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Didnt want t comment but anyway..
How people perceive riches detrmines t an extent how it'll affect or change them.
A rich guy that sees his wealth as a tool of oppression will only treat u as a jerk, besides, a lotta rich young Naija guys ve dis belief 'money can get them anything'. on d plus side tho, d ones tgat truly r humble and respect u , can make ur life a dream..
Poor guys on d oda hand can b whiny,over dependent n complexed.if he's a jerk wen poor, he'll b a jerk or worse wit money.
Besides, staying wit him doesnt necessarily mean wen he gets d money/arrives, as dey say, he wnt dump u f a more 'befitting' person.
Its all abt Character..
Tho, a guy that is still broke at a certain age is an indication of d kind of person he is..those I will, if a girl, give a wide berth..

I tink this speech abi tirade is actually directed @Amaechi

Sam xiu lee: you just hit the nail on the head,I was wondering what he meant by the fact that we can't understand his lyrics,as much as I love him,I would advice he understudy the likes of eminem,jay_z,a perfect understudy will be kanye his lyrics are sometimes deep,conscious and he knows how to turn them to songs,he shouldn't be too rigid like nas,even Olamide lyrics are good he knows how to make them funny and turn them to a good song.be doesn't need to change his lyrics he should work on his deliveries,this is 2013 not 1988.

please ..Nas shouldnt b compared t Modo. Naa still sells. His last album as well aa his combo wit Damian Marley were DOPE.
Mode 9 is lyrically v.good but his albums r boring..truth.
Its difficult t listen t dem top t bottom witout tuning out..

..u mean they start ur day with a hug n end it wit a kiss
Hw annoying

sholypopz: Too personal but I can tell you that if the woman can stimulate her clitor1s while having anall sexx, she is gong to have an 0rgasm

Guess my question has been ans'd .
More grease to ur ..

sholypopz: I disagree with a lot of people saying respect her decision and drop the issue. You are going to look for other ways to satisfy your sexxual desire if she denies you anall sexx. I doubt your woman would want that.

Her refusal to have anall sexx is due to fear. Anall sexx can be pleasurable to the woman, (very pleasurable ) if the man in question knows what the hell he's doing which a lot of men do not. There are a lot of nerves in your a*nus that if stimulated properly can make a woman 0rgasm.
It's going to be harder the first time cos she'll be nervous. This would tighten the anus and make it painful, so it's your duty to calm her down and engage in foreplayy. (lots of foreplayy. I'm assuming you already know how to get your gf arousedd)
Before you stick your "stuff" into her, I will say prepare her mind a lil my sticking in your finger(s) first. Let her dictate the pace, let her know it's her call and that she can ask you to stop anytime she feels like it.
The a*nus doesn't provide it's own lubrication like the vag1na, so you would need plenty lubricant (water based lubricant, do not use vaseline abeg).

By the way, she needs to get her a*nus cleaned except you have a poop fetish (I'm joking)
Get her an enema that will be used to clean her butt hole too. This goes a long way in reducing initial pain, a looooongggg way, lol (I'm not joking)

She can Google 'how to use an enema' or see a doctor for help. (Anyone she's more comfortable with)
Oh! Do tell her to arch her back and push in a little like she's having a bowel movement.

Oh well, I really do hope you can convince her.

hmmmmm...experience does speak loudest.
Question..have u ever cum from anal??

Raymondenyi: Shut up dia young boy; is the man himself not wicked; fully advertent of d fact he has a fiancee n an imminent marriage, went to bullala a gurl he knows he doesn't hv anything for, without condoms(probably to get her pregnant ,become a single mother n carry d cross)

This is a call to all guys, I go to eiverywhere with condoms, either in my bag, or wallet, or pockets ,books, socks; I even tie some on my waist! So pls; y'all gatta b careful, HIV no b somthing I go wish my worse enemy, pls guyz fellow my lead...

Unkle Ray

a promiscous ass telling me t shut up!
Ok o.
Now..mr ignorant undrstand that the onus lies on d girl to,in view of her condition, have insisted n eventually desisted from having unprotected sex wit d guy knwing fully well he was probly doing that wit a misguided trust in her health status .
Hope u read where d o.p said ' as well she hadnt done it f a while'.
Why wilfully harm anoda human?? If she didnt knw her status iys diff but here she did.
She is wicked n knew wat she was doing, abi did d guy drag her t crash at his place??
Not absolving d guy of his role in all dis but call it as it is..

I cant alot of u are absolving her of responsibility.
She knew wat she has n still CHOSE t have unprotected sex wit d guy, abi wasnt it by Mutual Consent again
I min wtf ??
That lady is Wicked!!
Carelessly trying t destroy lives of a potrntial happy family..cos of her selfishness. crying crocodile tears

Gay shit..

lmao@ #18

Making sense
Really like this..

