₦airaland Forum

FutureFocus:
Not so my dear, I have a full time job that give me lots of free time to do personal business, so whenever they call asking me to send my report, I must abandon my personal business.
Secondly, I usually prioritize those I’ve promised because they first showed interest, 4 people contacted me immediately I posted the Sony BD Player you wanted because of its smart tv function and the most serious one among them begged me to keep it for him till the following day before you contacted me, also I’ve told the other 3 people to be on standby incase the first guy fail to show up, my reason for not wanting to add you to the list as not to disappoint you, always stand by your words if you want people to trust you for your words, same thing that happened with the headset, after I promised the gentleman the headset, more people who are willing to pay more showed up almost immediately but I had to keep to my words, I kept it for the gentleman for a week, but when we had misunderstanding over delivery, I reposted the headset and 5 people showed interest , the headset is now in its new home 4 states away.

But the gentleman I reserved the Sony BD player for sent me a text message some days later that he won’t be able to pick it anymore dues to certain issue,
And I respect his decision, he may have more pressing needs because he wanted to pick it earlier but I was not around so not totally his fault .
So the item is still here, will find time to post it again, I don’t want to liter everywhere with one item.

Another factor that count atimes is if I posted a Toyota Camry for sale, and 6 people are making inquiries concerning the same Camry,
If one of them ask questions like, can this car fly?
Can this car swim? I’ll respond by sending him the actual model details of the car to check on google and give other buyer chance , sometime i prefer to sell to those who already know about the item well, because they already know what they want to buy, you can be sure there will be no arguments later.
I have Amazon tabs but I don’t sell them online because most people doesn’t know how Amazon tab works , they want to put xender on it , Amazon won’t allow you to do that except you crack it.

Not like I have any touch issue

Just trying to avoid going back and forth and be straight forward as much as I can and manage my time as well

Hope you got my point, I apologize again.
Thanks.

Apologies accepted bro..Enjoy your day.

Toma2:
E pay abi e no pay? We didn't ask you for mode of payment.

twinskenny:
Report from our Enugu site... Not so good

Damn 1.650m gone

#cabletheft

Cold141114:
Don't compare artisan in Dubai to artisan in naija

Ahaah.... The different is glaring sir......ahahahah....... It's not by tools truly..... But comparing people doing smart working to hard labour is not same ooo

VaselineCrew:
ABEG HOUSE, MAKE UNA EPP ME ANSWER DIS QUESTION ABEG

Why is it that riders in Nigeria get angry anytime I ask them to please, "Confirm the Riders Name?"

Some passengers will just start shouting, like, "mtcheew, will I enter the wrong car?...", "I've already checked your plate number na...", "Na wa ooo...", "which one is this again..." ...

They would end up saying 1000 words in their rants, instead of just saying the 1 word that matters, THEIR NAME, sigh, sigh, sigh

There are the cool ones though that will just answer straight up and in turn ask for my name/drivers name and then we start the trip and roll.


Abeg, why are they so angry to tell the driver their name

pocohantas:
What other complaint do you want to hear? Is TV not meant for viewing? Or you want to hear the TV doesn’t produce ice block or chill the room? Toor!!

bronks9174:
Water tank #60,000 whatsapp or call 0803 292 8173

flejnr2:
My question is from Germany to Canada what is the voting strength of those in diaspora instead of doing townhall meetings here at home, just to tell you an average Nigerian president likes traveling, imagine the tour he would tour the world with taxpayers money if elected this one he is flying round the world in campaign

pocohantas:
Majority of them have old accounts that they use to back themselves up. The people that called him out have their grievances that are well in place. So I wouldn’t understand why body is itching you over it. You don’t even have any business in it. You are just a customer. Which one is “I apologised and he apologised”? Did they ask for your apology?

Please rest.

Gentlelife50:
Pick only when the road is free u no dey hear? time is money.

Barbiturate:
The truth is; whether anybody admits it or not, it affects us mentally.

And yes, I should have gone offline, but I just wanted to serve her back, the way she did to me. I can tell you from her countenance, she was so angry and disappointed. They had to trek down towards Anthony, under the sun, cos I didn't leave immediately, I came down and was watching. I guess they decided to take a bus, which will be more frustrating for them.

