₦airaland Forum

chineduemmao:
My brother you are the one misunderstanding the scripture, being "one" means u must appreciate,respect and love what i love and i must also appreciate, respect and love what u love. It doesnt mean i should side with u even when its obvious u are misbehaving, "i still love u as much as i love my family but sorry this time around u messed up". I love my family so much that my wife must also love my family so much its not a choice and thats what the scripture is saying. Honestly no one wants to be put in that position where he would have to make a choice b/w family and wife and godforbid if my wife forces me with bad character to make that choice, i will prove to her she is a second citizen to where my family is b/c this same woman might decide to leave tomorrow but my family is my family get that bro. Thesame thing is also applicable to women- a man must love the womang's family as much as the woman loves her family. A woman should never make a man alienate his family b/c of her for no reason, i have a far distant cousing brother that married since 2014, eversince my cousing married everything changed he no longer allows his immediate cousings freely into the house, he no longer pays their school fees like he used to, he no longer comes home for xmass, the most funny part is that we the family were barely invited to his white wedding, this woman has never visited the husband's home for the first time, they now have a son but me i never use my eye see the pikin. However this same woman is living with her younger sister in her husbands house and is paying her school fees and all sorts. When people talk of love and marriage i laugh do you know that 50% of marriages in america ends in divorce? These are people we are sure say atleast they marry for love... and we are trying to mimick them

godfatherx:
I don't like Okorocha o, but COREN should shut the fvck up!
Do you mean to say all the buildings that have collapsed in the country don't have structural designs or your members in Imo State are not being carried along in the looting spree.
There are several roads in this country that are death traps, what noise have you made about those.
Bunch of thieves, pot calling kettle black.

9japrof:
There is no way in Africa, a man completely abandons his nuclear family because he believes he's married, let's be realistic, so Amara coming online to blast her brother inlaw because of match tickets is very stupid and immature, if you don't see the wrong there, I do

Amara is stupid in a million years to do that, and for the fact that she has not come online up till now to seek forgiveness and apologise for her rant means she has self serving ego which is even more dangerous than her uncouth tongue.

9japrof:
There is no way in Africa, a man completely abandons his nuclear family because he believes he's married, let's be realistic, so Amara coming online to blast her brother inlaw because of match tickets is very stupid and immature, if you don't see the wrong there, I do

Amara is stupid in a million years to do that, and for the fact that she has not come online up till now to seek forgiveness and apologise for her rant means she has self serving ego which is even more dangerous than her uncouth tongue.

The more reasons I tell rich dudes to marry from rich homes, if you can get a humble girl from a rich home, the probability that she would remain humble and respectful is over 90% while that poor humble girl might be humble because of condition, give her fame, money and power and you would be surprised by the tigress she would become

9japrof:
Bros you are just ranting and know nothing, Kanu had done all he could for Amara who was nothing before he married her, given her a career, kids and a luxurious lifestyle of money and fame which most ladies dream of and am very sure kanu's wealth must have rubbed off on her family also.

Threebear:
The wife did a stupid thing, as repulsive and shameless as his brother is, a wise woman should know a way to handle her business without making a fool of herself.
Real bosses don't act like kids, only a child makes family business public business. A woman that is a mother and wife has the extra responsibility to act mature even when everyone around her is acting crazy. A person who fights publicly with a mad man is also mad.

Pubichairs:
my future wife tries this kind of bullshit with any of my siblings , I will blind one of her eyes and send her packing, arrant nonsense

9japrof:
No matter the wrongs, calling out family business on public domain is the most "wronged thing to do"

Family business stays within the family, besides sometimes these girls don't have any respect self, how can you call out and disrespect your brother in-law who is miles older than you are.

I may understand her grievances,but it was the responsibility of kanu to sort his issue with his brother. Besides Ogbonna is his blood, suffered with him, Amara only joined when the fame and riches came along and might not know the underlying reasons why kanu condone his brother.

No female on earth called a wife can make me abandon my siblings, my parents never in a million years.

Amara how have my disrespect

Pubichairs:
my future wife tries this kind of bullshit with any of my siblings , I will blind one of her eyes and send her packing, arrant nonsense

Aquariann:
Cute baby..

I'm gonna say something dicey and I hope my intentions are not misconstrued.

