that started all this. Why would she call him a thug and childish. Why do people feel its OK for a woman to heap insults on a man and the man cannot even defend himself just because she is a woman.

The problem with f00ls like you is that a woman can never do any wrong. If Oluremi Tinubu without any provocation had picked a knife and stabbed Dino Maylaiye in the chest eediots would still have blamed Dino somehow. After all Oluremi Tinubu is a woman and she can do no wrong.

Pcheeeew... Rubbish.
Politics › Re: Melaye To Remi Tinubu: "I Will Beat You, Impregnate You" - Premium Times by cococandy(f):
Only in Nigeria. How can a public officer open his mouth in public to say this without repercussions?
Oh I forget, our rape culture sees nothing abhorrent in threatening women with rape or molestation.
Shame.
Family › Re: Help! My Younger Sister About To Get Married, Her Pastor Says No! by cococandy(f): 8:06pm On Jul 13, 2016
I don't blame the pastors. I blame those who give them the chance to interfere in their personal matters.
Family › Re: Women Aren't Getting The Promotion Because They Don't Want It - Bloomberg by cococandy(f): 5:09pm On Jul 13, 2016
bukatyne:
Truth is looking back now, a lot of my female colleagues were not interested in a pursuing a career esp. in our field after school (not that they made it interesting angry). You hear more of teaching (primary/secondary) and petite businesses.

Again, in our society, it is said you build a career in the first job you get (Students studied courses they were 'given' and after gradaution, struggle to get jobs daily so it takes a strong support system to reject jobs not in your career line (if it was your choice in the first place).

We might need another survey in Nigeria due to our percularilities.
@ bold, so they can be home in time to put a hot meal on the table before Oga comes back.
It might not be what all of them truly wanted out of life (and there's nothing wrong with wanting that...before I'm misunderstood) but for those who want something else for themselves, how dare you aspire to be anything that will make the man uncomfortable? That's not why he 'paid the bride price'. lipsrsealed

Even on public forums like this, if someone complains about how his wife isn't always available due to work, he's adviced to make her stop working, get a teaching job or start a small business. As far as we are concerned, that's all women should be doing. Why is anyone surprised if girls go for these jobs right from school?

I know it gives some the mettle to say that we are not naturally ambitious. But they wouldn't say they if they stopped to think why those are the favorites.

All those choices came from what they've been imbibed with from birth. We know that until recently most women were raised for marriage only. You can't expect them to want something that will conflict with their perceived roles in life.

There's no study or research necessary to show this.
Family › Re: Would You Choose A Good Marriage Over Career? by cococandy(f): 2:22pm On Jul 13, 2016
Adaeze003:
They said choose between your career and a happy marriage and some people are choosing between their happy marriage and future wife's career...

Lord save us.
I noticed grin
Family › Re: Would You Choose A Good Marriage Over Career? by cococandy(f): 2:21pm On Jul 13, 2016
Acidosis:
Will you marry a man who chooses marriage, and rejects career?
There's no rejecting any.
Just like me, he has to believe he can have it all. Marriage and career.
The marriage has to be as important to him as it is to him. It takes two to tango.
Politics › Re: Enugu Traditional Rulers Collect Grazing Money From Herdsmen by cococandy(f): 6:21am On Jul 13, 2016
omenka:
Go to hell sweetheart.

Good morning.
After you darling.
Family › Re: Women Aren't Getting The Promotion Because They Don't Want It - Bloomberg by cococandy(f): 3:37am On Jul 13, 2016
Is it surprising? Not to me.

The mind-conditioning won't go away overnight.
Some ladies have managed to break away from whatever mental stronghold that makes them consider themselves less than men but you can't expect that to be the majority.
The effects of aeons of being mentally and physically subdued won't go away just like that because of one century of feminism.

It's a slow process. Will probably take as much time as it took to get instilled in the first place.

But there's hope.
Family › Re: Would You Choose A Good Marriage Over Career? by cococandy(f): 3:26am On Jul 13, 2016
Nothing tough in this question.
Gonna have both.
It takes two to tango.
Family › Re: Would You Choose A Good Marriage Over Career? by cococandy(f): 3:23am On Jul 13, 2016
babyfaceafrica:
Feminist and misandrist will choose career
'meninist' and misogynists will choose career too I guess.
Or it only applies to women because we are the ones who aren't supposed to have a life outside marriage?

Dane.
Fashion › Re: Lady And Her Unclad Butt At A Beauty Shop (graphic Photo) by cococandy(f): 3:16am On Jul 13, 2016
Really graphic. Lol

She's beautifully dressed in her mind.

Her life. her choice.
Politics › Re: Buhari Appoints Hadiza Usman As NPA MD by cococandy(f): 3:14am On Jul 13, 2016
Pavarottii:
Is anyone still surprised?
I know I'm not.
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by cococandy(f):
I do like emotional guys. Nothing wrong with that. They are just being human. Yea everybody cries for wasted time and sometimes for having played the fool. I know what that feels like:

I'm calling you out because it's men like you that always accuse ladies of being overly emotional.
You are saying the opposite. That's why your case is interesting to me.

Oh well. Can't knock your experience. Keep being you.

richez25:
Well ma'am, i dont how long u stay in a relationship. Buh mine lasted 3yrs. The 8mnths i mentioned entails many tinz not just gettin over, also had self recovery and discovery. Trust me, wen i say guyz are the most emotional being ever created since time inception. Even the devil knew that. More reason he chose eve over adam, cos ladies were made from bones, and av no heart of their own. Dont knw if am makin a point buh i can sense u av not really experienced wat i passed thru or wat the OP is sayin.. Wen u do, i bet u, that guy of urs wont go Scot free. As for emotional, lemme break it to u, i cried and wept like someone whose father died. Not because she broke up wit me, buh cos of wasted years, effort and time spent in the relationship. Pls bear wit us, if u dont like emotional guyz.

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