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LadySarah:
Yes

baby124:
Then why did you chase her and maintain a relationship with her if you knew these things were important to you? If she did not give you a chance now, you will claim that women don’t like good guys. You think you are doing her a favor by dating her? When you are just occupying space in her life. You are still a small boy.

Please and please tell her you cannot date someone you know the men she has been with. Then kindly let her go abeg. I am sure a man that loves her has been trying to get her attention, but you are just there blocking it. I also hope for her sake that she has options, so that it will do you like film trick when she marries and you go on and start a #new# relationship. .

Never take decisions based on friends. I know a lot of people that have regretted this! Friendships mostly do not last and the person they will influence you to marry, you may just detest the person. Always go with your own choice.

Pafoma:
I agree with you but feelings are involved. Believe me, there are way too many ladies i agree but how many are marriage material? We the bachelors know what attains in the market!!

bukatyne:
In a sane setting, why would a DIL and MIL even 'compete' for the son's attention in the first place?

They are on different levels.

armyofone:
So you self like love stories see as he binds abi bonded her in the spiritual realm because she no gree go into the future with him...
..mtchewwww

LadySarah:
So whats the issue here?

kneehighbootz:
Look at this woman wrapper. If you focused on your life the way you troll any thread on women, who knows where you'll be by now.

First of, I wasn't talking to you and second of all, you should learn to mind your business. I would have said more but you definitely have more experience than I do sniffing women's butts up and down.

efulefu.

Pafoma:
Yes, acquitances and friends i used to be close too. A few of the friends, we just greet but no close bonds any longer although not because of her but i just moved on from an unfocused & unserious lifestyle.

Yes, i am talking about both dated and just a few times together..
Straight like she has realised her former lifestyle was foolish. Not exactly having casual sex but but guys that persuade/pester her that they like her or they dated briefly, she had something with them.

She realised she was just being used and non of the guys that assured her of their faithfulness were true, they all just did her and moved on.. i am sure you get!

midnighter:
No, I'm not. You provided that name in the context of those two brothers, which that guy objected to and when OP said he needed a boy and a girl.

You even objected to shallow meanings, which means you knew which type you were referring to

I just saw the guy saying "never name your child Zarah" which sounded funny to me when there are plenty of women called Zarah

midnighter:
Zarah is just "Sarah" in Hebrew

"This name derives from the Hebrew “Saráy / Śārā > Sarah”, meaning “woman of high rank, Princess, essence, speckled”. The name refers to the wife of Abraham and the mother of Isaac as described in the Hebrew Bible, the Christian Old Testament, and the Islamic Quran."

I know youre just responding to what that guy wrote but there are millions of women called Zarah and it has nothing to do with stealing or whatever

He's even saying the wrong thing because he provided 2 boys names instead of a boy and a girl

Thescienceprof:
No please. Zarah, spelt also as Zerah is not the same as Sarah. Read the bible portions i mentioned in my original comment and be guided.

Omojudy:
Who wan come pay if we dey transfer the title up and down?

dazzlingd:
Is he an Israelite?

Thescienceprof:
[s]Never! Don't ever name your child Zarah. Zarah means someone who steals leadership, opportunity, and whatever is "stealable". If you check the circumstances of their birth in Gen.37 vs 28-30. Zarah tries to come out first by putting out his hand but his hand was withdrawn before Pharez came out unexpectedly.
If you read Joshua 7 vs 1, you will see that Achan, the thief, was a descendant of Zarah.[/s]

talk2oxii:
Dear Nairalanders,

Please help me find simple but deep(meaningful) matching names for my boy and girl twin.

Cc Lalasticlala

missjo:
Never baby

Omojudy:
Yes daddy. But please foot the bill.

baby124:
So what’s the point of this story? She can decide who and at what age to marry. Nothing wrong with that, everyone has their own time.

kneehighbootz:
[s]I read the entire thread. If this story is true, OP Freehuman, you're scum! Human excreta. Maggot!!! You'll pay for what you did to those women especially your loving and trusting girlfriend.

As for Baby124, sassysure, ifyalways and all the other women bashing the girlfriend, I'm truly ashamed. Women like you are the reason I steer clear of women even though I'm female myself. I don't know what to say but I truly hope life will teach you women, if not for your own sake, at least for the sake of your daughters.

I'll just leave this little tidbit. You do not pull one woman down to uplift the other. Learn to put yourself in people's shoes and for God's sake, support your gender.Patriarchy is fine on its own. It doesn't need your help. Denigrating your gender to win the approval of the men folk doesn't make you one of 'the boys'.

It only makes you look stupid.

Freehuman, you're human scum. Bottom feeder. You will reap what you sow.[/s]

Omojudy:
Ever heard the phrase, hell hath no fury like a woman scorned?

Timbuktuo:
Imo, this marriage is beyond redemption. That woman will always cheat on him, that's her nature. She is incapable of being faithful. Of course, he can continue enduring it, he's done so for seven years

Omojudy:
All these talk wey una dey talk.
One guy did me like this when I was in between marriages, supported me, wanted to know all my people etc. 3months I had no clue as the wife and family where based elsewhere. Later I come Dey suspect one lady with him, that made me go detective.
I visited in his absence and searched the whole house. Guy was married with 5kids to wifey and the name I suspected was a gf with one kid for him.
Well, I trashed his self contained office allocated apartment, flooded it and took everything of value in it which wasn’t much by the way. I remember I had gotten him a gas cooker as he wasn’t cooking or maybe using stove when I met him, took down to bathroom slippers and small bag of rice. Lol.
Then I contacted his wife and gf and accused them of giving him chance to break other girls heart.
The wife later became my friend that he had to warn her to avoid me. The gf first said thanks to me then probably called him then called me back to change mouth, so I asked her what was her wifely position since the other lady has older and more kids for him.
Omo guy was not even remorse, he asked me if I would have left if I was already pregnant with child for him.
So Omo guy used to carry me to functions, I met his superiors etc. I could only wonder how they looked at me while I had no idea.
I don come give una forward gist wey my blog people never even reach yet.

ImaIma1:
But that's the truth. The OP lacks discretion and maturity even in his words. Just completely washing his dirty linens outside without no caution whatsoever.

zeb04:
[s]you know crackhouse,you can state your points clearly without insulting your mother uncle[/s]

ednut1:
If she wore cloths there would be no reaction. That's the idea. Anything to trend