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datola:
If I were that lad I would have used that opportunity to connect with one of the world's greatest.

I know of many people that the humble prof changed their stories by giving them the opportunity the children of wealthy and rulers of this world do not have.

Ignorance I abhor thee. Knowledge I adore thee.

Ass lickers association spotted! Do you know if the young man is already made?

jerryunit48:
The guy sha for respect the Nobel Winner , I remember seeing Wole Soyinka at MM when I wanted to buy a few things at the duty free some years back I was going to Europe, I was so carried away I could have willingly given him my seat

Shut up your mouth there! Even the prince of England wouldn't have done what Soyinka did, in the first place did Soyinka forget the seat allotted to him? It would have been more civilized if Soyinka had taken his original place and then seek the young man's consent to swap seat i believe the young man wouldn't have objected in the circumstance. I pray you shouldn't be so carried away so much as exchanging your life and dying in the place of someone in the name of one stupid respect.

princechurchill:
Why should Soyinka disobey the flight rules?

my thought as well. He brought disrepect to himself.

LearnITsmash:
Trust me when I say this, this dude will climb this girl Las Las cheap girls everywhere

For where? She go die if she try am.... She was initiated never to allow any man to climb her except her hussy...... Small pikin wen carry big load. What do i even know? When money is everywhere......

firstbornson:
Haven't done this before, but I want to know your honest, experienced and well thought out opinions. I'm really depressed but I won't take Snipper (that devil is a liar). If you don't have anything serious and reasonable to say, please, just read comments (I know as e dey be for here, sometimes).

Its quite a long read. Apologies for any grammatical or typographical error encountered.

Here is my story.

My younger sister who is staying with me disrespects me alot, and she doesn't take my advice. My parents stay very far away and I feel responsible for her. It frustrates me whenever I tell her something and she will wait to do it at her own time or not do it at all. She even sometimes abuses me indirectly.

She is 19, came to stay with me last year November, for a Predegree program, after staying at home for two years without admission. After the first semester of her program, her result was released and it was very disappointing. She made 51% in only one course of four courses, while others are below that. To be honest, I felt I failed in my responsibilities of giving her the right counsel, motivating her, and all that. All she does is press her phone all night long, that's if she isn't watching a movie with her phone. She'll sleep and wake up the next morning by 8 or 9am.

Recently, there's this guy who happens to be my late landlord's first son in the compound where we stay that she has been spending too much time with in dark corners and I can tell in my gut that he's up to no good. He doesn't go to work, school, church, nowhere. He just seats at home all day, smoking weed and any other smokable substance he can lay his hands on. Sometimes, his friends come around and they smoke and play PES 2011 on a laptop. Lest I forget, he's also a cultist. He has tried on several occasions to make me a yahoo boy, but I had to consciously refuse.

My apologies for the long read.

About a week ago, this guy asked her to cook indomie for him, and she did, using our gas, without telling me. This got me really up set. I had to take several deep breaths. I calmed down and allowed her finish. After she was done, I asked her to seat down and we started talking. While we were talking, she started responding rudely to me.

This made me hit her for the first time in 19 years (I hate hitting them). To my utmost surprise, she hit me back. That singular act made her receive a very hard beating that she sustained lots of injuries. She immediately called home and my parents where now shouting at me on phone. My dad came the next day and said lots of things. My mom said lots of things on phone which just piss me off the more, called me all sought of names. Said I shouldn't allow the devil that is controlling take me close to my sister.

Right now, I hate all of them. My dad, mum, and sister. If I was financially buoyant enough, I would have moved out of this house. I feel really depressed, being having nightmares and I so much hate the fact that am still living here.

By the way, am male, 24, studying Biochemistry, should have finished my first degree last year but I'm having an extra year (3 spill over courses).

How do I move from here? Advice me.

Eeyyaaaaa small boy... don't worry when you are grown things will change. For now please take heart.

corpersforum:
This is to announce that the NYSC management has officially postponed the date of the NYSC 2019 Batch B registration to Saturday 1st June to Wednesday 12th June, 2019 via an official announcement.

See the official message below:

PUBLIC NOTICE
This is to inform 2019 Batch "B" Prospective Corps Members that Online Registration commences on Saturday 1st June to Wednesday 12th June, 2019.
Signed:
Management.

The new NYSC 2019 batch B registration date is 1st to 12th of June 2019. The announcement is official.

[SOURCE: https://www..com/nysc-2019-batch-b-news-updates/]

Please can one apply for exemption?

don4real18:
If I was the man, she will rot in jail. I will release her when she reaches 60

na wao....

babyfaceafrica:
I don't know why people ignore red flags?... peoplr should have sense..love is not stupid!!

my brother ignored it and he is paying the price right now and real time, the wife just put to bed yesterday. he is thinking seriously how to end the marriage.

ev4real:
Goodevening house, i have done all the necessary checks required yet the issue still remain. Kindly help out.
Thanks.

Apart from viewing her whatsapp status can both of you chat successfully? If not she has blocked you no two ways about it.