The o.p is JUST NOT SERIOUS.
I honestly pray he finds someone else that'll sweep him away lemme laff.
'he hasnt asked u out offucially', how is he supposed t do that wen ur always acting normal wit him.
U dnt visit him, he stayed away yet u didnt reach out, u meet him n act normal, yet u say u r confused..He Is d Confused One wit all these ur mixed signals.
I pray tgat guy moves on..Seriously
U r just a time waster
Ps; dnt rily care if u fil insulted or not

If u ever call her again, I'll personally look f u n whoop some sense into u

Dont knw wen guys became such pussies

Man Up u..

No..
..but they usually do cos 'Game recognizes Game'. D innocent wouldnt knw a game f wat it is even if dey were hit in d balls wit a soccer ball

spongeback: Hope you washed your hands afterwards

lmbbo

Guys wit 6packs are regarded as bin more physically active n dis translates t bin more sexually active/ appealing.
Besides studies have shown that guys wit 6packs have higher levels of testosterone implying grtr libido.

Dnt blame d girls, go get urs or live wit wat u have.
Dont cum crying here wen, wit all ur monetary swag, u still find her doubling u wit a 6 pack dude

Afam4eva: This is very possible as people are addressed based on how they're dressed. But what's the possibility that Oprah would go to a store looking unkempt? I doubt that. It's still discrimination irrespective of Oprah's appearance.

would Oprah walk into a store witout her attendant entourage except she was being low keyed..one of d 'common folks'?
Its actually highly likely

obadiah777: oprah is an i-diot. she is used to so many people kissing her butt her ego couldnt handle someone who did not kiss her butt. people saying what she did is classy. she went around like a parrot and start singing about the incident as if some serious thing like someone rap-ing her has happened.

and you black folks need to get off ya high horses. everytime someone turns around you are twerking on videos, or shouting in public, or being involved in all kinds of nefarious activity all over europe while tryna get rich fast and you act surprised when people treat you how you act. geddaforkouttaere with dat shyttt. oprah just recieved the collateral damage of black peoples activities worldwide

and i am still anti-white. check my resume. so this aint no uncle tom rant

U r so on point..1000 likes
keeping it real

[quote author=acidosis™]I'd never have accepted that cheap lie from any one.

Except the rich man is "gay".. he must have tapped some current from your darling angel and queen of your heart (a.k.a the most trustworthy woman on earth).

I hear some people saying, "I'm a pervert, all guys are not the same"..

You see bro, no sane guy without string or motive would want to sleep on the same bed with her in the first place!

Your girl is not to be trusted..

How come the RICH dollar billionaire has only one (1) room??

1 bed? agreed..! How about the rug? abi the rich man no with afford $800 rug for im house??

Make your girl shattap before I descend on her.. In short ehn, I don vex!

That rich f00l just like the rich f00l in the bible, have taken advantage of your little queen.. More like a consultancy business.

I remember sleeping in a neighbor's house just cos I don't wanna share the same place with another man's girl. Its as simple as ABC..

Its just not possible for that rich man to sleep on the same bed with your girl without "any attempt"! Either she fell for him or not.. I don't know![/quote]There definitely must have been an attempt..

Y is ur girl alwys only visiting 'rich' men

ZUBY77: The same thing happened to me in Amsterdam central in 2010.
I had entered into a Diamond shop and was looking at a particular stone through the Glass.
The manager walked past me and said
''You can't pay for that young man''..

I checked the price and it was €42.000.. ( Fourty two thousand Euros)

He was right.

I dont see wat the 'racist' brouhaha is all about??
I've walked into a boutique before (2005), d sales person looked @me n didnt bother standing up,I felt insulted, but wen I looked at d cost of d items I realised she was right.. I couldnt afford a 75k shoes then. she had acessed me correctly.
In Oprahs case d sales girl was wrong but we dnt knw wat Oprah must ve looked like..dressing n all.
I.m.o, Oprahs d one seeing tins in black n white
she needs technicolor..

tpacalipse: I shud know before I propose. This shows there are other things she is hiding from me and may likely tell me when the time is right, may be after marriage. Arrant bullshhits.

funny question is; 'is d time eva right'

She should have told him long bfre now. am v.sure numerous opportunities must ve presented demselves b4 now.
How is d guy supposed t recover d trust that she has conveniently shattered at so imconveniencing a time.
I pray he can move past this cos it sure will b difficult..

