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[quote author=Gabriel_sylar]...don't just marry who u love but who u can live with.... that u LOVE an aircraft doesn't mean u can OPERATE it...love is just chemical reactions...compatibility is reality...love does not produce compatibility but compatibility will produce a bonding that natural words cannot fathom...let's stop deceiving ourselfs putting the cart before the horse...loving someone does not mean u can live together...dis is why we have 5ex to MAKE love...we gorra MAKE it cos it isint there before...lol[/quote]Brilliant..
Compatibilty ensures friendship. Friendship, if cultivated, naturally progresses to feelings of strong affection -- LOVE.
A relationship built on that is bound t last n test d strength of time because of d greater bond it affords.
Don't get me wrong tho, Love is very important but there are so many failed relationships even tho d parties were/are madly in love.
Besides, most loving couples will tell u eventually d luv grew t a strong friendship btwn dem..so y put d cart bf d horse??

Aktor365: A friend of mine as being dating this girl for close to a year now and they both claim to love each other so much . That they have made a resolution to get married in future. But recently he expressed some feelings of doubt concerning the relationship cos the girl introduced him to one of her male friends as a "my friend" . He feels the girl doesn't know what she wants from the relationship and thus trying to play things safe. He asked for my advice saying : should he let the incident pass or should they take a break from the relationship till she finds herself? Whats your advice to him?

Concentrate on your studies..a well built house will always attract buyers in d future.

Roland17: You have been a fooooool for too long and it's time for you to move on, the minute you hacked (even though I detest such) her account and read those derogatory words she used in describing you, you should have called it quits immediately and never looked back.

Beacause she is pregnant with a child she claims to be yours does not obligate or justify marriage or any form of long term commitment.. this is the 21st century bro... The worst that happens is that she gives birth, the paternity of the child is ascertained, if it's yours you can plead with your mother to care for the child with your support, if it's not yours like I suspect, the coast has become clearer..

If she is this promiscuous while you are dating what assurances do u have going into marriage which is the highest form of commitment. The more you toy with your emotions the more you loose sanity.

she left f a 6 months course n slept wit 3 ppl?? bro, do d maths .
DNA or not, since you've decided t accept d child, then do, But DO NOT under any circumstance marry her.

Do you think d parents aren't aware of her Do character failings? That they still insisting u go ahead wit her should give u major concerns d in-law u r going t get.
Continue following those spiritual mediums t ur own detriment.
Am out

I think u done touched all d bases
Nice write up..
Bottom line.. don't expect too much, don't make it such a big deal n u might actually end up bein pleasantly surprised..

R2bees: She Said "All Men are Dogs". I
replied Her "Which Breed is
Your Father?" That's how the
Problem started."

Classic

oxford: simple. First learn to distinquish between renovated and built

second. As far back as 2004, rivers has a total of 122 health centre.

Ever heard of the FOE?

..Nope
I know a number of health centres were already in existence, but 122??
Do clarify..

Symphony007: look at this fool..name one primary health care center that was existing before ameachi became governor, name one that odili built, this fool apparently has'nt heard of shonghai farm, or the RSSDA, maybe the greater port harcourt city...you call this building below of which 150 exist around rivers patent medicine stores? Centers with three resident doctors, a lab, TB center, fully furnished, with residential quaters for the doctor, nurse and med lab scientist? When did your madness start?

Dude relax na. U spoilt ur argument at 3 resident Drs..that is a Blatant lie..

oxford: .

Keep ur advice to urself cos u damn need it badly.

U are celebrating 150 health centre that are more or less patent medicine store. And to even think that out of the 150 about 122 were existing before your amaechi came to power!

Apart the helicopter which we all know is meant for 2015 campaign, i beg tell me one 10 billion project amaechi completed in his 7 years as a governor?

U and amaechi can jump from one media house to another for the rest of his second term for all i care but just know we are not that stup!d.

And we will prove that to you come 2015

hmmm..
Are u sure of the 122 out of 150 statement u just made, cos t my knowledge, Amaechi built most of them.
Proof please..

phantom: @ the boldedthe same nta-choba that MCC is resurfacingbe serious abeg.
alakahia-choba is PART OF THE EAST WEST ROAD.true or false? please be objective

Dude..I c u

Symphony007: sanni abacha road that is interlogged which leads to mile 4,agip were there is a new flyover is falling apart? In your dreams. You lie when you say NTA road is fallin apart, i have driven the entire length of that road from rumuola to uniport and it is smooth and new. Choba/uniport road is under construction. Go there are see them at work day and night. I'm sure you have'nt seen the eleborate flyover built there. You also failed to mention stadium road, is'nt it falling apart? Follow your own advice! Be truthfull.

Sani Abacha road is deteriorating. go dre. there r depressions everywhere, from d beginning where taxis park to d jxn opp where d police station is up to n beyond NextTime supamart..Fact. It Is My Route.
NTA road is just ok..good in some places, depressed in odas.
So was I wrong wen I said d Alakahia - Choba road isn't?? That it Is under construction makes it good?? Wasn't it terrible before d work finally started. The good roads I stated..stadium rd falls under etc.
Remove ur glasses or beta tell me d model of car u use, I tink I need me one of those

crackhaus: First of all, you OP have proved one thing to me, and that is you are not one for facts and accuracy.
Why not specify what area that picture was taken, not that it will change anything but at least I can take you more seriously.
Now, I'm not an indigen of Rivers State neither is Amaechi my benefactor whatsoever, but being a past resident of Port harcourt (8yrs and counting, since I still visit often), I can tell you it's not as bad as you paint it (at least in Port harcourt itself).