Over time I've come to notice most Yoruba celebrities stick with Yoruba (first) names for their kids as compared to others who seems to be in a competition for the best sounding English names available...

Tobe, Somto, Diuto, Baridi etc. are all great sounding names than Aliora, Ariana, Jason etc

We're Africans and our names should be our first identity.

victorvezx:
Well, remember he was first a Nigerian soldier. Even America pardoned the confederate secessionists long after their civil and now recognize them as American soldiers or veterans rather than confederate secessionists

soberdrunk:

Ereolamide:
What message is this dotard trying to pass across, is it that ex president Jonathan is an humble man living like the average Nigerians?

What is the cost of a house in Maitama?

The interior of the parlor betrays any form of projected humility, that it can't contain ten people show that it's not a place a commoner would be invited into.

Sprumbabafather:
His parlour is so small, I counted 8 persons sitting and 2 standing. This is the most humble president in African history. He was a very educated man who values human lives and peaceful coexistence.

Evablizin:
Heeyeh there is nothing in the earth and under the earth i will not read on nairaland

BIXYBABE:
Naira landers, As a usual commitment among people everyday especially those religious ones, we do pray when wen we wake up in the morning, before going out, before eating and even before going to bed, I'm just wondering if it is important or godly for two partners to join hands together to pray before having sex. Pls I want to know your views about it. Thanks.

peterphd:
There's foam in your mouth. A reeeetard like you thinks one has to live in Syria before knowing there's a war. Come to Nigeria and comment on fulani herdsmen.

sthecy:
congrats...am next in line

peterphd:
Americans are lost. They'll get a dose of what it means to import military aged immigrants from terrorist producing countries. They have a good thing but don't know yet.

naijapips04:
The message was 'past' across. That's all that matters.

Liberals are so bitter. Trump's first year in office has overseen the strongest American Economy in recent history.

The stock market is at an all time high, gaining over $3 trillion since he took office.

Unemployment is at its lowest among blacks, women.

People are getting pay rises because of the biggest Tax cuts in American history.

Trump has more women in government than all democratic president including Obama and Clinton.

ISIS has been diminished.

North Korea is now mellow and are ready to talk.

Democrats loathe this accomplishments so much that to slow him down, they have to invent a government shutdown because of something not related to the Budget bill in contention.

Democrats are putting illegal immigrants over US citizens because of votes.

President DONALD J Trump is making America and the world great again and he will be doing so for the next 7years.

Happy Anniversary DT!

jdluv:
please i need advice from music career men and women. I write and compose songs but yet to produce any due to financial constrain. Last year at my local assembly i ministered in a song i composed and lives were touched includin my pastor's wife. Fast forwardin this year i relocated and had to leave that assembly, i joined a new one but under the same mission. During one of our general program i heard my former pastor's wife organised a group in the church and they are working on an album. Now i saw that album today its been released and lo and behold my song was the main track word for word , the album was even named after the track. Till now she has not even called to tell me anything. I dont know if there is anything i can do to get something on the song.

amarilo:
Buhari and Jonathan wasn't the only candidate in that election. Even it was only two of them Jonathan is miles better than Buhari. At least we can use today Nigeria to compare Jonathan Nigeria. Corruption, insecurity, poor infrastructures goes for both Jonathan and PMB but hardship and mass poverty plus genocide goes to PMB alone.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Good it better be sarcasm.

amarilo:
Before the election buhari was not a poor candidate to most of you guys. He was the next best thing after sliced bread.

Ladyhippolyta88:
You are not well.

bezimo:
It's because the typical 9ja born wives come to the US and see a system that favours women which is surprising to them, they take advantage of the system and begin to misbehave to their husband with the aim of divorcing him and taking his properties..but why because the average 9ja woman is money motivated and propelled by greed.
The US born 9ja girls are used to the system and as such have a very low tendency to capitalize on the the system to deal with their husbands.

Like is best recommended..if you bring a 9ja born girl to be your wife in the States..make sure she signs a prenup...which protects the husband in the event she attempts to take advantage of the system to deal with the husband.

kimbraa:
Our society encourages laziness and it's not just the girls. You see a 30years old guy still living with his parents and eating his mother's food.

delvinmaya:
Really, you had to drag Yorubas into this? Are the yorubas not joining you in the queue? Or they are not suffering as all other Nigerians are? This transcends the yorubas