₦airaland Forum

Livadesh:
I seriously love your decision... That single fact that a lady is being match-made with an able dude is a big turn off for me too. That relationship is sitting on a gun powder because there won't be freedom of chenking from either parties as both parties will be operating within the confines of the matchmakers.

Exactly my point, I don't even want family interference in my relationship, maybe when I marry the two families can relate per in-laws.

MrHighSea:
don't be religious and don't despise what others worship.

Gather enough respect and be firm in your decisions.

Those are better than love.

You just described my personality. I am not religious but I respect people's beliefs. I have attended Muslim discussions several times even in school. I have attended other churches program, I have attended indigenous religion festivals too. I am just liberal, I will only have problem when you don't respect my belief too.

Candbud:
hmmm, does your mom know you are swallowing red pill?

she knows because she always complain about my attitude towards ladies. Actually, I respect girls especially the intelligent ones but I don't and can't go all out of my way to impress any girl. My mom said I am too logical and critical about women issue.

When it comes to relationship, I am always the bad guy with different girls and getting away with my promiscuity, but I am working on myself right now and that's why I don't want any relationship for now. I can't be foolish for girls, I am not having sex for the first time na.

InvertedHammer:
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Don't sleep with her. If you do, you will marry her.
She is just being pretentious to please her parents. Ladies like that are crouching tigers in bed. Be warned!

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I believe you bro. I don't even have time to sleep with her. I am always away. Last Sunday she messaged me that she didn't see me in church and she knew I wasn't around because I am a travel freak. I am on sperm retention.

SeriouslySense:
She is not yet serious. she is the type that want to force people to do as she does, does not work that way.

One does not have to believe in the same things, before one is good for marriage.

For me, decency, honesty, self-respect, and friendliness are more important than what one believes as a Christian or atheist's.

I have seen some religious people try to talk over other people, lacking self respect, becoming angry or combative when things are not done their ways.

although

I totally agree with you 100 percent. Being good towards people is more important than being religious. When I am going to marry a woman, I always look out for:

Intelligence

Sense of humor

Humane/kindness

Resourcefulness

Ability to communicate coherently.

Not religious or spiritual whatever, and I am liberal, I don't care about your religious beliefs either, it's personal.

Blueelf:
I be man and I no go lie. As much as we men like to be liveral, such decent girls are hard to find these days

If I be that OP, I go think long and hard first before brushing that girl aside unless she is too ugly

LoL, I understand your point. And Jenny is not actually ugly, she was my child crush back then, I used to attend my mom church only because of her, but maturity, exposure and experience change all that.

Enny2013:
None of my parents did,but most community elders.
In my uni days, One or two must find a way to link me with deir sons any time I visit home for holidays.
D last was one of my granny's friends who was just being unnecessarily nice to me: buying gifts here n dere. I was depressed wen she broke d bad news to me. I hated her son wt passion den.

LoL, how did you survive the plan throughout?

TruthinAction:
What are you waiting for to be spiritual? In any case, I have seen a couple of girls change their mode of dressing because of the person they are dating. It's not easy to see decent girls who are devoted to God. Why not try it out and tell her what you don't like about our appearance. If she truly loves you, she will be willing to compromise.

Meanwhile, try and know Jesus. Accept him into your life. He created sex and instituted marriage for our pleasure. Don't go after the sweet and forget the one who made it.

Thanks for your opinion bro, I appreciate it.

one4GOD:
pls I beg you live your life for yourself not your mum, marriage doesn't bring any solution to one's life you can even do away without it so you can live a more purposeful and happy life. Your mum only gave birth to you, she just a channel and never own your life. The lady has even started complaint and more so you both aren't same in more ways than now, she has started displaying a sense of ownership, abeg make she park well ooh

You got good and healthy brains brotherly, I don't even waste time in telling my mom to rest. I am not even interested in any romance right now.

unclejb2:
Chop the girls kpomo, clean mouth and pretend as if nothing happened, ...


then tell your mom that you had a dream about the girl and God told you that she is not your wife

Hahaha, sharp guy. Although, I am on sperm retention but still I don't find the girl attractive to that point that will make me sexually thirsty for her. She is always showing that spiritual side, but I always wondered if this girl didn't go wild while in school.

kingyakos:
What's your spec?

