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Family / Re: Married Couples, Does Sex Covers All Sins And Conflicts? by curiousmind11: 9:23pm On May 07, 2022 |
If the marriage has gone to a stage where both spouses are considering separation or divorce, is it reasonable to still have sex once a while? |
Family / Limits/privacy In Marriage. by curiousmind11: 5:25pm On Apr 28, 2022 |
Please, what are the general limits or spousal privacy in modern day marriage. It is very common for some spouse to tell his/her partner, "that is my private/personal life", "that is my business ". These days, the private parts (genitals) of married couples are easily accessed than their phones or computers. Is the phrase "better half" a mirage? Second question: How would you respond to your partner who deletes most of his/her sms and whatsapp chats before he/she can let you into his/her phone? |
Family / Re: Help! My Wife Beats Me At Home, at any provocation by curiousmind11: 8:01pm On Mar 01, 2022 |
Richy4: If you read my 1st response, I strongly support him leaving. But my suggestion is that he works on himself mentally to be able to detach without having a mental or emotional breakdown. For most people divorce decision is not made within a day or hours. He needs the mental strength to do it. And he needs to build that mental strength 1st. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Help! My Wife Beats Me At Home, at any provocation by curiousmind11: 7:00pm On Mar 01, 2022 |
tayo60: For someone emotionally attached to the children, divorce is not that easy. It needs a lot of emotional and mental work. I can tell you that the OP feels stuck. I am on same path, and I know it 1st hand. |
Family / Re: Help! My Wife Beats Me At Home, at any provocation by curiousmind11: 4:28pm On Mar 01, 2022 |
Barrister026: Guy, you are in a loveless marriage. No respect, no love, no loyalty. She is there only for what she can get, and answer MRS. Accept your fate, start couching yourself to accept divorce as an option. Find materials on "Radical Acceptance " and read/watch. In the meantime, play safe. Don't have any verbal or physical confrontation with her. Just focus on your divorce strategy. It is not going to get better. Even with a marriage counselor. They never change. I am going through a loveless, disrespectful disloyal union too. But mine is without physical violence. It will only get worse! Work on your mental health and make move for divorce before she kills you and start flaunting herself as a widow to seek sympathy. 1 Like |
Family / Married Couples, Does Sex Covers All Sins And Conflicts? by curiousmind11: 1:04pm On Feb 13, 2022 |
In many cultures, there are different adages or wise-sayings that interpret as "any marital conflict is settled on the bed". Many have taken this to means whenever couples who had any conflict have intimacy, that conflict is automatically erased. What should the order of things be? A. Seducing your partner into love making and forgetting the conflict or misunderstanding? B. Talking things over, then rewarding yourself with a good lovemaking? Why do I ask? My partner believes that if I am upset about something, we just need to have sex. Once sex is involved then I cannot air my grievance. If I insist about talking things over, she will label me "unforgiving", "wicked" etc. She hardly demand for sex, except when she knows I am angry. How do I deal with this lifestyle? |
Family / Re: Why Do Married Men Still Keep In Contact With Their Exes After Marriage? by curiousmind11: 9:19pm On Aug 20, 2020 |
Pattypatt: People like you are the reasons I save all WhatsApp conversations with my exes. I also record all phone calls between us. You People will lead men on, then turn around to blackmail or blame the men. When you start using endearing names on your ex, chat him up at odd hours, dig into his privacy, and most commonly beg him for every financial favors, what were you expecting? You better not be one of my exes, because I will cast you soonest. |
Politics / Re: Ghali Umar Na'abba For Criticising Buhari by curiousmind11: 7:20pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
Ekpeitut: And you answer Ekpeitut? Mbòk kunam nsak!!! |
Politics / Re: Ghali Umar Na'abba For Criticising Buhari by curiousmind11: 5:38pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
Ekpeitut: Dah! Your username is a bomb! I hope you know the meaning. But if you are not from AKS, never mind. |
Agriculture / Re: Lemon Fruit For Sale by curiousmind11: 9:19pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
