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Datboredberri:
Being generous wouldn't raise the kid... She made the best decision... Second year and pregnant... God forbid!

You know, I am just like a senior brother to them, so sometimes when they tell me things, I am not hasty about my opinion. When I got the news, I know no one will want to keep that baby.

People like OP need to go for mental health check up. Sometimes, I wonder if some people's brain normally expires.

In fact, OP, for doing that, you are sophisticatedly, crudely, callously, exaggeratedly, irredeemably, irresponsibly, dubiously, sly, unimportantly, inconsequentially, potentially, disrespectfully, ruthlessly, illogically, unloyally, meaninglessly, mercilessly, unholinessly, irritably, dishonesty, dishonorably, insincerely, insanely, poorly, mentally, diabolically, psychologically, stupidly, foolishly and absurdistly sick in your head.

Rest in peace to the love (feelings) I wasted on people. I drink wine to drink away my feelings but the damn feelings learn how to swim until I am drowned in my emotions.

As I am right now, I can't fall in love, maybe love can fall in me.

Why doing the video? This is irritating and disgusting if not disrespectful to the girl, that's if the girl didn't allow it.

With this kind of sight, sons of Adam will still have mind to put their mouth there.

Never underestimate the power of a great and healthy gbola.

I like having my haircut once a week sometimes twice. I always want it to be clean and neat. Although, I am not doing it to impress ladies, I do it for my own good and maybe because I grew up with a Barber.

This is the exact situation my guy found himself. He is in his final year while the girl is in second year. She just took in. The guy told me that she is removing it, I don't want to ask him why. The girl is beautiful and generous to the extent of wanting to pay the guy's half school fee, but she is too jealous and possessive.

I was very popular and versatile in school that whenever I am with this particular girl people will be hailing Demigod. So one day I got into an argument with a Law final year student, I won him with sound points. I have to lie that I did diploma in Law.

I also lied to people that I wrote JAMB three times.

I once told a girl I was dating that I am a virgin.

The rest lies, I can't say it here. But that was then.

Your serious girlfriend can be someone's play thing. These videos you watch of girls doing disgusting stuff, all these girls are people's serious girlfriend.

Hookup: the thing about hookup is that when she comes, you bargain, pay for the service, nothing like heartbreak, there's no billing like I am hungry, airtime, I want to do this or that. She is not cheating on you, no one is responsible for the other. Just strictly business, she satisfy you and you pay her, no strings attached. There's peace of mind. But then, there comes a time you need someone to share moment with, someone to genuinely talk to, to care for, hookup can never fill that space.

Girlfriend: the rate of infidelity is alarming, the unnecessary drama and attitude, the expenses especially when you are dating some girls, the boredom, the sacrifices, all these really makes girlfriend frustrating.

But since we have great ladies out there, when you see a genuine, loving and supportive girlfriend, go for it. You won't depends on hookup until you become old like Tinubu, I believe.

Leonbonapart:
liberal my foot

Be calming down, you are not the only one Buhari is ruling. Something that everyone is giving opinion and suggestion and telling experiences, now that it's your turn, you brought your frustration here.

Enny2013:
I gave her my number to give to her son. I pretended as if I was interested.we talked for a while bfr I stopped picking his calls.i left for Lagos wen I heard his mum telling him to come home for proper introduction to my family as Christmas celebration was close. She knew my parents wud come home. I ran for my dear life.Neva liked d guy n he had bin chasing me since I was eighteen.

LoL, good for you. Sometimes, these parents don't know that the things we want may not be the things they think are good for us. I don't even like relationship that is orchestrated by family, it's a turn off. I should do the whole process myself and introduce her.

bukky1994:
hahahaa I think say u like fat women

LoL, not at all, I like my girls slender or medium, not too slim and not too fat. And I like them tall too.

bukky1994:
hahahahahaa deepthroating her right?

LoL, I am not that weird na.

moyosore32:
Comrade add more volume, man’s got laid for several reasons in d past bn a freaky snub earned me several points, man got laid for revenge sake Wetin we wan talk again

You are a real nigga, one bottle of predator to calm your nerves.

Stories like this makes marriage scary and sceptical. OP, I understand your feeling right now, the lies, betrayal and deception is painful.

After girls before you can fear Buhari.

OP, make I no catch you anywhere near English language. You can type in your local language.

What you are saying is that since you guys broke up, she became a begger, which means you have been bankrolling her all these years. You must be a director in Dangote foundation.

When it comes to relationship, I have standard. I don't date beggers, I date people that have self value and self worth. I like to see my woman doing something legitimate before I can support, my love for independent woman.

bmdmix10:
Stop lying what do u gain chasing clout


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Award for best vawulence of the week goes to you.

Nnamaka1:
When you are not forthcoming and doing the needful, They will do it for you. Lol

LoL, but I am still young, I am not even close to thirty yet.

orlahtohbadt:
Bro sorry to enter the conversation o but what didn’t work for you doesn’t necessarily mean it won’t work for another. Some people will get that karishika and they will be happy while some will get that holy girl and they will be living in hell cos there and then you’d find they are worse than karishika and no backing out.

Your logic is beyond propaganda.

stanvesco:
Bro first see the girl.
What if she's sexy as anything. Kindhearted. Coolheaded. Cultured with fear of God. And actually a wide material?

One bottle of predator for you. I am interested in this kind of girls.

hardon1:
Is it me that doesnt understand it the poster is contradicting himself

Sorry, it's typographical error, I meant to say that's not the kind of girl I want.

LordReed:
Yes they tried and I tried to enjoy the experience but ultimately I chose for myself. Don't sweat it, parents of the generation seem to want to do that quite a bit. I like how you just smiled. Keep it that way, when it's time to do your thing don’t let them dictate to you, politely do your thing.

