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CelebritiesRe: I Can Still Work With Don Jazzy -d'banj by dabrake(m): 9:56am On Oct 13, 2012
onatisi: this hatred for dbanj is really consuming some people,what has the guy said that is wrong now.i dont and cant see anything bad in all what he has said .na wa ooo for nigerians.
otansi, seems you've got poor decoding skills
CrimeRe: Another Lynching In Warri by dabrake(m): 7:55am On Oct 13, 2012
that one concern una. i been see guys dey accuse some kain boys 2 s ago sey them thief phone. na me just go separate the quarrel sharp sharp before im go turn beating. omo, me never want revenge yet(make them scatter my house) on top that never wan go exile from my house oh
CelebritiesRe: D'banj- 'If You Call Me Illuminati, God Might Strike You Down' by dabrake(m): 9:29pm On Oct 12, 2012
Clemzy16: Do you meant ALUUminati?
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FamilyRe: Pls Help, My Marriage Is Killing Me. by dabrake(m): 9:05pm On Oct 12, 2012
Betuch2012: Fellow Nlanders, please help out a depressed soul.

My husband has abused me verbally, emotionally and even physically. My name is Betina and I have been married for four years with two boys(they are my only source of happiness now). I work in one of the communication firms and I earn an average of 110k per month. My husband is a business man but stays in one of the neighboring african countries but he comes home at least once every two months. My woes started barely 2 weeks after d birth of my son who I had thru CS, I had an argument with my hubby and d next thing I know he was beating and slapping me,that is not minding d fact that I was still recovering from CS. I cried and wailed and had to call his mum on the phone who in turn called all his siblings and they all pleaded with me to let go. He later apologised and I forgave him but he has still beaten me up on 2 other occasions even in front of d kids.

There's no time that we don't quarrel be it on the phone or whenever he comes back mainly because of money.he doesn't like spending money,and not that he doesn't have. Even when the children falls sick I am d one dat pays for their hospital bills. Anything that has to be done in the house he must tell me to contribute and I always do. When we first moved to d house we are staying in, I had to pay 1/3 of d total house rent yet he did not say thank u. He bought a land for 500k and mandated me to pay 200k, I also did dat. My husband bought a car to be using whenever he is around and he refused me to drive it. I tried on so many occasions to plead with him to allow me use d car but it always ends in quarel.

The last time we quarelled abt it he called me all sorts of name.dat I should be ashamed of my self, dat I ve been working and can't get my own car when there are women dat buy cars for there hubby. In fact that apart from the kids that am not valuable to him. That I don't cook or wash for him so he doesn't gain anything from me. I said no problem,and I resolved to buy my own car by december.

Now he wants me to pay the house rent.I told him I will contribute 150k while he pays d rest which is 250k but he refused. Unless I should go and look for a cheaper house which I told him I will not do. If he wants he should come and look for d house himself and be ready to stay there with us.he abuses me at every little opportunity calling me stupid, silly, foolish etc.he is very ok financially but will rather want me to spend my last kobo rather dan him bring money for d family. I am just fed up with d whole marriage because I can't even talk freely with him sos as not to stir up any quarrel. I ve prayed and am tired.

Do u think there is hope in this marriage?
Jeez!!!!!
ma, somone 'like' your present condition post
No matter what you do, make sure you do not die. people dey wey dey appreciate you leave that your lunatic hussy

hope people will learn a lot from these episodes. marriage isn't about 2 neiked bodies rolling on the bed
CelebritiesRe: Psquare Takes Over Zimbabwe.(pictures) by dabrake(m): 8:57pm On Oct 12, 2012
Chiemeka orizu: Do u know what I love about the music of dis guyz? Their music neva fades.if u play dia I miss u die ,temptation,senorita, no one lyk u etc these songs are still very sweet n interesting. Psquare will 4eva b my number artiste in 9ja.# Team psquare al the way.
i still play e no good on my phone till date
CrimeRe: 'I Watched Them Kill My Brother' Tekena's Sister (ALUU4) by dabrake(m): 5:41pm On Oct 12, 2012
ALLUGRAPHY : the science that studies the lands, the features, the phenomena and the lifestyle of the ALLU community and its inhabitants.
FamilyRe: A Mother's Letter To Her Unborn Child by dabrake(m): 5:24pm On Oct 12, 2012
NEVER EVER MARRY SOMEONE FROM ALUU. If you sight them from 1km away, jo omo mi, take a run for your life. Don't even make friends with them
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ALUU got into the world map overnight.
me sef need organize boys make dem go my village, carry out jungle justice make the whole world recognize us too oh
after all, you are remembered for either of these two things :
-the problems you solved
-the problems you created
PoliticsRe: Thieves Break In To Kwara Ministry Of Finance by dabrake(m): 11:34am On Oct 11, 2012
how nah?
FamilyRe: Would You Stay In The Labor Room With Your Wife?! by dabrake(m): 11:12am On Oct 11, 2012
nah. can't watch my wife go through that agony
FamilyRe: Do Mothers-In-law Have A Say In Wedding Preparation? by dabrake(m): 8:30am On Oct 11, 2012
Kobojunkie: @Poster, only if you want them to. I seriously don't understand why, after so many years of learning, people still ask this sought of questions. You marriage is YOUR OWN. You decide how it should go and who can or cannot contribute to it. If you are not ready to make many of these decisions for yourself then pray tell, are you sure you are ready for marriage at all? undecided undecided undecided undecided
. . . All in an attempt to be recognised . . . Erm, do you reside in Nigeria?
PoliticsRe: Mother Of Slain Chiadika Writes A Petition To Senate by dabrake(m): 12:15pm On Oct 10, 2012
i just dey my own, go click the killings video on youtube. i no even watch am reach 2min sef before me close that page