savemeas: These are not Lemon, but Limes. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Where Is The Best Place In Nigeria To Relocate to From Abroad by curiousmind11: 6:16am On Aug 13, 2020 |
walkwithgod: Lol! It is obvious you don't understand SARCASM! The person you quoted is trying to ridicule the OP, which is very unnecessary in my opinion. Many people abroad wish to come back home. Sadly, many of us believe that the grasses are always greener on the other side. I wish we can look into ourselves once more before we self destruct the little that is left of Nigeria. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Insecurity: Nigerians Know We Have Done Our Best – Buhari by curiousmind11: 11:17pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
May God forgive the ediot that made the statement. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Olorunrinu: 'Nigerians Should Beg Tinubu To Contest 2023 Presidency’ by curiousmind11: 6:23pm On Jul 27, 2020 |
May God forgive this stoopid Hon. 1 Like |
Business / Re: Poco Lee Converts Mother From Plantain Seller To Wine Shop Owner by curiousmind11: 6:07pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Erums: You are very correct. Packaging the mom's bolle biz would have been better. Like giving her a permanent shade or kitchen with space for customers to sit. Convert firewood grill to gas powered grill. She would have been happier and more suitable. Now, she will have to fight for customers acquisition in wine business. Very good intentions, but poor delivery! |
Family / Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by curiousmind11: 1:09am On Dec 10, 2019 |
Olannajewel: Babe, I hope you will be patient read this. I am in your shoe, only difference is that I am the man. But I can boldly tell you that no respect or worshiping of your husband can erase the disgrace of sending your nudes to a guy via sexting or video call. A guy who has any intimate picture or video of you will blackmail you soon. As others have stated, you have all to lose. The worse form of cheating is emotional cheating. If you must cheat, do it without exchange of digital images. And do it with someone who has something at stake to protect like a reputation. Don't shop for a fuckmate on social media. You will live to regret! |
Politics / Re: Amaechi Denies Collecting Pension From Rivers Govt by curiousmind11: 5:14pm On Dec 05, 2019 |
jahsharon: So Rotimi Ameachi is now a demigod because he has completed few rail tracks in your region. God forbid, if he does for his people, same you will call him names. If we continue this way, then one day, we will begging this politicians to pass on the roads constructed with our collective wealth. So, Abaribe begging Amaechi for rail tracks in South where Ameachi's kindred can benefit is now a thing to brag about? Kontinu! |
Politics / Re: Amaechi Denies Collecting Pension From Rivers Govt by curiousmind11: 5:09pm On Dec 05, 2019 |
back2sender: I like the way we insult ourselves just to please politicians who don't even know that we exist or care to know the pains we are all going through. Keep up! |
Politics / Re: Joseph Odok: Wife Of Detained Critic Of Governor Ayade Seeks Buhari Intervention by curiousmind11: 11:45pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
NwaAmaikpe: Are you for real? Are you human? Sometimes we think we are joking on faceless forum like this, but indirectly incurring curses for ourselves. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Ladies What Would You Do If Your Mother In Law Did This? by curiousmind11: 1:30am On Nov 21, 2019 |
Poverty mentality or unnecessary pride will kill most Nigerians. If I can go into my friend's house and dish food for myself, should I expect my mother to take permission before eating in my house? Please OP, if it were your mother, would you bring it here? 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Senate Debates Omo-Agege’s Sexual Harassment Bill by curiousmind11: 8:53pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
How can they exclude the primary and secondary schools, even when the students at that level are not up to the age of consent? I applaud this Bill, but statutory rape is what happens when an adult has sex (with or without consent) with a minor. So, the bill should include secondary school abeg! Even though the penal code has covered the secondary schools, we know it is rarely applied, so the Senate should include it for EMPHASIS. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Vibrator Found Working In A Refuse Van In Lagos by curiousmind11: 4:47pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
