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Have you and your husband visited other countries before?

I was thinking that visiting different countries (Ghana, Morocco, Dubai, etc) would build a travel history before applying for UK, Canada, US visit visa?

ditha:
Hi Olori, My husband's visit visa got refused. I would like to chat with you to hear the steps you are taking for the reapplication

Fellow Montrealer! Did you need a csq for your wife? Or are you moving?

OloriOfMontreal:
This thread doesn't appear to be active; please we need alumni Spousal sponsorship members to help answer some questions

That's not a rejection, that's a return.

Go through the checklist very well.

I'd suggest getting a friend who is in Canada to help you go through your application folder (electronic).

iskilayodele:
My application got rejected. My wife mailed it to IRCC 4 weeks ago, and we received the application back from IRCC yesterday.
The reason behind the rejection was that the application was incomplete

Canada visa.com has a few very active spousal application threads.

joy2dworld4eva:
Thank God we now have spousal application thread. I've been all over nairaland searching for an appropriate thread that treats spousal application.
Our application was received on Thursday, September 16th, 2021 but we're yet to receive an acknowledgement mail. Does anyone know how long it takes to get an acknowledgement mail after package has been received ?

Any update?

I hear the delays these days are madd.

Maydaygirl:
No update on mine yet. I learnt it takes about 2 months after submission to get an initial response from them.

Your feelings are valid, I pray for mine to be less than 12 months too.

Let's keep the trend alive, please guys.

Colour does not matter.

Wakanda colourism be this?

rickleye:
Lies ! Common man.
You need to understand what a AA goes through on a daily basis does not compare to what those white ladies face. So a AA woman is guarded on all fronts cause she doesn’t want a man , any man to take away what she’s earned and worked hard for. I have nothing against white women but if you truly want a strong black woman and can pierce her amour- dude they are loyal like any other group. They just want love like the next white lady.
When you date white lady - it’s just sex that’s it but black women are wired a bit differently- they often don’t want the one night stand but a bit more commitment.

I hosted a couple once from Brazil.

By far the most beautiful people I've ever met.

Completely racially ambiguous.

I also hosted a Brazilian soldier, very very nice guy.

pansophist:
No I haven't. I plan to go this year because she is getting married. What also intrigued me about Brazil was how extremely multiracial and diverse it is. Brazil is a country that regardless of your looks, you can be a Brazilian.

From Japanese, Asians, blonde eyes Europeans and Africans as black as Akon, all exist within Brazil. And it's so damn huge. One can fly from one part of the country to the other for about six hours and still be in Brazil. As a comparison, it takes around same that time to fly from London to Lagos.

I used to think Nigeria was big when I was small lol, travelling to the North from Lagos and seeing all those unending view of empty lands with no inhabitant in sight, while being on the road for more than one day. But in Brazil, only the Amazon rainforest is bigger than Nigeria seven times. If not for corruption in politics, Brazil is just one of the countries that is heaven on earth. And its warm, what's more can one ask for ?

Mr. Samuels died alone. Based on the reports, he died of a heart attack. If he was living with a wife, kids, etc; he most likely would have survived.

I think he had good intentions even if I feel that most people did not gain from his show.

People should be happy with who they're with and strive for loving, equal/équitable relationships.

Dying alone, something he used to bring him his points to (stubborn) women, is what happened to him.

If you're serious, could you work done months in an African country? Ghana, Kenya, maybe even Nigeria?

I'm sure your skills as an American trained nurse would be greatly appreciated. Perhaps some agency (USAID) could pay you as well.

There are stories of foreigners working in Africa or the middle East, that eventually fall in love with someone there. Made to feel like a whole woman, not just a fleshlight (like some in America act).

Again, if this is not a fake post.

NurseMaryUSA:
With so many scams going on how can an African American female find a serious African man to marry. It doesn't seem like many African men are interested in marrying us.

You and who is we?

You wan marry woman abi you wan marry slave?

yemmit90:
I dont think any African American female has what it takes to marry a typical African man. Total submission is one of the things we take serious in marriage in Africa, and I dont thing any of you ladies can do that in the name of marriage.

To avoid story that touched, please marry your kind over there.

