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Reference:
I am absolutely certain that if he can put her on such a salary, she will be gone in a flash.
Money is their problem not house and food particularly for the kids is her priority.
They all know he earns on the go (from the report that he pays for food daily) and that is why to be catered for they reasoned that they had to move in.
And that is why for him and them the priority will be to get the woman earning something no matter how small from where they stand.
Then the food bills will fall and she will suddenly desire to 'be free'.
All humans desire liberty and I an sure that once she can feed her kids she will look for a roof over her head as her second priority. She will equally be embarrassed and stressed enough to know that time is ticking.

with the additional money of 3500 he claims to be spending breakfast, he should be able to give 50k or more, accept he is working his ass out to provide that.

Reference:
What is the meaning of this?
Rent an apartment for a person of no income?
Will the floors and ceilings feed the family?
She came from somewhere so accomodation was not the primary concern but feeding.
The inlaw came to be catered for.
And the only solution to this is additional income and getting her to earn a keep should be the condition for continued boarding.

if upkeep is her problem let her go back to her place. he should place her on salary of 50k per month based on his strength.
And u also do not expect him to keeps 11 persons in 2 rooms sooner or later they will begin to fall sick and his problems will increase.
Getting them an accommodation is just the best.
Although I still question his 6k breakfast except they eat outside.

wasuka14:
My wife Twins sister moved to our apartment of a room and parlour self-contain with her 4 kids after the demise of her husband without notice to me.

Honestly, I really need urgent advise as I can't have access to my apartment or to my wife again. As her twin sister moved in to my small apartment with her 4 kids and loads of clothes and some other luggages. Therefore, no single space left in my parlour to sit or leave again.

I am mentally stress with what am passing through now. For 2 weeks now, I can't sleep in a small house am managing with my wife and our 4 kids too.

The issue at hand is not even about apartment alone but also of feeding.
Now, before now, my wife used to manage 2500 to feed all of us for breakfast alone. But now, she barely manage 6000 every morning.
Thereby, increase daily expenses on food to like 14-16k daily depends on my pocket.
And the funny thing is that, both the sisters are not working so as to at least support with something.

For now, am managing to pass night in my shop, but twice in a day they will send my first child to my shop to fetch money for food. Am really tire. I am just a bloody welder.
I don't know how to take care of these migrants going forward.

My wife can't drive away her twins sister by herself, am also too timid to drive them because of human feeling in me. Pls what do I do. I really need help and serious advise from fellow Nigerian and non- Nigerian.

what kind of breakfast do u people take?. For me tea and bread in the morning is just fine for breakfast and that won't cost much. Buy big milo and milk both should be like 11k they should be able to manage it for 5 to 7 days. All u need to do every morning is to be giving them 2 loafs of bread every day.
Secondly even if it requires u to borrow money, do it. Rent a room self-contained for them. If not, if u continue like this by December u might have already spent serious money unknowingly.

tillaman:
She’s actually correct based on you both can’t be on the same frequency
Our generation has made marriage institution seem like a competition ground
No be so e be before

how can she be correct?. What is the definition of illiteracy other than her. Somebody advising people, is a forth baby man and yet she didn't see that as the highest level of illiteracy.

alanto:
Obi na crook. For the man to have followers make naija tire me....

How can you say you suspend campaign and you are going all over the place to campaign, I hate the man's hypocrisy. He doesn't want to fund the campaign... He doesn't want to share money to the campaign council... Watch how he said he will suspend campaign until the flooding season is over, that's a natural disaster how does anybody know if it's going to end? Obi is a fraud... He's the worse among the candidates.... I just don't like the hypocrisy and pretence...

I'm sure u are speaking out of ur ass. It's only in this country human life means nothing to people. Do u know election can be postponed because of this magnitude of natural disaster let alone campaign.
Secondly why exactly he shouldn't have followers while dieing person's have.

Thank you lady for helping to kill snakes that stealing money in Nigeria.

LetsDestroyAPC:
Konji does not know class

Meanwhile, read and think about this.

Be like me. Work to destroy APC. The party is evil. Firstly, I am a card-carrying member of APC and I will be serving as a polling unit agent for APC come 2023 elections but I will surely vote for Peter Obi. Not only that, but I must also make sure APC losses my polling unit. Why? Because APC has done Nigeria/Nigerians more harm than good, therefore, the party must be destroyed.

