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Op, I hail thee. You are a special kind, I am sure u were communicating with the members of ur secret world/society. I think u missed ur way, banana tree is the other way.

MRbrownJAY:
where did the guy denied the pregnancy or lack responsibility? he just decided that it was TOO EARLY to have a child. who knows? they may not be ready financially to have a child, not ready in their employment situation or living arrangements.

saying that a guy lack responsibilities when he uses his brain and decide that it´s best to have an abortion (because they are not ready to care for a child) IS being responsible in my world. the irresponsible ones are the ones who go ahead and have a child (or even children) when they CLEARLY aint ready to properly care for one (for the next 18yrs).

everybody has s[b]e[/b]x today, even bums living under bridges, should any Hot and stoopid fools out there have kids when they CLEARLY cant take care of their own selves?!

I see the bolded was the only point that manifested to you right? Whether he denied it or not, the fact still remains that he is telling her to have an abortion which is even worse than denial.

Like I earlier stated what if the lady looses her womb, dies or develops a complication in the process, what happens? Or you think life is a fairytale where you get away with all manner of things.

Secondly, if it were to be your loved one or sister or family member, would you have allowed her fiance or bf ask her to go for an abortion? Even if you accept and she dies, how do you want to live with the guilt. Its even better they give birth to the baby and give the motherless baby homes or welfare to take in the baby for some years till they can find their bearing, they visit the baby regularly and take the baby once they can stand on their feet. Have they tried seeing they can get help in raising the child. So many options other than abortion.

Dude, we are all finding a solution for the couple! Chill

same old gist, women this, women that. op's life support is tied to a woman.

This is a very daft situation.

The typical pregnancy denial and lack of responsibility tale. The guy obviously does not love the babe. He was ready to marry her but he is not willing to accept their baby. What a sick joke!

Its quite unfortunate that the lady is in this predicament but its also a lesson for ladies who deceive themselves with procrastinated profits, dividends or outcome. Its even good she is pregnant at least they don't need to fret about impotency or bareness in marriage. He doesn't need an elaborate wedding again, the money should be used on the baby, they can just do something small.

But if he insist on abortion, I don't know the best advice as this is a very dicey situation. I mean what if the lady is destined to give birth to only one child in her lifetime or she looses her womb out of unforeseen circumstances like electrical failure or unsterilized tools or an inexperienced doctor,  They need to thread carefully, I pity the lady.

What a question!

Its like watching an episode of Paris Hilton and her BFFs Nicole Richie, Kim Kard etc.

she asked my assistant questions rangin frm my car,where do i live

Why did she ask your assistance such questions? Shy girl would ask all those question from a stranger? Is that not creating an impression to your assistant. hmmm

iice:
[color=#9900ff]And her boyfriend? [/color]

Yep that is another question!

freecocoa:
A girl that has a boyfriend follows you to a hotel
  She has a boyfriend but likes you and is trying to claim innocence just so you don't see her as a bad girl, bottom line is, that girl may turnout to be a big time cheat,stop using your already concluded theory of naija gals being bad to judge and see her as an angel cos she wants to be one to you.

P.S many naija girls say "thank you"its people like you that fall mugu big time(no ofeinse)

On point dearie!

lurkee:
Thank you!

@OP, well you have written a nice super story there but did you forget she has a boyfriend? You say she is shy and good natured but she is hanging out in a hotel with a man that is not her boyfriend because he is out of state. Just think that despite her "sweet and innocent" nature, she could easily do the same to you.

I am glad for all these reasonable contributions.

sexkillz:
[color=#000055][size=14pt]As long as you expect to be given money in exchange for sex, you are a pro[i]s[/i]titute. . . Male or Female

If a man sleeps with a woman, and he pays her, she is a pro[i]s[/i]titute.
If a woman sleeps with a man, and she pays him, he is a pro[i]s[/i]titute.
If a sugar mummy sleeps with a boy, and pays him, he is a pro[i]s[/i]titute.

Sleep with a pr[i]o[/i]stitute a million times, but as long as you are the one paying her, she is a pr[i]o[/i]stitute. Not you, for patronizing her business! It was business. He paid for the services rendered. . . He is NOT a pro[i]s[/i]titute.!


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Sexykillz, what does the bolded mean? Please explain, are u cheating on me with a pros-titute that u dnt pay for her services and that makes it ok?

bin gbagbo:
a woman just turned me down, and i am sooooo embarrassed !

Do you have a love life and love story for everyday.