Intelligence: I am sapiosexual

Sense of humour

Resourcefulness

Humane

Ability to communicate coherently

Badboibipo:
Lmao monkey don drop quote , tueh

Monkey is an animal, calling me a monkey for telling you the truth is a misplaced grammar. I know we are all animals but some are better than others.

You made me believe monkey have better brains than you.

arthurwillia:
Haha Sule e say na you don’t have the temerity, Oga you are a dullard.. you don’t have to facility for saying how it’s done if you’ve not done it, try to grasp that and basking in the nonsense euphoria of learning from the internet. Na una Dey live all your life on the internet. Internet dictates their life.. with you brain that’s patches together with Ladipo spare parts, ode.

E say na my friends do it.. Aboki

Let me not catch you anywhere near English since you can't express yourself coherently. What is YouTube, Google and others made for if not seeking knowledge? Learning from internet doesn't mean internet is dictating your life, unless you are internet freak. You keep on shouting dullard as that's the new word you heard someone say this week, at least, check the meaning and context of use before abusing it.

I can deduce from your write up that you are a CAPITAL crude, irredeemable nitwit that lack comprehensive ability since you are not teachable.

Don't go calling everyone dullard simply because you love the name. Get yourself some sense and pray for effective and useful brain.

Streetmovement:
Wotoporiously speaking

My people make una come see vawulence o
He say na Aba made brain

LoL, vawulence is the real cruise. Peace is not an option.

Normalguyy:
Omo e get this girl wey I dey eye and as per say I no really get liver go meet her that time and me I no even know say my dad don dey sight the girl and she get mad curves ... So na so I just gain admission enter school I no come see the girl again . So I came back from school after the semester my papa come tell me say he don see wife for me o I say for where and omo to my greatest surprise na that same girl , I dey happy die , papa don dey even perform part of my role dey giver her money and buy her things ... even my mum dey support anytime she come buy something for my mum shop they go give her free stuffs so tey my papa dey pay for the money to make her hair and baba don arrange me well , he don talk better things about me to the girl ..... na so we shaa dey give we got really close and fond of each other na so I ask babe out o she say make I give her time .... for over four years now she neither said yes or no but we still dey , e don even tire my papa he no even ask me of her again coz before I tell am say the girl no gree na everyday he dey ask me about the girl .... when she come greet me for school.... I say make we bleep she no gree o after I don spend money..... I no even dey follow her talk any relationship talk again and watin dey pain me be say she dey always tell me say she’s still single

Hahahaha, sorry I didn't mean to laugh but I can't help it. This is very funny, although your know your spec and his plan was good, just that everything we want can't work out.

BigDawsNet:
You gerrit... not like they don't lie sometimes..but they are honest in some kind of area...
It's part of their DNA

I love you
It's over those two words...don't joke with it...

They hav issues forgiving sometimes too

Don't cheat, if you do..don't get caught
Don't abuse them physically
Don't abuse them verbally
If you do this 3 things... bro just know ur gf/wife is gone.... they can't forgive easily

When it comes with highly intelligent... not all hav that .. but majority possess it because of the society they grew up from...

Finally if you ready to settle with one... you will hav to erase the "AFRICAN MAN OF THE MAN " attitude and mentality...

Goan cook for me
Goan dry clean my cloth
I want to hav sex by force
Sit down there..
You must not make friends
all this will not work.

If you wanna last with her.... not like you hav to be extremely soft but you hav to learn how a husband behave in a foreign country with their wives....

If you don't follow the rules...you will be a regular customer at cops station

Lol, your last sentence got me laughing. Thumbs up man, thanks for the info, I think I will learn to cope with that than becoming a victim of unhealthy relationship with some entitled Nigerian girls.

arthurwillia:
Nobody ask you for story baba mi..

