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TheSourcerer:
Nigerians are the nicest in the world , warm hospitality even to strangers , even with the insecurity happening the average Nigerian is willing to go an extra mile to help a Nigerian devoid of tribe , clan or state , we are humans first before we became Nigerians

Exactly I've found myself in situations to prove that Nigerians are actually quite welcoming despite all the many bad things happening , or maybe I'm just one of the luckiest ppl here , God no go allow me meet the bad ones sha

Tokskob2008:
Naija humanity don don die since but was recently buried between 2016/2017

Who told you

[quote author=superemmy post=107498037][/quote]Good sex but good food
Is like is money
No is good sex

MISSCONGENIALITY:
OP, when giving out gifts, don't so it because someone have out such gifts to another person and the person loved it. Look at the person you are giving that to and know if they really will appreciate it. There's no need giving someone something they won't like. A wrist watching of 5k even without the extra 2500 may have been more appreciated. A pair of shoes or a handbag. If she truly is your friend. Or maybe just giving her the cash would have been something. How can you her 7k flowers and you want her to like it. It would have even been better if you for a painting of that flower so that she can hang if on her wall and it will always be there. One this is giving, another is knowing what to give to who. They don't have to be expensive, they just have to be worthy. These goes to both male and female folks who wish to give their opposite sex friends gifts. Give th what they will like not what you like. You can't give someone what you like and expect the person to like it. It does have to be expensive. If you don't know what they like, give tj the cash of really you want to give them something.
I would prefer a pare of bedroom slippers to the flowers even.
Life is not that hard, I think we deliberately make it hard for ourselves.

Exactly

michael1508:
Why should I be concerned about what someone likes as gift, something they didn't pay for.
Not that they will buy you something in return worthy beyond a flower's price tag

In the first place don't bother getting anything for them , don't come and stress someone coz they don't like something ,its already bad to give out something you got as a gift but me I will dash it if I see who like it , since the person that gave it doesn't care since I didn't buy it with my money

Omicron007:
Fellows,

A quick one
One of my friends celebrated her birthday recently.
I was lost in thoughts over what to buy for her.
So I surfed the internet and I saw a lot of suggestions.

I ended up getting a flower for her. I ordered the flower on an online flower shop and it was delivered to me.

On her birthday, I took the flower and went to her place. I presented it to her during the little birthday bash she organised.

To my utmost surprise, she and her friends looked at me with contempt. She was not happy I got the flower. It was glaring on her face.

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I have seen a lot of movies where flowers are presented to girls and they are very happy.

Why is it that some Nigerian girls don't value the gift of flowers?

I spent NGN 7,500 to get the flower!

Octafx gives every new member $1000 fake cash that they can use to learn but you can't withdraw or earn from it , that's what it feels like when you got her flowers , even a teddy bear would've been sweet but its more expensive and it doesn't die , its not that Nigerian girls are materialistic, you did not put much thought into your " special gift" you just threw 7500 away , I would've just said thank you but I won't pretend I like it
Gifts you could've gotten for her include
Chocolate
Food
Jewelry
Never buy a dress please or undies unless its lingerie and you're that close
A pet
Stuffed animals
Whatever works with your budget
As for me food is the way to my HART
I don't care how much I have or how much I don't have, food has always and hopefully might always be my love language, imagine stressed out at work or school or bored at home and hearing that you have delivery , to make it ho hot add a note or worse ,a love letter too much kdrama is doing me

Flower1198:
The fear I have is sexual denial... Or refusal to have intimacy with Me for several months

If its sex , even if you have sex everyday if the two of you are not sexually compatible e go tire you , I like it when I have chance to miss you but when we jam everywhere go shake

Codes151:
my baby shit one kind shit. Came in, it was acidic. I don't know how, but I remember I left the house for them that day

And your wife stayed oh its not fair oh

greatiyk4u:
This question goes to the married and the single pro-life individuals who believe in marriage but have had some fears due to their current experiences (for the married) or what we see, read and hear outside about challenges in marriage courtesy of socio moral implications of globalisation on Africans.

Looking at the society in general today with reference to Nigeria, the general euphoria and enthusiasm attached to marriage is gradually going into extinction by miasma of wrong narratives from those against marriage...I guess.