E be like say African woman abroad run you Street.

womenareapez:
when I was in Canada way back then, (dating 2018) alot of African women are coming my way to the extent of proposing and striking a deal if I put a ring or even date them

Even when refusals them started planning evils way to deal with me

Why will I come to abroad to look for a Africa woman to marry when a lot of Asians, white Latina are all chasing you and want you to date them with overdose of love
Which sense is it for me to follow my wicked female black species with bipolar mental disorders

Don't let anybody decieve you that Africa America women are good! They are way useless and full of depression with special gifts of mental illness

Is only in Nigeria that men are chasing those black piece of shiit of a female, and as soon as them leave this country to abroad! No men will always come there way not talk less of to Strike a convo with that black female species.
THIS IS THE FIRST STAGE OF DEPRESSION.

The second stage is when for more than 8month them wont recognise the world "hi" because no men will come there way and say hi. And once they mistakenly heard the world "hi" them come into panick attack

THIRD STAGE OF DEPRESSION: you start seeing them on YouTube posting rubbish in hope for a contact to contact them or ask for a date. And the good part is that them won see!

FORTH STAGE OF DEPRESSION: careful for this stage is one of the most dangerous stage. They will finally have the courage to approach after they have gotten tired of Thier dildos and intimacy gadget! Them fantasize the torch and smell of men after them haven't seen men approaching them for more than 1yr. Hence developing courage to approach men and when them do, they got a lovely rejection and hence developed the feminist trait. black women of this stage of depression will do everything in their means to implicate you or pull you down just because you reject there approach.

FIFTH AND FINAL STAGE OF DEPRESSION: this is a typical example of the op and what she is facing right now. Them started importing men from there route of origin (Africa especially Nigeria men).
Them will come down to Africa or seek the attention of there family members to look for a simpsgood man for them to marry after they have damage there life. And most of them got a child to whome they have been collecting child support from

Be wise and dont fall prey to those black species.

Is always better to marry a fat white woman than to marry a black woman.

THE TRUTH SHALL SET YOU FREE!

People are looking for love o.

Nurses have among the highest non married rates.

ednut1:
Unless you are a 500 pounder I don’t believe this shit

Do you follow female dating strategy?

virginprincess:
fixed.

Date the African man just like you would date anyone else.

Be yourself so that he and you can make the decision to be, or not to be, together based on reality.

Do not transfer the experience with one person to another person.

There are stereotypes about "Akata" women that some men take seriously. These include, baby mama culture, ready to cheat, vindictive, loudmouthed, etc.

NurseMaryUSA:
With so many scams going on how can an African American female find a serious African man to marry. It doesn't seem like many African men are interested in marrying us.

If true, the boss is an insufferable idiot.

N100,000 is ~ $250 in Canada.

Most people earn that in 1 - 2 days of work.

viyon02:
He can easily get level 14 civil servant as sponsor who earn above #100000 and then use his bank statement for over 6month now.

This is actually good advice.

You need a realistic review of your chances for relocation to Canada.

Even if you want to go for studies, they need you to prove that you can return to your country.

If you want to visit Canada, or other countries, the Nigerian federal civil service job is a good tie to your country.

Remember that even if you go as a student, residence/citizenship is not guaranteed.

Good luck.

BigDawsNet:
Let me advice you

5m won't be enough to migrate to Canada unless you wanna focus on UK

Get that federal job and stay active for about 4 years...
Apply for visit with your family ...

You job is a good backup and solid home ties that will earn you an approval...

You never do big business for naija before. Na im make.

hakeemhakeem:
You got 5m you still wanna do yes sir! What's stopping you from creating your own job.

Cut ties with your father. Only see him when other people are there.

For him to attempt to hit you with heavy materials twice within minutes, he wants to seriously hurt you.

So you're getting married despite incompatibility and an inability to resolve issues?

OluwoR:
she doesn't want us to involve both families

What of her parents? Have you spoken with them?

OluwoR:
Good evening my brothers and sisters,

I sincerely needs urgent help/assistance for my Fiancee.