My younger sis is due for delivery she sent me a text early this morning that she had put to bed, boooopppp... i jumped out of bed with thanksgiving and was to head striaght to the hospital, wondering why her hussy couldn't call me on a day like this and was deeply angered by his non challant attitude, i decided in a jiffy to put a call through to my sis congratulating her telling her i will be on my way ASAP. Only for her to continue laughing endlessly i still did not get it thinking it was joy of motherhood, untill she opened up it was April fool.... i was so disappointed.

AlexReports:
Stephanie The Lady Corper Who Filmed Success Gets N2M Cash By Prophet Jeremiah Fufeyin of Mercyland [VIDEO]

2 million naira cash!!! Stephanie the Lady Corper who filmed little Success sent home from School cos of fees has just been given N2million cash by Prophet Jeremiah Fufeyin of Mercyland Church in Warri.

Watch video
http://www.alexreports.info/2019/03/stephanie-lady-corper-who-filmed.html?m=



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eHEKJc9X-SM

2million for what?

This issue of cheating sef... my boy friend knows i dont care na him konji go know how far.

which means there's hope for Atiku..

finnestdope:
I've not heard of this but I'll pass the info

Thanks

Funny you! i thought you here
to know what you have never heard of as a solution?

ruddyman500:
I got married to my wife in 2017 and we have been living together since, we have a child together but there is this problem with her anytime it has to do with any of her EX. i will cite some of what happened .

She wanted to organise a programme at a time and the person she could think of is one of her ex who happens to be a media guy, i told her point blank that i dont want her to go met the guy but she explained to me how the guy will be of help to her in the programme she is planning, i let her be cos i dont want to be seen as someone throwing spanners in the wheel of her progress, i supported her and the programme was a success.

Another instance was when her mother died, and they were planning the burial ceremony with her brothers...my wife got home and told me that she told her brothers that she will talk to a musician to come play at the ceremony and the said musician happens to be another ex of hers. i told her right there that am not comfortable with it at all how could ur ex come to sing at her mums burial and i will be there dancing to his tunes?...after so much back and forth , i told her i will only attend the church service and i or any of my people will not come for the party, that was when she made last minute changes and went to book another musician.

The last straw that broke the carmels back was yesterday....I and her have been having some issues of late and we talked over it infact we are just coming out of the tensions....then yesterday morning around 8am she told me that another ex of hers called her overnight and told her that his mum just passed away and he could not think of anyone to call but her cos he is so broken, she said she had sent her condolences already but that she will like to go greet the guy and his siblings cos they are in their fathers house [ the guy is still single ooo although they broke up in 2013] and that she will be able to know about the burial arrangements so she can plan on attending the burial..so she asked me for permission if she could go and pay them a visit yesterday..... Normally i wld not have allowed her but i thought what is she didnt tell me and went there and secondly cos of the tension we just went through and i dont want another tension to build again , i told her i will only allow her to either go greet them yesterday or she goes for the burial ...I told her i will only allow her to choose one . She then asked me in strong tone why i didnt wnat her to attend the burial.....At that point i left the room cos i was not ready for another round of arguments.

She did not say anything again until afternoon, i went to my living room and asked her if she is no more going on the visit again she said she already taken her bath and she will go n prepare now ....she entered the room and started dressing up, i went to meet her in the room and i told her that i allowed her to go cos i already gave her the permission but henceforth i will not allow such again ...Told her she is not the only person with exes , i dont allow issues of any of my own ex brew tension in my marriage , i told her i have an ex whose fathers house is just like 5 mins drive from inside the estate we live and when the man died my ex called me ..all i did was send her my condolence over the phone and i explained that i cant come for the burial cos i have a wife at home whose feelings i respect and that it ends there AT that point my wife flared up to the high heavens .....she started ranting that why am i caging her that i should give her reasons why she should not go that am just so obsessed with her am immmature, insecure and bla bla bla. I told her if loving my wife and protecting the dignity and integrity of my family for obsession then she is totally wrong. She said other men will not have any problem with it that why am i making an issue out of the situation, i explained to her that am not other men , What Mr A is comfortable with may not be so with Mr B cos we all have our individual differences .....One problem my wife have is she does not see reasons why i shld not accept what she seems right to her . I then told her to call any of her elder brother and explain this situation to him if he can allow such ....

This is a woman i never restricted her movements ....i only restricted her twice and they are both on health grounds...When she left i did what i have never done before [ i have never reported her to anybody either my family or hers no matter what happens i find a way we can solve it]...i called her very close friend and explained everything to her, the lady was surprised and she promised to talk to her....I also tried to call her elder brother who is a pastor but his phone is switched off and i have not been able to get through to him .When my wife came back
she did not even greet meat all , she came to take our baby from me which i refused her, she went straight into her room, i later went into the room to lay our baby and i went into the guest room to sleep cos am so much in anger and i dont want the neighbors to hear any noise from my flat.

please i need sincere and honest opinion from married people on here ....i want to know if am at fault and secondly what next step should i take

Sincerely your wife thinks she did you a favour by marrying you. Act fast otherwise you may end up becoming a virtuous man in your marriage.

dingbang:
women dont trust themselves.

