Romance › Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by crackhaus: 7:58pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
baby124: He will end up with his friends ex. But he will hide it for us . One of his friends has already even done it to him but he’s here forming hard guy. By the time he meets a girl he wants, the competition Crackhaus will put up will not be here! Men compete to marry the best o! They really do! I don’t understand when women make themselves the competitors, it’s the man’s job! Let the best man win!
Even wild animals, the males fight for the best women, whether brothers or friends. When it’s time to chose a partner and one you think is the best for you, you will do everything to make her yours. One of my friends did what to me?  Where did you read anything about crackhaus ending up with a friend's ex? I tell you say my woman na my friend ex for your dream, or you are trying to force your reality on me again?  |
Romance › Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by crackhaus: 7:51pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
baby124: [s]Read this 10 times. Camila would be Queen! You don’t know what you are talking about. You even expose your ignorance with confidence . Do you know what giving him title King means? When the actual royal is the Queen They gave him title of Prince Consort and not King consort because he is not a British Royal by Birth. People with King title are obviously more superior to Queen title and the Brits are not that stupid to give their crown to a foreigner and one not in line to the throne.
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.harpersbazaar.com/celebrity/latest/amp29748471/prince-philip-title-not-king/ [/s] Your own problem is that an answer will be staring at you clearly, and you will still be scratching your eyes looking for the answer elsewhere.  Midnighter even has more scope of the conversation than you do, because she knows that ONLY a "Princess of Wales" or "Duchess of York" can hold the title of Queen/Queen consort. Instead of you to be trying to prove that Camilla is the Princess of Wales, you are busy shooting arrows into the sky.  |
Romance › Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by crackhaus: 7:43pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
midnighter: Sir she is actually the princess of Wales. She has been since she married Charles
She's using that "duchess of Cornwall" because their marriage was not supported by the public. But actually she's the princess of Wales, she just doesn't use it
She is supposed to be queen consort or even queen when queen Elizabeth dies but if she is not popular enough by then they will use "Princess consort" so as not to annoy people. Yea, she's using it inside her dreams  Her official letter-head does not carry that title, her insignia does not carry the title Diana is still the Princess of Wales. One person cannot be both Duchess of Corwall and Princess of Wales. What is wrong with you people?  |
Romance › Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by crackhaus: 7:40pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
sassysure: If it matters that much, why will a man propose to a babe he knew that went out with his friend 
Which friendship unless you belong to a fraternity.
I do understand a lot o.
I grew up in the mist of so many boys( reason why I often see things from a man's point of view). U know when your big brother's think u are so small and young to understand their parole 
If not self esteem, insecurity(U even mentioned this in one of your posts,) let me add jealousy, what again.
Ok, pride? Male ego?
U haven't told us why u think men are not supposed to do this.
This guy, this guy, na only mouth u carry for this place. It's your type that will do everything for his woman.
I hope we will still be part of this forum in few yrs time. U have mellowed down a lot, u will still start defending women very soon . Of course I am exactly that type. How does that cancel out my opinions here?  Like I said, you will not understand the kind of deep friendship between men. As for those guys who still marry women they know have dated their friends, check well and you will see they hardly ever hold down any long-term friendships. No principles or codes of conduct.  |
Romance › Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by crackhaus: 7:26pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
baby124: Wow. Didn’t know you were this misinformed!!! I am arguing with someone that is actually clueless! He can’t be king because he is not from the royal family and the Queen is the ruler and she is female. Giving him a title king will assume that he is the ruler and over the Queen. This is why he was given a lesser title. When Charles becomes King, Camilla will be Queen! You absolutely don’t know what you are talking about and you are ARGUING. Please do your research.
