₦airaland Forum

Uniquekriss:
BSc and HND holders?

At least I've met q few.

Yugoslavia247:
Yeah. Labour law is dead. You can still get some extent in multinational companies.

Sometimes I wonder if I should still pity Nigeria... SMH

Same werey will come online and fight e-battles over the same madmen who enslaves them.

I'm an advocate for Chao's long lasting peace though...

Let there be vawulence everywia

Yugoslavia247:
I don't think this will matter to unemployed person who has stayed home for months jobless.

And in Nigeria if you get a job and ask too much there are 10001 people waiting to take that spot.

For now get the job and think of next step.

Than doing what labour laws have not implemented

Fact of life.

Little wonder why people still work for 30k /month in today's Nigeria....smh

Our system sucks.

TheBillyonaire:
The decision to deactivate my accounts are because I do not want mentions of my username to trigger my return when I do not want to, and secondly, there is egocentric attachment to these names that make people feel there are needed or important, so I kill my ego always and I am learning from this site how to master my emotion even when insulted based on my opinions, which could be wrong anyway.

With regards to the thread, it is okay to kneel for parents because you are literally their Ancestors and they are now your parents and when or if they chose to return back to the blood line, they become your kids or grand kids, so it is okay to even kneel for parents.

But when it comes to kneeling for a fellow human being because he is in position to grant you wishes on the ground of humility, I see it as debasing onself just for financial gains. And I also see that those want you or expect you to kneel down for them are actualling controling the kneelers. Certain Cultures and Tradtions are actually designed to control and these Customs were enacted and any idiology enacted must also have expiry date. If our forefathers used to kneel to be given food, we can feed ourselves now so there is no need to kneel for others.

It's really a fine thing to acknowledge that your opinions could be wrong.

On the topic again...

I still don't understand why I have that feeling even when it's my parents. I just wouldn't be sincere if I ever did that.

I've long accepted it that way. I can't kneel to save my life even... My sister says it's too much ego but I tend to ignore anything that will tell me otherwise on that matter. Maybe I'm too set in my ways but I've made peace with my ways for too long.

EducatedMind369:
billyonaire is back. He goes by "thebillyonaire" now.

I see you brother.

TheBillyonaire:
You have no reason to kneel down in front of another human being. The system of 'Respect' is common among tribes where free citizens are controlled and cheated on by the controllers.

Check every tribe that kneel or lie down to greet, there is a class divisiveness where the Controller is wealthy and sort of demigods and the controlled have nothing but respect for the controllers.

Even Religions thrive on this same old game.

Been ages brother. Welcome back.

I went off NL too for a spell but didn't deactivate my account for I did have the feeling that I'll be back, Mr Seun has made an addict out of this daddy...

How about not deactivating your account if you feel you need some off time off NL? At least we'll know once you comment on any thread.

Glad you're back though...

On the topic... I personally even find it difficult to even kneel to my mum and dad plus how strong I believe the emotions of respect I hold for them.. My Pa is recently gone though... And they've come to terms with my kinda person. But they know when I'm sincere.

There's no connection between sincerity and kneeling down. And i know me more than anything else...

Again , I greet you..

MissOpe:
no permanent friend nor enemy.
No permanent relatives, nor Family.

The world keeps moving..

We are all living on borrowed times.

Aiye mate, only interests are eternal.

lavylilly:
The pressure to meet up with bills, taxes and other stuff to survive with back to back shifts go humble any Nigeria Person. Even many married people are lonely...talking from my sisters experience.

She said nothing but the fact.
Have experienced this issue.
Ko easy. Do shakara for naija but not for obodo Oyinbo

Beautiful thing ;
1. You can’t use money, catfish &pepper soup to get a girlfriend.
2. Bills are split even on first date
3. You don’t pay anyones transport
4. Dating doesn’t mean relationship
5. Relationship doesn’t mean marriage
6. You must ask if she is into men/women

7. You must also confirm if the gender has been changed

piper7:
What else do you think they'll start changing now apart from gender? I'm changing my visibility status now. I'm now invisible. You can't see me.

Let me recommend one funny yet somewhat scary novel I once had.

Search for REPO MAN.

In that book, there happens to be a time where man was so advanced medically that virtually any part of the body can be changed and replaced with more advanced Lab produced parts, you just name it. One can even have x-ray vision like Superman.

But the catch is, you pay for the parts like your mortgage and if you ever miss any installment, the REPOMEN will come after you to repossess the said part...
There was even a lady who has replaced virtually every organ in her body with advanced parts and it took dozens of REPOMEN to take her down.... Imagination is truly like a wild horse with no reins whatsoever.


