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ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.

From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......

She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.

The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...

The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........

Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...

Please help!

babtoundey:
Majority of the folks here won't believe or agree with you that the story is sketched.

Every part of the story is fabricated and garnished to deceive and curry favor from unsuspecting religious sentimentalists. The OP's primary objective, as his/her story portrays, is to substantiate the pervading news and rumours of the rife of religion persecution and further highten the crises of religious intolerance and suspicion.

Your parents maltreat you, stop paying your school fees a d turned you out just because you were caught reading Bible. Since when does reading Bible becomes a red signal and something Muslim cannot stand. Muslims owns and read Bible. That you read Bible is not a prove that you have preference for Christianity.

What more, majority of your friends are Muslims and they all discriminate against you. What happens to the very few that are Christians. They too are afraid to house you. There is no church in your neighborhood and the whole Kogi state that you can run to?

All the members of your family so much hate Christianity and your choice of becoming a Christian that they don't mind subjecting you to harrowing isolation and rejection.

How do you expect to get the help you could not get or ask for from your Christian friends, Christian neighbors, family members and churches around you from a faceless forum as this?

Try another trick!

Fasindo:


Oga no be Southerners infect northerners first?
What people like u failed to understand is majority of those guys are from Niger republic not north, no sane northerner can go to Lagos now considering the current pandemic.












Sometimes i wonder if there is a deliberate attempt by northeners to infect southerners, why hiding inside a lorry to move to a place where u ar not allowed to enter.

But ifthey are not from Kano no problem.


This covid19 has exposed a lot of things in Nigeria.
This illegal North to South migration should be put to an end once and for all.
I think people should be granted residential permit anywhere they are residing apart from their home state.

This morning the same set of people were caught migrating to Enugu.
Yesterday it was Abuja
last year they were also caught migrating from Jigawa to Lagos.

North to south migration should be discouraged now till Covid19 case is over.
Kano infected Kaduna, Kastina, Zamfara and other northern States, the states in turn move to South and infect Southerners.
The cycle continues

seunmsg:
87.73% poverty rate in sokoto. So, what exactly has Tambuwal been doing since 2015? And to think he’s also a 2023 presidential hopeful. Smh.

Yenefer:
sharaap

Exc2000:




Ganduje is definitely up to something, a sensible PhD holder from prestigious University of Ibadan who wrote many books , cant be this stupid

no wonder El Rufai isn't taking any chances with crazy kano state neighbors , he is locking up for 30 days and deporting every deportable Kano indegne

Buhari better deploy soldiers to North especially Kano, because police wont be effective controlling this people

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Millenniumlady:
Use the both guys to your advantage


Keep joe guy for assignments and handout test and other class stuff



While use the new guy for your finances phones,clothes,eateries wigs


And please stay in school hostle that way non of them can bother you with sex cause they can't gain access to girls hostel and you ever visit any of them reduce your sexual conversation with joe guy and learn to keep your phone private.....Hope it helps

propzncribz:
Is he related to Buharis former aide? Just curious

DigitalBrands01:
Exactly my thought the other day.

Who knows if the gods are angry for humiliating an innocent man?
Because Kano is not the only city around the region.
Argue with your subconscious mind.

Anyway, I will Design a company Logo for 2k Only or Website for your Product or Company. Info below

Jamesbiodun:
3 asthmatic patient died in Sokoto, northern governor and lies

Yenefer:
Is enough we don't want it. Enough string attached already. Barka da Shan ruwa to my fellow Muslim ummah.
When I stood up, my steps were uncertain, as though I were wearing lifts in my shoes. I could feel the air between the soles of my feet and the ground. It was like something important had altered, like gravity, or the air itself.

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

vanida6:
The idiot beg me for 10k for em to buy some stuffs,,,,letter i meet em in bet9ja place.

adadike:
Elrufai called southern women whores but let's tell ourselves the truth here. Hausa/ Fulani girls are the real whores. Hausa / Fulani have not produced a single thing in their entire life except sexual aphrodisiac called kayanmata and kayanmaza.

Nackzy:
Boom..Corona virus explosion, Our Famous Under age voters in the North, their people have forsaken them

Tissaia:
lemme just laugh because I will not going to insult any tribe
PS I'm fasting