Met her in 2012, started dating in 2014, had our first sex in 2019, but since that 2019, anytime I make moves to have sex with Her, it's always through fight, to cut the story short, she find sex extremely painful that even anything that pass cuddling, she'll start crying, this might sound funny, but seriously it is not.
I talked to Her about it, booked an appointment with a gynecologist, my babe didn't show up, I tried to get her sexual supplements, she said they have side effects, and she disposed them.

Now, the problem is, we're planning our introduction, and we're yet to get any solution to the problem at hand,
please, who have any idea of what we can do about it.

Saw this.

Fear is valid, but he's being a drama queen.

Loreettaa:
Cooooooks see this....
Abroadian phobia is worrying him

How old are you that you became a father 12 years ago; and are now dating a 23-year-old??

Kingsley123456:
I will be brief...

I dated a lady in 2009, despite that she knows I wasn't ready to father a child, she got pregnant and hid it for about 5-6months before she came to my patents through my elder sister....now I hardly sleep,

Well, I started dating another girl (23yr old) early last yr, obviously we started as a sex mate thinking the relationship was heading nowhere so I thought there was no point of being straightforward about having a child before meeting her....

Now I've seen other qualities that I like in her, we love each other and the relationship has taken another face, I don't want to lose her Care and love. I ought to have told her before, now I'm scared, I know she will be heartbroken, I don't know what she could do when I finally tell her, but what I know is that, she will leave me once she found out elsewhere....

We spoke last night and I asked her what can make her break up with me, her reply was, if her mother should reject me or if she herself should find out any of my secrets from another person...how do I tell her Honestly I'm afraid of loosing her...I'm 31yrs old, she's serving rn.

Nonsensical statement.

oldienavie:
So I have been dating my girlfriend for 3 months [s]and she is perfect, actually she is a virgin[/s], well behaved and very respectful.

Fear of road travel is real & valid in Nigeria. Could they come to the city? Could you travel exclusively in the day?

oldienavie:
The relationship is going very fine but I am starting to really think deeply and I may just break up.
Why ? I have lived abroad for a while and do have a very serious phobia for travelling on Nigerian roads, her parents are a journey of 4 hours from where I am and I understand the area is rife with kidnapping and robbery of all sorts.

I find myself obsessing over having to make that trip to her parents place and also have my family embark on that journey and I always shudder at the thought of it.

I am seriously considering breaking up with her and looking for a lady whoose parents are here in the same city I reside, cos one of the things that gives me serious head ache is travelling on Nigerian roads.

Since I got back to Nigeria I have not travelled outside of the city that I am and it is because of how serious that phobia is.

But how do I tell her I am breaking up with her for this reason, it sounds very trivial but its a serious issue for me.

Mad people everywhere in we country.

1stGenAmerican:
And to think that 219 people agreed and clicked like.

Women rape men too.

saapphiere:
God!
These animals would rape you regardless.
Being a celebrity, a blind, an ugly or whatever does not exempt you from being raped as long as you're a female.

God will help us
I just found the video on YouTube.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kc-yzExryyM
Let's not conceal evil.

May God almighty punish anyone that would ever quote me on this forum. It will not be well with that person and his entire generation.

Can't you air your view without quoting me? God punish you all.

Wise words.

Na transgender people make governor no dey pay salaries.

streetsoldier1:
ori yin ti daru, so with all the problems of this nation, na transgender matter una dey protest for A dollar is almost ₦600 no one is saying anything.. we truely deserve those we have as leaders

Trans people made our politicians to steal?

They make customs to frustrate every business person?

Lawly:
I like that. Those evil NWO people are responsible for the madness going on the world over. Please don't accept them.

The world will leave you behind.

Rugaria:
I refuse to accept..

No need to qualify your comment. That's how you, others, unwittingly justify violence.

Trimjos:
In as much as I do not support same sex relationship, killing a soul you cannot create is the worst of it all. Pls refrain from making such utterances

You need to be prosecuted for terrorism.

naija4life247:
This is where you need Fulani herdsmen and Bandits. Imagine if Bandits kidnap all these miscreants and fucck them severally, and then call their families to bring millions to exchange for their worthless lives.

Golan007 seems confused.

Flamemignon1:
I'm sorry, let me get this straight,you are for trans people but against gay people?