[quote author=-Mr Cork-]..errm guys..please avoid Nigerian females..Kissin is NOT there thingy![/quote]loooll..so true

Well, who said Mr Cork doesnt make sense attimes.
Truly golden..

One oda tin, confront ur mother in-law cos I tink she mite ve bin privy t d relationship bf now hence her fear.

dmcdad: Dang! This is highly lugubrious. I know you must be in sixes and sevens at this juncture, completely gaga.

To be sincere with you, you are just not sharp at all. You are always with this guy whenever they exchange SMSs and you never noticed anything? And you were even blind from noticing from your wife too? Gosh! you know try at all. Anywayz, this is not about you.

I will view this the way I would react to it if I were in your shoes. Firstly, don’t have any beef sort of with the guy in question. Talk to him like nothing happened, but not lengthy anywayz, maybe greetings and the likes but make sure you guys are always on talking terms. Yet, you need to stay the heck away from him for life. Avoid his company when possible and make sure you are just limited to exchanging greetings with him to maintain the distance.

Secondly, if not for the fear of God, I would never have anything to do with a woman who is so strong-hearted as to hurt me. But, for the love and fear of God, there is always a re-think. So, my advice as regards your wife is; forgive her, but I know one thing is certain, your relationship with her can never be as strong as it were before now, at least for the time being. It is not easy to condone such from a partner especially when you are the kind that would never do that to her, it is something that would be very difficult to take as your life at this point in time would have taken a different turn. Even at that, I would enjoin you to tread carefully and approach this matter with caution while taking cognizance of the love and forgiveness of the almighty God.

I know you have been hit hard and as such, it takes the grace of God to overcome this quandary. Please, be merciful to her. Alot of peeps on here would be quick to tell you to dump her asś bla bla bla, but in reality they fail to recognise the oath people take when they pledge their love for eachother "for better or for worse" when they get married. Do you think that phrase is only applicable in financial or economic situations alone? Nope! It applies to cases such as this too. Its an oath you took in the presence of God and you must fulfil it come what may. That is why divorce is never an option for me because of my ideology towards marriage and also guided by my level of morality, ethics and spirituality.

Forgive her, I know the mark will be engraved for long, but try to fight the thought and gradually let it die a natural death. With time, the trust you have towards her can be rebuilt, although that will take much conviction. At this juncture, she will have alot to prove to you. And one thing you need to take into knowledge is, don't give her whatever suspicious look towards anything. If she wants to go somewhere all alone or she wants to do something that doesn't require the both of you in it, free her and don't give her the impression that you are suspicious of every move she makes (even if you actually do). I tell you bruv, unless she is a devil, she would never hurt you in such a way anymore. You know why? Because she is human with a conscience and and would live with that guilt of betraying your love and trust once. I think it would place her in good stead never to do anything that is slightly related to cheating.

All the best brah... I pray God gives you the right mind to bear this gruesome and excruciating pain, and to also help you to hearken to my words. Remember! I gave this to you the way I would treat it myself if I were in your position, in total consideration of my values and the way I handle situations. So, you might choose to do it some other way you deem it fit.

Have a blissful day.

I beg t disagree.
If u ve eva bin cheated on u will knw how difficult it is t Trust that person agaim talkless of wen its ur wife brazenly doing it under ur nose n f so long.

@o.p..
First of all,Take a Break from Work. ur in no state t b working n u shldnt allow this affect ur performance @work.
Secondly, take a time off f urself. leave ur house, stayb@ frnds, hotel wateva but tske a timeout f urself t tink n evaluate tins,ur feelings etc n enable u truly n honestly look at tins. prayerfully too
Thirdly,I believe u shld talk t an elder in ur family. they need t knw. someone u respect n trust. someone logical. someone that will advice u witout fear nor favor..
Fourthly, Divorce Is Actly An Option. bite me f saying dis but if u know u mite neva get ova dis, if dis will always create discord btw u two. if u knw u can never trust her sgain, den f d sake of ur unborn children, let her go. No child deserves t b born in an environment devoid of love n trust..
Lastly, u need t realise She as a woman is an Individual n her behaviour is not a reflection of majority of women out there. in other words, Dnt Take It Out on D Women folk outthere.

..n dont forget t pray thru ur hurt f Divine Guidance.

All d best man.. dis too shall pass

[quote author=Mrs.Chima]Busting a good nut.[/quote]squirrel tins

chlowi: A thousand (1000) likes for you!!! Best reply to that guy so far!

Crock of Bull..
America is regarded as a great country because of Individual Achievements of her Individual Citizens via their Individual Efforts n YET it reflects on d status n intrnatnal repute of that country..

Her Bleep ups reflect badly on us as a country esp d women folk.. individualism b damned.