With regards to the 'health' of some roads,
Aba Road - good condition
NTA/Choba Road via Rumokwuta - good condition
Okporo Road - good condition
Ikwerre Road - good condition
Stadium Road - good condition
Wimpey/Iwoefe Road(up until gas) - good condition
Ada George Road - good condition
Sani Abacha Road/Gra - good condition
East-west Road(alakahia-choba axis) - good condition
Omagwa airport link by-pass - good condition
Rumoula link Road - good condition
Rumuokoro-Igwuruta Road -good condition
Woji - partially good condition
Mile 3-waterlines connect road - good condition
Eleme-Obibgo Road(up until trailer park) - good condition
.........................
Abeg I'm tired of typing, just know that some of these roads were done, re-done, and are still being refurbished because of bad contractor job, under Amaechi's Administration. The only problem with that city is the lack of planning which is s major reason for slow moving traffic at rush hours, as well as drainage issues in some roads/streets.

Remember, Rivers is not even my state but please try to be transparent and more credible when reporting stuff like these

Guy stop lying..either that or u don't know wat 'good condition' really means. Now to ur posts;-
NTA - Choba road is just ok. The beginning portion is good but then from nta t ozouba is just fair ( tho d work is on &off there)
Iwofe road is horrible..don't even go there cos I stay along that axis
Abacha road is deteriorating..potholes n depressions scattered along d road
Alakahia-Choba east west road good condition?? I laff in Chinese.
The Omagwa airport link road as well is falling apart.
The oda roads like Ikwerre road, Rumuola, ada George ,etc r good.
Don't know much about Woji now( tho d last time I was dre, good was far from describing it.
The oda roads I didn't mention, am not sure about..these are my routes n I knw dem well.
Lets b truthful abeg..

jmslimx: me don promise my self say i no go buy any honda again my crv gave me hell of a balljoint problem - but the benz never did soo

well Sell it and buy toyota for all i care big error for honda on legs

saw shege wit my crv..4-6 pulls without warnings sef. really embarrasing n distressful as well as dangerous.
Eventually dumped it n got an xterra..interior sucks but a beautiful car nonetheless.
My advice.. dump d car n get something else

Avoid her at all cost.. move out if u must.
The dilemma of should I tell
I feel going t d husband mite b a mistake . I personally will opt t report tins t dier pastorand asap.
U r presently standing at a precipice n dont know yet n tins can go so wrong so fast..false witnesses n all..get my drift??
Peace

Dude, U Seriously need t edit/summarize this piece..seriously!


That said, u r so on point.
Have seen it happen..presently wit my sis n ex. the guys in question are wonderful prospects but d more they try, d more repulsive they seem t get wit d ladies in question.

Simple rule, Focus on creating d Attraction by being dre f her n it is always beta if she hints @ taking d next step but even then, Don't Rush It.

Kudos@o.p

CHEI!!

The First step is for u to be honest t urself n b sure u can/will be able t continue d relationship..
Secondly, clear ur doubts..ask d questions dat trouble ur mind..demand answers t d whys n whats (if u care t know). if dey bother u, air dem
thirdly, be honest about how ur feeling t ur partner. being honest abt ur feelings allows d guilty partner also clear his/her reservations
Most imprtsntly, its abt u n ur partner, so focus on d two of u n be careful abt outside interference.
Infidelity is a game changer..its best t pause n restart at such times than jst continuing like nothing happened..
Wisdom dey say is directive..

Royal Roy: Hehehe

Interesting comments!

A single dude who was tired & worn out from the day's job got home and met his girlfriend, in bum shots & tank top.
She already cooked his best meal, put some nice Jlo perfume, made the bed with pink sheets & lay down on the couch with a sexy pose!!

The tired dude already knew what is in stock.

In a bid to avoid dissapointing the already fired up babe, he said to her

"Baby, pls help me pack that food & put in the refrigerator, I don't feel like eating tonight".

The babe was shocked, and asked why?

He went on to narrate how his boss has been picking on him & seems they want to get rid of him at his office!

The lady was of course ruffled, sexy Mariah Carey suddenly turned to preaching Mother Theresa.

The dude finally "agreed" to eat his food, took a shower & off to bed.

By morning, as in those early morning when the weather is down south, when the proof of being a man is obvious to all eyes, he decided to "pay her" with some gift of his third leg!!

Girlfriend suddenly wondered & asked, are you sure u are okay for this?
He said & I quote "well, since I have the best woman in the world, then even if they take my job from me, life goes on".

The "wicked third leg" kept on turning the room temperatures up to the ceiling.

And before 6am, the heat in the room could bake bread for the whole of Lagos.

Hehehe, how did I know all this?

Your guess is right.

Badt guy

xynerise: Well, simply tell him/her you have a severe headache

A good Orgasm is a good cure f severe headache

Glory t God..
Happy f his family..

After 10 yrs, u r coming here now
Wat U were ready t accept while dating, shouldn't b an issue now.
U dont need advice...
U made ur bed, find a way t lie on it

Caleboha: It wouldn't be out of place to think of Amaechi as a cry baby trying to arouse sympathy except that in this case something serious has happened! The chief security officer of Rivers state, it's number one citizen was denied access to his official residence by the police! We can say categorically now that Amaechi's post as governor is ceremonial and the streets of PH is unsafe . I think GEJ is stretching the feud too far. Picking out Amaechi as scape goat is just lame. GEJ should try all the other tough-talking govs na, those ready to play dirty if he is man enough!

I think u should take a look @ joyfullyme's diagram.
I know that area n his diagram is on point..
This is not about GEJ vs CRA , but about d integrity of a gov, that will go t dis length just t garner public sympathy.
Its despicable.

Really enjoying this thread..
Keep it up guys..kudos


still awaiting d ghanian pics

Crap..
Port Harcourt club has suddenly become d govt house back gate abi??
For everyones info, it is at least a km away from d govt house back gate.
Feeble attempt at buying public sympathy..