babyfaceafrica:
The money no small I, na GLK the guy dey use o

babyfaceafrica:
Very True. A coursemate once told me in school she can't date a short black man.. Fast forward last year.. She married one!! Never take ladies words literally

mk3jax:

Been married for 10 years. Have 2 maid in the house that do almost everything yet wife still complains like we all came into this world to perpetually enjoy. By the way 100% of my friends and colleagues have this same problem with their wife. What women say in the public is not what they do. Even when they work, their money belong to them 100% and they will still disrespect the man that is providing for the family.
A man is valued strictly on his ability to provide. They are never loved unconditionally.

The VAPP law has now made provisions for what is considered spousal rape, which can either be a rape of either a husband or a wife by the other spouse.

This has thus reduced the standard of proof of rape, from producing a cogent medical report from a medical professional with proof of penetration, to now a voice evidence depicting inappropriate touch of a man by a woman and vice versa,” Mr Ogbankwa said.

pansophist:
It's a western thingy. I have this girl that was tripping for me one time, and I like her as well, but the turn off was when she talked about her dislike for kids. Not wanting to have kids is one thing, but being irritated and maybe even hate is what I don't understand.

She has three cats, and they are her children. Her cats have health insurance, I was shocked. She clipped their nails, bath them, feed them and spend alot monthly on the cats. I jejely just find one excuse that I'm not doing again. And I am thinking I was open minded. That was the limit.

Kriss216:

Thank God oo. Fear don catch me

descarado:
I will break the engagement.
Very big red flag not to be overlooked.

Not meeting someone in the middle is a no no no
Stubbornness is a no no no
Most importantly,not health conscious in this age and time is a kill joy.
Sometimes love is not enough.

Goldenbliss1:

Back then when I was in secondary School I told my friends that, when am through with my NYSC, and have a good job I can then give love a chance, if in any ways he break's my heart, I won't have to force myself on him, I will move on with my life since I have a good job.

Lostchild:
..New thread coming.

NoToPile:


Nope, it's the other way round as the OP as stated don't twist it

How many Nigerian males will be willing to be househusbands when their wives provide (let me even add temporarily)

Mariangeles:


You like to dey twist things!

You either answer the question or you create a thread asking yours.

Arda1000:
It depends on the woman in question.
Some are beautiful but don’t actually aware of it.
Not all beautiful women know that they are actually beautiful it applies to guys too

Opeyemiextra:


You need to change the kind of women you move with and of course your thinking. You might just be lucky. It's men like you that encourage women like that and you are still the ones who will insult them.

emmaodet:


To some extent, I won’t blame the guy.
At least to the best of my knowledge, the girl seems responsible though I can’t vouch for any woman. She is the dad’s type, indoor girls, you know all these go-inside-children.
So, maybe the guy feels he has gotten a feminine woman, probably faithful and he feels that is enough for him. He is not asking much from a woman provided she is loyal and faithful even though still with a baby mentality.
All I am just seeing is a man that has given soo much but getting so little back.

Opeyemiextra:


Typical male imperative

You see contribute and all you can think of, I'm sure, is money. C'mon there are many ways you can help a person without spending a dime but you wouldn't know that because you think that you are only good for your money. I understand where you are coming from.

lajid:

Please do I have pride?

Raalsalghul:


Crackhaus, I feel like you're being unfair to the guy.

This might just be case of ignorance or no figure to talk to him.

Mariangeles:

Ngwanu noted.

Mariangeles:

It isn't?

emmaodet:

My annoyance with the present day marriage is not because of the set-up rather the mentality of the women entering it.
Tbh, many of them are not or have not prepared themselves over time for it.
A case study is my SIL - she will be 26 few months from now, a graduate, finished serving, no job nor does she cares to look for one.
All she does is post her pictures on her Fb and WhatsApp status, saying how beautiful she is even though to me she looks 5/10 but the way she carry herself as if she is 9/10(don’t know who are deceiving these ladies), sometimes she will be dancing in her room and post it, Dre’s up and video herself cat walking and post it. Many more.
I always just wander what is really going on with most of them, always seeking internet attention and validation.
She will be marrying next year to a guy that has been hustling is ass off sinceeee. He became an orphan at a very young age, just a little age difference with my SIL yet over time, out of hustling and jostling, he has developed the necessary skills needed to survive the harsh world without any parental help. Always doing one thing or the other to survive yet his gf is virtually useless and not bringing much to the marriage table rather a big mouth with a big taste for what she can’t afford herself.
I looked at her and I compared her to my youngest brother who is also her age mate and I saw a big difference in thinking between the 2 sexes of same age.
While my brother is lonely, hustling trying to get his feet on ground because things are not yet straight for him, probably struggling to keep a decent relationship because he is a hustler and not sexually attractive to the average female, she on the other hand is busy dancing, cat walking, concerned about her beauty and all because she is not worried about life. Another human will take care of it for her - the boyfriend cum future hubby

ezana1:


Typical advice expected from a restroom abi public toilet. Shift with your smelling mouth

Opeyemiextra:

Then, see how you can help both of them grow and develop these skills and then the choice can be clearer. So, even if you eventually don't go with either of them you would know you contributed to their growth and they would be better for it.