You are a correct brother.

damoobaba:
As she see say your life no too balance. You have a good Mum.

LoL, normally I am bigger than your bad mouth.

cayorday89:
Not me but my younger sister, and it was by the Mummy G.O of my dad's church, she has the money and really pampered her children, whereas my father on the other hand use iron hand train us. The G.O wanted her son to get married and all of a sudden they headed to our house for introduction without prior notice while myself and sister were serving, only for my sister to call me crying that she was called from home that they brought things for her introduction to marry the G.O's son and she is not interested in the guy, I told her to calm down and not be worried that nothing of such will happen as long as I am alive, we will wage war against them including our parents if they dare support such move, because the guy was nothing to write home about in terms of character and does not even have a job of his own but mummy's money. They begged her and promised to open a pharmacy for her but she refused and na this same woman go tell church members to always bring names of suitors to know God's will on such union and I was wondering if God did not reveal it to her in before her coming to our house for introduction without prior notice except that her son calls my sister as the church member that she is.

I like the way you stood up for your sister, it's a beautiful thing to do.

Icumsa45:
My parents are trying to match make me with one but I don't care anymore. Even if my choice gives them high BP so be it.

Hahaha, you are a real nigga.

Munzy14:
Your papa na guy man... ...

Na the same kind I have...I laugh at his coded moves.

Well he is the last person to match make anything for his sons...He will only give you guidelines on securing the better half..Which you as a modern day man may or may not agree with all..

I enjoy the mutual respect that exist between I and my Dad..He believe I am his Dad reincarnation, so the respect for my choice anď decisions has been there and doesnt hesitate to back me up whenever it is necessary.

As for my mom, rare breed...Things like this doesnt border her at all...She will tell you when you are ready bring her home..

Some mothers too like all those My son will marry your daughter gist...smh
I just don't like the match making idea..Parents must allow their children pick who gladens their heart, bring him/her home and present to them as the one.

Yeah, that's the proper thing to do, allow your children to make crucial choices for their lives.

exboyolu:
Having to marry someone known by your parent (family friends) is one of the excellent practices of old that the so called education has eroded from this generation.

Marrying a complete stranger is risky and bad at the same time, except in few cases and that is by chance.

Have you seen people married to beautiful lady and the best he ever came across but ended with regrets because it happens that some special diseases (e.g. bipolar disorder) got transfer to all his kids and the wife also suffer from such? Go for parent recommendation. they know what we don't know.

My Sincere advise is to take the opportunity your parent is trying to give you. Marrying to a family friend is one of the excellent support a parent can do for their child/daughters. Because they know the history of that family and several information that you don't even know.

Please go for her if you like her physically (if she likes you and you like her).
never reject the proposal just because it came from your parent. Noooo, please accept your mother's suggestion and make her happy and I can assure you you will never regret the decision by the grace of God. The fact that it came from your parent should make you go for it. you may leave to regret the decision if you don't accept your parent suggestion. Marrying totally strangers in the name of love is dangerous., unfortunately the innocent children often leave with the effect of their father's decision to marry a stranger, whose family history were not know. by the time special ailment starts coming it will be too late.

You may private chart me for more family related counselling.

please accept your mother's suggestion and make her happy and I can assure you you will never regret the decision by the grace of God.
cheers...

wishing you all the best.

Thanks man for your opinion.

womenareapez:
I bet you, you won't regret. Just keep that at the back of your mind that you will date a White woman apart from those gorillas species called naija women

I'm a living testimony and the experience so far is out of this world

White women will choke you with love but gorillas will finish you with frustration

Be wise and dont go for gorillas

LoL, I will follow this your advice senior man.

Noblewealth:
I have a female who is presently serving who had this kind of experience. The guy das use to be their customer, so the man will always call the girl my wife..

Fast track, he introduce his son to this girl, they started dating, things was going smoothly not ontill she started requesting for things the guy start playing smart guy after he had bang kpetus multiple times. Long story short, the guy was a serial cheater and played along with his dad plan(I'm very sure the father was oblivious of the latter incident) and everything later ends in premium tears for her before she could realize that the guy is a gee after 5 month of Hard knacking and time..
I still console her till date.

Hahaha, but this is really heartbreaking to her. I don't support the guy's cheating attitude, that's irresponsible and indiscipline. But I don't understand why the girl should be requesting things from him though, is it because they are having sex?

umurphy:
Lucky you.
I was matched about 16 years ago in my final year by a friend.
No regrets, respect and continuous respect. Food on time, hardly see dirty clothes, siblings come and extremely happy, so I tried for hers too. She was in her final year too. If I have to marry again, I will choose that option.
Being you spec. Women body are not designed to be static. She will change from fig 8-18 if not controlled with marriage and children or otherwise.
Bros, you only need advise from your maker and the inner man..you.
Commit it to your creator.

Lucky you man. Although, I am not relatively concerned about the body shape but notwithstanding, she is a beautiful girl. My concern is her mindset, perception about things, her attitude, her views and all that. She is too spiritually inclined for me. The other I was invited to their church by her mother and I attended the youth meeting, we were asked to read Bible from Genesis to revelation, for the whole year of course, I am a devoted Catholic, so whenever she asked me and I said I haven't started, she will start saying I don't want to be serious, so when I told her I am not religious nor spiritual and I am not interested in reading the Bible, she was disappointed and shocked.

omooba969:
Your mum is trying to set you up for trouble - this I have seen.

LoL, I have already escape that trouble. I am even leaving home for good before next week ending.

gbonty:
If na igala girl or idoma girl, abeg bring am come

LoL, she is an Idoma girl. She is from Ohimini local government in Benue State.