On Monday, its either u r dating a virgin. On a Tuesday, its either u were dating an older lady in her 30s. On Wednesday, you were turned down; On Sunday, its either you want to marry a virgin and women that have se-x are not good and its goes on and on.

Your next thread might be you impregnated a girl. hiss

@op

I think female empowerment should be instilled on ladies so that ish like this would not be an issue. Or what do you think? Its a man's money so he has a right to use it as he chooses, you know why? Cos he worked for it and earned it. So the lady should do the same.

Though its not an avenue for a man to be stingy or not to do his role but there is not much a man can do as all men are not the same, its best for a lady to be prepared to make her money in case her man is d stingy type or he looses his money later on in the relationship.

kasiem:
I'm of the opinion that we should stop making this sordid act of prostitution appear as a woman thing. The fact is that any person who patronizes a LovePeddler is also a LovePeddler, cos it takes two to tango. We should stop attaching this prostitution to the women folk. Again, any person that have slept with upto five different people in a year is no bettter than a LovePeddler

I think this is a very realistic write up you have up here.

Prostitution is not limited to only women, we have male pros-stitues as well. Although its a shameful act that desecrates our society but admitting men have a part to play in this ungodly act is a positive step to tackling the phenomenon eventually.

Idowuogbo:
Cuddles stop typin your words dey irritate me, kai I no wan even begin dey  notice u

your presence here sef don't ginger nada, abeg go chop groundnut

Pls na fickle swaggs fit u pass.

@ cocoa
U have done it twice now, like wtf don't u have manners.Learn to say goodnite ostrich

Babes, wetin I do u oh because me I no understand this angle wey u dey use attack me since. If something dey, make we address am. Person bring politics talk come and I dey tell am make him no add to whatever is happening and u dey check my every move here. So make I no talk again because I am in the presence of gods or what. Leave fickle to enjoy her hubby abeg, get used to cuddle na my swag be dt defender of women O. Na wa oh, Jesus is lord!

donspony:
@ Cuddlemi.
I see you got a glass chin. How did my post evoke a pejorative context against females.

Unless I wasn't born by a woman, then will I mudsling other women.

Whatever happened here has snowballed into personal attacks and name calling.

My post implied why there were 'few' women discussing politics without it degenerating to a mini riot. Some are just too emotional.
And public forum or not doesn't give a valid reason why people should get whipped up in a frenzy to tussle and ramble.
My office setting was just a joinder if same would happen in a professional environment.

Ok I get your point now. Sorry about that, blame it on the tension here. I just couldn't reconcile that political topic with what is going on here. I just was trying to avoid another issue. I think you should be bothered about peace on here and don't try to analyze too much because I don't think your earlier post is doing justice to anything. Just overlook everything as fun, don't take it too seriously. Take care

donspony:
A question was posed in the political section about ' why there few ladies in politics'

15 pages later littered with bunch of females and she-males bag slinging and scratching gives me my answer.

You behave like this in your workplaces?    

WTF! 

For the mere fact that I commented on that political thread, I will answer you because I don't take it likely to insults against the female gender. What has the exhibition here today got to do with the topic or you? I think its about time people started minding their business on here and stop expecting a certain standard from anyone. For heaven sakes, this is a public forum so all manner of things are bound to happen or occur. Its either you digest or purge your system of irrelevant data but don't use a misunderstanding or aggression which happens everywhere to soil the female gender. You can advice people here to stop fighting or whatever but don't use it as an avenue to diss women or we would both get into it. Why not open a thread about women instead of using what happened here as an avenue to get heard. Don't men do worse things and are men not involved here. If you want to tackle the situation at hand which is very distasteful, do that without adding fuel to the ongoing fire.

What has workplace got to do with what is going on here, smh

Idowuogbo:
^u sure crave his attentiom smh , any opportunity u get u quote him

Stalkerrrr


@ cocoa
your moi moi was digusting , y cook on budget I shud have jus starved and waited for mannure from above

Wetin concern me. This Nland don turn to police check point wey every movement go dey evaluated. So I no send anyone again, nobody holy pass. Nothing do anybody. Everyone is entitled to their opinion.

denzel2009:
Why are you cursing yourself, you are a dunderhead for chrissakes.

Flashaldrin:
has the fight start ??

Hey bestie. what fight? is someone holding ur funds here?

freecocoa:
I went to evening mass to pray and ask God to forgive us and give us peace and love,I didn't disappear,please I don't want to fight,besides you don't know how it all started. this was just a joke for me,lawd I didn't know some people had back yard issues,I was dissed too na,BABE actually started it by telling me to post my pix,its just a pity it got this far,if you go reply with curse,I'll just say "GOD BLESS YOU IN ADVANCE"cheerz.

