₦airaland Forum

@Op

I almost choked on my toast.

As for Rokiatu, its her body, pictures, clothes and shoes so she can decide to display it all she wants. Its her life. I even applaud her for her confidence and I think her privacy should be respected. If you've got it flaunt it. You don't like what you see, eyes wide shut.

I just saw Amya's pix. God saved U girl, its worth it

But babes I don't think Rokiatu deserves what you are writing against her except both of you have some ish going on. She was only replying Reality but its your opinion so it should be respected. Btw I could only see the opposite organ of hers, set your camera underneath so I can score u more points .

Goldieluks:
Very babaric,why would they allow people to treat people this way,yes she stole a common BB,
but do they have to go overboard by taking off her clothes,its not worth it really.These worthless and annoying Nigerians,
taking laws into their hands.

[quote author=BABE! link=topic=793459.msg9538601#msg9538601 date=1321104480]Every single one of those men/women deserve to be shot dead--asin DEAD. They are Lucifer's cousins and they belong to him in hell. DEMONS!

Which normal human being, born of a sane woman, would drive satisfaction, joy and happiness in humiliating another human like that?   

Blackberry? Blackberry?

Jungle-Justice in 2011?

I'll soon renounce Nigeria as my country. It's only a matter of time. [/quote]1) I am wondering if it were a man, would the same be done to him.

2) What kind of gathering is that with uncivilized peeps? Girls sef dey waka!

3) The women present didn't do anything, why?

lefulefu:
the girl get fine br4est sha .but omo na wetin go come make am dey steal blackberry na? .If she really need blackberry she for tell me make i buy one brand new one for her .at least na blackberry she try steal so her levels pass those babes wey dey go supermarket to thief pant and g-string

The babe na clean babe. When she was unclad to nothing, I was expecting to see marks, dirt etc if na sey she dey smell dem for don talk am or not touch am. Her skin light well well. She even better pass most chicks. I can't seem to understand why she would go that far for a BB. Maybe na curse sha. But those pple sef went to far shebi dem don see d fone. Dem for just hand am over to police or something.

@Op

You got me scared at first with the subject of your topic. I didn't get the NL is dividing us part, I am sorry but that was not necessary. Nairaland is made up of 737206 members as of right now, how do you expect them to divide, control and manipulate members, Its not sounding logical, please edit that part. We are all individuals with different social economic backgrounds, ideologies and mindsets so we are entirely responsible for our actions and we have the right to expression with or without Nairaland. I am also sorry but I have to state that a human being's view is its view except its a 5 years old that you can tame, but you can't think for a human being or force it to stand for a certain school of thought.

The human mind is aggressive in nature so its ok to disagree to agree which I think its fair rather than expressing it in Kidnapping, Terrorism & Cultism. So if people choose to lobby or take a stand about the economy, their tribe, government or Nigeria as a whole by writing their feelings then I think its very applaudable. Now tribalism can be annoying but that is where management of what your mind absorbs and excretes as garbage comes to play. You can choose to turn deaf ears or counter it but you can't change it. Although, I love that you are trying which is a positive thing.

Its a faceless forum with anonymous people. If you can't manage your feelings from online encounter then I wonder if you weep when people address political issues offline or in real life. Common! its all part of the education here so you should not feel offended. If the discussions here were one way street or if everyone were to write in the same direction then trust me even you won't be here as it would be a bore and nothing resourceful to gain & references to tap. When you don't like a post or thread, feel free to express your concern but don't try to change Nigeria in one day, It would take a while plus I am sure there are more lucrative & humanitarian needs offline that you can deposit your concerns in, that to me is far more enriching.

lefulefu:
FALLS
naija babes no dey freak over suya again?
i know say back then most naija babes go dey beg guys make dem buy suya for them

This is a gift for u becos I know u like things like this that discredit ladies. It also involves BB. Enjoy!!!
http://fatherrapesdaughter..com/2011/11/click-like-and-share-to-watch-this.html

@Sexkillz,

Please come back to YM .

@op

Please where do I sign up for this section? I am very much interested. What does it entail asides boldness? I am serious O!

Can you give me a tour around your section and a mini orientation or information section.

Home or abroad is not a determinant to a better future. Your determination, drive and hard work is the bedrock of a better future. Now the reason why people leave Nigeria is because even with all the hard work & input, you never get what you deserve. You might be a 1st class product, aced all aptitude tests of reputable companies only for the position to be handed over to a numbskull whose father is a brother to a governor. It can be frustrating when your own contribution or quota to your society is not rewarded or appreciated.

Nigeria is a good place to be if you are wealthy, connected, have job security & good wages, benefits, salary packages. If not its a waste of time. Its already disheartening that the country has no functional system of government and lack consistency with social amenities then you now top that up with living in penury, God forbid! I think traveling does a lot to a Nigerian, it curbs the aggressive nature of people, gives them a different orientation hence making them reason like rational beings.

