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@ Missy B, you won't kill me! Actually you are killing me 

I do remember karishika, karishika, queen of "         "

Now I'm really missing "dem" days, let me reminisce.

- Remembering those pink chewing gums, that were 1 naira each, the mallams usually sold.

mr cork or whatever his name is. What the heck is "no offeinse"? And to top it all, others encourage him and laugh with him. This is so annoying!

I think she has been found.

Just after hearing about Zach and Vanessa breaking up, now Scarlett Johansson and Ryan Reynolds?

http://omg.yahoo.com/news/scarlett-johansson-ryan-reynolds-split/52338?nc

After more than two years, Scarlett Johansson and Ryan Reynolds have decided to end their marriage, a source close to the couple tells the new Us Weekly, out Wednesday.

PHOTOS: Scarlett and Ryan in happier times

UPDATE: After UsMagazine.com broke the news Tuesday, the couple released the following statement:

"After long and careful consideration on both our parts, we've decided to end our marriage. We entered our relationship with love and it's with love and kindness we leave it. While privacy isn't expected, it's certainly appreciated."

"They are being very civil about it," the source tells Us of the pair, noting that the spouses separated about two weeks ago.

PHOTOS: The biggest splits of 2010

Johansson, 26, began dating Reynolds, 34, in 2007; the stars announced their engagement in May 2008 and tied the knot that September in a remote wilderness retreat in Vancouver, B.C.

The source explains that Iron Man 2 star Johansson initiated the split. At issue? "The big problem with their relationship is the distance," says the source. "They spent a lot of time apart when they are working, She's been unhappy for a while."

PHOTOS: Hollywood's ugliest divorces

Johansson told Glamour last year that she's no expert on relationships. "I don't profess to know anything about marriage that anybody else doesn't know, or how to make it right," she told the mag.

Green Lantern star Reynolds, meanwhile, admitted in the October issue of GQ that things had "changed" since they got married. "I'm a little more guarded, I think. I'm a little bit more wary of having my relationship turning into a soap opera."

PHOTOS: Scarlett's surprising dating past

Still, he gushed at the time that marriage was the "best part" of his life.

For more on their sudden split, pick up the new Us Weekly, on stands Wednesday.

RIP. This silent disease is really taking over most women. look at Aretha Franklin, battling the same cancer again.

[quote author=Missy ★ B link=topic=564373.msg7294101#msg7294101 date=1291803955]Even after a year [Hyperbole] I still use it, as long as it's frozen.
I usually put the soup in the freezer a day after I prepared it, and it stays there for as long as whenever. No side effects.[/quote]Missy B, after a year? I know you were sarcastic here lol. I think 3 weeks at most for the taste to still be there? or less.

rubi:
@ Topic If possible make your soup in small quantity so that it will not stay too long in the freezer

I suggest after two weeks the taste will change and it is not even healthy that is how people get cancer preserving food till thy kingdom come.

I noticed that sometimes and sometimes too for more than 2 weeks the taste is still there.

MRbrownJAY:
@poster
FRIENDS: how is that possible?! dont you go out together to places where her friends may be at?! if you have never met any of her friends then i suggest you reevaluate your relationship as something is fishy?!

FAMILY: means she is not ready yet or not viewing you as what you would want to be seen. she may be THE ONE for you but you aint THE ONE to her. . . . . . . . no big but if it bothers you that much then tell her.

So Jay, you are saying something isn't right if she hasn't introduced you to her friends and what time frame are u expecting her to have introduced you to her friends before you know she's not playing games with you?

Omolola1:
Never, until i know we are both ready to be hooked

So you could only introduce him to your friends only if you both are getting married?

MzWumi:
I don't believe in introducing anyone to my family unless its deemed necessary. Prior to being married I used allow bf to come to my mom's house all the time. If my mom walked in the room she already knows the rule. Say hi, don't ask who are you, or any of those types of questions. They used to get upset and ask why didn't i introduce them, but for what reason should I? are we getting married? NO, are we talking about marriage, NO, so what point is there to get family involved. So you have to ask yourself, are you very serious with your girl? do you want her to meet your family. If you have yet to introduce her to your parents, why do you want to meet hers?

How about your friends?

obowunmi:
if i'm not putting a ring on it, then I don't need to meet anybody.

So you don't mind if you have not been introduced even to her friends?

Dyt:
Ha me i ll nt lyk it o
well always lucky 2 meet dem sha

You won't like if you are not introduced?

How long? 2 weeks, a month before deciding to throw it away.

[quote author=D-sense link=topic=564227.msg7291104#msg7291104 date=1291754779]OP.
I get no worried  . . .So far the time is behind us!!![/quote]What's your time definition? How long before you start thinking all sorts?

kokoye:
I acutally felt uncomforatable the first time she did it . . .cos it was unexpected.

So she later asked me if I would prefer her to call me 'friend' to her family.  - I hated that option  

So she sweetly set me straight and I sat up.

___________________________

I have never been in a relationship where I'd beg for a lady to introduce me to a family.  We tend to run from such things.

But if she doesn't, does that make you think and feel she's not in love with you? Like what goes on in your head?

