₦airaland Forum

advanceDNA:
There's almost no mum that likes their daughter in-law at first sight...y'all just pretend with "awwwwwwnn" ..."u are so beautiful" .…."my son brought home a fine geh" ..etc....

U too will soon become a mum naaa.....na so all of una be.....there's no mother that trust the life and welfare of her son into another woman's hand the son meet from God knows where.... Some mothers don't just know how to hide their own

.the likeness usually comes later later after many encounters when they see u too are a pleasant person (if u are ooooo) and like a daughter to them..

.u are the one technically invading...so pay ur dues as a daughter in-law to her...weda she's showing u face or not...she will either come to love u or leave u alone....

.U go dey alright....

It was stated there by the OP that the fiance's mother has debilitating depression. That's a sickness that will certainly affect her mental state... @ OP. God and research on this condition and with proper understanding, you can manage her.. like a mother

Coolestguy2023:
Sane Nigerians are in total support of the shelling of Gaza terrorists by our able Israeli military while the Nigerian miscreants and terrorists are against it. He speaks for himself and fellow terrorists

I think that it is his belief that supports what we call banditry... Abduction of girls, extortion, keeping slaves/ ladies as sex slaves, armed robbery, kidnapping, religious murders and generally uneducated lawless irresponsible lives as they deem fit as if we're still in the stone age
They don't see any wrong with boko Haram etc... But no Jew no news where they're concerned..

CandidAdmin:
Don't Japa!

You can travel as much as you want but don't Japa!

You're living the life most Nigerians want.

Modified - After much consideration concerning the security state of 9ja, I'd advise you to make a well-detailed research before Japaing.

Just don't go from lawyer to cleaning people's nyansh.

Also, avoid UK at all cost.

Question of the day - why aren't people trying Russia?

Russia ke?

Okay oh, lead the way so that Ukrainian bomb can land on your head

Cruise777:
Some women are sex starved

She used him for only 2 days and he went to complain?

His own armed robbery is worse. He's going to the gas chamber... But the lady sha.😂

madridguy:
Muyiwa Adejobi goofed with all his statement yesterday. He even threatened someone that he can get the person within two hours.... And everyone told him to use same energy to rescue Najeebah and her sisters.

I like that one. If the Naija police want to work , they do, especially on hapless Nigerian peeps

christejames:
Sorry ooo 😂



Na so our Omoluabi peppersoup dey taste ooo. It must taste like a pepper 🌶 🌶 first... 😅

Omoluabis like to pepper Dem

killsmith:
When you cut them off, they blackmail you reminding you of what they did in the past, to give you a better life. I instantly remind them that what they gave me is nothing compared to what I'm giving them now.

You are right they love to use cheap blackmail... I hate that thing ehn...

This year, no gree for anybody, as in, ive set boundaries and though I respect family and all. Na to dey play "I'm unavailable" in my head for some peeps

Purvan:
Nlders with toxic parents, how long did you take you to realize the only solution is to cut contact?


For me , I had a desire to cut contact since my teens but I could never understand why and stayed in denial. I moved out in my early 20s and kept contact to minimum. It was only when I turned 30 that I had the courage to examine the past and accept that my parents used me as a punching bag for their personal failures in life.

Now I'm working on fixing it because I understand that they will not be around forever and I don't want to end our relationship on a bad note.

My advice is that you talk with them about it and explain how it harmed you. They might understand

Toxic people are usually narcissists. They prey on people they perceive to be soft / weak... Until you deal with them by cutting off, you can't escape their toxicity. But once they realize that you're actually doing good without their controlling grasp, they will sir up because they're usually manipulative and stubborn in that horrible attitude.

ATEAMS:
The answer is in the hair color.

No oh. It is no 1

They are both wearing the same top.

Quelme:
Joshua no go see draw for this one.

This is a fight of two Africans, why didn't the promoters deem it fit to move the fight down to Africa?

Why that head slamming country of all places.

Na dia free money dey.