People are complaining about Uk and taxes. A friend once told me he would rather pay his taxes as it allows his Dad come to UK for health treatments so there is transparency as to how the funds are disbursed or spent. He said he can never pay tithe in Bishop Oyedepo's church where the pastor is acquiring jets while his congregation lives in abject poverty. These congregation helped to construct and build his University (they were working for God). How many of these congregation did he put in the university or even select like 10 as scholarship to help the poor. How many did he declare free food for one week. Why would anyone want to be in a deceptive society where you are being ripped off by everyone and yet you get nothing. Some churches abroad have something like welfare where they cater for poor people and students.

Marriages abroad are far more enriching and solid as there are certain things a man can't get away with abroad. In Nigeria, most men are so spoilt with the idea that they are the head so they treat their wives like slaves in bondage and captivity that probably explains the aging factor of most Nigerian ladies.

The educational standard in Nigeria has fallen. No structure, No equipped classrooms, No diverse curriculum, No facilities and lack of top notch faculties. Even the top notch faculties we have are not treated fairly as their salaries are withheld, delayed etc. The option available these days are private universities or private schools. The question is how many people can afford that luxury when some people have 5 kids to cater for. Its almost the same or even cheaper than some universities abroad so is it not wise to send your kids to a country where a 4 years program can never become 7 or 8 years except the pupil is a dullard.

Till now, it beats me as to why Ghana has had constant electricity for years now and we are still battling with availability of light. Its already bad that the weather in Nigeria is not favorable then Nepa too, would help decorate the heat in the lives of people so you tend to see a lot of skin problems ranging from rash, pimples, scaly skin etc. You can't even use mere moisturizer during the day, you might end up with showers of blessing in form of sweats and people look at you like what planet are you from. The weather abroad gives the skin a velvety flavor, makes it fresh and sometimes even lighten the skin.

So many factors contribute to leaving & staying back in Nigeria. I mean who doesn't like the good things of life. Who doesn't like an organized government? Who doesn't like good education? Who doesn't like good roads not the one you would be scared that your car would sink into a pot hole and you have to drive with your eyeballs almost falling off. Who doesn't like security where you would smile at the efficient people in the force because they do the job they are being paid for and not Nigeria that the police can barely feed and live off the 20naira from buses.

Its a matter of choice and your set goals. If you think Nigeria is delaying your achievements then you look for another place. Sometimes a change of scenery restores sanity & peace of mind to people. Although, going abroad has its own disadvantages too but the risk is worth taking once you are legit and ready to sow the right seeds, the sky is the limit. You can take your experience from a foreign country back to Nigeria to improve it, impact on it & make a change. Don't die in a foreign land, bring that expertise home later on for a better Nigeria.

Flashaldrin:
Hei sweri, Thank God you are here. Missed you loads!!
Well i tried my best for her, considering the time i had. Med school is so tedious you rarely get time for yourself, you know how it is.
Well, i'll do the best i can for her, and i have got to be careful too, considering she's quite vulnerable now, dont want any 'falling in love' to happen.
Thanks o, i'm glad i passed, though i aint afraid of your strokes cos even you do give me, you would do it so romantically i would want more. Lolz.

I have been here. Missed u too plenty!
Ok try harder for her. Just do it such that she doesn't fall in love & you don't fall in ur grades.
"Intelligent, you can tell". Remember that so I knew u wld ace it.
Na if u fail, my strokes of cane would involve a mark and wound on ur butt. No romantics for olodos .
Take care dear.

[quote author=~duchess~ link=topic=795306.msg9481303#msg9481303 date=1320419499]Why dnt you try and get his email address or something [/quote]BB pin won't be a bad idea too. These days so many ways of communication.

Georgialuv:
Lol We don't work in the same place. He is an auditor for my Company and wouldn't be here all through

Ok that is even better cos office romance sometimes has its hurdles & hiccups. Well I suggest you let you boss link you guys up but if you ever have an opportunity to chat with him, just ask for his contacts. The world is very advanced and matured men don't take adv of anything. All would work out fine, its obvious.

Flashaldrin:
I really need advice on what to tell my friend. We just concluded our 2nd mbbs, i passed buh she failed and was withdrawn from med school. Not as if she aint intelligent buh due to NMC quota regulation exercise, only 60 out of 150 in my class passed.
Now she is so bitter and depressed, i'm her closest friend and i dont know what to tell her, worst is she calls me everytime, and i never say the right things, she might even end up crying.
Truly i'm confused cos i have never been there, i dont know how it feels.
I cant just leave or ignore her cos i feel this is the time to show am a true friend. Buh i honestly lack words. And each time she cries, it breaks my heart.

