₦airaland Forum

CHIGIM:
. She met him when she was coming back from gimming. He doesn't know me and she has told him that she is married and has embarrassed him on two occasions. But the idiot is not stopping

If this is all there is to it, then you don't have an issue... unless it's your wife you just don't trust.

cooldove8:
So I just got a call this morning from my mum crying!!! Saying my dad beat her up for a facebook post, I really do not care what the reason his but my mum is peaceful I feel so angry he beat her up at this age they are above 55 years of age. I want to react so he never tried that nonsense again. Probably cut him off as I live abroad I can go to them what do you guys think I can do to react properly?

It's obvious you were already having your own personal issues with your dad before this event.

CHIGIM:
what do i do to a man that is disturbing my wife for sex.

This information is not enough to provide a solution that will be specific to your situation na

Who is this man?
How do they meet or communicate?
Does he know she is married?
Does he know you?
What has your wife done on her own to remove herself from that entanglement?

EmperorMaria:
As if u have bought any1 iPhone b4

Too bad you were tossed aside like trash before you could request for one and find out.
Now I guess you'll never know.

Lol...

It's like you don't want most of our young Nigerian women to use an iPhone anymore, or be able to buy expensive hairs/bags/shoes, or start a boutique/salon business, or even eat some free barbacue/sharwama/pizza/ice cream (for the ones on this level).

Please allow our ladies enjoy, this your list will not guarantee them a soft life inside this Buhari era.

A very untrue story.

mariahAngel:
LMAO!
You're even more explicit than the op...since you assume her aim is to lure people to watch the video
I'm even curious

You can satisfy your curiosity, you won't go to hell.

Someone saved my number as "Oxygen Concentrator" because I once called her office to inquire about the price of the ones they had in stock – I didn't tell her my name during that first conversation though, BUT she didn't need to save my number.

It was only months later after we had become friends, that she admitted it to me. I almost choked from laughter.
A weirdo, that chic...


I save numbers strictly using first names ONLY, but if I already have someone else using the same first name, then I just add a job description or a location to make the new contact more identifiable.

Dclog:
Daft response

To a daft topic...

See her face like who is lacking vitamin C in her diet.

socialmediaman:
Please explain to non BBN watchers out there what this all means, especially the bolded

A pun is what those were, nothing more.

mariahAngel:
You wicked abeg!

If you watch that video and see the way this Nengi/Nengi-lookalike was having her orgasm, even you sef go pity Ozo.

That guy fit commit suicide if he watch that video

Dclog:
Please am here for opinions what’s my business with the sex video

Perhaps the part where she orgasmed and the muscles on her arse were vibrating at 50hertz/sec.

I'm very sure it was that specific bit that made you hörny enough to want to have sex with your spirit husband.

MrBrownJay1:
Oh really? Is this how crazy this BBN get to people...?

You'd be surprised

bukatyne:
My brother,

What can I say?

The more the sexual partners, the worse it is.

If you sleep with one person, there is a tie. With two, there is another tie not forgetting that the ties your partners had with their prior partners.

Well, any (wo)man in Christ is a new creature. So it doesn't seem like I am rubbishing the work of Christ on the cross. They are forgiven, they are new.

They would however have to work towards creating that bond and be content with their partners. Which is key in marriage.

A beautiful end to an interesting conversation... Tuale!

MrBrownJay1:
I mean, don't get me wrong... I wold understand if you'd argue that your hubby has such sextape in his phone and/or that he is even showing it to you..... But it's obvious that you guys are into this BBN thingy, and that you had no problem with your hubby having the sextape (it even turned you on), so why are you mad if/when he shows it to others?! Why even the insinuation of cheating? Is it because you believe that if he shows it to other women, they will be turned on too?

The funny part is that, I am sure you would have no problem if he showed the video to his male friends.

Bruv, this was just to get people informed about Nengi's sex video.

I'm almost certain this alternate moniker has no husband anywhere.

If your intention is to let Nairalanders know that Nengi has a sex video, well done... You try!

I've seen the video though, I'd say the chic in it looks like her but it's not 100% certain. She could easily deny it.

The only person this will affect is Ozo. I'm sure he will watch the video from all angles, trying to analyze it before he finally drinks sniper – hopefully his mother will save him from himself.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Iyivk0docNk

Lmao... This man really doesn't hold back anything – says he's wishing Prince Harry luck, because he's gonna need it. Lol

That sub is loud oo.

bukatyne:
Maybe not virgins but decent enough people.

My major concern is not picking people who can no longer bond because they have had too many people emotionally and/or sexually and people we know well.

The university affords you almost free opportunity to know who a person is (under pressure, when 'free', associates, values, ambition, aspirations) etc.

The standards are dropping jare.

So how many previous sexual partners would you consider decent enough not to affect how well a man/woman would bond emotionally with the next person he/she gets into a relationship with?

I still can't get over your use of the word decent when you're talking about pre-marital sex like there's really that big a difference between two previous sexual partners and five previous sexual partners...lol.