Ah, imagine, just imagine... The book was still stolen by one of my female friends...smh


Like I suspect, all these plastic surgeries and transgenders are just pioneers to get to the real destination. We're evolving differently. I only hope the world's consciousness agrees with this direction of evolution, else we'll only end up eliminated and abandoned by it.

Saynoomore:
The man that lived with this woman is a hero indeed! Chai! Tell me he took off pls!

Took off ke? The OP did mention they're still a couple

Like the elders will say: Man wey marry woman wey get hunchback, know how he take dey sleep with her...

Nazgul:
This is where the problem is. Professional therapist are trained like specialist to handle a particular area of your life.

This means that if you're having relationship issues, the therapist who would be assigned to help you out would politely refer you to someone else if after your sessions on relationship, you tell him/her that you're battling with alcohol, drugs, betting..etc. They know their speciality and they stick to it.

But in Nigeria, one pastor would want to tell you how to run your business, manage your family, manage stress at the office, manage your studies as a student, tell you who and who not to get married to, see vision and prophesies for you, keep asking you to sow seeds and make donations for problems he has no solution to...etc. You would end up becoming slaves to them, cos at that point, they'll literally be controlling every area of your life and you would have very little success to boast of.

You're very right when you said they spiritualized everything cos that's exactly what they do. They know that once they tell you that God showed them this or that you would believe them more. The average African is a mental slave to religion.

All these gbogbonisé pastors...

It's one of he curses we've been trying to purge from our society. .

Oftentimes, only we can heal ourselves. The words of others can just be that spark of enlightenment to unlock the healing to fix the ails in our lives.

This i know...

Flier:
Let me give you the secret to get Nigeria men for free according to all my friends who recently got married
1) Do not ask him money

2) Do not ask him money

3) Do not ask him money

4)Do not ask him money

5)Attempt to pay if you go out together

6) Allow the rest to sort itself

7) Never collect or accept Tf

8 ) Give him money on his birthday instead of gift,even if it’s just 5000 naira
He would probably start giving you even more than what you need without asking immediately he realise you are not after his money,and he will go extra length to marry you

That no.8

I don't like taking money from women even if it's from my mum and sisters. Even feels awkward if my fellow man dash me money let alone a woman. I just believe in taking care of any woman that has any sort of connection to me. Romantic or not. But if you give me money by yourself, you don catch maga be dat o

An Hausa girl nearly use that kind behavior of spending for me catch me back then.. I for no be an old single father by now...smh

eepeepook:
A fruitless search for an argument. I wish you luck in your endeavour.

SMH

phemmie06:
How did such person get there

Side door or windows.

Well, he was thrown out the window in the end.

SMH

eepeepook:
Human life means nothing in Africa, example 2,058.

Even the serial shootings abroad are done by Africans...

What a joke..

Yeye dey smell

Starboytwo:
Sudan or Ghana if you need steady 24 hour light.

Repent from wickedness

inoki247:
Lol apart from electricity nd maybe security...


Nigeria is far better than Ghana Economically we are better if Akufo Addo try doz shiitty policy's we all survived I don't think that country will survive...


When people say different jargons Abt Nigeria they want to go to Ghana that's better I tell them safe trip nothing cheap for that country even ordinary Olosho he cost....


With all dere 247 electricity isn't even showing in derr economy all dere things still costly than our own where the manufacturing company are running on Gen imagine Coke 30cl for 5cedis thats like 300naira apart from the big eatery in Nigeria 50cl Coke is just 200naira if anyone tells you as a Nigerian that Ghana is better and his living dere ask him to show you his bank statement when he was living in Nigeria and his Mobile wallet in Ghana to see if that electricity makes him more productive and his showing in his life...


As a struggling Nigerian sef you can't afford dere Permit so why go stay in another man's country illegally derr permit cost $500 you will pay it in Dollars not dere local currency we Neva talk tips wey u go pay before dey even approve it which can also be like $500 making $1000 nd you've to renew every Year..

As we complain reach about this country, we can't relocate to Ghana. For what? Dem follow for person japa plan?

Na love make us dey complain about we country.

Korean flower boys also harming the guys now...

Deadbody get acid_dent

VinnyBaba:
If you really love the Job or you DREAD unemployment,

MAN UP and Meet ur Boss and Tell him 'Boss, no Vex for wetin I see dat day o.

Wahala,, wahala

IyaebeTheGreat:
I know my future inlaws will intially complain and dislike me but they'll eventually love me beyond imaginations by the time I packaged them 😂. I don't even know why people have problems with their inlaws, stop marrying pretenders only to start seeing their true colours in the marriage.

Dey play...

ridwanlawal:
DNA TEST prompted him to do so.
My thought

Ah Mr Ridwanlawal. The script didn't say so o.