I still hold on to this believe that any functional and healthy adult who cannot manage both marriage and family is irresponsible and just as my culture and religion accord such respect of been responsible to the married.
There are certain cultural engagements, responsibilities, benefits that are made only for the married persons,
You can't be coronated a traditional ruler without a wife and so do I think of swearing in of Governors and Presidents

Why shy away with the proliferation of religious bodies and their core mandate of teaching LOVE
Let love lead because LOVE Is a beautiful thing especially when you found the right companion.

Share your opinion

Over seriousness
Sex timetable
Gumbody
Baby mama
Lack of privacy

Iyaebe:
Joy ke?anyways there'll be housemaids to take care of that aspect.

Nanny never do you something before

Beebah2000:
The girl go gree marry u sef??
Na the question way u suppose ask yourself.
Mtchewww

This babe you're not smiling oh

blackmamber:
Hello room. I bought this Boston terrier for 450k about 7 months ago.
Suddenly I started noticing discharge and blueish stuff in his eyes plus red too (only in his left eye )

I took him to the vet immediately and they gave him meds and injection but I noticed nothing changed

I have gone to different vet within this 2 weeks and they kept collecting my money and nothing is changing

Please if you’ve gone through this before I would love to know how you treated it. I don’t want my dog to go blind

In addition.
I called the seller and he said the same thing happened to his mom and it disappeared but he can’t really remember what he used because he used a lot of meds and applied alovera inside her eyes

If you're in pH I can borrow you my vet , she's very good , she took care of all my babies even when it looked really bad , its more than 10 years since 2008 since she started working for my family

blackmamber:
Hello room. I bought this Boston terrier for 450k about 7 months ago.
Suddenly I started noticing discharge and blueish stuff in his eyes plus red too (only in his left eye )

I took him to the vet immediately and they gave him meds and injection but I noticed nothing changed

I have gone to different vet within this 2 weeks and they kept collecting my money and nothing is changing

Please if you’ve gone through this before I would love to know how you treated it. I don’t want my dog to go blind

In addition.
I called the seller and he said the same thing happened to his mom and it disappeared but he can’t really remember what he used because he used a lot of meds and applied alovera inside her eyes

You should have checked the mom before adopting the pup. Its not going to be cheap and if you're in Nigeria that's worse coz we don't have many good vets around , good luck , I really hope he doesn't go blind , poor baby

RealMarv:
Most guys I know don't like it when a lady is taller than them especially if they are developing feelings for her. They prefer a lady who is short or of average height. The surprising thing is that even the majority of tall guys prefer going for short ladies.

This begs the question, are tall ladies not attractive? Why are guys intimidated when they are with tall ladies?

Not true , I was the only that didn't like my height when I was growing up but now I do , and most guys who hit on me are usually shorter than I am but there's no awkwardness if we both like ourselves , I used to feel like short girls were IT coz like they get to look cute and everything but my short friends felt the same way about me , if you're tall and you're not confident you're obviously not going to look attractive to others , and for me oh If you're short be thick if you're tall thin is better , if you're tall and wide , you'll feel like Goliath

How much capital should a person gather to start a basic Ankara and akamu business?

udele1:
You fund IPOB and ESN/UGM. But you dont want to see the return on your investment?

You're obviously drunk, then you're the treasurer since you know all the sponsors by heart

omoharry:
Dear Seun, I believe there comes a time you should step in by removing obscene pictures of the dead.There are so many children that have access to this forum and there constant exposure to such obscene picture will gradually erode any sence of humanity in them.
To the Op that posted this picture online..What satisfaction do you hope to achieve by showing this poor man's blood stained body for all to see?..When you time comes I hope your family will be happy to see your body, displayed in such a bad state for all to see.
You guys have finally lost all moral decency to respect the dead..Did you even think for once, the consequences of your actions? For goodness sake, did you think of how the children will feel when they see their beloved fathers corps displayed in such a manner on the internet.?
Shame on you and who ever that uploaded this picture of this man on the internet.This is the husband to a once heroin of our country, and this is the best way to honor her memory..shame on you .You are really a product of a sick and battered society