How do you guys feel, when a girl you met and dating or girlfriend has not introduced you to any of her friends/family months since you both began dating/going out?

[quote author=Mr¬Cork link=topic=562269.msg7279330#msg7279330 date=1291621724]OK. Hopefullly, P squr will be ban from singing in eglish is 2011 becoz they publickly this grace singing in english

acccssent with there conk IBo accsssent. No body buy there cassette anyways. (no oofeinse) [/quote]You are so DISGUSTING! Not funny at all. You try so hard but dry as dust.

It is very shocking because no one knew or was expecting such. Could imagine him walking home from school, probably rushing home to go eat, watch a movie, browse or such, before being snatched away unexpectedly.

german007:
Ileke-Idi

I feel your pain, May Bawomolo's soul RIP. I lost my immediate junior brother last 11 days ago in the UK, He was only 28. Ive been so devastated and traumatised ever since, I have'nt been able to do much since then.

My bro was intelligent, gifted and kind hearted.

Similar questions such as your's above ran through my mind. Why do the good die young? Do they deserve such?.

One thing I found solace in is that "God knows best".

Sorry for your loss! I could only imagine but as you said, God knows best!



[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=562796.msg7279090#msg7279090 date=1291617498]That was Busayo. He always left a good impression on anyone.

A father worked so hard to bring up a successful family, but one was cruelly taken away just like that. Busayo had everything, intelligence, understanding, wisom, kindness, pure heart. . . . and he was never arrogant about it!

Why God?! Who did you intended on punishing? Why? Need you take him away s fast and so cruelly? Why? Because he did not favour you? I thought you were a merciful God. Lord help me understand.[/quote]I could relate with you. Very painful but as cool DK said, be careful. He is still God and knows why.

chiogo:
*Sigh*

It hurts to know that you just posted a few days ago but can no longer do so forever, which means I'll never see your username appear online again. It sends chills down my back.



I'll truly miss you. Rest in peace, buddy.

That is Chiogo the same thing that I cannot grasp and sends shivers down my spine. I had to go check his profile and saw when he last logged on meaning he would never come online again? Very hard to grasp! Death is indeed inevitable.

I sometimes wonder if there are some other nairalanders that have perhaps died too or so (Not praying for any one)

RIP though I do not know you on a personal level but seen your posts, that alone is enough for me to miss you. Hearing about it sent cold shivers. May God Almighty bless your soul. It is truly shocking. Can't grasp this.

LMAO, he does look weird without the glasses. Aboki

Babe I have always had issues with age differences and even came on here to post about a break up 'bout one but that age difference "27" and "53" is way tooooo much! It doesn't make sense. By the time you are 40, he would be 66 and so on. Not reasonable. I'm sure there are other guys older but not this much. Think wisely

My heart goes out to his family and loved ones. Though I never spoke with you Busayo, you would truly be missed. May your soul rest in peace. You would be missed!

na wa for Hollywood marriages

Why does saheed look like he's bleaching

Tonto is ok but could have been better

Ebube is

damn that guy in the hausa outfit is cute

Uche needs some touch up

Why did Carline dress older than her age?

Chioma Chukwuka never disappoints. Love that woman!

P2, as usual, looking good

Who's that with the skinny legs and ugly dress, Rukky

Ini Edo, Rita and Kate, looking good ladies!

Why is emeka Ike's wife wearing sweater?

Thanks guys for the contributions though it's still a little difficult for me to decide and by the way what is the camp life like? Is it true, during camp, showers are taken outside?

LMAO Nigerians are clowns. U guys are funny!

Wow, Thanks guys for the replies. Now let me sit back and read all the replies.

Most people say it is better to have loved and lost than never having loved at all but looking at it from a different perspective, are they not the same thing? You loved and lost, so you are equal to the one yet to love. Opinions?

I am done with my undergraduate studies and planning to do my masters. Would it be a good idea to come back home to serve and return abroad to continue my studies?

Some people say you fall in love once while some say as many times as possible, each unique. How many times have you fallen in love?

Mygoldie:
it is very difficult to find a good man/woman these days, my advice to you is that you should not let them go,keep them at a special place in your heart,because you migth need their presence some time in the future, that's how i see it.

Yeah but my main topic was about healing from such break up from such a good person

chaircover:
Bite me folks but shouldn't the most important things to you be thrashed out on day 1

Things like age, culture and probably religion can be spotted a mile off so why bother going out with the person in the first instance.

@goldmond why say yes when you knew all along that she wasn't your type. You didn't want to hurt her then, so you accepted her proposal but you will end up hurting her more when you break up with her so what is the achievement?

I don't understand how people just deliberately set themselves up for trouble. Remember the saying that Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.

I totally agree with you. That's the same thing that hurt me. Why go on with the relationship if any of these factors was a problem.

skydeep:
With the problems stated I would have advise you to follow your heart but your family has a role to play in this when it comes to religion and culture. Unless you want to disobey them.

My question here is after nothing can be don and you are already broken up, how do you make it easy to heal from such break up from a good person?

skydeep:
Why do you have to let go? :

The reasons are stated there. When the relationship cannot go on because of the reasons such as age, culture or religion differences etc