Why should I curse u. I am just amazed at the turn out which could have been avoided. I can imagine Rokiatu's reaction where ever she is now. This thread is a total mess.

freecocoa:
holy infant jesus,i'm shocked,will it be bad if i said please stop,its enough,i see plenty bannings on the way.

I thot u liked it when it all started. What did you do to stop it? You disappeared and came back at the peak right. smh

Lols at this thread

coogar:
what is shocking you, mrs cuddles?

thread was opened via error. you know that error that eats up your post with some red warnings.
amya did not intend to open this thread separately, she was trying to reply on another thread.

so what's so stunning to you?
the only stunning to me here is a lot of nl ladies seem to be pms-ing at the same time thus the scent of female hormones.

Hugh Hefner,

We have passed the error thread stage.

The last time I checked, I can scribble whats on my mind. Since we all are being sincere, we might as well let it all out.

I don't see anything offensive in what I said but if you don't dig it, you can play the garbage in, garbage out, Its not so hard to get rid of irrelevant data.

Lmao at this thread. I am still in shock that means we are not safe again if our every move is scrutinized.

Yorisb:
You have to have it first in order to flaunt it.



Xcuse me pass jare!

See man sef dey judge pix, na wa oh. Abegi pass go fall hit head for pavement.

Idowuogbo:
come tell fickle or u  to open a thread for dis hookup , we are in the middle of jury here

u are making noise, dis is not ojuwoye


dat is to say na her type dey mix toothpaste wiv lotion bcus she wan white , tell madam alligator skin sef go win pageant if shes not careful  

Aunty I didn't know we had to fill attendance register to be on a thread O. We go comot since na u start d thread

coogar:
i hate pests and irritants like 190.

why write in pink/huge fonts? why does he attention-seek?
you can take some people out of the ghetto, you will never succeed in taking the ghetto out of them.

phew!!!!!!!!!!! the chic is hot!
some bad-Bottom b[i]o[/i]obs she's got!

in truth, if that's her pic - she's far far better than rokiatu.
not even close, abeg!

Be careful what you say. A beauty doesn't need to be in comparison to be stated beautiful. She is beautiful because she is beautiful, no need to compare and contrast her with Rokiatu. Is it because her pics is on her profile or she changes her profile pix frequently? Shouldn't you be observing where I sent you

coogar:
is she hotter than my opus?
if she's not - i wouldn't bother.
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somebody tell me, please.
why does 190 type in pink fonts and enlarges it - is this butt-ugly peasant g[i]a[/i]y?

time to go to the cash point!
i need to buy some artificial intelligence for 190.

Well go take a look for yourself. I liked what I saw.
You are not even ready for marriage are you? What do u really want from a lady? The lady for u might be listening, make that 3 mins count baby!

coogar:
can you furnish me with her pics?

cuddlemii is not fickle - how is that possible?

How about you visiting her blog. I did that too. Click on the link on her profile. Very good stuff on there.

coogar:
who is amya?

does she have a pic?

Yes. She doesn't disappoint in all ramifications. The pretty ones are really hidden on here. Just wish some people looked as beautiful inside out as their names imply, well its a faceless forum so its all good.

freecocoa:
If una dey bother,I no follow una o,you suppose dey ask yourself why you dey worry about person nyash when your 19 year  daughter dey busy dey smooch some dude,na dat one you suppose worry about o.I saw her with the guy today again,him go soon make her nyash big like the one wey dey cause wahala now.

. Have u finished or there is more? Tell us what we don't already know!

190smh:
[size=18pt]

flaunt wetin
if you see nyash you go fit talk   [/size]

Na ur kind go dey like yansh na. Wetin concern me with woman yansh? Make throw away salute or shake am? If na man yansh na I go fit relate.

Idowuogbo:
stop making noise fickle  

birds of d same feather  
lmaoooo tons of poo  

Fickle dey unda her hubby for 3rd round, you dey here dey call her name. I no dey there O, allow her enjoy her koboko na. we wld get there someday, everlasting koboko.

freecocoa:
Didn't you read where she said iit was an error?she didn't mean to start a thread,I know cos its happened to me before,abeg make una relax jare,what's with the so called confidence anyways.

I been no see sey na error message even if, I am also entitled to my own opinion just like op. Nothing do all of us. She dey confidence cos she uploads her pix, y r we even bothered abt person pix or no pix. We too dey worry for dis Nland.