Those fights dey cost crazy money. Only the Arabs get those kind of stupid wealth that dey are always hungry to dish out

Jeon:
Fat doesn't make someone to be curvy.
Yes, you can add weight, but that doesn't give a lady a curve.

Your bones/ skeleton structure determines the type of shape you will have. Be it pear, hourglass, banana, apple or inverted triangle.

Yeah. For hour glass shape like mine, putting in a little weight gives me curves in the right places. Some have boobs, adding weight turn them to huge pawpaw like trees

Jeon:
Yes, depends on where the incisions are.


So you aren't done with kids yet?
The ones you gave her shrinked her breast and now you're crying about it.

Don't let anyone to fool you around. No food or diet plan increase breast size apart from weight gain, genetics,
hormones, and the final option which is Surgery.

The truth is when a lady adds weight, fat is deposited in places like the breasts, hips, buttocks etc.

She comes curvy

OP, fatten up your woman and watch the breasts increase in size

hopefulLandlord:
So that shoddy work done by the Reigners Bible church in Uyo that collapsed and killed 160 worshippers was foretold by those verses too?

Luke 13: 4-5

4Or those eighteen, upon whom the tower in Siloam fell, and slew them, think ye that they were sinners above all men that dwelt in Jerusalem?

5I tell you, Nay: but, except ye repent, ye shall all likewise perish

OKUCHI11:
So this monumental edifice was built to glorify a god that cannot save his followers when they were being killed on Christmas Eve... After all the empty promises he made to them that he will protect them if they forsake their ancestral ways of worship and follow the one he instructed....


Truth be told that God really like horror movies

Jesus answered this before you even thought to ask

John 16
1These things have I spoken unto you, that ye should not be offended.

2They shall put you out of the synagogues: yea, the time cometh, that whosoever killeth you will think that he doeth God service.

3And these things will they do unto you, because they have not known the Father, nor me.

4But these things have I told you, that when the time shall come, ye may remember that I told you of them. And these things I said not unto you at the beginning, because I was with you.

marsup:
But you keep collecting his generous gifts? When he decides to retaliate, you will start crying fowl.
Quit being greedy and let the man go.

Some of you should understand that some guys though not all, don't want to take NO for an answer. If you tell them no a million times, they still believe that somehow their persistence will make you change your mind.... This is a very annoying attitude. If you don't collect things, some just dump it at your door step like it's for you and they don't want it back, do whatever you want.

Physical things are important too... Some have body/ mouth odour, maybe ugly and short like this guy. The guy prolly wants his offsprings to have better chance in life by marrying a tall and fine lady but na Dem dey get strong genes and theri kids will look short and ugly like their dad... It is well.

Besides, a lady can't possibly say yes to all suitors. Even birds and other species have specs, e.g lionesses who follow the strongest etc

OP, prayerfully choose your future partner. The guy fit look handsome self when money and care hit him well

dominique:
I heard something about castor oil but I honestly don't know it works. You're most likely having a girl, na dem dey tie gele do make-up, fix nails while in there while their male counterparts would have bounced out around 38 weeks. Speaking from experience sha.

Ha ha haa sis

Very funny sha

Zonefree:
Must be skit.

No African mother will reject a successful son unless she's a witch.

The joy of every mother is to see her sons progress.


So, a 22 year old 200 level student should be broke and poor in Nigeria?
I bought my first land in 300 level.

This is the problem with Nigerians. The reason police profile a young boy driving a car as yahoo boy.

Young boys are making money without yahoo. Yahoo is not the only means of making money online.

As a student, learn a skill while studying. Don't always depend on your parents.

Look at the yoyo looking yahoo plus guy.

There are women and responsible mothers / fathers who don't look for illicit wealth from their children.

Mine won't take such too from a 200 level student who can't disclose or defend his source off wealth. Before the EFCC will come and parade her like a common criminal for the whole world to see .