I eventually got a request from GT to int. airport and another from airport to Surulere

pocohantas:
You are sticking out your head too much.

Very suspicious and unusual for a supposedly one-time-NIGERIAN-customer.

Are you him and is he you?

Kacism:
@ rawe45, bro you did the exact same thing to me.
I chatted you on the night you posted the center table and console and I told you that I needed only the center table but will most likely buy both when I come and see it for myself. You then gave me directions on how to get to 7 and 8 airport road and that you stay around chivita ajao estate.
I left my house very early in the morning the following day and got there early enough around 7am. Called and called and he refused to pick up. Sensing that he was still asleep, I decided to msg him both on WhatsApp and by text hoping he will get back to me. I hanged around that chivita area close to an hour but no reply. Checked and saw that he has read my msg on WhatsApp and I decided to call him on WhatsApp call. He started busying my calls. I gave myself brain and call it quits.
His behaviour is very bad and he is an unrepentant fellow. I decided to call him out too having previously decided to stay quiet because we can't keep excusing disgusting behaviours and bcus I believe he will do this to someone else. I mean what stops him from letting me know that the item that I was coming to pick up has been sold and probably save me time and energy wasted on hanging around a place am not very familiar with.

Bammzzie:
I dey always gbadun ur vibes

bolu1986:
Option A is always better. But client think they can save enough money by going for option B but in some cases it won’t happens….

Pay per sqm with materials in labor inclusive then go to sleep…

SamuelTaiw0:
Read what you wrote.. I'm sure you didnt think before you wrote it. If not you Wont be spilling gibberish.

This one no get brain at all. He wants to prove he's important. Oga park well jare!

SamuelTaiw0:
Read what you wrote.. I'm sure you didnt think before you wrote it. If not you Wont be spilling gibberish.

This one no get brain at all. He wants to prove he's important. Oga park well jare!

goldincome:
Hello Guys.
I am wondering if I can get help how to go about this issue below.

I took uber from Somolu to my house and the cost was N6,700 and I transferred N67,000 mistenkenly to the driver's Fidelity bank account.
I latter called the Uber driver that same day to inform him about it and he checked his account and confirmed that he recieved the money but that it has not reflected in his balance.

He latter told me that he called his bank customer support and they said that that account was opened online and cannot recieved more than N50,000 inflow and because I sent N67,000 it will be pending until he goes to the bank and provide his ID card and other informtion before he can have access to the money.

He sent me a screenshot to prove that and said that he will go to his bank tomorrow if it did not reflect in his balance.

Tomorrow being Friday, he went to his banks and after I have calling him severally, he told me that the bank said that one of the name in his Drivers license does not match the name on the account and that he has to brid ID card that matches the name.

He said the he will go and do NIN and take back to the back.
I kept calling his to find out if he has done that but he couldn't pick.
Then on Saturday, I called him, he latter answered and said that he was not able to do the NIN because people are so much there in Ketu and that he will do the NIN and get to the bank and then send me back my money.

Going to 2 weeks now, he is not picking my call.
Tried to use Uber App support and Uber said they can only support on their in-app payment.

Anybody have an idea of a way I can reach Uber customer support on phone or another way I can get back my money from this guy.

Thanks

DaVinci17:
First I apologize if you think the charge is on a high.

Second, I can’t even recall you contacting me. I have a lot of requests on nairaland. And there’s no way I could’ve given that charge.

Just last week Sunday I moved someone’s household items (including sofa) all the way from ijebu ode to oworonshoki for 50k. So how could I have charged Ketu to Ikorodu for 30k?


Just yesterday I still moved some items from Ikotun to Ikorodu for 20k. I know they’re from nairaland here and screenshots of chats are available.


Though I can’t recall having a discussion with you but all the same apologies. You could’ve negotiated better. All the same I’m glad you were able to move your item for a price you’re good with.


Thanks.

homez01:
Na wao with these your price on clearance sales na brand new tv? Tv wey u don use still come get line

Pearl1910:
U get experience. Even that forth oil is d only station selling fuel in d whole lagos, I will rather park the car or buy black market than waste my time and buy incomplete fuel from them

tojahh:
15,000 no fit full Lakpalakpa Corolla for that fuel station.

It's not rocket science why it's abandoned

KemeticPrince:
Hello guys!

I need an opinion on issues concerning my marriage.