I sign out biko!!!   I said you are just typing because you only feel like making sense without actually knowing anything. The reason Philip was never King is because he never held the title "Prince of Wales" reserved for the first son of a King/Queen of England, or "Duke of York" reserved for second son of a King/Queen of England. This is the exact same reason why Camilla will not be Queen because she is not holding the title "Princess of Wales" reserved for the wife of the first son of a King/Queen of England, or "Duchess of York" reserved for the wife of the second son of a King/Queen of England. Only a PRINCESS OF WALES or a DUCHESS OF YORK can hold the title of Queen/Queen consort after her ascension.The last Princess of Wales was Diana, she is still holding it even in death. No living person has it for now. The last Duchess of York was Queen Elizabeth's mother and the person currently holding the title is the wife of Prince Andrew, Charles' younger brother. You're just obtuse and proud in your ignorance, it's hilarious.  I don't even know why are u are embarrassing yourself. A Duchess of Cornwall (Camilla) does not graduate into holding the title of Queen/Queen consort in GB. |
Romance › Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by crackhaus: 7:03pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
baby124: Guy you are the one confused here! Charles will be king and he will make Camila his queen and nothing will happen. You want to bet? He has come this far with her, who will stop him? You? This one no even understand wetin I de yarn.  Okay wait, is Prince Philip, the husband of Queen Elizabeth, a King?  Even married to the Queen of England, what is his official title? You mostly just type for typing sake, don't you? Lol |
Romance › Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by crackhaus: 6:58pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
sassysure: Nope, I based my post on the second story u shared about a guy 
Some friends are fair weather actually. U make new ones, u discard old ones or keep some as u journey through life. U find out that as u age, clash of interest become the determinant on how your friendship with your buddy can last. U may be a smoking and drinking buddies and u decide to stop doing such, where is the interest again? U sit together and dissect women,now both of u are married, except u are adulterous, what have u in common again? Most guys sustain relationships because it phased into family relationship( believe u, I know what I'm talking about), as soon as u marry and start having family, your choice of friends change. U can still hang out once in a while but it will never be the same again. Unless u have business interest together.
I have seen lots of guys marry babes that was once intimate with their friends. I have even seen brothers. So I was surprised when u guys were advising the guy not to do it. But then again u answered the question. Insecurity. If u are so insecure, no need going into that at all.
In my home town, like 10% of us marry outside( men and women), as long as the girl is not from your kindred, u are free to marry her. Now these babes go out with guys from the same town and most of these guys belong to certain age groups( age brackets 1 to 4), all these boys from the same age groups are like brothers and friends, now u have other friends too. The babe u marry must have gone out with one of your age group mate. he might still be going out with her and u will come and propose deeper relationship cum marriage. Babe see a mpre serious guy and makes her move. Your guy will even encourage u to go ahead. Maybe he isn't yet ready.
Lots and lots of examples. Have seen cases in school, work environment etc. There is really no big deal here unless u as a man is very insecure and have low self esteem. Free my sister's abeg, 
Sorry about the spelling. Confusion here and there  See everything you're typing here is exactly what I have heard all too many times and 99% of the time, it's always women saying it doesn't matter.  What's you women's obsession with dating friends in the same circle and boasting about it? I've noticed this with ladies, it's almost as if looking for where to cause division is an enjoyable hobby. You even mentioned cases of brothers...brother oo  Una matter strong I swear. Boasting about being responsible for ending friendships between friends and brothers because they chose to go against the unwritten G rule and marry you, is not a good look and certainly does not mean such women are special.  Forget all those talk about self-esteem and insecurity, that one na una usual emotional blackmail. It doesn't work on guymen anymore. Real guys who have been close buddies for years do not automatically make new friends because they got married. The kind of friendships Gs nurture goes way beyond drinking, smoking, and dissecting women. It's much deeper than that - something that a woman will never understand because lasting friendships is not something most of you can nurture for years without problems coming up. Such friendships are also certainly not something women can easily come between. You will never understand this so don't even bother trying to make sense of it.  I don't get the talk about your hometown. So all of una dey live for the same area and marry each other? As in na village things or what exactly are you typing?  |
Romance › Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by crackhaus: 5:56pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
baby124: Let’s wait and see now. Previously a prince lost his right to the throne and had to denounce because he married a divorcee. Charles is still in line to the throne and did not denounce shit. Laws of ascension to the throne have also been changed.
You have no clue what you are talking about! Laws can always be changed as we have seen with Charles. Where is Diana today? The people’s choice she was! Camila was the so called jest but those same people call her my lady and curtesy for her today. . Did I ever say Charles will not be King or can't you read again because antagonism is affecting your sight?  |
Romance › Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by crackhaus: 5:49pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
baby124: The British monarchy blah blah blah... with all the story, Charles still married her! Gave her all the titles and benefits. She has kids of her own too and they don’t even have any children together but he is still with her! Even at the the possible loss of his crown. If Queen Elizabeth dies today she will be queen. My dear, I am not desperate about anything o. It’s not my situation. One thing is sure, I will not let an ex who has moved on and living his own life stand in the way of my happiness. That’s it! Glad I didn’t, by the way, the guy was still a toaster.