You’ve not done it so how will you know if it’s to be celebrated or not?

You don’t know how to get it, how do you know it can be gotten anyhow at tertiary institutions? Omo nl just fill with duIIards everywhere

From your write up, it is obvious your teachers have failed in their duty since you don't read books nor learn from the internet. Must I do it before I know it is done, didn't I go to school and have friends do it?

You even have the temerity to call me dullard with your quota Aba made brain.

BigDawsNet:
Thanks boss

Forget what you see on movies bro... don't use that to pick a white lady... whatever she was doing in that movie is written in her script... tho to be honest they are obviously different from our African ladies..

The white are not better but they hav different orientation and the major thing is that they don't hav entitlement mentality...

You need to study them for long time before you can make a decision...

Hav been hoping for over 3 decades now to settle down with one... so you can see the difference

you are right bro. I always want to settle down with someone that is highly intellectually inclined because I am sapiosexual, a lady that is resourceful, have sense of humor, humane and lovable.

When a White lady tells you she loves you, she is saying it because she mean it but when most Nigerian girls say they love you, you just have to check yourself, they may say it out of hunger.

RichProminent:
Na my monitoring spirit make me know say Prettygirl200 dey date VictorUSA naso Womenareapez come burst them.Make i call one 4 u?

, you are bringing more trouble, I left the group chat.

RichProminent:
Make them come 4 u oga They are urs

They are bigger than me.

Go and get a job and leave that house. This is one of the reason why I don't like going home after NYSC, privacy and freedom is all that matters.

OP, for once disappoint your village people and be useful to yourself. People are running away from sex and you are celebrating your greatest life achievement by this time.

If you have been on street or tertiary institution before, you will know that sex is very common. Girls can fvck you for being intelligent, rich, spiritual, bad guy, handsome, there will always be a reason to have sex. So sex is not new.

Maybe because I have not done it before, but I can assure you that there's nothing to celebrate about it, maybe let me wait till my wedding night to confirm because that's when I will lose my virginity.

Both the OP and the first commenter and attractive cannot be in the same sentence. The distance between them and attractive is from Sokoto to Enugu.

OP, Tinubu's first presidential project is to import brains for you because the distance between you and sense is from Kwali to Asokoro.

LoL, OP, it's natural to have sexual fetish and yours is not bad at all. Sniffing her armpits is very normal, nothing is wrong with you, you are good to go.

I once had a neighbor that sniff lady's pants too, I can't blame him, we all got a fetish and he has a right to his.

But don't ask me what is my fetish because it's not funny.

RichProminent:
That was how I saw Virginprincess and Sisora cruising with you in siofra's virgin day.

, you are a monitoring spirit. She think I can't be a virgin, whatever makes her to think like that I don't know.

RichProminent:
As a big friend of mine, can't you get the no from mother?

Mom don't have her number, she is just her friend's daughter, but maybe I should tell her to get it from the mother and I hope that won't suggest that I am reciprocating the feeling.

RichProminent:
I can see that those ladies are using vawulence to get close to you the love that begins with vawulence lasts forever

Hahaha, make those two ladies no see this comment before they come for you.

Johndagr8t:
by God's grace

mesef I will like to marry a white girl

, guy na that Amaka wey dey area you go marry o.

BigDawsNet:
My mum? Nope
My dad? Yea..

He does that multiple times... trying to connect me with lady I don't know anything about...

Even when I introduce a friend to her... he will be like... my boy..marry this gal naw... she okay for you...

I usually told her.. Dad, don't border yourself I will not marry and other race except white...

He was happy when he eventually saw the white lady

LoL, after watching a particular movie I wanted to marry a White lady so bad, not because of the color but their reasoning. I still have that fantasy but I am still in Nigeria anyways.

Congrats to you and your Dad is a real OG.

Jolene201:
Wish there was a haha button on nairaland, some comments are just wickedly funny

LoL, vawulence is the only way, I say no to peace.

RichProminent:
Demigod22 be like say all these ladies dey crush on you.

LoL, I believe they are just catching cruise with me.