I mean, that soul-tie you usually talk about which happens during sex, has already happened during sex with the first person right? So does it matter if there's five more people you have sex with?
One would already be doomed if the very first person didn't have a good/positive blood/spirit na

bukatyne:
Young as per both parties (not young girls and old men biko: they should carry their old bodies to their mates)

Fresh in university or end of university is OK for both parties. You know yourselves very well.

No matter how bad things are, they get worse as the person grows older.

An olosho at 20 would be a senior olosho with higher body count at 30.

An aspiring patron at 20 would be a grand patron at 35.

Yup, I know the text in bold is what you meant.

What I was trying to draw your attention to is that even before young people enter unis these days (even happened during my days, but not as much as now), they are already having sex with their age-mates at 15/16/17 or with those who are a little bit older.

The point here being, if the idea is to avoid having relationships with people who have not had previous sexual partners, then it's quite unrealistic since kids at 100level these days already dated and had sex while in secondary school.

The ones who make it to uni before dating/having sex with a guy, majority don't get married to their 1st bf, not even 2nd or 3rd.

You're using your own reality to make a representation of what you expect should happen generally, which is very far from what really happens.

If dem call 100 women now including yourself and ask how many of you are married to your first bf, you will probably be the only one to say aye...

bukatyne:
Of course, women pay money for sex however, that is not an ideal situation.

Are you sure it is so coded?

Things happen all around jare.

I wonder why the OP said Lagos. It is a general something worldwide which is why I said poverty has never been the cause of high end prostitution.

More coded than the men paying for sex.

Well, the OP made his report using Lagos as the focus point. Sure it happens everywhere

bukatyne:
This is the reason I am always a fan of young relationships.

No baggage, no woman/man used to thressome, no man who has slept with more women than the sand at the beach, no woman who has acquired taste for wierd sex tastes, no overly sexed people who can no longer bond with spouses etc.

All these Oloshos and patrons would think of marrying other people on future.

So you're still preaching this your sermon on NL when 15/16/17 year old girls these days are already collecting príck...

How young do you want men to go again?

Maybe na to marry female baby remain, then wait for her to reach legal age while giving her close monitoring

bukatyne:
Unfortunately for the guy's dream, it can't come to pass.

We would always have more female prostitutes and male patrons than vice versa.

Not to go far, the Nigerian movie industry is a classic example.

Well yea, if the guy was trying to level it out (male hoes compared to female hoes) on a scale, then that's impossible because it will always tip in favour of female hoes.

However, if it's just on the idea that there are women who do pay for sex, dem dey o.
It's just very coded and restricted to certain environments/circles.

DontBullshitMe:
I was being economical.

Bro that number is much more, like ×2.

The ones who are using the cover of "he's my boyfriend" to be submitting bill nko... Lol
It's the sex they are attaching to those bills indirectly – guys know these things but will just play along.

bukatyne:
You better stick to yahoo yahoo.

An average woman would not pay for sex.

Exactly, it's not the "average" woman that pays for sex.

DontBullshitMe:
Prostitution needs to be taxed. It's a goldmine.

4 out of every 10 Nigeria ladies aged between 18-35 are ready to lay their backs for the right price.

Did you type 4?

Nigsrdumb:
Oga if i post the pictures of what i have seen , infact you won't marry any girl from Nigeria.

From those ajebos to the ghetto hood rats.

All the porn video maker's women
Italy madams women
Sex party organisers women
Lesbian party organisers women
Prostitution and massage parlours women

Younger generation will find marriage extremely difficult.

People wey dey raise kids for Lagos, shine your eye's.

They dun know warris happening...

The total number of young women in Nigeria between the ages of 18–40 that are not engaged in some form of sex merchandise (whether coded or uncoded), are not up to 3000 again... Total number o!!

This was such a beautiful article, well written and throughly investigative.

I love how the writer succinctly captures what almost every real G has experienced with ladies (the coded hoes and the not-so coded ones), lol.

These days, almost every one of them is in the business of selling something directly or indirectly, it's just facts.

Mbdovey:
I can't go into details right now, but you and I knows men are more in position than women.
Moreover, so many of you willingly offer to help even without asking you to, but why don't you people render that help without expecting intimacy back?

Please be refusing it now that you know it comes with conditions.

This should not be too hard.

As long as she's the one providing for them, I see no issue.

What would be crazy is if those two young bloods are working their arses off, and are both catering/providing for the same woman whom neither of them met as a virgin.

That would be pitiful, extremely pitiful of them...

Minsk24:
Quit this baseless attacks on CNN... it remains a credible media unless you are Trumpian...
We need a world Leader that will knit the world together, we humans must naturally look up to someone for leadership and US is the best option...
We can't have a Chinese-Led world simple...
I am a big follower of what's going on in China and i know what I mean regarding human rights....
Lets not debate on what is obvious biko...
USA is not a perfect country.. We all know how they operate but its best we leave leadership to them...
Yes Blacks face racism and all that but racism and all that cannot be totally erased... Please lets not talk further on this issue.. Every country get their fault

Lmao, following through which source? Chinese state media or the MSM?

You're still deep in your slumber, but that's fine.
Uncle Sam will always need toy soldiers like yourself to spread his gospel.