If I was like you, I would be regretting right now . I have everything I want and the hubby makes sure I do. Anyway, I have things to do, business to run and a home to attend to. Enjoy your masturbation on this thread. Make sure you find out all the people your girlfriend has dated though . Even after I have clarified for you exactly how the titles work and which ones can be upgraded to a title of Queen/Queen consort, you're still displaying your belligerent attitude.  You no wan learn abi... I don't even know what I should be regretting mbok. You just dey shoot blanks in every direction like one market woman for Oshodi  |
Romance › Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by crackhaus: 5:35pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Dizzyrascal: crackhaus I like your point of view and I am following you immediately.....respeckt... something tells me you'll be a real G Dizzyrascal: guy, God will continue to bless you for telling this brother the truth..you have my respect. Saluté, brother...  |
Romance › Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by crackhaus: 5:30pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
baby124: He said she dated them. Not had casual sex with them. They may even be friends who don’t know each other like that, but OP knows all of them. Some people are popular and have many friends that they know all the people you have dated sef.
By the way, you can talk about trust to people like Prince Charles who was snatching Camila from her husbands bedroom and he will make her queen. That is why Queen Eliza does not want to die because Charles will literally give Camila the keys to the kingdom. Charles probably knows on a first name basis all the men Camila has dated and had casual sex with because they are in the same circle. He also frustrated his virgin wife for her!
Also, ask Simon Cowell where his child came from . Not all guys care about all these things you are saying. Some are very methodical and know what they want. Funny that those kind of guys are actually faithful to these women.
Like I said, this world being a global village now, you might end up with a guy that knows not less than 5 people you have dated and he will tag you a cheerful giver. Then, you can come back and tell us how you feel.
He never said she was loose. Or a cheat. He said she’s a cheerful giver because she has dated people he knows. Not like she cheated in the relationship o. Someone is talking about a lady who has been with his friends... not one, not two, but seven. And you're talking about Prince Charles and Simon Cowell  Even the point you are desperately trying to make is completely moot, considering that Camilla will NEVER hold the title of Queen/Queen consort when Charles becomes King because she is Duchess of Cornwall. Only a Princess of Wales can hold the title of Queen/Queen consort, and guess what, that title is still being held by Princess Diana in her grave.  You think Mama Charlie is stvpid? The British monarchy does not take kindly to women who can't hold body.  Stop trying to defend the indefensible. |
Romance › Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by crackhaus: 5:18pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
ModelX: Once a girl gives me that line, whether the scenario, she's out! She is a hellish cat. How can someone be forcing her wasted reality on people's consciousness? As in eh, I'm flaggerbasted  |
Romance › Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by crackhaus: 5:15pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
ModelX: Don't be unfortunate you this wicked soon-to-be-divorced feminazi. Boasting in public fora that you have always been passed from friend to friend even up until your husband. At least have some respect for the man. But that's his business, we here ain't having none o that. safarigirl: Yes, I am. Thanks for wishing me the best, no need to ask if you're one, because your comments say it all.   |
Romance › Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by crackhaus: 5:10pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Dizzyrascal: I salute your brutal honesty Thank you my brother |
Romance › Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by crackhaus: 5:09pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
baby124: You can speak what is on your mind my dear. Don’t be a coward. I will speak my own opinion without fear because it is my own. Not everyone restricts themselves to what the world will think o. You still have time to mature. The way you have been vexing with me seems as if we were dragging something before this thread. Only me one thread - Immature, inexperienced, coward   As if dem dey withdraw money with the opposite of these titles. Lmao  What is paining you? Talk to me  |
Romance › Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by crackhaus: 5:01pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
BRATISLAVA: speak for yourself.Youre all over the place to keep trying to make him settle down with someone overused. He's not comfy. Let him dump her. Not everyone will betray their friends for a woman. When she was hopping from bed to bed, thinking it doesn't matter, she should've considered the rarity of a prostitute finding true love in Nigeria Leave baby124, I didn't want to respond to that comment with exactly what was on my mind.  It seemed too much like she was taking about herself and not someone else whom she has absolutely no knowledge of - trying to force her own reality down everyone's throat. First it was friendships don't last, then next was that wives-to-be are usually gbenshing five other men and one uncle because women are cats. What in da' hellish kind of thinking...  |
Romance › Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by crackhaus: 4:41pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
ModelX: The irony be say many of these celebs and entertainers are nowhere as promiscuous as we the viewers like to think. All na for show. There's this BBC TV show - Nakêd Attraction, where people all get nakêd and choose a partner based on attraction. Now, ordinarily, you would think that people that can go nakêd on television will definitely fûck that other nakêd person whom they finally choose. Surprise! When the show calls them in after a couple of weeks to find out how things are, the majority never fůcked. Just drinks on that first date and maybe texts. But our third world women will be fůcking up and down like dirty hogs without home training every chance they get, and then expect respect and marriage! Countless girls/women have lost their chances at marriage and will continue to lose because no man wants a whöre for a wife. Then they will come with that nonsense "we all have a past". Well, none of that floosie, some of us don't have that kind of a past. Lol  And it's always the questionable types who go around talking about how 'we all have a past'. |
Family › Re: I Don't Know The Right Time To Tell My Husband About My Genotype by crackhaus: 4:22pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe: Tell him now. If he loves you just as Fred amata loved omotola in Mortal Inheritance, things should work out just fine. All d best.   You know why I like you? You no dey form  |
Family › Re: Married Men, Can You Tolerate This? And Married Ladies Are You All The Same? by crackhaus: 3:44pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by crackhaus: 3:40pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
generationz: Most Hollywood actors and stars pass themselves around.
