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VanGap:
Checkout some of the lovely pictures of Oba Elegushi and Patoranking.

These pictures were captured during courtesy visit , see more below:

Source : https://www.instagram.com/p/B7B5APSgWeT/

Islie:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2020/02/one-dead-many-wounded-as-youths-fight-over-girls-on-valentines-day/

HRHQueenPhil:
I agree with this.. Many churches don't preach this
I wish d Holy Spirit will throw more light on this matter

DaCharis2016:
Please I will need your help here.


This is a threat to my life, and the infant.

This is the story so far.

A lady from Orhobo forcefully made her way into my house after a casual make out we had in August 2018.

It all started from year 2018 where I met this lady in my former place of work, and we exchanged contacts. Though I didn't call initially, she called and somehow we started seeing as she will come to my house visiting sometime.

I wasn't into her that much, coz she isn't the spec I wanted.

Along the line, she stopped coming around and calls also stopped as I tried to have sex with her everytime she would come around. And she kept resisting that she wanted a relationship that will lead to marriage...i will decline and tell her that I can't just rush into marriage until we have understudied ourselves for sometime.

Then after she had gone for months, she suddenly came back after I had stopped working.

That fateful night was the night I ever regret having this lady in my life as I had gone for a town meeting in Alagbado while she called me I had told her that I went out on a town meeting, and I will not come back soon, except she will wait for me...very unbelievable to me that this lady was still waiting for me till almost ten pm when I would return. Because previously she had never stayed in my house up to such hour.

And shockingly when I attempted struggling with her as usual, later did I know that she didn't resist me anymore. I didn't know when I penetrated her coz I didn't believe I was going to be allowed. As a result, I had no plan of sexing her so I didn't wear my condom.

That was how your guy just went inn, and before I could notice it I was on climax. I managed to withdraw the sperm ultimately.

Fast-forward to the next date, she came in at night again.

That night I didn't know she planned sleeping in my house, unfortunately she called her brother that she will not be coming home anymore as she will be spending the night out. I became worried why would she want to sleep in my house without letting me know. Despite I was considering her to be decent.

That night I couldn't sleep and became afraid after I woke up and met her worrying after our second sex.( I went into her again that night). This time I wore a condom, and she pulled it off when she noticed. As I was sexy, I had to go in unprotected counting on my withdrawal method.

I asked her why was she bothered and not sleeping, she said I just had my way after she hasn't let anyone in for years anymore, and I will just have my way and dump her? I told her I'm not dumping her that if it's God's plan we will be married. She said she is tired of jumping on men up and down. Mind you, when she noticed I didn't cum into her, she was more pained.

Then after like 3 weeks or more she started calling me telling me she hasn't seen her period ever since. But I didn't believe and disagreed until I was advised to take her on a test since I don't believe she would be preggy. I didn't like the idea much coz this lady came to my house like three times fighting me to come take her to the hospital to remove it if I wouldn't let her in my house or accept. I was surprised as she kept insisting termination...it sounded like a fraud to me more. I asked myself and one of my neighbors "which right thinking human would take-in and would be demanding abortion?" I ignored her the more after we had a quack nurse ran a test which came negative and advised we come back fortnights.

She went somewhere else and had it positive. After I saw the result I still doubted it was planned to reap me off because she demanded I settle her financially to abort her unborn child.

Then she finally came back after we had a fight in my house which led to her biting me on my arm, I couldn't do anything anymore as I became tired so I let her be in my house.

A neighbor advised we run a urine test ourselves, which we did and it came positive over the night. Was surprised and baffled. I started weighing the option of abortion as the attitude she displayed to me earlier is a sign she could be terrible, and troublesome . It took me a week to finally decide to have the abortion by which the foetus was already 6 weeks old.

I was shocked again when this lady that was the one yelling for abortion outrightly declined that I will have her killed.

That was when it dawned on me I had being married against my wish.

Currently she is in my house with the child. And we had fought more than three times since she put to bed. The last one resulted in bloodshed.

Because of the nature of her personality, I'm finding it difficult leaving with her. She's too violent, arrogant and hot-tempered.

She was diagnosed of hepatitis b, and luckily for me I was free.
Because of that the baby feeds on infant milk which has made me to be buying the milk weekly now.

She nagged at me for hours and insulted hell outta me for telling her she didn't inform me the milk finished....she intended fighting again last night and warned me I should try what happened last time that led to her blood spilling and see what she would do to me.

In fact I have tolerated enough from her. I'm planning on running a DNA test to ascertain the paternity and move on or we settle in court coz she's frustrated big time and wants to pass it to me since I have being telling her I can't marry her.

So I brought it here for you guys to advise on what to do to avoid imminent tragedy lurking.

It took the grace of God that I controlled myself.
It would had resulted to something bad just because I have a bad woman under my nose forcefully.

*NB*
She works and earn a penny salary, while I hustle on the streets and earn for the home upkeep, and foot all bills.

I don't know why she a heavy churched person like her has such bad attitude without repentance. Her actions are without the iota of the gospel.

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youngsahito:
I'm into social media marketing. feel free to share yours

LegendaryLover:
lol... the boy want try him luck

fados4sure:
Nigeria Education! See what you cause? Somebody with Distinction in Computer Engineering don't know how to generate wealth

A scenerio of having A in class but D in life

Islie:
https://www.pmnewsnigeria.com/2020/01/05/iran-sets-80m-bounty-on-trumps-head-eyes-white-house-as-target/

XaintJoel20:
Happy Sunday Nairalanders.

Often than not, I have heard people say, "That house did not favour me. I almost sold all the property I came into that house with. In fact, I think there are forces working against development and progress in that house".

