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Rexweaver:
Spending money on your girlfriend is not a bad thing. You just have to make sure that you are not overdoing it. Taking your girl out for lumch, buying her gifts or even sending her some money is not a bad thing as long as you are notstraining yourself financially to do these things. As long as you do it on your own free will then it is also ok. A girl who is constantly asking for money is what you should avoid. These kind of girls will feed on you then dump you just like that. Do not be folled men I know that all the people here that support spending a lot of money on their girls are jsut people with too much money to spare. No matter how much money they spend they will always have enough in their bank accounts. We all have our opinions and the funalchoice depends entirely on the man. If they want to go broke because of their girl then so be it.

Lonelyloner:
I wasn't hoping on people to repay me. I was hoping on God. Nobody can repay my kindness.

adeblow:

Ladies, please stop giving your pussy to guy's, instead of the pussy, Give them advice on how to make more money...


Hope this makes sense as well.



Jason.

ezechi24:
hahahaha ...you see these girls ..they know a good guy and a bad one...but their greed will not let them think straight....now bobo don chop clean mouth dump am to move to the next greedy pussy...she remember say she get one good boy for corner....lol....it always ends in premium quality tears for them.

Karac:
Fallacy. 'Men' still dey. Plenty!

paulolee:
na e be things oo..all man de form saints and blaming thier ex bt for my own case am d one at fault..it was as a result of when a bea loves u too much, took her love, care and feelings for granted even if na she be the only bea wey i don date wey de wire me because she was working and i wasnt, still dnt kno why she sticked with the broke me, felt useless having nothing to affer to her than just sex and come still they cheat on her...long story short, got a new catch on f.b and lied to her dt i nid 30k to travel n go see my sick uncle in d village(lamba) she gave me 20k and i travelled to p.h to lodge d weekend with d new catch...came bk and saw breakup text on my table, bea knew all abt dt p.h lamba bt jus played along and still dnt kno how she knew about it, tried calling and texting and she said i should jus forget abt her dt she even planned poisoning me or sending street boys to attack me bt she jus pitied me....dt was wen i knew av lost a diamond...**stella if u are reading this, is Paul, its 3yrs bk and pls am SORRY**

ThaThinka:
What's the fun in that? Can't a man try to be sure of what he's exposing himself to?

I think there's really no biggie breaking up with someone you aren't married to yet. You owe each other nothing and life should go on.

fdigital:
If it was a black lion now it wouldn't have made the news

Cromagnon:
why did you Mary a player?

Nobodyany1:
Hanty, you can't stop us from testing you ladies... We must! Marriage is a forever journey here on earth... We musn't end up marrying the wrong person...

Sixfeetbelle:
One Indian girl is your measuring gauge? One random girl?

Well done ooh.

Ikea81:
Olosho. That's what happened .marry them at.your own peril. Unless na you dis-virgin a Nigerian girl before she is 21, Oga you dey waist your time o, and quick marry her before she 24. I got me a baby mama, 16 bitches and God just answered my prayer , opened one sweet 21 year old virgin 3 months ago. Oga I dey enjoy die. Now I'm bout dumping all these bitches and sail on smoothly with my fresh puna from now till heaven

eyitayo1624:
it bothers me sometimes seeing parents not giving the right attitude and care to their children

i have a dad who always like to be serious always
note: my dad isnt boring

he loves things being done his own way rregardless your identity

sometimes i do wish that i could live on my own

but you have to thank God for own family



Do u have a dad like mine??

jake2much:
is not evrybody u date u marry but at least dat boost her chance wit me.mens are looking for dat kind woman. I really wish to get one not peson dat only paint face lije kariashika dey do asewo up and down but very lazy. wont u lije to marry a helpful woman obt

Pls help me move this to front page.

I am a working class lady and I hardly demand things from whosoever I love.

There is this guy that I ave been dating for years now. I don’t know what to call his behavior, whether it is stinginess or the other way round.

I noticed that whenever he comes visiting, he doesn’t bring anything and I get to cook and takecare of him. I was forced to talk 1 day.

The last time he came visiting, he brought bread and other stuffs along which he ended up eating all by himself. I decided not to cook or do anything but I couldn't take it so we went out to buy stuffs. I needed to use POS and I forgot my phone at home. So I begged him to transfer 5k to the lady and that I was going to transfer back to him when we get home. We ended up using the money to get chicken, pepper and other stuffs.

On getting home I demanded for his account details in order to transfer the money back and to my surprise, he gave me and I transferred the money.

My major concern is that this guy has never given me common N10 and he is working. I don’t know if he's worth settling down with cos I fear for my future. Will he be able to give if he has more? This is the guy that is already telling me to come meet his mum cos she wants to see me.

Pls no insults, just advice.

Petyprincess:
Whatever rocks your boat dear, I will just advice you b4 settling down with someone older make sure you know this person doesn't have manipulative personality!
My friend is 22 years old got married to a 36 years old man this year,she got married as a virgin but trust me the husband was really hard on her that she couldn't walk for few days!! She told him she wanted them to wait for two years to have baby naso brother no gree impregnate her but unfortunately she lost the baby(miscarriage) that i almost cried!! Nw she wants to go back to Italy for her master,uncle talk say she should do her masters in Nigeria. I asked her if she noticed these signs when they were dating she said no!!
It is obvious that man is manipulative nd will control her more in future! She can't make decisions herself now!!
Generally older men love younger women especially the naive ones,i personally don't go for anyone older than 28,my boyfriend is 28 years old nd we still gat pretty age gap honestly.

Please b4 settling down make sure he doesn't have trait of someone controlling!! If you check comments on this thread,you will realized guys are looking for younger women to control.

My colleague at work is 37 years old, after his experience with older women he vowed to look for someone as young as i am because they are obedient and can easily be controlled nd i wasn't shocked! Typical Nigerian man wants a naive lady that can dance to their tune!!

Older men that you can't play with them they will start reminding you their age

Petyprincess:
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Trash!!! Will you advice your teenager sister to date a man almost at his thirty? You guys will just be giving advice that you can't give to your sisters!!
Y'all like younger women because they are easy to manipulate nd exploit at the same time! What is stopping him from waiting for her for three more years by that time she will definitely know what she wants if She's truly interested in this age gap shit! A girl at that age have no mind of her own!!