Don't know how a person is comfortable being the anchor of bad news, I mute anyone that post things like this on my WhatsApp, some morons will just be reposting without thinking, its not fair we know things are happening but ppl need to mind how they spread things like this

Divija:
Lolx... Joy of motherhood

I can't pray for this type of joy sha, how old is the boy sef, there are mistakes and mistakes are to be corrected so they don't happen more than twice and at times too you'll sit the child down and explain things, they're smarter than you think, unless they want to be stubborn sha, I want an active child oh but not the one that's destructive

Magnoliaa:
Thank you for the last sentence, especially. What this lady said and your advice is actually an indictment to you men yourselves. You people can form bro codes, and band together to insult women, and call women their own worst enemies, and sleep on a dirty bed, sharing boxers together and bla bla bla (that women typically do not do) and because of that declare that you love each other, because you're all supposedly banging a single girl, but your so-called affinity is only skin deep. You DON'T feel a single thing for each other. And this is not even because you don't have the money. A broke boy can still, any how, whichever way find money to give to his girlfriend, but to give his broke guy friend?

Instead of speaking to yourselves to change your attitudes, you'll rather hate on the girls ''whyning'' your friends' brains. At least a broke partying babe that is being bankrolled will still take the gifts and monies she get from men to share with her friends. The genuine sharing spirit is there.

That men are broke in huge numbers and women are cashing out (typically) only points more to the fact that men do not help one another rather than the manipulation of women y'all cry wolf about.

You should write a book sis.
As a girl whenever I am broke, somehow , magically my girlfriends always come through, apart from them and my dad no one else, that's why when I hear about women not supporting women and how they are stingy to themselves I never get it.

Its not like I write on my head that I'm broke or I go around telling them but if they do find out, I'm saved, maybe its the species of girls I hang around with but I definitely love being friends with most of my friends, and its opposite for me i can never ask a guy for anything and they agree to help me without anything attached, it has never happened apart from my dad, I'm already used to it so I don't bother myself, highest for the girls is that I also come through but there's been some friends who give you simply to exploit you , its why you shouldn't accept favors from just any lady, my ex roommate will give you 500h just to take 5k worth of stuff from you and i found it hard to speak up coz i once took something from her , I don't believe in that stupid bro code, na man dey do man pass

TMTR:

Hello, good day ,

https://www.nairaland.com/4538476/want-adopt-child

y'all remember the thread I created back in 2018 ,well I did succeed adopting a child, I adopted her from a orphanage and I will say my experience during the process of adopting her was really difficult than I Imagined, first I was a single young guy not even in my mid twenties yet and I had tattoos and lil tjay and lil baby kind of hair styles (those familiar with them will know the kind of hair style I am talking about ) oh mhen the stereotyping was off the roof, what did they not say, is it been called a ritualist , mhen I was suffered by the abusive words that was unleashed on me by all those women but I didn't relent and finally after everything I succeeded,

At one point , I wanted to go with my mum at least to show that I had no ulterior motive but then again I thought to myself, you can do this on your own and I am glad I overcame.

I began the process in mid 2018 and it was not until it late 2018 that my application was granted, I then proceeded with the rest formalities and I took my daughter home, she was 3 when I adopted her .

The first thing I did when we got home was to change her wardrobe, I took her shopping and bought two big boxes filled with clothes and shoes, also bought some female toys and other stuffs.

She was shy at first around me but with time ,she got used to me and became more free with me.

Mehn I must say so far adopting her was one of the best decision I have ever made in my life , I even tattooed her name on my arm, made me more responble in a way

And also in addition, chicks dig babies, like babies are like ladies' magnet. I never believe those statements to be true till I got my baby, like mehn you need to see the attention I get because of her, I mean we get because of her.

Don't get me wrong, ladies trip and drool over me before she came into my life but the amount of attention I get before her more than doubled . Before y'all start thinking this is the major reason I am happy I adopted her , let it be known that this is the least reason why I am happy..

All-in all she is God's blessings to me and I bless the day that I made the decision in adopting her.