These are rich men and women o
Kim Kardashian even had a sex tape. It was published all over. She had been married twice. He started dating her while she was still married to her ex.
People kept telling Kanye west not to marry her.
But do you see how he treats her? -How he worships the ground she walks on?
When the love is strong, all these considerations will be gone.
Although i don't think Kim was a woman of easy virtue like the way you described your girlfriend but a sex tape is huge. Don't use actors to draw any conclusions o, whether Hollywood or Nollywood. Most of the things they do is for publicity and staying relevant. If the explanation for it had anything to do with wealth, then millionaires and billionaires outside the movie/music industry would be doing the same thing, but guess what, they don't. |
Romance › Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by crackhaus: 3:33pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
generationz: My dear that's the major problem o.
Them keeping in touch. They have no regard for the men who loved them enough to marry them.
All that matters to them are their feelings. Here feelings override any form of pride or dignity.
If you invite that lady over you'd see that you'd see she won't hesitate to come and off pant.
I know of stories of these women sleeping with their exes a week or so before marriage. It was only because this person was scared of the repercussions of being with married women if not...
Men una sef get una own for body too.
100% trust is hard in relationships. Same here. The height of this is when two or more of these exes are friends of the groom. Earthquake  |
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Romance › Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by crackhaus: 3:11pm On Nov 14, 2019*. Modified: 3:36pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Elxandre: Until dem pour you acid before you go stop dey call am too abi.

Better be kiaful.  I hardly even call or start chats with her, it's usually from her end. |
Romance › Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by crackhaus: 3:09pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
alphaNomega: You should pay attention to crackhaus. I am even in a similar situation as we speak. We had a thing, the guy knew about it and still went ahead to marry the chick. Let's just say he is not having the best of married life as far as peace of mind goes.
And you know why my situation is bad? If the man provokes his wife and she feels like having revenge séx, guess whose number is on speed dial 
Welcome to your future They dunno, haq haq haq haq  |
Romance › Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by crackhaus: 2:50pm On Nov 14, 2019*. Modified: 3:53pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
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Family › Re: I Don't Know The Right Time To Tell My Husband About My Genotype by crackhaus: 9:05am On Nov 14, 2019*. Modified: 9:21am On Nov 14, 2019 |
damilare214: I'm getting married this weekend and my husband to be doesn't know about my genotype. I'm SS but lied to him that I'm AS, he is AA. I don't look like SS neither do I fall sick( I sick once or twice a year),and I'm not on any medication as well. My doctor and friends advised me not to tell him because of different heartbreaks that I have experienced in the past ( people believe SS dies prematurely). I have plan to tell him on our wedding night but my friends insist I should wait till I give birth.
Please help me, I don't know the right time to tell him and I don't want to build my marriage on lies. I thought most churches these days have a wedding planning/counselling committe that mandates intending couples to do the necessary tests before they are allowed to wed?  That aside, that man loves you so much that he's taking your word and not seeking to run any tests on his own - there are even fertility tests that ought to be done. Don't insult his love by hiding this very important information from him. |
Romance › Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by crackhaus: 8:19am On Nov 14, 2019 |
baby124: Your wife is probably being paraded by one idiot right now, who she knows she can’t marry. And is using him to pass time. Relax, my wife is already with me  |
Romance › Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by crackhaus: 8:02am On Nov 14, 2019*. Modified: 8:27am On Nov 14, 2019 |
baby124: If all you do is hang out at beer parlour with men that are consumed with sex and reminiscing over sexual encounters then you need another job or a hobby. It’s actually disgusting to think of. Let me tell you, guys have snatched me from their friends before right from secondary school when we were not giving sex sef. Guys actually don’t care and they are very selfish, much more than girls once they find a girl they like. In fact they can compete and cut off the world to have that girl. Which is really how nature works! .
