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missjo:
And what is the difference between six and half-a-dozen? Lmao

Man you killing me, you're always killing me

LadySarah:
Stop this .

zeb04:
[s]the reason your wife don’t respect you, is because you dont respect her. See the way you are talking about your wife to strangers. If you cant respect her, at least respect yourself or your children.[/s]

myang500:
Part of the major problem I have here is that, deep inside of me I know this woman must have cheated on me, I cant count the number of clues that I have seen over the last couple of years. Infact this past june, i figured out that she moved a deleted chat of she and her ex to whatsapp arvhive, and another message of this jaruma type online seller talking about how what she bought from her didnt work. Supposedly love potion. I asked why she moved message from main to archive if she didnt have something to hide, she was like the dude says alot of rubbish and she wouldnt want me to see such and start thinking otherwise. Plenty attimes, when am entering the honey pot, it feels different, feels bruised, honey pot wey i don dey knack for years, i know the feeling if its fresh and if its not. I cant even begin to count clues here, but it bothers me alot to know that she is cheating but cant find shit out. She has surpassed phone and monitoring stuffs, she upped her game and i aint trying to follow up anything as it can kill a man in no time. This is a woman where if issues arise, she wants to just say sorry and expect me to move on, after doing something very terrible, but if i aint gotten over myself in like a week, you'll start hearing stuffs like this is the kind of thing that will make give give listening hears to those that wants to listen and make her vulnerable to cheating. Thats when you'll see that she starts to change her looks, start wearing move revealing clothes out, thats probably to make me feel somehow, or otherwise. I will repeat guys, you destiny is attached to whom u marry, choose wisely.

QuintessentialW:
Of course, I wouldn't be confused if he was late... but the situation now is that he's alive, so I'm wondering if it's against tradition to have someone else perform those rites.

But I get your point. Thanks a lot.

AwkaetitiBabe:
How u know she cheating?

AwkaetitiBabe:
Don't do that.

myang500:
Its actually not what u thought of iyt to be, i have heard so many damning words in the last seven 7 years, words like, am wasting her yansh, that she will give the ass to someone else. My advise to anyone single guy here, marriage is good, but be very patient before u choose a life partner, if u happen to impregnate a lady whom u know u are not compatible with, dont be forced to marry as it falls to my own kinda predicament. I am not the kitchen type, i work and work to pay the bills. now to break it down, i didnt want to type much just to make things known how it is, in a year, if i had spent 5.2 million which covers everything concerning the family, she had only spent maybe like 250k, is that sharing bill? her own definition of sharing bill is just cox we went out just last week, we both shared the bill for food and ish, and takes care of groceries once in a while, left to her she always say shes not suppose to be spending a dime after which i empowered her financially with her businesses...am a correct husband that any correct woman would rush, just a pity i have fallen into a pit that am finding hard to climb due to the love i have for mu children... life is hard with the wrong woman i must say.

missjo:
Your GIFs tho

arinpe16:
@baby124, He prays regularly and we have kids.
@pharmagba Did you read the post at all? He's the one telling me that I'm not marketable again. As per obedience and humility, don't judge please. You do not know me.
He doesn't set good example for me. He will pray, eat my food, have sex with me and still keep malice with me? Is that what the Qur'an says about religion? We've been together for 5 years and he didn't see it as a big deal. Why is it now that everything good is coming his way, he suddenly start seeing me as being a devil, not marketable and what not.
So, I'll have to pray for him to love me and do his right? Just imagine. He can't even correct me without threatening me with divorce. Is being divorced a disease?

As long as I never wish him bad and I'm trying, he should know I'll get there, but it takes time. So, i ask again, is divorce the answer?

Ginaz:
Kindly give better ideals or you be the one to keep shut . Shut up!!!!

Ginaz:
[s]Na wa . If he doesn’t do anything and the kids suffers they will tag him an irresponsible uncle that couldn’t take care of the kids under his care despite having full excess to their late mother’s property.

Y’all all concerned about properties like the kids are gonna go to school with the properties or eat the buildings one after the other as food.

Y’all lacked insights . y’all can’t see he is a struggling man that have burdens he never planned for suddenly placed under his care. He is fully responsible for them, so y’all want him to kill himself training two kids to the university on his own? How many parents these days could afford it without struggle?

The mother left properties, he’s just asking to sell one so things would be better for them. After all, won’t the kids benefit from it?

O.p I suggest you do sell a property to make the load lighter for you. While at it, make sure the kids know the properties their mother left and please set up a plan for the senior child , maybe a business for her cos nobody knows tomorrow.

Sell a property goddamnit!!! With all the properties you late aunt suffered to acquired she couldn’t take one to the grave. Let the living feed first . [/s]

eddy1234:
OK friends ...I have a lot in my hands and I need matured advice not to make mistakes please... I lost my rich aunt last year ....she handed over her properties and two kids to me to take care ...(adopted.the girl is 20yrs .just finished jamb .the boy is 12yrs .just going into js1)

MrBrownJay1:
you jejely fix your torned shirt, ask the demon to step out the car, then drive off home to pick ALL her belongings, then ask security to give her the clothing when she returns but to NOT LET THE DEMON IN.

bukatyne:
@bold:

I am not alone after all.

I read some threads, think to myself 'bukatyne you can't deal, this is too damaged' and just exit the thread.

@Self-esteem: I don't know what parents teach their kids. Perhaps, that is why I hate the 'stay for kids' advise. It ruins generations.

And nobody can convince me it is religion and Christian vows of 'till death do you part'. It is not else the men would not be diving out of the marriages or advised to for wives not cooking dinner by 2pm.

@UjuJoan2:
At the end of the day, everyone is responsible for their choices in life.

There is no phantom society that holds people to ransom.

They just lack the will to live life on their own terms.

sassysure:
Lesson of the day.

For those my ladies that use to wire their mouth" papa emeka, u no see your fellow men out there, no be the same head them carry u carry too? Bla bla bla.....
......, or, that your thing dey no fit stand for 40 seconds ( Thanks to tonto dike)....., u have killed the man already.

When a man look at u and say your boobs are sagged( boobs him and his children will not leave to rest) , ur stomach looks disgusting( after carrying how many plus stretch marks caused by ur pregnancy), or u are so fat( forgetting that some iud can actually make a woman add weight and childbearing), u have finished your wife. If she still love u a little, u may live but if she hates u, u are a dead man standing