I got married two years ago, although left to me i would never have gotten married but i had to as the only son of my parent.

I live separately from my wife(a house i built, while i live in a rented place) and although we live in the same state but i can't just seem to live or co-exist peacefully with any other person other than myself.

My wife has really been on my neck lately, she came to my house last week with our child and refused to go back after a week. I am tired and i just wish to be alone please.

I am not a deadbeat dad, i give her 100k every month for food and utilities.

I just want to be left alone, i don't hate her, infact i appreciate all she does but i just love doing things on my own. I'll love my family structure to be this way, i mean coming home to visit my kids(when i have more) and wife every two weeks.

JBriel:
It's your personality no doubt. But thinking patterns, behavioral patterns are parts and parcels of our " individuality " we must all drop en-route marriage

The institution of marriage solicits giving up physical identity for couple identity. So, you're denying your wife what is rightfully hers by every right. Your company, your presence, your attention, your time.


Trust me I've seen many of how our intrinsic thinking patterns defrauds us to assume we can't do better, change, improve, do things differently but the truth is behaviors can be learnt. We can adjust and evolve.


You diagnosed the problems you have even in your words. " You just like to be alone " It is what forms after you've created a character around flawed ideologies and beliefs


You need therapy before you even connect with her. The ideas that forms this behavior must first be entangled so it stops isolating you and you learn new habits that shows you how to live, yes, how to truly live. How to be vulnerable, how to be open. How to love. How to feel again. How to feel worthy

If your feelings of unworthiness isn't resolved, even friendships would remain moribound and those thoughts have made you built a castle to imprison you in your thoughts, habits, behavioral patterns assuming the world is all evil that you need to shiled yourself from the world. Your thought patterns has imprisoned you



You need to be whole to love. You need to be whole to live. I recommend you find a long term behavioral coach to speak with. To take you by the hand and walk you into new pathways you can explore in life


Back to the issue of marriage. Marriage isn't just sexing. Marriage is " conjoining ". A man would cleave to his wife... Without cleaving, you're violating the marital institution my dear


Let go off whatever pains, heart breaks, dissapoinments that triggered the fear and behaviors that wants you imprisoned and start a new walk into a new path in life my dear.


Life is life. Life isn't all evil. Life can be what you create it to be for you



Everyone has limits, before you turn that woman into what you would regret, please find yourself and put yourself together

Glithronix:
107k in a month?
You don dey lose form truly.
I am sure your record on e-hail go don dey on elite stage, so, you truly might be needing to reduce driving spirit.
Thank God other businesses don dey gel as you said, na the koko be that. Cos this driving no be something wey person fit do till retiring age - Naaaaah!
My own focus too is my business which I have plan for already. This e-hail will be used to set my business so that I can become a full home appliances dealer - I have already registered my business (a limited business). Na to finance it remain but I'm doing it small small sha, but growing bigger in it is my goal.
My plan na to get HP somewhere (whether Nigerian used or Toks) and pay up within 15-18 months and stop driving after that cos I know I would have saved enough to do my business while I'm also a car owner.
This is exactly my goal and I don't want it to pass 2 and half years to achieve this. I never pray to do this driving up to 3 years before I leave am.
Btw, omoh, yesterday traffic at lekki epe express way going to ikate - Igbo efón mad. Spent like 25mins inside traffic.
As I dropped the riders at on Adebisi Oyenola street which completed my 12 trips to win 2.6k bonus yesterday, na so I went offline, zoom to mainland straight like around 6pm. Spent over 50mins. As I landed on mainland, ogudu precisely, na so I switched online and my 1st trip on mainland took me to Shomolu.
Mainland hustle dey vex me. I hate this Shomolu-bariga axis. Na one of the forbidden areas on my list.
After dropping the rider, I went offline and I drove empty to Maryland. Switched back online and the next order took me to Oshodi. Omoh, I hate driving these areas when it's dark.
I dropped rider and went offline straight. Drove back to Maryland, went online and another trip took me to Shomolu again.
Thank God I've already won bolt bonus on island (if you want to win bolt bonus easily, just go straight to lekki, you will be glad you did). I just closed and went home straight - got home 9pm on the dot.
It is well, boss.
While I was in Igbo efón traffic, I saw you but I no come see your Benz.
Much respect, boss.