₦airaland Forum

baby124:
Agbaya, go and marry

ednut1:
no bank MD is clean in nigeria. Cecilia ibru looked like a saint then

sisisioge:
The Tim guy. Anyways, never mind. Cheers

sharone21:
Yes, because women lose a lot just to be married....she has to GIVE her life (if possible) through death and life child bearing this is apart from each child taking up to 5yrs of her life before he can be a bit 'independent' to walk to a nearby school....women SERVE a lot in marriage so, no sane woman would want to be in a 'cheated' relationship and thus would voice out.

Odunharry:
I'm telling you. I don't have a problem when a lady buys properties in her name, infact many of them should do incase things go wrong in the future, bit they shouldn't scream murder if the husband do the same thing.

I posted a pix sometimes where an HR officer was suprised and ask why women don't use their husband as NOK but majority of men uses their wives.
Won't be surprise if many of them do the same thing since property is involved.

Colorado1:
I stand to be corrected tho... Mansa Musa of Mali is the wealthiest man to ever walk the earth in history

Odunharry:
Lmao.. Funny but true.

Dechymmytv:
This information is to keep things straight. For example, people who take linda ikeji as their role model. Don't they deserve the chance to know how their role models made it...

Kennyswagz1:
same as donald trump, mark zuckerberg, bill gates, etc.

Dechymmytv:
exactly especially when the source is not something to be proud of

sisisioge:
Well...na so them dey say until katakata burst. But to tell the truth, I honestly think you're wise. How that your troublesome friend?

computergeek:
I I wan laugh my head comot for here. i tell you eh, the kind of people you see on NL would turn into a roving lunatic sometimes. I don't know where all these people are coming from. Shaa na to try dey ignore them be the best thing.

sisisioge:


Hunter

I no want make front page as the couldabeen wife that did this and that on NL ni

sisisioge:
Oga wise man...you eyes don see o. Experience yi poju

couragemurphy:
I dey tellz you. Our women then were actually hardworking. You will see a pregnant woman then almost due for labour still going to farm carrying loads on her head. Nowadays woman wey dey pregnant don get excuse full ground.....smh

couragemurphy:
Wrong bro. I think our comments like these are actually making our women lazy these days and not submissive. Who said women dont work back then? Have you asked yourself why most men marry more than 1 wife then? It's because of many farm works. Women actually work then, just that they are more loyal and respectful.

I happen to live with my grannies and even stayed in the village for some years. Women assist their husbands in farming, they sell farm produce, even have shops in markets for their little businesses. With all these they balance everything perfectly with home chores. They dont give attitudes because they see their husbands as their lords in small letter "l". Women now compete with their husbands in other areas except finances. Mind you, then most women have their own separate farms which their husbands only help them to brush and plant/stick yams. The other jobs like weeding, seedlings, harvesting etc are done by the women and their kids. And they still assist their husbands in the main farms. Some are also into fishing, weaving, etc depending on the locality.

Mothers were actually hardworking back then, understood their roles, and respected their husbands as the head of the home just like Jesus christ said. But now they have transferred the respect for their husbands to their "Daddy" in church (Pastors). Average Nigerian wife respects her pastor than her husband.........


Note: still in some parts in Delta state you still see the women doing labour's jobs in building sites while their husbands are at home.....with wrappers on their waist, long chewing sticks in their hands, and bottle of ogogoro on the table playing draft.

bukatyne:
@crackhaus:

Please read this article and comments:

https://www.nytimes.com/2017/03/31/opinion/sunday/do-millennial-men-want-stay-at-home-wives.html

BRATISLAVA:
both

SIRTee15:
reporting to the police and involving a family member is a step in the right direction....
its immaterial that the case was withdrawn from the police....
The husband will be cautious now to exhibit his savagery tendency, at least for some time....
That's a lifeline for the woman....
It may provide an opportunity for her to review her situation without fear of receiving further blows....

Fountainofyouth:
Scared of quoting me? lol mischief much, it seems concluding and assuming things about a person on a faceless forum based on the fact that their thinking and opinion is different gives some people a sense of worth, making them feel like their opinion is 100% right and true, especially when that opinion comes from a female, this is evident with most boys here, so ride on dude since you're one of them, since it obviously makes you feel better.

BRATISLAVA:
in both instances. Based on the premise that if you want the home dealt with, then that's a housewife's field.
Generally speaking if you want extra income, then you cannot have the house wife, you can have the working wife. Just like working men aren't house husbands-except those who work from home.

SIRTee15:
You are wrong on this....
There's no oversabi....
At that stage, there has to be a 3rd party for sanity to reign in that house....
Whatever the case, the woman's death warrant has been postponed for a while....
The op action bought more time for the poor lady on this earth....
That is invaluable, maybe she can reassess the situation in her home n make a better judgement for her sake n her kids...
I believe in minding my business, but not in a matter of life n death....
The op did well, kudos to her....

BRATISLAVA:
the f***n*zi pill

bukatyne:
After especially the conservatives.

Their major point is that a wife can't work and still be effective as a wife.

Ryan03:
its always like this. Lemme give you a short story. A woman passing through similar stuff went to report to the police after the last beating almost ended her life, the police decided to invite her husband over but she refused (later found out it were her neighbours who pressurized her into reporting). She said she only wanted to make a complaint, she dont want her husband arrested. You can't force a woman to do otherwise hence she was asked to leave cause such cases can't be incidented as complaint. Two weeks later, news came that she was dead, died from assault by her husband, he was arrested and charged to court, he pleaded not guilty, remanded in jail and case adjourned. My bro, the case still dey on, funny enough, they have four kids

BRATISLAVA:
yes, the West is open to housewives. It's the pseudo westernized Nigerians who think women must bring something to the table, after hearing that White women work without getting the full context, and make a big deal out of it. You either have a wife who is a housewife or a wife who works. When you have both, you have a slave and not a wife. I noticed in this modern world that it is only poor men who expect their wives to work and fuss about it. The expectations are unrealistic. Most men need clay to design women because they're never satisfied