She is such an Angel and a darling

I love her so much

Fatherhood is sweet

What were the requirements before you could adopt her? I also thought single people couldn't really adopt children so easily and if they were going to adopt the agencies or organizations ( honestly don't know what they're called) they're supposed to like give you only the babies that are same gender as you, but I'll like to know what the requirements were

Lamanii22:
Heeey guys! So how many persons have you dated or kissed in your entire life(s)...….


Me: thinking �.... Four I think.... I planned on just dating and getting married to one poo but life happened... I thank God I found the one though... Wished he was the one I met from the beginning sef....


Y'all be honest!

Dated 3 and I can't remember how many I've kissed

Tolzy11:
My HP Laptop of recent, when turned on without even doing anything or when I lift it up, it gives me a grinding machine sound until I hit or slap the back it won't stop making such sound .
Please, what can I do ?

Mine is generator, you can't hit it, I don't even want to try but I just like it coz of the space to store movies 500gb its HP too

highb01:
Im honest and telling the fact. This really work for me and my oil Face. It is nothing but Tetmosol soap

Dries out the skin

Idamond:
My face is always OILY and it also cause PIMPLES on my face because of that I stop applying cream on my face, and the resultant is causing pimples on my face..

even after taking my bath in less than an hour oil will pop out from my face even if I'm under an air-conditioned...
please how do I stop these.

My grandma told me wash and rub my skin with my urine first thing in the morning when I was reacting to my school water, no cream, no soap just a quick rinse and I was desperate so I did, I stopped going outside for like a week, my skin was better than it was before the reaction, everyone was asking what I used and I told some ppl, I haven't done it since but maybe I would, its the stress that discouraged me but it worked

BigCabal:
https://www.zikoko.com/her/6-reasons-women-ade-tiger-king-of-boys/

Who said we love him, I was busy eyeing makanaki the whole time, then after him is alhaja's son that boy is fine, I don't like the role they gave him, he had this bad guy look. He could have been the main, but I never noticed this tiger, even his voice is not manly

Kingpin1000 posRt=106137622:
Even Elon musk self no gree marry, then una want me to Marry...una dey vex for Davido, wizkid and Timaya say them no gree marry. But una no ask Psquare how their relationships were before marriage came along?
Tu face was doing His thing peaceful until He added marriage..

Count their money and then count his money , then count how many baby mama's he has and how many they have, he's not married but he at least looks more responsible than, I also know a couple that have been dating for 25 years, they live together, oga has just one child from her, he didn't go around having 100s of babies through one night stands, no be by force to marry but just coz you ain't married doesn't mean you shouldnt be smart

Bolarineliza202:
I will peck her and wink at her.
She did the right and anyone who sees the car will acknowledge the true love she has for her father


PS it will serve as a turn off to some of those silly husband snatcher,once they discovers he has a child

Even if they share uniform for married men, it won't stop them from being eligible bachelors , Sis

Omicron007:
I have heard about Body Counts before but I did not think it was that serious until I met one girl recently.
She wanted something serious between us but she said she can't date me unless my Body Count is less than 5.

For some who haven't come across the term before.
Simply put, body count is the number of people you have had sex with. It does not matter how intimate the make out was, or how much stuff you have done with someone, if there hasn't been penetration, it does not count as sex in this context.

Body count here refers only to the number of people you have had penetrative sex with.

So my question is this.
Is it necessary to know your partner's body count?
Do you know your Body Count?

What planet is she from? Most girls that I know including myself, prefer a guy with a lot more experience, even virgins , its not necessary, she's looking for excuse to not date you instead ofvl being straight besides how she wan take know whether na lie abi na true, she get lie detector? Just leave her, don't stress yourself, its more understandable if she's asking how many exes you have, coz the number of exes someone has can somehow help you to understand how a person views and values relationships, wetin concern me with body count?

Robisky001:
Elaborate wedding is a thing of choice and should not be forced down one's throat.

Bless you

Gadafii:
God knows how I instantly like girls on simple cornrows


First thing I do when my girl visits is to pull her yeye wig and fling it away, cos I like to see that cornrows, run my fingers thru them


If you are presently on cornrows hair style as a lady, God bless you and more beauty to you

Really What's so special about cornrows tho, its not the first time I'm hearing that

Nanavati:
My BB can kill it

she's so adorable