The film, say the uncle just felt he wronged the first wife, so he had to once again expose the first wife and her daughters to the fetish and diabolical abilities of the second wife.

I'm sure there's part 2.

MrBrownJay1:
DECENT GF...aka not an olosho who sells herself to the highest bidder.



the above is a HUGE assumption...so far as we all know, his problem is sex and nothing else. so thats why i stated that a GF would solve that. if he has other issues in his life, then i certainly cant talk on that, because he hasnt mentionned it.

Okay, if anybody believes sex is their problem,, they should look for a partner to get regular sex?

This ancestor has learned something new today...

PhilipsN:
Imagine their courage as if some powers are backing them

Before nko?

I dare problem this: "Verily verily, I tell you. No terror group, no thug nor national criminal group can operate independently without the existing governments' approval."

There's always some Abraham Nnanna in high places using these terror groups to protect one shady interest..

Yet ipobs were labelled terrorists while these crazy murderers were simply called bandits by ogbeni LIAR MOHAMMAD.
. Yet someone go tell me say there's no magic?

Yeye dey smell

MrBrownJay1:
to solve a problem you need to FIRST figure out and accept that you have a problem...
so what is this dude's problem? not enough sex in his life that he spends all his money on toto when he gets a lil money...
SOLUTION: get a GF so that you wont have to spend all your money on oloshoes for sex.

It's okay to think so.

I can assure you, having a GF won't stop the block headed guy from seeking adventures everywhere.

Like I mentioned, his problem is within himself. I've never been one who believes in outside solutions when it comes to mental issues like these.

BlueAir:
Ironic enough. The only way to maintain peace with a woman and her bullssshit in the home is to seek distraction or comfort outside d home

Depends.

But we can boldly say this: With the number of unstable blockheads out there, it's best they just abstain. Many folks don't know how to multitask..

They'll probably start hating on their spouses because of one unsure gig outside... SMH

MrBrownJay1:
VERY EASY SOLUTION: get a decent gf and you will get all the above for free...

Wrong move brother...

Each man has the sole duty to fix himself, if he thinks he's on a path of foolishness.

Looking elsewhere for solution will only help for as long as it lasts.

Just taking charge of your affairs can fix a lot of ills...

Greetings

donbachi:
No matter how hungry you may get.if you don't like the heat from the kitchen.dont go there.

Wise words.

If you know, you know....

MetroLane:
Economy don show everybody shege....

Na Preek people dey thief now....


You dey thief person Preek so that you go get two Preek abi wetin.........

I no understand this country again.

Yeye somebody..

You wan use laff wound this daddy?

Oya tell me sorry

DatNiggaDaz:
After they woefully fail, they call God to help them.

Why accept an appointment when you know you will leave it for God to provide solutions. You don't remember God when you loot the funds that are needed to do the job you were appointed or elected to do.

Calling God will not help you to do the job you were elected or appointed as the case maybe.

Heaven helps those who help themselves

Funny people

In other words, if you don't help yourself, even heaven will ignore you...

Imagine

Without your actions, heaven will never react..


Just imagine

Corridon:
I haven't seen a woman so uncouth, crass and mannerless than this Abike of a woman! Her parents failed to instill discipline on her right from childhood. One can only but imagine how mannerless her children will be. I really weep for her husband that's if she has any. I give up on her.

Nah, do not bring her parents into this.

It's simply the normal arrogance of those in positions of power in this country.

How do you think a mortal will feel if they believe they're untouchable?

Not only her, all of them are too arrogant. I await the day of purging.

superlanny:
No government official should ever use prayers or the name of the Lord or Allah to cover or justify their cluelessness and incompetence. It is myopic and nonsensical when excellent leadership, accountability and patriotism is obviously lacking in our so called politicians. Her reply sounded immature for a high level official, they must learn to tolerate criticisms.

Not only immature brother, she's a complete dolt.

Well, in our society, God iand the supernatural is the biggest excuse.

If not how does anyone explain the notions of snakes and rats eating billions yet no one, even the so-called activists dare cough?

Well, I don't blame her, maybe her predecessors will receive the heat for I can hardly see the current average Nigerian doing jack about all their incompetence and foolishness.

MetroLane:
The whole

world is on

Auto Pilot.....

Let the craze continue, we are watch from the sideline.

Sidelines kô....

One way or another, it'll affect and influence many things. Did you forget that no country is currently isolated?

Unless your country is self sufficient in today's world, you'll feel the heat in subtle ways. Even Russia with all their resources can't completely stay in isolation, that's why they cling to the Chinese for life itself.

Abeg, independence na scam. Know yourself, know your needs, protect your needs. It's just a game albeit a serious game.