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I'll try not to be a hypocrite.

I agree that talk is cheap

Help me O Universe.

MaxInDHouse:
It's a free world so nobody is setting standards for you Sir neither can you force your opinion on others!

I just hope the highlighted is not difficult for you when it happens for real catching your daughter kissing someone when they're not married!

Apply to the school, staying in your house won't help.

If you have the option:
- work in a school with internet
- get a laptop
- see if you can further studies in what you studied, abroad or in Nigeria.

Good luck. You are an adult. This life we get na one, take control of your life!

blackpink22:
yes
I'm good at computer , using Microsoft office is not a problem , i can teach too there was a school nearby , maybe I'll apply there

no I am not seeing him as my savior which is why I want to be independent too and be free

Do NOT kiss your gf or fiancé before marriage.

If you do so, flog yourself with horsewhip.

Say no to hypocrisy.

MaxInDHouse:
If your daughter can kiss a man to whom she is no married in your presence no wahala!

Nigerians who are educated (and wrote their own exams), have a better grasp of grammary, syntax, etc, than the average english speaking person in USA, Canada, UK.

Remember, I said average.

bepositive11:
May I know why you asked? Just remove English teacher from that list. Nigerians can't compete with native English speakers there especially if they have a Nigerian accent.

What work COULD you do.

You are a graduate. Can you read & write? Are you computer literate? Could you teach? Be an admin assistant?

Are you seeing the man as your saviour?

Many men "save" women only to be betrayed when the woman settles outside her family home.

blackpink22:
I'm 23 a girl and a graduate , spent most of my life in a boarding school , then straight to a private uni for college , I'm done with school now, I have no skill ,no job , very few friends that live far away from me and nothing else
my parents still won't let me go out or make friends but everyday I'm hearing marriage , marriage , marriage
I'm depressed , I wish they would just die and leave me alone
to think both of them eloped together against their parents wish and are now forming saints because they older is really annoying

no they do not provide for my needs, pads , toiletries , clothes ,my hair and money , every girl child needs money but my parents don't know that , if I tell them , they'll give me money to buy tissue which is unhygienic, I got lucky and found a man that covers those things for me and more but they were against that too , took my phone away and sent me back to our dry village , I live in their house and if there's food I eat but most times I lose my appetite coz I'm not happy , I wish they would disappear , one or both of them

I'm tired and I don't want to runaway , i just need advice on what to do

Aww, looking for your sugar daddy shebi.

May thunder fire you.

PS: I don't believe in curses and obviously do not expect thunder to literally fire you.

Kdon2:
You mean your daddy

My apologies. Thread seemed to have been reborn today.

Question still stands sir.

Cutehector:
that was years ago sir.

Just like you and your daddy.

Kdon2:
You are a very ignorant man

I am against the death penalty but.....


This father on daughter rape stuff is getting out of hand.

People don't trust brothers, older brothers of the girl child, now fathers toooo

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You could always ask for medical checkup. However, she will feel like you want her for kids alone and will likely resent you.

Properly done abortions shouldn't be a problem.

OsilaGama:
Is there any future risk issue if a lady has done abortion before,like having Child birth issues, fluctuating stomach pains and many others .

In summary is it adviveable to marry a lady who has done abortion in her youthful age??

Like u know marriage is not just for companionship, but also to keep on the continuity of a family.

Ahbeg drop ur opinions..

Average income in US is much less o.

Closer to $50,000 for median income. Maybe lower for average income.

ednut1:
average income in usa for 2021 was around 65k to 67k. After tax its like 47k. People doing hustle jobs make less than 35k a year gross. Rent will chop around 12k to 15k a year. Car insurance, phone bills. Fuel. Car loan, feeding, eating out etc. pata pata you will have 5k to 15k savings depending on the person lol. Only fraud can give you 100m naira in 3 years or you do business and have people who can show you way.. if you are a doctor or a top tech director it’s possible.

Non-professional? Difficult. Half that, maybe 75%, for sure.

Professional or semi-professional, yes.

Mrshape:
Please I really need this information if an average worker in the US earn around 75K dollars annually, a man said his expenses yearly will be around 8k,
Please those in the Western countries I need first hand information, please I never go before. I am just trying to rationalize it,
Please your input is appreciated,
And lastly I tried Google the expenses the man said I should not depend on Google that Nigerians abroad have a way they do it.

Of course many men suffer abuse: physical, emotional, mental, verbal, etc.

It is a sad state of affairs.

There are innovations that need sex too.

Even space research includes sex considerations

SugarGirl44:
Una don start today again.
The world is moving on at a fast pace, kids are producing electronics, automobiles etc.
Oṣi l'ẹyin nṣe ni Afrika.
Una no know pass sex, but you pretend as if you don’t do it.
Bleep if you wan Bleep, make una no dey disguise.
Nonsense.

Mummy like this dey play this kind play.

lollittaa

LIGHTROOM:
Yes no

For those who believe, where int he bible does it say that?

For "normal" people, this is very sad.

Aunty needs a steady boyfriend that will love and cherish her.

sojisenai:
It is a sin, obviously...just like SEX before marriage.