Hey Bestie, where were you before now. Couldn't you take her through tutorials, past questions & practice etc. A friend in need is a friend in deed, if you were looking for her best interest then you should have been her back bone before now.

OK the deed has been done. Its never too late to be her shoulder to cry on. Help her out this time and make sure she makes up for what she has lost. I am happy you didnt flunk your exams, would have given you 12 strokes of cane. She fell now, try and make rise for later.

Take care of u dear.

That is a critical one.

Well I think what usually happens in scenarios like these is that they send the 2 parties to far away countries never to see each other again. I think the family or parents take the baby or so. But the brother & sis goes far apart to heal, start a new life & avert the societal stigma.

I think a simple conversation would do. Just have a chat with him from there tell him you both work in the same place & yet you don't have eachothers numbers that it would be handy in case of emergencies, God forbid & above all he is your friend.

From a conversation to a telephone conversation, the rest is history. Your boss setting you both up is a very wise decision as it would divert the shyness from the guy and the fear of approach from you. It would put both of you on the same balance so you start relating free or slightly freely. Best of luck, I know it would work out fine.

@op

This is so old. I remember, "bringing out the superb in me" and I remember when one of the ladies was asked for her statistics

Yes prophets are been consulted when it comes to marriage and relationships. I think mostly those white garment church people, Muslim Clerics also known as Alfas etc. But not pastors from Christian churches as those ones just pray, do counseling for couples, they don't see any danger or warn people as long as a member of the congregation is getting married. I don't know if these pastors don't want to scatter the union or they don't have the abilities to see beyond.

Now what those prophets do is that they check if both parties are compatible, if they will bear kids, if there would be sufficient funds to cater for the 2 & their life span as in if they will live longer together.

I think for Muslim Clerics also known as Alfas, those ones do calculations with numbers generated from the couples names, date of birth etc to see if the couples fit into water, fire & wind. For example, water shuts down fire so if a guy is fire and a girl is water, there would always be issues. So basically, couples consult these people so as to know if they are being played or the relationship would lead to marriage blah blah blah.

The ones that take pictures all over the place to secure their relationship that is usually chaotic or catastrophic in nature as it has evil intentions and there would always be repercussions. Some even go as far as bewitching or locking or jazzing men, that usually gets expired later when families of the guy starts asking questions or decide to find their own root to nullify the juju.

Some claim prophecies have worked for them, I still prefer the ones where you are walking and someone tells you you would be great or you would make it or you would be a doctor,and you say, "thank you and walk away at least that is positive & to your own advancement not like you went searching for greener pastures or a hubby".

I would say all those prophecies for marriages don't work, many have been exploited & chosen the wrong partner due to mis match or bad pairing. The best is you own intuition, your relationship with God & your abilities to risk & manage situations.

Well people do a lot of wack things once in a while not necessary for love.

The guy would learn from his mistakes, that is what life is all about. That does not mean he wont triumph at the end. He didn't do one of the best things but at least he did it for a good cause. I am sure he has learnt the hard way & trust me he is going to get ruthless now, that is usually the pattern. Its painful when you get screwed from/for loved ones.

Although those kind of stigma stick around but that doesn't deter his destiny & what God has planned for him.

I usually call them besties. Bestie 1, bestie 2 etc, lolz


Tier 1
Dyt (bestie 1), Coogar, Dammytex, tosinosho1992, Gel03, Flashdrine, James d man, roland17, Iso_savvy, Vodka, Habooza, Yields, Epin Win, Superbrain,

Tier 1 contd
Goldie (bestie 2), high chief, donguitti, Pendo87(memory lane, 1 of the 1st peeps I met here), Tell wisdom, Waleiscool,

Tier 2
Igwe_Blaze, Chukie98, Bhusayor, Scash, Leuelliot, Idowuogbo, Lefulefu, Toba, Monie, Sparkle,

I am not really close to these ones but I admire them a lot, dig their post & wish we were Buddies because they are such an inspiration.
Stagger, Czar_Chris, Kpolli, Claremont, Kunbee, nekai, ronkebp, Segamite, New acca, Delta 007.

My Twinny:
Babe!

Honoree: Ayoalade a.k.a. heaven sent from travel section, always helping people and was a source of blessing to everyone. God bless this man. I don't think any human being can be as nice as this.

sauer:
^^^really, the guy needs words. Don't mock him. Perhaps he doesn't want to be 'led into temptation'. Not that this temptation is bad though 

I almost laughed my heart out. My eyes are so red right now. This story is some classic comedy stuffs. The part I loved was "i cant stay away from her cos we work in the same working place and i cant imagine loosing my job just because i want to stay away from a girl". Its usually the other way round, a guy doesn't want to get caught shagging his colleague as it is against work ethics and all. Some funny story meant for laughter alone.

skypon2002:
i believe someone can  give me a good advice here.
im just going crazy about this problem,
i dont know what to do.

i met a lady some couple of months, we became casual friends, we have been gisting whenever we are around, sharing things like eating together (not as lovers oo), we read together and browse together on my system.
my heart is beginning to love her, but i dont want to fall in love with her.
each time i think about her but i will try to develop a heart of hatred.
the worst is that each time i determine to ignore her, only her presence alone will overpower my determination
i cant stay away from her cos we work in the same working place and i cant imagine loosing my job just because i want to stay away from a girl.

i just want to kill that feeling of love that i have for her, 
i just dont want to fall in love with her.
i dont know what to do 
right now im thinking about her as im typing, but what will i do to forget and kill that feeling?

pls help me 

Who be this dongo yaro?

