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It’s ok to back out your emotions and feeling is at stake here. A guy would dupe your sister off 23k is capable of doing anything to you in the future

@Dijoka
You funny no be small.

First I must congratulate you for your self discipline. Most girls can’t resist that kind of temptation. But I would advise you to talk to your friend about it. Such a man can break her heat in the future if she eventually marries him; because he can come across some other woman who isn’t as disciplined as you are and might start an affair with her. So which ever way you look at it, he simply isn’t the right guy for your friend.

Just tell her about the whole incident so you both can know the next step to take now it’s still early.

Well that's what you said

If you have a girl friend as you claim you do, then stick to her. I hope I've answered your question.

Is not advisable for a girl to live in her guy’s house before marriage. You can pay him visits occasionally but living with him is totally out of the question.

The disadvantage there is that he may get tired of you and there would be nothing you would have to offer to him since he has had you to his satisfaction. That’s where cheating begins. So ladies, if you man tells you to come over to his place, you better give it a second thought.

People cheat because they don't love their partners.

Nana put your trust in God and he will see you through and end that untimely death that has befallen your family.

Think properly before you start a thread.

If a highly and responsible man is hungry, and he goes and steal someone’s food and eats it. If he’s caught, he would be humiliated and no one would care whether he was hungry or not. People would loose their faith and trust in him and he would have a bad reputation wherever he goes.

Same thing goes for a girl. If you love and cherish a girl, and she cheats on you, no matter how she beg and apologizes to you. You will never love her as you once did and you would also loose you trust in her forever.

The father is like a foundation of a house. His impact is greatly shown in his family. Most women love and respect men of integrity, men they can be proud of and men that can withstand any challenges. The impact of a good father is displayed on his offspring. When you see a family that produces gainfully employed graduates. People that are of great value to the society, then people would envy your father; because it takes discipline and hard work to get to the top.

I can proudly boast of my father because I know he used the resources he had to bring me where am currently placed in life. So proud of him.

You already know he womanizes, so why are you still hanging out with him? You’re lucky he hasn’t started beating you up yet. Flee now there’s still time before you get infected with some STD.

Everyone is entitled to his own opinion

Not all women are the same. Just pray to God so he will lead you to the right person.

You’re the one who’s dating her. So I suppose you should know what she likes best. Choosing a birthday gift shouldn’t be a problem for you. There are lots of things that attract the attention of girls.

What else do you want me to call him if not dad.

Seun you’re right; but you should also know money changes people as you said. But you should also know that riches can disappear. If a woman married you because of your rich version as you said and not considering your poor version. Do you think that marriage would last if you eventually loose those riches?

Happy birthday.

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@ThiefOfHearts
I make you sick, how?

Are we talking about love or about money here.
If you love someone, must you spend all your money on her just to prove to her how much you love her?

@Everbright
You can send him the credit if you wish to.

$$Rhino There's something you don't know. You friend today can become your enemy tomorrow because of money. Most women claim that men consume money a lot and because of that, the both parties may have to come to an agreement that each of them would be entitled too withdraw only three or four times in a month.

Now tell me the truth, isn't that bondage. Now suppose you need money urgently, and you've used up your life line (three or four months withdrawal) what would you do? And nowadays so many women don't seem to understand their men any more. They would begin to shout at you that you're cheating on them by not abiding by the rules of the game when you tell them that you've withdrawn money from the account.

The guy is really sharp andy way Congratulations for getting it.

You deserve an award.

No I can't do that. It would lead to unecessary argument in that house.
Whenever you need money, you have to inquire from her. And whenever she needs, she would also have to seek your permission. That's bondage. I can't be limited on how I should spend my own money. and to make matters worse, on some occasions, she might even tell you not to withdraw your own money.

Am not saying any lady who isn't a virgin is a bad lady. What am saying is that if you are to match a decent lady who's a virgin with one who isn't, I would prefer the one who's a virgin.

Tell me the truth, won't you prefer to marry a virgin?

That woman lacks respect. I mean what’s her business in the matter. You already made it clear to us that you collected the money from you personal pause. So if you decide to buy a cake worthN3000, N10, 000 or even one million Naira, it’s none of her business because:
1. You are the man of the house and
2. You are the owner of the money.

So I would advise you to call her and tell her to apologize to for insulting your (her husband) personality. She must know how to show some respect to you who married her.

Hell No I can't do that

God himself is against pre-marital sex. Our generation is so corrupt that’s why the percentage rate of virgins is so low. If you find a virgin who has a decent character, what on earth would make you not marry her?
The other one who is dis- Virgin, is ok but compared to a virgin, I will pick the Virgin.

Both are guilty of the same crime

In the church or in your village.

May the good lord help you.

Most guys think Nairaland is a market where females are being sold.