However, I want to ask the believers this question. My elder Sister is a virgin at 38, she married the love of her life in the year 2020 (after dating him in the 'believer way'), a fellow believer. Long story short, the marriage has been dissolved and she is still a virgin( apparently 'complete impotency' is real, I never truly believed it could happen to a young guy). How will you convince her now that SEX before marriage is wrong?

Meanwhile, if you have an elderly loved one, or a friend who is sick or disabled...and you need a reputable company to [provide quality care for them, kindly check my signature for the best caregiving service company around.

Why not.

Did I not kiss her mother before we got married?

MaxInDHouse:
Will you approve a man to kiss your daughter in your presence when they're not yet married?
What will you do when your daughter and a man is having a wet kiss in your presence after a minister has declared them husband and wife?

God bless you and may you have PEACE!

Man asked simple question, you dey write epistle.

Cutehector:
you see , there is one mistake we humans make a lot. We tend to ask if such acts are found in the bible, that it must be clearly written for all to see, by asking if kissing is a sin or fornication is a sin. It all boils down to one's mind.

From hug e go enta kiss, frm kiss na so e go graduate enta smoooch or pre-intimacy, before you know it, person don kpekus. Na so from clap e dey enter dance. Well sha, I don't find kissing a sin but when you lust after it, you burn with passion. St Paul teaches us that it's better to marry than to burn wit passion.

Don't quote me on the time o. Do your own research dude/dudette.

bepositive11:
Wow... that's a very long time! Thank God for Canada!

True, there is discrimination everywhere.

Why is a breakup inevitable?

VictorUSA:
This is my first time being in love. I'm truly in love with my gf and she love me too. My problem now is how do I stop this love or at least reduce because I know break up and heartbreak is inevitable.

Exactly.

Some women will not care if you die. They will always look out for no 1 (themelves).

jaxxy:
Ive been in exact same situation word for word, All I can tell u is ladies are manipulative so put urself 1st and what's best for u not for them especially a married woman.

Try to keep a safe distance and don't play along.

Chai, this is the nonsense ppl like you think of.


Arueme o

MuslimIgbo:
Lol
I'm certain that rhe. tards like you do peep at your mom and sisters when they're having their bath. If you're not already sleeping with your sisters, fingering is definitely going on.
Ho low ree buu
ruu kuu

I don't know much about German immigration. I think it was going to take him 10+ years before he could apply for either permanent residence or citizenship.

There are some allegations that African doctors are usually less paid. I don't know for sure.

There will always be discrimination by somebody. Even in Nigeria, can one honestly say that we (some) do not discriminate against ourselves?

bepositive11:
If you don't mind, how exactly is the immigration process too difficult in Germany? I wonder if it has something to do with discrimination against Africans. Is that the case?

Do immigrants face difficulty even when they've mastered the German language?

Awwwwww

He can't even type.

Please go back to your incest home. I hope your mom or sis did not beat any househelp.

MuslimIgbo:
Lol
Ho low ree buu ruu kuu
Just because y.hu were brought up in a dysfunctional family home, having a drunkard old fool faggōt father and an ugly old hag WHORÈ mother, doesn't mean every other person too here are unfortunate too.

I'm not responsible for your life's misfortune, blame your parents.

Trouble left you, you wake am up.

LEAVE troublesome women. If they leave you by themselves, do NOT TAKE THEM BACK.


Go and suffer by yourself. Why did you marry a troublesome woman in the first place?

efelicity:
Nairalanders, my wife divorced me some few days ago and i was totally down, altho she was with the man for those few days, but she's back begging me to take her back. The man already had two women in his house and he doesn't give her the attention she needs so she still packed out and come begging me and i accepted her back so that she can take care of our kids.

You and the prophet are MADDD

Bring your mom and married sisters first.

MuslimIgbo:
Or deh

Start fuckîng married women and you'll understand. Since you refused to have sense, you'll definitely learn your lessons the hard way.

Your generation is cursed.

PS: I don't believe curses have any effect

MuslimIgbo:
Or deh

Start fuckîng married women and you'll understand. Since you refused to have sense, you'll definitely learn your lessons the hard way.

Then leave her alone na.

Which one is your problem.

ersonleads:
Actually met a lady who broke up from her ex of 7 years because he wasn't saying anything about marriage. We just met barely two months & am always in a mood & urge to av sex sometimes but she refuse cos she needs commitment. I really don't understand how she just want me to commit to her? I really like her but I still need to study her closely. But she's making me feel some kind of way. Can someone please help me out with some Advice

Many people do this. Sometimes not all but mostly.

People like lollittaa, pocohontas, mariahangel.

Na their way. Defend nonsense at all costs if na woman do am.

VULCAN:
Notice how this person completely absolves the adulterous woman and turns around to make it about men in general.

Many of these feminists have psychological issues that undiscerning men won't notice till they have entered their trap.

I advise men to look well because a lot of these girls out there are mentally unstable

Generational curses cannot deal with Nigerian politicians, murderers, etc? It is now ordinary mekwe that they will deal with?

Go and sleep my friend.

MuslimIgbo:
If you want generational problem and curses upon yourself, you can start a relationship with her.

That is the way.

Enny2013:
Ha! I can't imagine myself sleeping with another man except my husband; no matter d situation.
Other men irritate me,no matter how neat and rich. I can't stand it.
It's just my husband.