And if a fellow man calls your pretty wife my dear how will you take it?

dingbang:
women dont trust themselves.

And if a fellow man calls your pretty wife" my dear" how will you take it?

donstan18:
Don't waste your time exposing him to women.

Women don't care to know if you are caring, they don't care to know if you are responsible, they just don't care if you are a woman beater or not.

All they care is your financial strength. That's the only thing they are after.

And how good u can f:u;c;k

sacramento1212:
How old is your brother's marriage and does he have kids already?

A year and two months. He has a baby boy. She is so disrepectul she slapped him on both side of his cheek the other day until he was bleeding from the nose.

sacramento1212:
How old is your brother's marriage and does he have kids already?

A year and two months. He has a baby boy.

Kenshinmunac:
Good evening everyone, I have an issue, I just met this girl recently. At first she seemed very calm quite and reserved until I got to find out that she is this very impatient type of person that gets angry easily and talks back at one, if I ever try to raise my voice at her when she does something I don't like she will be like "are you shouting at me I don't understand, you are raising your voice?"

I am now even scared to talk to her and correct her because she will talk back at me and it will lead to argument because I hate my gf talking back at me, and she is so fucking proud and won't calm down and I too am the type that get angry easily, I can't seem to cope with this her character guys I'm thinking of ending the relationship, but it's hard cause I got attached to her already

She has refused to be controlled and like to do what ever pleases her. She basically wants to make the rules in this relationship and I don't want to let her so I don't seem like a weak man. We have broken up and made up twice now because of this anger issue we can't seem to tolerate each other and I don't want or give her the chance to make the rules

I'm afraid if I get married to her tomorrow the union will end up in disaster as it will be filled with quarreling and fighting except one of us come down for each other and I don't want to be her foot mat since I'm the man in the relationship I feel she should come down for me since I will be the one to take care of her, provide and shelter her. I deserve that fucking respect she has no right to talk back at me over the slightest of things just because I express my displeasure over things she does wrong.

Please guys, advice me I'm fucking heart broken right now. I still love her and we broke up again this evening and this time with a whole lot of word exchange guys.

I'm just confused. I hate moving from relationships to relationships. I'm so fragile emotionally. It fucking devastates me

My brother saw these signs n his relationship and went ahead to marry the lady now he is regretting his life.

Hiploko:
Hian

The video didn't say he has ended the marriage ni o

He said for him to come out and announce to the whole world it means the marriage has ended.

psalmsmiles:
envy
Modified: the level of some womens insecurities are mind blowing! ilIf she wasn't cool with the dance she should have stylishly seperate them! It's normal to be jealous but i think a woman's jealousy is on another whole different level

and if you see your friend cruising your wife that way on your wedding day? how will you take it?

Ohh this food though.... fried egg , fried plantain and fried stew, i suppose the chicken is fried as well... abasi mbok. Dieticians call this dead food.

They be moving from one corridor of power to the other. God dey!

That pregnant women don't eat food .

From Majesty To Majesty.
Champions Royal Assembly .

GidiWoodsMan:
Truly this Gifty has the brain of a chicken. So she was collecting sperm from both men at the same time

that's the implication.

Kolombz:
I dislike this lady alot.Her hubris repulses me.
I am not surprised that she is refusing to admit that Mr 2kay is the father of her child.What else do you expect from an attention seeker.She is just trying to make a fuss about the whole drama in a bid to seek relevance.
She feels that if she concedes that Mr2kay is the father of her child,it would diminish her ego after incessantly denying ever being a relationship with Mr2kay in the past.
That is the schtick of a very pompous person like Gifty

words cannot quantify my dislike for her. I just cannot help it.

BrutalLafamilia:
I met this amazing girl recently, she was posted newly to my office, we got talking and I discovered she was homely and would make a good companion, we also have a lot in common and attended the same secondary school. I asked to date her and she told me she would think about it, she kept dodging and finally told me she was in a complicated situation.

She has been dating a force man for the past three years, that brutalizes her and treats her like a property, she comes from a comfortable background but she depended on him to buy her a phone, laptop and meet her financial needs as she was unemployed for some years, he in turn has not committed to any relationship, still frolicks with other ladies and harasses her in her family house whenever she returns late, he calls her security man to find out her movement.

I brought this issue here because I noticed marks on her hand this morning (he beat her up and caused a scene last night at her place when she returned late and wasn't taking his calls) and he called me using her phone to ask me funny questions last night. Should I take the matter up and ensure he is disciplined or leave her to continue to suffer in her current situationship.


Please I need wider audience.

you better mind your business.

John the baptist. To how come he ended that way.

coolcharm:
Mikel Obi... The guy just dodge all these lazy and arrogant Nigerian girls with their gold digging game

Pretty daughter he has, I must say.

I've learnt to respect people's choices... Especially on when, where, how an in whom they find love and happiness. So, welcome home Olga Obi.
#igbo amaka

Same way your lazy, arrogant gold digging daughters and sisters will be dodged.