Let me confess here sef, I was kind of snatched as a wife and hubby has changed his circle the moment I agreed. . I am a hot cake if I must confess. . The toaster who was toasting was feeling like a G and even introduced me to my guy. Before he knew what happened, we don move . Wetin you dey talk about beer parlor and beer biko? Did I mention anything about beer parlor or having sex gists, you just type anything that enters your head because you want to make a point. I don't even step into beer parlors, drink beer, or have friends with whom to be discussing sexual encounters. Regarding your last paragraph - Don't kid yourself, if your hubby changed his circle after marrying you, then he and those guys were never quite that close to start with, probably just surface friendships. Hot cake ko, Hot manna from heaven ni  |
Romance › Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by crackhaus: 7:54am On Nov 14, 2019*. Modified: 8:25am On Nov 14, 2019 |
Pafoma: I found out about the guys when i found out she was speaking to one guy that they were involved but hiding it from me after we started dating. The rest of the guys, she told me herself.
About 7 guys i know but not all of them i was close to but some are friends of friends.  Now do you see the resemblance of this to that scenario in the second story I shared? These women will still be keeping in touch, that's even the major problem. |
Romance › Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by crackhaus: 7:47am On Nov 14, 2019 |
baby124: [s]Lol. Friendships don’t last. Male or female. You base your decisions on friends then you are not ready for a serious commitment. Like him, you shouldn’t get into such relationships in the first place. Even if you didn’t know. Once you are aware then you call it quits immediately. Not pretend to the girl and come on NL forming most valuable when she would rather not deal with such immaturity. You are immature.
Let me tell you! Many men have married their so called best friends ex! When you see a girl that you want, that you truly love, all these petty and what will the world say trash will not matter.[/s] Story story, normal emotional banter without substance. Leave the immaturity for those of us that don't want anything to do with a friend's ex. Na your immaturity?  I can tell you for a fact that male friendships last because I have those kind of friendships with married and unmarried alike. Speak only about your own reality which is filled with broken friendships here and there, not about anyone else.  Keeping friendships does not mean you will see everyday or hangout every weekend - it simply means keeping in touch such that whenever you meet, it always feels like you never stopped seeing the person. You won't understand what you don't experience anyway. |
Romance › Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by crackhaus: 7:39am On Nov 14, 2019*. Modified: 9:25am On Nov 14, 2019 |
Pafoma: Hmm! Had any similar experience? As a matter of fact I have two personal ones. First one, I was in your position. I dated a chic whom my closest buddy from secondary school used to sleep with, he even introduced us because he wanted me to employ her to work with my organization back then. By the time we started dating, I deliberately informed my old buddy and he told me about their sexual past (he initially claimed they were only friends but finally opened up, and she confirmed it). Well I immediately knew it wasn't a relationship that would lead anywhere and it didn't. The chic even had a bad habit of keeping in touch with exes and I value my peace of mind.  Besides, woman cannot make me and my boy create distance between ourselves. Second one, I was in the position of the friend. A chic I used to have a fling with is now married to another friend. Actually all three of us know each other from secondary school (same secondary school with my closest buddy from the first story). All of us have managed to maintain contact all these years, these are people I have known since 1998. Well, these two got married and I know about every fight and argument they have because she tells me and always threatens her husband with divorce. Meanwhile, her husband (like you) is never at peace anytime he hears her talking to me over the phone or texting me. She actually told me that he constantly suspects her and uses every little opportunity to bring up my name in their conversation during an argument - this is my guy who knew about my history with her before he married her oo, yet he is not at peace. I even had to tell him straight up to stop having crazy ideas, because she and I are done for ever and ever, amen. Sometimes she deliberately mentions me just to manipulate the guy into doing things her way because she knows of his insecurity - they are a funny couple.  See dude, like I said in my first comment, it's all about peace of mind. If you value it, you will avoid complicated stuff like this. But if you feel you can handle it, go ahead. |
Romance › Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by crackhaus: 7:03am On Nov 14, 2019 |
Pafoma: Yes, the possible talks of ‘na because of woman you ditch you guy and blah blah talk.. because we just grew apart but no fights, beef or arguments with them. Sigh!!!!!! Wait, please give us the details: How did you find out about her history with your friends? How many of these friends has she been with exactly? |