Some people also have different stories to share about their rented apartment. Some believe that in contrast to the opinion of the former, that the apartments they rented has in one way or the other contributed to their success, progress, and financial uplifting.

I have heard people also say, "when I packed into this house, I came with just one mattress and two pots, but today, I have been able to buy a car, married my wife, send my children to choice schools, and got multiple promotions at my place of work", while those in business will say they now have multiple shops.

The big question is this:

Can the apartment one rents contribute to his financial prosperity, uplifting and greatness and can a rented apartment also contribute to the downfall of one that was previously "doing well"?

While some think it's just superstitious hype, others think otherwise.

What's your take on this?

AlexReports:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2020/01/tatafonaija-ceo-feeds-1100-children-in-abuja-idp-camp/

MsDoris:
Gorgeous and curvy Nigerian actress, Anita Joseph just clocked 35 today, 4th January, 2020.

The talented actress and TV personality who hails from Anambra state in Nigeria took to her Instagram page to share sexy photos to mark her day.

Sharing one of the photos, she made a prayer to God, thanking him for the gift of life, also professing her love as she pleads to know him more.

In another post, the curvaceous actress shared an Egyptian goddess inspired photo, looking very stunning as she referred to herself as "Majesty".

See more here:
https://www.mimidoris.com/2020/01/actress-anita-joseph-releases-jaw.html

Nairaobserver:
Nigerian cadets parked their cars on the road, dancing, cause traffic jam on expressway because “civilians can’t do anything”.

Watch Video Below

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jRlpGlVntB8

hooha:
I remembered when I went for an occasion and was not given food. It took me time to forget that pain ooh!!. Then I was young, so my elder sister gave me the meat she was chewing inside her mouth since I didn't get my own food.

Tetehjewels:
American hip-hop star and mother of one, Cardi B, has revealed she might be kicking off the process to file for a Nigerian Citizenship as soon as possible.

https://www.yabaleftonline.ng/wp-content/uploads/2019/12/cardi.jpg

Recall Cardi had the time of her life when she visited the West-African Country in December 2019 and she’s had nothing but positive reviews about the people and the country and it seems she may return anytime soon.

https://www.yabaleftonline.ng/wp-content/uploads/2019/12/Cardi-3.jpg

Her tweet reads ;

https://www.yabaleftonline.ng/wp-content/uploads/2020/01/car.jpg

Cardi’s decision is coming after the U.S President, Donald Trump ordered an assassination that has been deemed as an act of war and might have repercussions on the American people.

https://www.yabaleftonline.ng/cardi-b-hints-at-filing-for-nigerian-citizenship/

Mynd44, Lalasticlala

MaxVee:
I Am Losing My Mind, Could This Be Love Or Foolishness?

Okay, I'd be quick and brief as well.

So about 6 months ago, I met my girl on facebook, And after months wooing her to date me, she finally agreed and we started dating..

Like everything was perfect and indeed I fell deeply in love with her even before I met her.

So along the line in our relationship she told she had a best friend who is a guy and they have know each other for like 4years..and that they talk very well (calls and chat) and that they tell each other they love themselves, but if I wasn't cool with it,I could break up she would understand.

As a guy I knew I had fallen for her and I embraced her telling me about the guy after a strong assurance from her that they were not into any sort of relationship with each other.

So my girl called me like let's say a month after we started dating that there was this her friend who she hadn't met and that wanted and she was going to see him, and I was like fine, she should just be fine.

P.S:- I hadn't met with my girl even till the point she went to meet the guy...I was in the west and she was in one of the states in the East..more like a long distance relationship.

Fast forward to days after they met I became uncomfortable with the relationship between my girl and the said new guy she met..I talked to her severally about it and she was at some point swearing not having anything to do with the new guy she just met.

Fast forward to the festive season I came back and I met my girl for the first time..indeed she was everything I imagined and we flowed amazingly well.

Long story cut short in the midst of one of our long conversations I discovered she have at some point had sex severally with her said best friend...so I was like since it was before we met I forgave her and we moved on..

yesterday I asked her if she has anything with the new guy and she swore again not having anything with him that the guy has been asking her out and she refused dating him.

She said plenty of things that convinced me into believing that nothing was going between them.

P.S:- before yesterday I told her to tell the new guy she has a boyfriend and she promised to..(from the actions of my girl I could tell she loves me.) She later told me that day that she told him and she had blocked him and stuff..and trust me I did believe her.

So this morning while she was sleeping I reaching out to her phone and went straight to her WhatsApp.. opened the chat with the guy and what I saw broke me..

She was reconciling with him over the break up she instigated of which was caused by something totally different not even because she told him she had a guy..what killed my spirit was a message she wrote to the guy saying "she left me for him even though I was far much a better option"..I confronted her and she has been pleading saying she loves me but she likes him and that they haven't had anything except kissing and caressing..that she loves me so much..that she started liking him when she started talking to him more frequently and I was far away. She hadn't know me..so she got fond of him and she likes him.

I love this babe so much, I told her I forgive her..but please I need your opinions..am I blinded by love or am being foolish..

How would you handle the situation. If it was you..
La La.. please help move this to front page
Am breaking every hour.

hotmediatv:
Instagram billionaire and influencer Hushpuppi after been accused by baby mama for abandoning his son reconciled with son as they both go for shopping in Dubai and have fun together.

Hushpuppi the Gucci master is ready to take good care of his son as he enjoys his stay in dubai.

See video below


https://www.nairaland.com/5613106/birthday-blessings-africas-youngest-superstar



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UpeRvTOcUdI