#TeamViolence4Violence
Fashion/Clothing MarketRe: Sagging Of Trousers By Women: Irresponsibility Or Fashion? by dabrake(m): 11:53am On Oct 10, 2012
what is good for the goose is also good for the gander
PoliticsRe: Flood In Imo Kill 2 & Displaced 8000 by dabrake(m): 3:36am On Oct 10, 2012
Geo-man:
Why didnt u use google b4 displayin dis utter ignorance??
it should be the other way round
PoliticsRe: Flood In Imo Kill 2 & Displaced 8000 by dabrake(m): 3:34am On Oct 10, 2012
profola2be: may God save us this year oooo in this country.
too much disaster,from BOKO BOKO to fuel subsidy disaster to sport disaster in Olympics,where our Athlets failed to win a single Medal.
now,it is flood disaster.
GOD OF HEAVEN,please save us.

With the recent incidents of flood in some parts of the country, i hope our Governments; at the Federal, State and Local level, will be more proactive. Reports have it that we're still going to experience more, particularly the black flood, in November and December. It's better to be safe than sorry.
how nah? Nov. and Dec.? Rain dey fall that kain time?
EducationRe: Humble Advice To Nigerian Students, Pls, Pls Read!!!... by dabrake(m): 10:19pm On Oct 09, 2012
Odunnu: I endorse this thread.
In addition to OP's advice, my dad always told us never to be a part of any MOB.
In the case of this Aluu killing, both the bystander, the lynchmen, the excited boys taking snapshots to upload online, the videomen, they all are guilty and need cleansing.
STAY AWAY FROM BAD FRIENDS!
same philosophy i had

till I was robbed of my wallet, PC, phone and then pushed away from the very fast moving tarred road, sliding down in the direction of the bus, injured myself, . . . had to endure the trauma two months ago . . .
ever since then, i dey follow lynch oh
EducationRe: Uniport Students Protest: Live Feeds by dabrake(m): 9:55pm On Oct 09, 2012
Captwahala: Now I see why companies recruit foreign graduates ahead of Nigeria-trained graduates. Since I returned to this country, I have always struggle to analyse the thinking of the average Nigerian graduate I come across in the corporate world.
The big issue is the barbaric mentality.
The same mentality that makes a man pummel four young students to death with wooden planks and then douse them in fuel and set them alight?
The same barbaric mentality that makes a crowd of onlookers watch the above and not intervene
The same barbaric mentality that makes young men believe they have to join secret cults instead of engaging in intellectual research and development
The same barbaric mentality that the average nigerian student displays in the name of "Aluta", instead of displaying a higher intellect than the average
The same barbaric mentality that the average nairalander is displaying on this thread based on 95% of the responses above.
The same barbaric mentality that exhibited on most nairaland threads were supposedly educated people cannot have a discussion without displaying illiterate traits such as name calling, religious and ethnic bigotry, etc

