₦airaland Forum

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I can't share my phone with anyone. What if someone calls; when the phone isn't with me, how is he going to answer the call?

Looks like you want to force yourself on Seun.

gerrout jo

typical male

always tryin to avoid things

Trying to avoid what things?

I wish you knew am missing you so much

Yea that true

financial problem: What do you do for a living?

social problem: How often do you relate with people

love problem: How strong is your commitment in a relationship

academic: When last did you read your books

health: when last did you visit your doctor.


If you answer these questions properly, then I can bet you won't have those problems again.

Try talking to a girl one on one. It’s much more better that way.

Most of the information people give on dating sites are false

I hope you would be truthful in your story when that time comes.

Lmao

Girls; they never accept they’re wrong. That’s why they are girls and they would continue to remain girls and would forever be called girls.

Liar.

Which company you get

What problem do you have?

I don’t think so.

Nice one

@ThiefOfHearts
I know you’re just trying to vindicate your self here. Accept it the male child is more valuable than the female child.

What kind of finance do you want?

hmmmmm I managed to laugh tho

@$$Rhino

You shouldn’t be telling me that – I already know. Who you should be telling is the Nigerian culture. Am not the one who created culture and traditional believes in Nigeria. They have been in existence long before I was conceived. So telling me that we’re in 2007 has nothing to do to what’s on ground at the moment.

@ThiefOfHearts

I can’t argue with you on your so called EkitiLand and their believe. Because I know that Ekiti state is one of those primitive states in Nigeria.

Different parts of Nigeria have different believes. There’s a particular village in Adamawa state that wife sharing is very legal. If you have a friend that you not seen for a couple of years, and he comes to see you – you’re to give him food, drinks and last of all you would give him your wife as a symbol of true friendship. This is their tradition and according to them, they feel it’s normal.

Same thing goes to other states within the boundries of the federation. In Igbo land, if a man dies leaving no son, then his relative would inherit his properties and they won't mind throwing his wife out of her matrimonial home. And according to them it’s the tradition.

I don't get it

She dumped him. What was her reason for dumping him?

You can’t just embrace back a girl who left you without a second thought. We’re all humans and beside relationship don’t work that way.

If she left him, he should be able to know why she left him. And he should also know that she is capable of leaving him again should that particular reason occur in the future.

Nice joke Seun https://www.websmileys.com/sm/happy/028.gif

Nairaland girls feel a lot. Whenever you express your feelings towards them, they begin to feel on top of the world. That's why Nairaland is yet to produce a successful relationship.

In marriage, there is nothing like right age.

Once you’re matured enough, financially stable and capable of running a home, then you can get married.

That's about 6 hours from now. I don't think it's enough to sign a player

@Seun

Every parent would like to control their grown up daughters because females are vulnerable. A female child can give her fathers estate to a false lover. Parents love controlling their female children because most of them can’t stand alone. They need someone to lean on.

@Theifofhearts

Then I don’t think you’re a Nigerian.
Because if your father is very wealthy and doesn’t have a son, if he dies, then it’s his brothers and relatives who would inherit his properties not you. Or haven’t you heard of stories like that before?

@Theifofhearts In Nigeria here female children don’t own properties.

Every community has their believes. Now tell me of any single girl you know that owns properties? You people talk as of you don’t know the country you come from.

Even if a single girl becomes successful today and begins to drive a flashy can and maybe buys a house. The first impression of people would be that she’s a prostitute who probably dates big men for cash. And believe me, that girl would find it very difficult to look for a truthful man who wouldn’t be after her wealth.

In Nigeria, our community is so cruel towards women. Don’t you know what eastern women go through when their husbands die?
Their hair is being scraped off and they are made to put on black for one year as a sign of mourning. Now looking at that scenario any foreigner would probably conclude that the female child is of no value in Nigeria.

@Seun
You are a grown up so there are certains things your parents have to agree with you.
your child at 5 years is different from your child at 30 years.

Oh no!

I feel so sorry for him

He was supposed to join the gunners but the deal didn’t turn out fine now he’s dead. Who know maybe if he had joined them, he might still have been alive by now.

@Seun

If you bring up your child in a proper manner, then you would find it easy to control him or her even if that child become 30 years and above.