How can a working class guy post this sick joke? Are u presently enrolled in adult classes at a preparatory school. I was cracking up like craze here.

tellwisdom:
Bro dont you ever give up with your search of a GURL here with an empty pocket, Ugly face, tiny joystick??  

bin gbagbo:
can a person love 2 or more people at the same time? cas i am afraid but i think iam in love with three gals now. is it  normal?

Anything is possible but look closely there would always be the one. The one you think about all the time, the one that you can stand up the rest for. The one that her kiss makes you sit down for 2 hours before regaining yourself. The one that makes you happy. The one you can tell anything to and trust. The one that when you touch her, she responds back and gives a good sound. Above all, the one that has loved you unconditionally, stood by you, supported you through hard times, soft times, intimate times, when you felt like giving up. The one that gave you hope, friendship, peace of mind and happiness. Its not far fetched, there is always "the one". Once you sort that out, then you would know the one that is a fling, the one that your are in lust with, the one that you think you are in love with & the one who is not worthy to be your lady.

@op

Why are u all about the negative. Its past tense. You learned from your mistakes and moved on. If you keep talking about it then you are bound to hurt the more. Let me remix your topic a little. How was your best smooch.

It was lovely because I was in love and you?

Idowuogbo:
^madam dem don ban u ni looool, kai pele o

Lol wetin, me sef wan join the trend of numerous IDs. Akoba adaba

Long One:
OK, the last part of my reply was obviously a bad joke, but at least we agree on the bolded.

This whole thing is still new to me, so pardon me if I occasionally blunder. That’s why I mentioned the ‘fire’ bit earlier. Enough fire to stand up to me when I mis-yarn/misbehave as you rightly recognized, not someone who’ll be servile or a ‘yes girl’.

Hope you get me a bit more now. I've given you a rare insight into my mind.

Ok good. I am sure the advertisement has televised. Will be on the look out for that kind of combo. Keep with your insight

Long One:
^^^A take home to mama that can hammer, with a high drive to match mine.

About the versatility and diversity, maybe, ‘cos I flirt a lot, but won’t bend my principles. I’ll give you 2 coconuts, to represent those beautiful, female mountain peaks.

Huh. Is everything ok today? What are you talking about? Yep never bend the rules even if she bends over, men need to learn from that notion.

Long One:
I’m here, still the last of a dying breed, and still on the straight and narrow.

Now, how can I get out of this dilemma? Okay, I love good girls, just prefer the ones with a lil bit of fire.

So, have I made it back into your good books now? You know I’ll climb d coconut tree to convince you. 

Ok but I am still not convinced. You mean u like closet freaks or a lady on the street and a freak in bed or a take home to mamma that can hammer.

Well its good that you are now versatile & diverse. How many coconuts would I get? So I dance to your tune!

kpolli:
A bad girl has more sex mates than period days

I am a good girl then It took me this long to know my category, Thank God I nvr claimed to be a girl.

freecocoa:
okay now you have me laughing very loud.
Forget name,if you know what that cocoa can do to his system,you'll be marveled,you don't wanna try my skills o besides you heard him,he goes to the highest bidder,so bring it on,

I threw him out already. You can have him sweets. At least he passed by my place first, I was the 1st. Then on to Rokiatu, the approved sexy second wife. The rest are just feeding on the remnant of what we enjoyed for 4 or 5months. Let me give you a heads up, he likes them tough & hard to get. Let him profess the love dear! So you have to dethrone Rokiatu, hope you are sexy sha.

Long One:
^^^Hahahaha, guess me’s a mixture of both - a reformed individual who’s only one-quarter evil now, lol.

BTW, I wouldn’t want a girl who says how high when I say jump, even if she’s 'good'.

Ok. When you are awake, I will be here. Where is Long one

Idowuogbo:
ha cuddles emmh bebe haba i go fight for my padi, hin belle na sedimentary rock u wan try olufitness lool.dyt taku si be , ko tu foka sibe it no easy to find d african version to washington baba. I haileth u ojere correCt babe

abeg dt 1 no be my headache again. dyt go drill am for relay match, he will loose all that storage in no time. dt guy belle na wa, god forbid!!!