Donkenny511: Sadly, it is not ego. It is due to the kiss and tell habit of our guys. Guys tend to brag about girls who give them "green light". If you now suggest you need their "gbola", they will make sure every d1ck, Tom, and Harry hears it. That women are dying in silence is men's fault. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Events / Re: "Please Attend My Burial"- Dead Man Begs People To Come For His Burial In Poster by curiousmind11: 8:00pm On May 25, 2019 |
I knew this man. 2 of his kids were same class with me in Secondary school and he used to visit them. His 1st set of Children are in their 40s now, and I am not surprised at this kind of poster they made for their rich dad! |
Agriculture / Re: Home Heating by curiousmind11: 8:05am On May 13, 2019 |
atnerjennac24: This ya advert is in a wrong platform. This forum is for Nigerians, and last I checked Nigeria is in the tropics with average daily temperatures of between 27-35 degrees Celsius all year round. Bring something else! A cheaper alternative to diesel and petrol generators. 2 Likes |
Crime / Re: Man Commits Suicide By Hanging On A Tree In Akwa Ibom (Graphic Photos) by curiousmind11: 12:03am On Sep 12, 2018 |
In a country where security forces investigate crimes, it wouldn't take long to discover the foul play in this. Why would he destroy his SIM card. Just asking for a call record from his service providers will unravel the truth. Chances are that he was killed and hung there. If he actually chew his SIM card, he would have spitted it out during the agony of death. Someone must have placed that SIM card there! 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: Ogoni Clean Up; How Far Gone? by curiousmind11: 7:38pm On Mar 03, 2018 |
This is really sad if true. Where is @sarrki and other APC supporters? |
Politics / Ogoni Clean Up; How Far Gone? by curiousmind11: 8:23am On Mar 03, 2018 |
One of the first major projects that PMB's administration harped on when they started was the launching of the Ogoni clean up as recommended (or say ordered) by UNEP. The kick-off of that exercise which was well covered by media houses within and outside the country, took place about October 2015. Just last two weeks, a friend and colleague who is from Ogoni visited home. When he came back, I was curious to know the status of the clean up exercise, as I thought it was well advanced. He told me that nothing was done or has been done after the launching ceremony. I don't have any reason to doubt my friend, but I can't still believe that such a noble project backed by UNEP was a hoax or an avenue to compensate political supporters. Please, people from Ogoniland, ndi APC supporters, activists in the house, what is the status of the UNEP backed Ogoni Clean Up launched in 2015? |
Romance / Re: Why Ladies Cheat Few Weeks To Wedding by curiousmind11: 7:01pm On Oct 11, 2017 |
No other reason except that sex is becoming cheap and women are learning fast from men. You guys are here talking about before wedding, how about after wedding? Sex is no more regarded as sacred. |
Agriculture / Re: As We Approach The Dry Season. by curiousmind11: 10:41pm On Sep 27, 2017 |
Pavore9, I always appreciate your informative and inspiring threads/posts. You mean well for Nigeria! All year farming and thinking outside the box is key. |
Politics / Re: The NGO Regulatory Bill: Summary & Its Implications On NGOs In Nigeria (Photos) by curiousmind11: 10:41pm On Sep 25, 2017 |
Hi, I signed a petition to House of Representatives: Federal Republic of Nigeria which says: "HOUSE OF REPRESENTATIVES STOP THE NGO REGULATORY BILL" Will you sign this petition? Click here: http://citizengo.org/en/87221-house-representatives-stop-ngo-regulatory-bill?tc=wp&tcid=39952965 Thanks! Evidenx HarmonyDee |
Agriculture / Re: Anyone Know Where To Sight Fruit Trees Of Exceptional Qualities by curiousmind11: 9:45pm On Sep 12, 2017 |
PapaBrowne: Where are you located? |
Family / Re: Please Help A Sister! by curiousmind11: 2:18pm On Sep 12, 2017 |
Acidosis: Sadly, the bold is the problem of modern Nigerian women , they have to look down or castigate others to feel good about themselves. On the topic, the man has no respect for himself or the wife. I suggest they see a counselor if possible. |
Agriculture / Re: Anyone Know Where To Sight Fruit Trees Of Exceptional Qualities by curiousmind11: 6:19am On Sep 12, 2017 |
Do you have Avocado? If so, what species and what is your location and price per seedling? Thanks. |
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