₦airaland Forum

counsellorwiser:
More suffering loading for those who voted self-acclaimed messiah with no tangible plans. I don't blame Buhari, I blame those who didn't ask germane questions before voting him.

When he refused to debate with other candidates on national tv, tiny brains defended and applauded him. What do you have today? Prosperity and joy in the land.

banmee:
If only there are ways to give a thousand likes.

Kachisbarbie:
please edit your comment, write the ode in capital letters and embolden it...like this ODE!!!!. Add the exclamation mark too, Thanks.

Some peoples head is full of baby wipes. No sense at all, yet they wanna play LAPD.

byvan03:
I wonder the type of rubbish comment people post here . Did you notice that the men that rape their daughters are usually very poor men? People here make it seem like marrying a poor man is synonymous to marrying a good one.

banmee:
Don't get me wrong Mrs coco, each time i read your comments, it gives me a rush of warm feeling that at least there is one normal person who i can say came from Nigeria, but sometimes you need not tell me some things. I get riled up easily. Not good for my blood pressure and all. 250 likes? For that idiotic point of view? Which kain tin be dis na?

banmee:
Are you phucking kidding me? And 18 people liked this post. It is a reflection of the mental decay in a jacked up country. Because Nigeria is filled with animals, you have no choice but to act and think like an animal. So i understand your position. It's sad though.

waternogetememy:
Mr man! I am not a thread pusher, it is not wat i do 4 a living, u can sign on with as much moniker as u like, the father has handled the matter, wen her mum gets back, she will collect curse and more slapping/flogging.


Commit suicide if u dont like it, u cannot love and care 4 their daughter more than the parents.


U are simple reasoning with ur dick and after wat u can get as a man, her parents are after her future.


If person like me mistakenly jam ur type with my daughter, u done meet God, i will not even touch her. I will use u to demonstrate just how wicked, i can be. She go fear.

VolT0xic:
[color=maroon]So sad.
But they look happy. Together.

I strongly believe there's more to it.
May be she was having an affair. And he disown her.

Anyway, She's dead now. May she rest in Peace.
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bukatyne:
Clicked the link and while others slimmed him for saving his mother, One Adeyemo Afeez supports his decisions....

Would it be a leap to say Adeyemo Afeez is a Nigerian man.?

@OP:

The story is not clear....

The flood was spreading to his village (so their house was not yet flooded and the danger not imminent?)

He told his wife and kids to climb the roof while he took his mother (to where?)

Was the plan to come back for the wife and kids and he stays with his mother at wherever while wifey and kids stay on the roof?

Honestly, I can't get the meat of the story.

P.S.: Is the man standing on a plank the same man? Who took the pictures? Where is the family on the roof? Where else could he have taken mama to?

lestat:
He didnt leave the kids alone they WERE WITH THEIR MUM!!! AND THEIR MUM IS NOT HANDICAPPED!!!!!

Eketem:
This is contradictory.

You are calling the tradition on inheritance outdated and rightly so, yet you are using the same outdated traditions that regards kids as illegitimate and belonging to their mothers people.

We can't pick wicked traditions that favor us and discard the rest

drnoel:
Madam u are wrong ooh. Pls go and educate urself before u spew misinformation and confuse people who need help. The Nigerian supreme court has abolished that silly law the prohibits female children from inheriting properties so no courts in Nigeria will withhold such laws is the man's female children intend to fight for their right.

RiloKiley:
Do women in the US have more rights and privileges than those in Nigeria?

If a woman and her husband have even a minor disagreement at home, can the wife call the police and tell them to come remove her husband from the home because she doesn't feel safe, and they will do so first to ensure her safety before even listening to his side of the story?


Have women been known to send thier husbands out in the cold by using this method, just to be mean to them, just because they can?


Once again, I reiterate the man was wrong to behave in such an uncivilized manner. But is it possible the woman has her own faults and actually did "misbehave" when they were in the US?

nunogomez:
any mother that will wish for her to be saved first before her daughter in law and grandchildren.

RiloKiley:
Fine, I agree he wasnt civilized in his approach.
I'm glad your example also included a woman acting in an unruly behaviour. You will agree that its actually possible the woman of that husband actually misused her powers in U.S hence the man's annoyance , so much so that some offered to continue beating the wife for him while others told him to forgive and forget. No one absolved the woman from wrongdoing. The woman herself did not deny the allegations but in fact was remorseful.


A lot of ladies go over there to the US and with thier newfound freedom and "rights", behave very badly. They frustrate the men who worked an arm and a limb to get them there in the first place. The men feel that they have done their all for this woman, the least she can do is show gratitude, loyalty and respect. When the woman decides instead to take advantage of the situation and humiliate the man then u can be rest assured the man will seek his own pound of flesh when he has the chance.

veave:
ehen? its possible she wasnt really bad. just maybe the man is an abusive and troublesome type. some men... if you ignore them, fight. you answer them fight.

besides, if the woman was really bad, she would not have followed him to naija because she knows what he has done and she'll now what hes capable of doing...


all i see is a bully that was denied the freedom to exercise his prowess ....

eyinjuege:
Pray tell, why would he be thrown to jail in the USA if he argues with his wife?

Provided he doesn't assault her, he won't be thrown into jail.

If the wife assaulted him and he called the cops, she would be thrown into jail.

Is his grouse the fact that he couldn't beat his wife in the US?

Why is there a need for him to beat his wife? If she's verbally abusive, can't he walk away? If she physically assaulted him can't he call the police?

Does he really think violence should be the solution in a marriage?

I'm still trying to understand the message, as all I can garner from this is that the man is physically abusive and his wife and kids are at risk of domestic violence

Onegai:
They are treating you like this because they are most likely Nairalanders and based on what they read here, think their daughter's life is over and she will never marry. So are trying to force her on you. If you and the mother could talk away from parents, and you could convince her that "look, let us take our time to sort ourselves out. Because if I am forced to marry you without liking you for the sake of my child, I may cheat on you and deal with you to the point that you will have a special spot on the carpet in front of MFM pulpit". Women who have had better starts to marriage have suffered even more, talkless of your situation.

You can speak to a lawyer but I guess your parents assume that eventually when school starts, the sinking economy will force them to the table and they can handle things amicably.

nunogomez:
witch alert

nunogomez:
Your mother would want you to save your wife and family.

SycophanticGoat:
Only from the emotional perspective...

magicminister:
How would you feel if your father rescued his mother (your grandmother) first instead of your mother?
would you ever be able to accept that?