Imagine if the majority of the young men and women who are believed to be sensible enough in Nigeria would do this, APC will surely be destroyed at the poll. Destroy APC so we can take back our country. The hardship and inflation caused by this APC government does not know a member or non-member of the party, tribe, or religion. We are all suffering it. Destroy what does not mean well for you and that is APC. Work against APC. Be like me!!!

wait till Tinubu catch u, u go pay am all the money he don spend with the intention of cashing out big wen he finally succeed. But don't worry he won't succeed.

People are saying things about the man I find difficult to believe, I now confirm he is really sick.

Last time it was "change"now "Hope" this agenda seems worse than change. They want to officially kill people.

jumper524:
See constructive criticism and commendation from our Naira landers.
Wished they made same comments like they did when shettima did same in bornu.

read through u will see reason for his decision. It is believed, it is for the interest of the gambles. Also if they agrees on terms they will all be reopen.
Beside he cannot achieve stopping online betting.

HonNL:
SOURCE

no need for his condolence because even our dear daddy is not aware of the flood or have refused to say anything about it.

Zee0007:
I was having a conversation with a friend and he said, " he cannot marry someone who doesn't know how to read or write.

Can you?

you see that peace of mind u mentioned, it is worth more than 30 beautiful and educated women with millions of Naira. As a matter of fact it is priceless.
Wait till u don't have it you will understand.

ahnie:
Oga go for a brain transplant.how e nor take concern me?
Maybe you boths are in same category hence your supporting him breeding kids like geese.


The kids I saw were looking unkept,hungry and somehow and it baffles me that you find nothing wrong with it.

Sir pls kindly go for a brain transplant....walking with God indeed.

it is still not ur concern. If u want to help, you won't bring other people issue for public discussion.
Talking about brain check I think you should examine ur first.
You talk down where he lives like people staying there are less of a human simply because u stay where u think it is better. Mind u not all fingers are equal. If the kids are home the day u came visiting does not mean they don't go to school or won't go to school.
Also about me being in same category with him. While with what I know if I happen to be in same category I won't be worried.
I'm also taking this time to reply you because u still stay and eat from ur parents so u feel u can say anything you like.
Life is a funny place it always not how u see it.

ahnie:
There's this distant brother of mine (not related by blood) my family has known him for some months now.

He's the fire praying churchy type of person, he does normally visit my family, but we have never met his family.

He's a foreman that does any type of job, he's hardworking tho, not the lazy type.

So some days ago,when I went for an exercise on sight seeing organised by Nigerian army, it occured to us to check on him since he stays closer to the venue.

I rang his line and told him to direct me to his home,which he reluctantly did, when we finally located his home.

To say I was disappointed with the environment was an understatement considering what he was up to lately which prompted this post.

I met 4 of his kids, at home playing, they ought to be in school at that time and his heavily pregnant wife, we exchanged pleasantly, all thru our brief staycation there, the bros was uncomfortable, after some moments we took our leave.

This same man came to my hood to paint the apartment of a young beautiful big God female UBA banker who just moved in.

To my painment and chagrin, my brother didn't even collect a dime from this lady as wages for the job done, he only collected phone number and started chyking the lady, who obviously has a rich taste for big boys and my bros was pretty pained.

Simply put, he did a free job, a job that took him 2 days to paint ,

My brother said he wants to have as many kids as possible, I'm afraid he's not making the necessary moves to care for them, which really is bad, with the present situation of the country.

My question now is.... Why would the wife and my bros agree to littering the house with kids they cannot care for and the ninth one is on the way?

Why does low income earners always have energy to knack and produce kids without the necessary bucks to care for them?

I took my time to go through ur post, the only thing that keeps coming to my mine is "watin concern you"

PresEmeka:
them thief am? what year

why exactly the shouldn't be sold for 950k. While I'm about to 750k.the car no get hand brake oh.

U go sale 180k?

But of the are the same.

thedarkened:
Yes, there was employment letter.

it is in the letter that he can terminate our appointment at will at anytime. However, there isn't prior notification which gives us an opportunity to prepare ahead.

the company has some financial setback, even if they don't sack you, you will still not be paid. Don't you think terminating ur appointment on time is the best for them instead of owing salary.