God bless this woman jare. My make-up artist who has side hustles said she can't even send 10k to her father that he would ask where she got the money. So many upright parents still dey town abeg

money121:
E don tourch una


SO WHEN NEPA RESTORE IT
THEM GO SHOUT UP NEPA

Lobatan

Keepamsafe:
I feel so sad and devastated. Why are ladies treating good men like this

Today, I had to borrow money from 3 different loan app because im meeting a new girl today.

Luckily, we met and had our date and I spent roughly 45k I borrowed from loan app and still gave her 5k for pocket money and yet, she refused to follow me home.

Im home now, lying in bed alone and sad.

Hook up 7k, but I spent 50k today because i wanted to build soul connection. yet I gained nothing. Absolutely nothing. Not even sex and im now in debt, broke like a church rat and no woman to console me. I feel scammed.

Im in a dilemma. help please.

Dindinrin

Toluwanise247:
We are to be sensitive to other in this season because people are going through a lot . How can someone killed her two daughters and hang herself too

Exactly my thoughts.

She has bruises on her lips too. Did anyone see her killing her girls.

They should investigate things and not assume. It does not look believable at all that she killed herself andd kids

fkelly:
I wish u will really be hit by it

Mr bullet thrower

fkelly:
Nigeria police or IPOB? I thought it was ipob that are known to shot their citizens?

Your English bullets self dey shoot people on Nairaland

GO0DHardDick:
Exactly my point.

The moment anyone attacks Tinubu they immediately tagged him as one from the East. Is baffles me to ask if nairaland are majorly Igbos and do Igbos have the highest population in Nigeria? Because I don't get it. Is Edo state a joke to you? Or you guys believe no Benin or esan people in this group?

Like what is the interrelation between Edo state and se? Are you not a 🤡 like this?

You admit attacking Tinubu like you were typically acting the same script with hate filled born and bred haters.

It's you people's hatred, attacks, Emefiele moves, et all that brought in Tinubu. Continue your attacks. It's never made any difference and will make sure the guy continue in office

GO0DHardDick:
Nigerians should shun tribalism if it wants to grow higher!

It is worthy to note that Tinubu supporters are the problem here on nairaland, to them you dare not criticise Tinubu because he is a yolluba man but they forgot how they disgraced and dragged innocent Jonathan to the mud despite how the country was prospering gloriously under GEJ.

All Nigerians are asking Tinubu is for him to take Nigeria back to how he met it during GEJ era abeg! Take the country back to the days of PDP corruption. It is far better than this Tinubu tribulations! May God have mercy on yolluba people come 2024 because the suffering just began

No state is viable in the east. All are insolvent.

Let the developers go home and build there. Do their businesses there.

MajorOvakporaye:
She escaped selling agbo and Jedi on the streets of Onitsha. Na dia work.

They know your men dey suffer in the other room as per their performance

tsdarkside:
hey hey....have you forgotin diezani....??

diamond bras....
thats some expensive tits their....

Only 1 woman involved in a corruption case. If we start mentioning the many hundreds if not thousands of the male politicians that have embezzled, are embezzling and guzzling the national case, would there be enough space for them here?

tsdarkside:
look how pretty she is....

That same kind of project is what one honourable " will claim they spent 10. something million to renovate/ refurbish.

We need more ladies with brains in the political terrain.

Bliss52:
Bye bye fish

That Sawa looking small small fish

dangermouse:
Don't sleep walk but related to sleep anyways.

Will some times lash out at my partner during heavy sleep and when maybe disturbed without having a recollection of the action when I awoke.

Happens rarely but its a thing my partner complains whenever it happens.

According to her I was sleeping one night and suddenly gave her a powerful punch at the back while saying things she could not understand.i had no recollection of that but the evidence was there to see.

If someone gave me a powerful punch while pretending to be sleeping and muttering gibberish, correct beating will wake am back to his senses oh.

Next time , the subconscious will register the thorough beating and the person will never try such again

Splashme:
When a thief is your president ...
.

It is well