So let's analyse a scenario:
We have a hypothetical Uniport student called Victor. Victor has just watched the video of the killings on his phone and is enraged as you and I are.
So we are saying Victor should leave his dormitory and proceed to Aluu?
When he gets to Aluu who in particular is he supposed to attack (Those chaps on the video are definitely going to be in hiding)?
Let's assume Victor decides to "teach the community a lesson as whole" by destroying random property or hurting random people, how is he different from chap with the big stick?
What exactly is the intellectual reasoning behind the protests?
I thought building a tetiary institution in a community is supposed to increase the intellectual level of the community
Why not address the fundamental issues:
1. Failure of the security system: Indigenes and Uniport students resident in Aluu, including one of the deceased, have complained about the lack of security in that area.
2. The activities of secret cults in Nigerian universities which contributed to the above, among other social ills
3. Failure of the Judicial system: That allows criminals to walk free. That leads to Nigerians taking the law into their own hands. majority of us are ignorant, lynchings have been the norm in Nigeria for over 20 years.
Foreign graduateshuhhuh??
erm, is it not the same UK where there was a massive protest/looting/'vandaliation' after the killing of a young chap by a police man?
Trying so hard to prove that foreigners are better than whites. I shouldn't reply you anymore.
EducationRe: Uniport Students Protest: Live Feeds by dabrake(m): 6:34pm On Oct 09, 2012
bbpreye: My brother I was part of the "eziobodo revolt" back then! It was fire for fire, it took the presence of the governor to calm our nerves that day! U can't try this in other schools! Kai! Uniport fall my hand!
the thing sef dey obvious. you go be violent person.
PoliticsRe: Your Take On The Calibre Of People In The Flood Committee? by dabrake(m): 2:19pm On Oct 09, 2012
Goodluck 'Committee' Jonathan is at it again. Well the 1st and 3rd people are worth 3 bags of garri. The rest worth 1 each
RomanceRe: How Can One Get Over An Ex? by dabrake(m): 1:46pm On Oct 09, 2012
Anytime such memory flashes itself, counter it by imagining the cost of garri production. It works
RomanceRe: Signs That Your Long Distance Relationship Is Fading by dabrake(m): 1:38pm On Oct 09, 2012
Judging based on my kind of person, i need not act #6 neither any of abujafood's .
PoliticsRe: Another Plane Crash Averted As Aero Contractor Plane Engine Packed Up by dabrake(m): 10:51pm On Oct 08, 2012
Ossy1: People of Nigeria, a plane can be flown with one engine and landed safely. . .
oga, i gree but so far sey na 9ja plane, i no enter. If one engine pack up when i don reach 45000ft, i go just tell the pilot make him drop me there make i find another plane go where i dey go
PoliticsRe: Another Plane Crash Averted As Aero Contractor Plane Engine Packed Up by dabrake(m): 10:34pm On Oct 08, 2012
Castos: That's it!!! You've nt seen a close plane talk less of entering one in ur wild life. "why dem no push the plane" abeg hold ur mouth jaree if u no sabi anything. I ma ro ebe ndu mmadu di.
all in a bid to be recognised and chop some 'like', you left your sense of humour and appeared so foolish. Well, i now know you exist. *pours 50g of 3-weeks-of-unbrushed-mouth saliva on castos*
FashionRe: How To Heal Pimples Fast And Naturally by dabrake(m): 9:07pm On Oct 08, 2012
long process
i only rub dettol soap on my face before going to bed. before i wake, all will vanish
RomanceRe: Should I Sponsor Her????? by dabrake(m): 6:18pm On Oct 08, 2012
If dog bite you 1st time, the dog dey craze. If the dog bite you second time, the dog dey craze. If that dog bite you the 3rd time, you dey craze
EducationRe: Riot In UNN Over Increase In Tuition Fees ? by dabrake(m): 5:10pm On Oct 08, 2012
Idacrux: Haaahaahaaha......don't break bottle even as i was on NL now is skul wlan service i'm using,if u no education is too xpensive pls go and learn handiwork or go elsewhere than making our skul look like d den of thugs.BARTHO pls keep on ur good work to make unn a good and reputable uni. In terms of research and peaceful environs free of riff-raff and vagabond.
bros, you be original 'lions'
EducationRe: Riot In UNN Over Increase In Tuition Fees ? by dabrake(m): 11:23am On Oct 08, 2012
freecocoa: Duh! It is best to shut up about things you know nothing about.
lock up. Must he tell us that? Haba. Smh @ nigerians and titles/positions.
EducationRe: Riot In UNN Over Increase In Tuition Fees ? by dabrake(m): 11:06am On Oct 08, 2012
Veektour Stober: I'm a LION of d Univ. of Nig. Itz nt a riot bt a peacfl prtst/demonstratn goin on only in d Enugu campus $ nt Nsk campus-...
smh at nigerians seeking unnecessary titles. You will soon be a frog.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: El-clasico: Barcelona Vs Real Madrid (2 - 2) On 7th October 2012 by dabrake(m): 10:53am On Oct 08, 2012
Tayerulz: With d way messi was marked by beasts like ramos,marcelo,pepe & arbeloa @ once, he still scored 2 great goals! Wot if he was left alone like Ronaldo was freed, how culd he have scored? Messi is just the greatest,take it or leave it. Based on achievements,character & every oda gud tins,he outshines Gaynaldo,so WTF?! are des man-U,ass-anal, & oda childs-play EPL guys arguing bout?
wonders will never end. That one na team name? Seun don kill boys with censor

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