Where do u want him to live? Or are u the owner of lagos?.

LeoDeKing:
Watch how illiterates following one 3rd class olodo who doesn't even know what green energy is all about, start "explaining" climate change.

Ask them to re explain themselves, they will rather get back with trailer load of insults and curses. Make una no worry, Nigerians will soon tell you clowns election is about choice, not about curses and empty threats.

you are still using this third class format? I tot it stopped working after he presented his certificate and it not third class. Mind u, we are still waiting to see Tinubu certificate let alone his grade.

beerfraud:
Peter Obi is a terrorist like Gumii

terrorising people like Tinubu and El rufai.

Adedaniel123:
Are you normal? Pls be careful on how you comment on people's post, you might get yourself arrested next time it you're not careful

e be like say u like trouble. Keep adding price on people's vehicle like u can buy one.

yinkus6750:
Same thing with the students you truncated their dreams and visions that were idle for eight good months.
Why did you call off the strike, when you know you won't have transport to resume?
Nonsense talk.

court order.

trutharena:
This guy testified in the comment section on Twitter that he attended one of those millennium schools and he claimed SS1-SS3 alone got over 60 toilets.

This is a standard if you look at it that the schools were built as far back as 2001. Infact even some of the model schools being built by governors today are not better than the one Tinubu built in 2001, almost 21 years ago.

God bless Tinubu.

continue!!!!as na sheet you go sheet for school.

If no be wickedness, how can one upgrade something from one decade to another decade.

Lionnation:
Why would any sane Nigerian want tinubu as his president

hunger. It has turn them to slaves.

Solofresh2:
There is this lady friend of mine. We have been friends before she even got married and she is aware of my single status. I have decided to remain single until am ready for marriage.

So she told me how her husband has been maltreating her and she told me her husband is cheating on her. She told me she has always admired me but don't know how to tell me.

Though I noticed this but decided to overlook it. She said she wants a tight relationship with me and I should keep it secret, telling me she finds me attractive. I was just surprised because I never expected her to say all this.

However, I told her to resolve the issue with her husband and talk things out with him but she seems to have lost much interest in her husband who she has two beautiful girls with already.

Sex is not a problem for me as I know where to get it, but having sex with a married woman is a no no for me.

What do you guys think over this issue?

just imagine if she is ur wife how would u feel.

madridguy:
Since she has a good job with flourishing side business can you dm her number

you are one of the kind of reason she is not married.

IntelChief:
My elder sister is around 32 years and still not serious with marriage. Her only focus is on making money and she had been very successful in that aspect. She has a well paying job and is not only comfortable but also supports me financially sometimes.

But I just can't imagine why she is not disturbed about the fact that she is still single at her age. A lot of guys I know had been approaching her but she never accepts even a relationship offer from them, talk more of marriage. (And am very sure that she is not a lesbian or any of that).

As a church guy, I have seen a lot of women stock in this not being married thing and jumping from one church to the other seeking for husbands. Some of them, out of desperation, fall victims in the hands of fake pastors and sharp guys. I really don't want my sister to go through such.

Initially, I wasn't disturbed, but right now, this issue is burning not only me but also my aging mother. My mother had even stylishly urged my sister to go get married on several occasions. But she won't.

What really got me mad was when I was discussing with my sister some days back about her future plans. She told me stuffs like planning on travelling abroad for greener pastures, bla bla bla, but made no mention of marriage.

Honestly guys, I am tired. And as a man in the family, I am thinking of changing it for my sister. Am planning on threatening her that if she doesn't take the issue of marriage serious, I will go physical with her and teach her some lessons. But the issue is that she is my elder sister and I have some respect for her. And my action might end up affecting the bond in the family.

you will not leave the innocent girl alone. Did she tell you she do not know her age?.

This is to tell how dementia he is. How does good and bad look alike?.

Zonefree:

Na see finish dey cause all these nonsense.

Before you send someone's wife money for building project, it's expected you let the husband be aware of the transaction. She's a married woman for krissake!

The energies reserved for bedroom matters are now used in building your project and you deem it fit not to let me know ko nice na

it is not even true the money was sent to her by her relative, if not what is so difficult in telling her husband.

Kajaard:
When I was growing up Africans used to have shame and decency. What happened?

buhari took it all after subject people to extreme poverty.